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46 and Ready for a Lift - New York, NY

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1 year post

Just past the 1 year mark!

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WORTH IT$20,000
Like cemlaw said, it's hard to believe it has been a year already. And me soon to be 48!

At this point I have no numbness anymore but the scars in front of my ears still do itch sometimes. The scar in front of the left ear is still a little pink; I have lately started using a pencil concealer on it (the matte end of the Anastasia highlighter duo pencil) so I can get *just* the scar, and that seems to be working well. The scar in front of the right ear and beneath the chin are pretty much invisible. I really don't bother with concealer for them and hardly think about them. I go to exercise class with no makeup at all and no worries. Actually I think I am wearing less makeup these days than I ever have.

There's a feeling of tightness beneath the chin but I don't mind that at all -- I wish it were tighter! I never got quite the jawline I was hoping for and I have thought about going back for a consult... then I remember I promised my husband I wouldn't consider more surgery this decade, and I really don't want to go back under the knife. It is so much better than before, and when I look at pictures of my younger self I'm reminded I never *did* have that sculpted profile some of you ladies enjoy. Darn that hyoid bone!

However one thing I noticed in putting together these photos is that I have lost some roundness / fullness in my chin since my thirties. I don't want an implant but I am thinking I may ask my dermatologist about filler. That might even help the jawline, who knows?

To all of you who supported me through the process: thank you so much!

And to all of you considering the procedure: the full recovery does take several months, even if you are ready to be out and about after a couple of weeks. Hang in there. It's worth it!

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David A. Hidalgo, MD

David A. Hidalgo, MD

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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April 20, 2015
Congratulations on one year mark. You are one of the people who have helped me as I had my procedures after you. Thanks for taking the time to post your experiences. I know what a roller coaster ride this is. Your results are beautiful, very natural and youthful.
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April 22, 2015
Thank you and I'm so glad it has helped!!
April 20, 2015
What a great and thorough post. Very informative and very generous of you. I think I can get all of my questions answered right here.
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April 22, 2015
All the best to you! Feel free to send me a pm with any questions. I really want to "pay forward" all the help and support I got here at RealSelf!
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April 20, 2015
You look great! I do think fillers might give you the fullness back you are seeking. Have you had any? I found those injections to be SUPER painful. Worth it, but ouch! :)
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April 22, 2015
I had fillers in my cheeks and nasolabial lines for a couple years before taking The Big Step -- they did help but they can't overcome the sagging jawline and extra skin! I didn't find them that painful but I did have numbing cream before... though I may not be super sensitive to them because I usually do Botox with no numbing cream. I have been doing Botox for about 10 years for frown lines and forehead lines... these days starting to think about it for crow's feet (I never used to see concealer settling into lines there until the past several weeks!).
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April 23, 2015
Yeahhhhh I only got ice before I had my mouth and nasolabial lines injected. I cried when he went back in for the second time on my lip. He also did the crease in my chin and those little lines at the corners of my lips. The Botox doesn't bother me at all, since it's so quick and the needle is so small. I have been having my crow's feet done for about a year now, and initially I flinched on that, but I think it was the idea of where it was more than any actual pain. I was surprised what a difference it makes.
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April 24, 2015
I made my appointment to get the crows feet done -- the before and afters I saw here completely convinced me!!
April 21, 2015
Thank you so much for your in depth postings. It really helps me to see the real picture. I know exactly what you mean about 90degree angle jaw line. Helpful to know about the hyoid bone. You look so natural and very refreshed. I would never guess that you had done something - only that you look more beautiful.
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April 22, 2015
Thanks for the kind words!! :)
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April 22, 2015
Great to 'see' you again. You're looking wonderful. I love the comparison between now and you at 33......you look the same. I'm sure you won't need to do any more surgery for at least a decade....if ever. Thanks for being a great companion over the last year. All good wishes to you :)
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April 22, 2015
Thanks so much!! (You of course have one of the fabulous jawlines / profiles I mentioned!!)
UPDATED FROM Ato Z
6 months post

6 months: it just keeps getting better

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The changes over the last 3 months are subtle, but I can see that I have more definition along the corner of the jaw near the ear and that things are a bit tighter along the throat and under the chin. In the past few weeks I've had new sensations of itchiness / tightness in those areas; I'm sure that's just the continued reconnection of nerve endings that are waking up to discover things are tighter than they used to be. The healing process does take a long time to fully complete!

