“Weight Loss - Monmouth County, NJ”

Hello everyone!











Please allow me to introduce myself, my name is Kelly and I am scheduled for abdominoplasty and lipo contouring on December 22nd! A little background about me, I am 22 years old and I spent four years of high school and three years of college being overweight. I have lost 100 lbs over the past two years thanks to some help from the Lap Band, but mostly from my commitment to exercise and watching what I eat. Needless to say, the excessive weight stretched out the skin on my stomach terribly and the weight loss has left my stomach decorated in stretch marks, sagging over itself and looking generally unappealing. Additionally, I have a ridiculous scar on my belly button from where there was once a piercing that left my belly button looking kind of disfigured [thankfully, my PS said the scar would be gone after surgery!]. The rest of my body looks relatively normal, my legs and arms all came back without any problem, my boobs are much smaller, which has been an adjustment, but I can deal with it. I feel like my stomach is the only thing that really needs help. This is a big life decision for me right now because its an expensive surgery, for one, and I'm a poor college student. Also, I haven't had babies yet so some day it'll have to stretch out again, but thats fine by me… I'll cross that bridge when I get there, and that won't be for a long time. I think after all of my hard work I deserve to have a normal looking body while I'm still young.











With only about 10 days left to go before surgery, I'm very excited to have a normal looking body and see the results, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't nervous about the pain I'll be in the first few days following surgery and horrific weeks of recovery I've read so much about. I'm expecting the worst, but hoping for the best. I probably won't post my before pictures until after my surgery because I don't have the nerve to do that until my ugly, sagging belly is a distant memory. Its pretty difficult to focus on anything right now when I have all of these thoughts playing through my mind on a reel, like what I'm going to look like after surgery, or in 6 months time. I guess I'll know soon enough =) ! Im just hoping that I can focus on school for one more week so I can finish my work and get through finals (my last exam is Monday the 19th, I think 2 days should be sufficient time to worry about all of the details of my surgery lol).











10 days and counting!

Updated on 18 Dec 2011:
4 more days until surgery. I'm obsessing about what I'm going to look like after, I keep looking at everyone's before and after pictures trying to figure out what to expect for myself.











I should be obsessing about the final exam I have to take tomorrow. lol

Updated on 23 Dec 2011:
Hello everyone.









I went in for surgery yesterday morning at 9:00 am. Got to the surgery center and they took me in almost immediately. I had to change into a gown, take a pregnancy test and then the surgeon came in and marked me up. Starting up the IV was horrible… I had no fluids in me so finding a good vein in my hand was difficult, and it hurts like hell getting it in your hand. I was pale and then green in no time, seeing starts and ready to pass out, it caused a lot of commotion… had to have the nurse put oxygen on me and a cold cloth for my head. I finally came around and they started giving me antibiotics and then wheeled me into the surgery room. I don't remember falling asleep, but I remember crying when I got on the operating table.









Before I knew it I was in recovery waking up to terrible cramping pains in my belly. Unlike everyone else that I read about, my first day out of surgery was not all sleeping and unconsciousness, I was wide awake for most of it and the Vicodin barely takes the edge off my pain, even though I'm taking 2 every 4 hours. Getting up the stairs was much easier than I anticipated. The worst part is getting up and down, which I have to do every hour to pee since I'm drinking so much.









My first post-op was this morning. They took off my binder and all of the bandages. It was so painful! I don't think I was prepared for that at all. Its still hurting pretty bad from all of that. I have to get these shots in my belly all week to reduce the risk of a blood clot, so its probably a good thing I'm so numb. My belly button looks pretty silly right now, which is to be expected. My incision is longer than I had imagined, but very low and nice and straight so I'm happy about that. Hopefully some of this swelling goes down and the pain won't be so bad so I might be able to enjoy my Christmas a little bit.









I'll post more pictures when I can.

Updated on 24 Dec 2011:
So my spirits are way up today, but I'm sure thats party do to the fact that today is my single most favorite day of the whole year! But, I also got to sleep through the night, finally; my back is paying the price for that right now though lol. I would love to stretch out on my belly to sleep like I usually do, can't wait for that night to come. My drains are definitely slowing down and the fluid is getting clearer. My mom said the one on my left side is probably going to be the first to come out, and she knows best, shes the nurse afterall. I'm not looking forward to getting this shot in my belly again today, which is probably happening at about 12:00. Yikes.



