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MTT and Lipo - Oklahoma City, OK
UPDATED FROM Sissy 48
6 days post
Sad
$6,120
Well ladies I have been fighting depression . I'm trying to pick myself up . I haven't made it yet . My boys and my back have got the best of me . Just thinking of the holidays brings me to down . I used to be really strong . After my husband of 25 yrs past away I became weak . I hope all of you are doing great .
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UPDATED FROM Sissy 48
19 days pre
Sad !
Well Ladies I have been fighting depression . My boys are in a fued with each other . My oldest has disowned me for pertecting my youngest son . The hardest part of this if my husband their dad that passed away was here this wouldn't be happening . I cry about it almost all day . My youngest is probably moving out of state over this . So I stay sick to my stomach . I eat when I'm depressed so I have gained 5 lbs . I feel like im about to loose it .
Replies (4)
October 31, 2013
Oh Sissy, I'm so so sorry!! I have went through really hurtful things with my adult sons too (your situation is so much harder I'm sure) the only thing that got me through was prayer (lots of it), exercising (either that or antidepressants) and eminent myself that they are adults and they are making adult choices (good or bad) that I can't control or fix. ((((Hugs)))) my sweet friend, you are in my thoughts!
October 31, 2013
Thank you D !! I'm on depression pills but there not working any more . I'm going to Dr Monday I'm going to see about changing them . I used to run on the treadmill too . But with my back I can't do it . I do pray alot . It's hard . I know we all go through it . I'm luck all my boys are good and don't do drugs and have no record for anything . I used to be so strong until my husband passed away and now I'm weak . They are grown men I just am to emotional . Thanks D my friend ! Hugs !
October 31, 2013
Sissy, I wish I was there for you, I know it's hard. But you will pull through this. You are strong, courageous, and beautiful. If you weren't strong, life would have beat you by now, but it hasn't. Sometimes we have to just breath and press through. It sometimes helps me if I turn off my drama (phone) and leave town. Actually did that last week for 2 days. Came back with a new outlook. For me, just removing myself from the sameness helps me see past the present circumstance. Many many hugs my friend. You are close in my heart and I know you are going to get through this! I'm here ( long distance) for you girl!
October 31, 2013
D thank you for being here for me . I know I will make it through this . I'm normally a very happy person . I'm lucky that my husband is such a happy guy . My mom asked me the other day is he always so happy . Thank you so much for your kind words . It helps when you hear it from someone else . Thanks my friend ! Hugs !
October 31, 2013
You are so welcome. Praying this all passes quickly for you and your family. You are a happy person, just having an unhappy hard time in life right now. I can't wait to hear back when things are going great and the storm is over :) (((((Hugs)))
October 31, 2013
Oh hang in there! Let boys be boys! Shame on them for stressing you! Take care of yourself, your the only one that will, often. Do something for yourself today! We love you here!
October 31, 2013
elijanh I know but this time it's bad . I'm going to get through it . I have you and my other friends on here to help me through it . Thank you so much for caring . I have a great husband too and he is so understanding , loving and he is always happy . With you ladies and him I will make it .
October 31, 2013
My girls fight on and off all the time! Right now they are getting along. Don't stress too much. Blood usually wins and they will get back together. Sometimes, they need a timeout and you need to let them have it. Tell your oldest your sorry you upset him and then just step back. Please don't stress over it. It will work itself out eventually. My girls didn't speak or like each other for 5 years and today they are talking and getting along. I let them work it out themselves but was always there for each of them.
October 31, 2013
Great2beMe it hurts when our kids fight . I can't step back my oldest is a strong willed person . When he says something he stands by it . So until he stops with going to beat his brother up I have to protect him . My oldest was in the Iraq war at the beginning of the war and sometimes his temper is hard to handle . He is mad at his brother for what a room mate did in his house . My you gets was renting my oldest house .the room mate was smoking meth in his house and my youngest told my oldest and he kicked the room mate out . My youngest told him so it would stop . So he is mad at his brother for no reason . The middle son and the oldest are in a fight because the guy that was doing drugs in his house works for the same company as my middle son . His work told him he will loose his job if he doesn't stay out of the guys off time life . Yes the guy still has a job . It's just a mess . I will get through it . I'm happy your girls are talking again .
November 7, 2013
Unfortunately, my oldest has a meth problem. I hope and pray she will figure it out!
November 19, 2013
Hope all works out for you and hope your back is okay and hopefully you will get your surgery one day
UPDATED FROM Sissy 48
1 month pre
Harley vacation
My vacation was just ok considering my back pain . We rode the Harley to Branson with friends . We go every year and stay in a beautiful 6000 sq ft house on Table Rock Lake . The house is one of our friends clients and we stay for free it's awesome . I go to the chiropractor today and have to go 3 times a wk for 15 wks . Then every 3 wks forever . It depends how close it is to summer wether I will have surgery when my back is well enough to have it . I will wait until around October if it isn't well enough . I'm not upset anymore about not being able to do it in Nov. . I guess it's better because I can get my last revision on my breast pd for . I hope all of you ladies have been doing great . I haven't kept up on everyone because I was on vacation .
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October 21, 2013
Hi sister sorry to hear about your back? I know you were looking forward to your upcoming surgery? Don't worry when the time is right you will have it done, I'll keep you in my prayers, just try to rest up and take care off you, hugs!
October 22, 2013
Thanks sis I'm trying to stay posative . It will happen but it might not be until next Aug or sept because now sense my back went out I'm having bladder problums . I hope I don't have to have surgery on my blatter . Hugs !
October 21, 2013
Sissy, glad to hear you are doing better. The world works in a funny way. Things happen and we just gotta flow with it. I'm so glad your not too disappointed in not being able to do your tummy till much later. But, when you do, we will all be here rooting for you!
October 22, 2013
Thank you Great2BeMe it will happen but it might not be until Aug or Sept now . I'm having bladder problums now ever sense my back went out . I might need surgery on my bladder now . It sucks getting old .
October 22, 2013
You know bladder problem is a sign of cauda equiana syndrome? (I'm sure I didn't spell that right). The "horse tail" of nerves can become pinched causing permanent loss of nerve function. It warrants attention immediately. Does your doc know? Since you in okc, do you use remandino? The whole neuroscience group is top notch in the field.
October 22, 2013
No I didn't know its called that . I do have a pinched nerve . No my dr doesn't know . It's only happened 3 times . I will research it today . I'm so tired of this back crap I'm getting really down so I don't want bladder surgery . My mom said I need to go to my dr . She thinks I need surgery . My mom has had bladder surgery . No I've never heard of ramadino .
October 26, 2013
Good morning. You've been in my thoughts lately. :) how are you? (((((hugs))))
October 26, 2013
Thanks D ! I think of u too . I'm doing ok . My back is still pretty messed up . I'm taking one day at a time . Hugs !!!
October 26, 2013
That's what you have to do sometimes. Baby steps... You'll get there though! Huge hugs back to you :)
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Oh Sissy48, I'm so sorry you're going through a tough time right now. I agree with @d37, the holidays can sometimes be a tough time for people. I'm sure your boys are missing their dad and don't even realize it. Hang in there...we're here here for you. Hugs and prayers!
Glad you made it through Thanksgiving. My mom always says that her grandchildren heal all! Please stay in touch...we're rootin' for you during this tough time.