Though I continue to cover the scars with makeup most days (they're slowly fading, but the one in front of the left ear is visible when you know where to look) I feel confident they are not detectible with makeup and even without makeup somebody would really have to be scrutinizing me closely to see them. I don't worry at all about going to the gym or running a quick errand with no makeup.

I am really happy with my results and hope they will stay with me for 10-15 years!

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October 5, 2014
I would say u definitely look like the 36 yr picture of ur self. Congrats, u r looking good.
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October 5, 2014
Thanks so much!
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October 5, 2014
What an amazing transformation. You look young and refreshed. Congratulations
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October 7, 2014
Thanks so much -- all credit to Dr. H!
October 5, 2014
You look fantastic!! Lilygirl
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October 7, 2014
Thank you -- hope you are doing well too!!
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October 6, 2014
Your profile is better now than at 33. Now that's the kind of results we're all looking for. Great post- glad to "see" you again!
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October 7, 2014
You made my day! ;)
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October 8, 2014
6 months - woohoo - you look amazing! I love how you've done your photos to show the transformation. Agree with cemlaw - great to 'see' you again. You must be so happy with the outcome.......enjoy!
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October 9, 2014
Thanks so much!!
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3 months post

3 months

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In the last month the healing has progressed a lot. I no longer have any skin numbness -- sensation has returned to the skin on the sides of my face, under the chin, and the lower right ear. But I still have a sense of numbness *under* the skin in those places, if that makes sense. No longer using the crescent pillow to protect my ear when sleeping... just normal pillows like before the procedure, sleeping on my side.

I went way off my eating plan yesterday and had far too much sodium (and too many calories) but it doesn't seem to have made me swell up today. Yay! (Now about those calories...)

My energy level is fully back to normal. I have gone back to restorative yoga class with no problem and I'm thinking about getting back to more active yoga with serious inversions and such.

The visible changes in the last month are subtle. I think things may continue to firm up slightly but I think as far as anyone else will see, what you see now is what you get. Looking back at some old pictures, I definitely feel Dr. H has given me at least 10 years back... maybe 15!

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July 13, 2014
Have been wondering how you have been going. I think your results are fantastic. It's so natural. Bone structure is what gives us our definition and no amount of pulling will give is an Angelina Jolie jawline if there is not one there already. Our skeleton also changes as we get older, so we won't have those exact teenage lines at 50. It's important for us to understand this. Your skin hugs your jawline with definition, I love it. Your surgeon has taken years off. :)
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July 14, 2014
Thank you - I am pleased with the results!
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July 16, 2014
P.S. since the visible changes are slowing down my plan is to check in next at 6 months post, unless I have something significant to share sooner. Thanks so much to all RS journey companions!!
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July 16, 2014
jealous of the return of sensation. Mine is almost there... which can actually be a little more irritating than not having any!
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July 16, 2014
I am so grateful for your taking the time to post this experience. I'm on day 6, definety going thru the swelling and weird sensations part. Your face is gorgeous and I see a remarkable difference, yet so subtle and natural. You must be thrilled!
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July 17, 2014
Thanks so much and all the best in your healing!!
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July 16, 2014
Thanks so much for your informative posts A- Z, very much appreciated. I am nearing week 7 & yes the swelling & a certain amount of discomfort is all still going on. Like you say some days are worse then others. Off to Viet Nam tomorrow so no doubt the flight will knock me around some - as long haul always does. Oh well :-) just really want to say you look absolutely terrific, much younger profile & very, very natural. Sure you must be very happy - Thanks again :-)
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July 17, 2014
Oh gosh, long flight will be no fun but I hope there will be good stuff at the end of it! :)
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July 17, 2014
Sure there will be lol
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July 16, 2014
You look wonderful! Thanks for posting all the smiles! They were much needed today:-)