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Lowering my High Hairline with Dr. Kabaker - Oakland, CA

UPDATED FROM HairlineBlues
2 years post

2+ year update

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HairlineBlues
WORTH IT$7,400
I would say I'm still very happy I got this surgery but that my happiness with it is at an 80% level. There are two major updates:
1)the hairline scar, while thin and not visible on the left side, still remains pretty visible on the right side. This is primarily because I had a cowlick on the right side but it still feels like a constraint because I cannot wear my hair up.
2)MY HAIR WAS THICKER PRE-OP. This is absolutely due to the surgery and nothing else. Especially at the front of my head. I've been trying to tackle this through numerous supplements etc but it really docks 20% off my satisfaction with doing this surgery. I suppose it's due to blood flow decrease due to pulling the skin? I am not sure. I am definitely happy that I no longer wear head bands but I now wear hair pins all the time to pin the right side of my hair to cover that scar. Each time I get my hair done or someone unveils it/touches it, it's pretty obvious and people have asked me about it -___-

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Sheldon S. Kabaker, MD FACS (retired)

Sheldon S. Kabaker, MD FACS (retired)

Board Certified Facial Plastic Surgeon

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Replies (5)

M
November 14, 2016
I feel like you and I had very similar hairlines before; uneven and with a weird cowlick. I think I'm already noticing that my hair at the front seems thinner, although I haven't been losing hair. Dr. K mentioned that I may consider grafting in the future to further conceal the scar on my right side (where the cowlick is). This isn't something I really want to spend even MORE money on. Have you considered this at all? Do you have any baby hairs left to conceal the scar on that side at all? Thanks for the update! I've been following your story especially.
H
January 7, 2017
I don't really have baby hairs there so am not happy at all with having to spend more money with grafting. The scar is definitely noticeable so I can't wear my hair up at all.
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A
November 14, 2016
I am booked to have this surgery. Is your entire head of hair much thinner? Is this noticeable to the naked eye or anyone else that knows you well? When you say your hair is thinner at the front does it look like you are balding or what does it look like?
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A
November 14, 2016
Also thank you for sharing your story!!
S
November 15, 2016
Thank you so much! I appreciate your honest thoughts on this...
A
November 15, 2016
Yea this happens due to stretching of the hair follicles when they pull the scalp forward. Dr K. discussed this risk with me. My hair has just begun to really grow back after experiencing hairloss post op and some areas do look like the hair density will be thin but I want to remain hopeful and wait it out. Ultimately, would you say the surgery was still with it? Will you consider hair grafting? I would, I just don't want to shave the area around my hairline (.5 inches maybe) bald. Some Dr's have you shave the transplant area and start fresh with new growth. I have no idea how I would wear my hair in a presentable fashion until the grafts grew out :/
A
November 15, 2016
I think the corners and the temples are harder to hide regarding the scar. Maybe it's due to the stapled and the fact that it's not linear so there may be more tension applied to the suture...? Hmm idk.
A
November 15, 2016
Also can you post a pic of how things are looking now?
UPDATED FROM HairlineBlues
3 months post

let's go to the beach beach! super happy :P

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HairlineBlues
So seeing as it is september 7th and I am nearly 3 months post op, I have the following to say: I am so happy I did this! :D

I have been going to the beach but wearing hats except this past labor day, I decided to go in for a swim and it is just so magnificent to able to do this without a care. It's the simple stuff like that which puts huge smiles on my face. Before the surgery, I was way too self conscious of going somewhere like the beach without a head band - same thing can be said for rollercoaster rides etc. I was always conscious that my hairline would make me look like a freak.

There are times where I still look in the mirror and obsess about possibly having asked him to lower it another .75 cm or so, but that is because mentally, I've always been obsessed with lower foreheads since I had such a high one. The best part about what convinced me that this is so much better now is probably the fact that I found a pic pre-op of me using my fingers to measure my forehead - photobooth tells me that was snapped on April 19th and now, a pic of me on september 7th.

The side scar which was inflamed and itching a few weeks ago is no longer doing that and more importantly, I've returned to my same level of fitness activities so I AM A HAPPY CAMPER.

I've received so many messages from you guys which is truly heart warming! I am so excited for those of you who have booked the operation in the upcoming weeks as well as for those who are traveling to get it done and are at the planning stage. Please feel free to ask any questions and I am glad you guys find this review helpful - cheers!

