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Facelift and Regrets - Orange County, CA
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I wanted my looks to match the way that I feel....
SorryinOcApril 13, 2011
$10,000
I wanted my looks to match the way that I feel. Now I look old and like a freak. Also, the Doctor made promises that were not kept.
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April 21, 2011
I had surgery in Orange County, CA on 3/25, though not at CosmetiCare. I had a neck lift, temple lift, upper and lower bleph and fat transfer to tear trough, temples and cheeks. At 3 1/2 weeks post op I am recovering from bruising and the swelling is starting to go down, but I don't think I actually look good yet. I'm hoping that is going to be the final outcome. My cheeks are still overly full, probably due to swelling and fat transfer and I have developed some small lumps in the upper corner of my right eye that I find very unsightly. The doctor says, "don't worry, everything will settle in". Reading this post really helps me because I can see that many of us are dealing with these issues in the early stages of healing. I think depression and regret is actually a stage in the recovery process. I am trying to keep the faith and hope that you will too. If you are really unhappy after you've had time to heal, your doctor should be able to work with you on some sort of revision. Hang in there!!!
April 21, 2011
I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through, SorryinOc. Do you have plans to get a revision (either from your original doc or a different one)?
May 6, 2011
Hi Richmond,
Well it's 6 weeks tomorrow. Until week 5, I was seeing all the flaws - swelling in my cheeks and around my eyes, bruises, a few bumps, etc. I have to say that I've had a few good days this week where I could see that the result is going to be good. If I'm not careful with sodium and sleep I start to look a little swollen again, but overall, I think I'm going to be happy with my result. It's nice to look in the mirror and like what you see. It's been a while! Love my new, tight neck and jawline.
How are things going with you? Not sure when your surgery was or what you had done, but I hope that you are feeling better about things and seeing improvement.
I hope to hear from you.
Well it's 6 weeks tomorrow. Until week 5, I was seeing all the flaws - swelling in my cheeks and around my eyes, bruises, a few bumps, etc. I have to say that I've had a few good days this week where I could see that the result is going to be good. If I'm not careful with sodium and sleep I start to look a little swollen again, but overall, I think I'm going to be happy with my result. It's nice to look in the mirror and like what you see. It's been a while! Love my new, tight neck and jawline.
How are things going with you? Not sure when your surgery was or what you had done, but I hope that you are feeling better about things and seeing improvement.
I hope to hear from you.
May 6, 2011
I'm glad you are improving - I bet you will be fabulous in no time!!
I am just starting my search.
I am just starting my search.
May 9, 2011
Glad things are looking better for you. Just remember there are going to be good days and then there are going to be not so great days that may last for up to a year. Ugh!! I had my surgery on March 03 and I am still am having some bad days.
I love my eyes. They healed extremely well and I don't look tired all the time. The face lift is different. Numbness is still there and I know it may be there for many more months to come. I can deal with that. Right now the pulling in front of my ear is bothering me, especially at night. I am not happy with one side of my neck. The skin feels looser than before the surgery. In fast it feels looser since right after the surgery. Other side is nice and firm for the moment. I just hope it doesn't get as loose.
The good thing is I have all the confidence in my doctor who will make it better. He has explained that I need to wait 3-6 months for the healing from the surgery before he can do additional touchups. So I just need to learn how to be patient, which I am not.
Keep in touch on how you are doing. I wish you the best.
I love my eyes. They healed extremely well and I don't look tired all the time. The face lift is different. Numbness is still there and I know it may be there for many more months to come. I can deal with that. Right now the pulling in front of my ear is bothering me, especially at night. I am not happy with one side of my neck. The skin feels looser than before the surgery. In fast it feels looser since right after the surgery. Other side is nice and firm for the moment. I just hope it doesn't get as loose.
The good thing is I have all the confidence in my doctor who will make it better. He has explained that I need to wait 3-6 months for the healing from the surgery before he can do additional touchups. So I just need to learn how to be patient, which I am not.
Keep in touch on how you are doing. I wish you the best.
Remember, patience is needed during the healing process which takes months. I did not realize at the time of my surgery that it would take that long to heal.
Give it time and definitely communicate with your doctor during the healing process. After all the money you paid you need to keep close contact with him and tell him your thoughts. If he doesn't know how you feel how can he help you.
I wish you luck and hope all is well in a few months after you have completely healed. Remember give it time and communicate with your doctor.