Swelling is still pretty bad and I feel kind of bloated today. The pain is less intense than it was yesterday, but I keep getting sharp pains when I try to move around. Don't worry guys, I'm absolutely not one of those people that tries to over-do it too soon, I'll be laying in my bed all day and relaxing some more. Its Christmas eve and theres nothing I'd rather be doing than having a pajama party with my family! Merry Christmas Eve everyone :)

Updated on 28 Dec 2011:
I got one drain out today. It was pretty terrible, honestly. It hurt a lot more than I was lead to believe, but it feels better now that its out. I'm standing up straighter and moving around easier. I'm posting the picture from this morning when I got my bandages off. A little concerned about my belly button, it looks like a little vagina or something. Not too appealing. The Dr said it'll get more round and sink in, but for now it looks ridiculous. Anyone else's belly button look like mine? Im a little worried about it, honestly.

Updated on 5 Jan 2012:
I'm 2 weeks post-op today. I went to see the Doctor yesterday and found out the front of my incision opened up. It looks godawful, and of course this was my biggest fear. Even though I was pumped about being able to take my very first shower last night, that turned out to be pretty bittersweet. I had to make sure to wash this awful opening good so it doesn't get any worse, but after washing my belly with antibacterial soap I was seeing stars and had to get out of the shower and sit down on the toilet so avoid collapsing. I'm going back tomorrow morning and then again on Monday so the doctor can take a look at it. He said on a scale from 1 to 10 this isnt even a 1, so I shouldn't worry, and that it will close up nicely because its just on the surface and there is no infection. Its all very scary though. I'm sad I couldn't just heal up normally and I hope it'll start looking better soon. My belly button is looking ok now, at least. But then again, in comparison to this disgusting opening right below it, of course it would look good.

Updated on 15 Jan 2012:
I just got a job as the head preschool teacher at a school right down the street from my house. I've been working Monday-Friday 6 hours a day with 12-15 kids a day that are between the ages of 2 and 5. Thankfully, I get to sit down a lot and they're very well behaved for the most part, so I havent been over-doing it too much. I'm still wearing the binder day and night, but Im going to start wearing it less this week. Swelling is going down and my belly button is starting to sink in. I'm still completely numb under my belly button/above my incision. The hole is finally starting to close. I can't wait for it to be gone! I still havent really been able to lay on my side too much to sleep, but thats starting to get better too.

Can't wait to see what I'll look like in another 3 weeks...

Updated on 2 Feb 2012:
I'm 6 weeks post op today. I can't wait to get back to the gym, I still have another 2 weeks to go because of the lipo. I feel like I've been eating like a beast the past few weeks, I would really love the satisfaction of some cardio to rid me of my fat kid guilt for all the doughnuts and various terrible choices. Belly is looking good, for the most part. Its still pretty swollen, but much less than it was. I get to see glimpses of it looking flat in the morning for a very brief hour or two before it starts getting puffy again. The doctor said thats normal though, so I'm not worried about it.

The opening in the front of my belly has healed a lot. Its not too much smaller, but its a little bit smaller, not "gooey" like a healing scab anymore, but more like scar tissue. Im starting to get feeling back to my belly button and on my hips, even where the incision is on the far sides of my hips. Aside from this awful cold I have right now, I'm feeling pretty good.

Updated on 24 Apr 2012:
So its been about 4 months since my surgery and I am doing well. I still don't love the way my belly button looks, but its better than it was in the beginning (and before surgery for that matter). I am going for scar revision the day after tomorrow. The scar in the middle of my belly where I had an opening is about the size of a quarter still, so he is going to remove it. Also, my right hip has a little too much skin still and it bulges out, so he said he's going to fix that too. Kind of excited to see what it'll look like once its all touched up. I guess this isn't always a one shot kind of deal lol. After surgery, I can't go to the gym for another 2 weeks. womp :(