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V
September 12, 2014
You look Amazing! I am so happy for you! I can totally relate, I havea huge forhead and it's hard to go out and do fun activities that include water and wind! It's also hard to get a "new look" when bangs is the only option. I want to get this done soon. But I have so many questions , will you be kind enough to email me? Saldanavalerie19@yahoo.com :) Thank you!
H
September 27, 2014
Absolutely! I will send you an email or you can PM me here :)
C
September 21, 2014
Girl you look amazing! I'm very impressed by the scar, it looks really thin. Has anyone noticed? Also, are you able to wear your hair in a bun without the scar being visible or do you have to use a bit of concealer or something. Thanks for the detailed posts, it really helps me in terms of what I can expect when I do this procedure... hopefully in the near future. Can't thank you enough!!
H
September 27, 2014
thank you! :) I wear a concealer (it's a cream foundation by cover fx designed to hide scars). The scar is only visible on the right side where I had the cowlick and even then, very easy to conceal and am looking into hiding it even more through a better scar gel (currently using mederma but looking into something better) You're absolutely welcome, I am glad you found this helpful and hope you will get it too :)
V
September 27, 2014
Hi HB! Great to hear from you girl. Can you tie your hair back now? I am having this mix feeling about the surgery. Part of me wants it so bad then other days I just don't want to go thru with it. Is this normal?
H
September 27, 2014
TOTALLY normal and so happy to hear from you too, V :) I would say that you should sit down and tally up the pros and cons. For me the cons were that this wasn't some transitory thing I didn't like about myself: it's not like a nose job etc where I just don't like a part of my face. This was getting in the way of me exercising and being able to wear my hair how I want. It's a huge deal V. And yes, I might want to get other work but compared to this procedure, those are just 'wants' not necessities, TRUST me.
C
September 28, 2014
I hope so too! One more thing, did your eyebrows end up higher than before? I really do not want a permanent surprise face hehe
V
October 6, 2014
I can totally relate. I'm just worried about possible side effects I might regret. Such as severe itching to the point of it affecting your daily life. Although I have not heard of such problem as I did with brow lift is that right? How are you feeling HB over all? Are you healing well as far as scar, itching, hair growing though the scar, etc. I would like to see a pic of your hair pulled back. I am always excited to see your updates. :) thanks again xx
V
January 19, 2015
Hi HB! How you been girl? We miss your updates:)
S
September 28, 2014
HB thanks so much for posting all of your updates, have been keeping an eye on your recovery and so happy that you are so happy! Your results are fantastic. I am happy to say that I have my surgery booked with Dr Nettle! Really excited :) If anyone from Australia has any questions I am happy to help, a few of you have been PM'ing me, so nice to receive the support. Keep the updates coming HB! :)
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F
October 11, 2014
It looks fantastic girl. You did the right thing. Your confidence will skyrocket. I know :)
V
October 23, 2014
Hi HB hope all is well. I meant to ask you did you ever consider hair grafting or transplant? If so what made you decide to go for hairline lowering surgery instead? Thanks and hope to hear from you soon! Xx
UPDATED FROM HairlineBlues
1 month post

scar progress

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HairlineBlues
hello all! Thanks for all your encouraging messages. An update from moi: I've been wearing my hair middle parted and just using coverFX to conceal the scar. I always use mederma under it and also conceal it w/ an organic SPF and also wear hats everywhere since not wearing one scares me.

I am a bit annoyed with the scar but not the scar on the front of the scalp but instead the one to the side of the head -___- It is hidden by my hair but it's much thicker than the thin visible scar in the front and it has also been super pink (a lot more than before) and I'm freaking out that it might turn to scar tissue which doesn't grow hair? It's upsetting but I am trying to keep calm and make sure that it remains bacterial-free with an antibiotic ointment as well as putting rogaine on the edges of my hair since my hair was already thin there to begin with. I am concerned about it because even though it can be hidden by hair since it's in the side of the head, it is still visible if I brush my hair back or if I pull it back into a pony tail.

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H
July 29, 2014
Thanks , Im pretty sure i will have it done next year, need to save up some more for flights and acomm ughh. Why are you having problems with the side scars? Thats a bit of a worry? Any chance of photos of the side scars?
H
August 4, 2014
Hi, I posted the most recent pic which shows the scar on the side and after emailing Dr. Kabaker, he said that it's normal
C
August 10, 2014
Thank you for posting your experience. You look great! Glad you feel great too. One question: do you have itching? A lot of people here with brow lifts say that their head itches a lot. I just wondered if you had this itching since your incision is similar to the brow lift incision. Thank you!
H
September 7, 2014
hi Cindy! yep I did have a bunch of itching especially in the right side of the scar. Itching usually indicates nerve regeneration so it's a good thing because the more it is occurring, the more I regain sensation. It is not September 7th, nearly 3 months post-op and I have regained full sensation in my head :)