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Extremely Nervous; Mommy Makeover Scheduled for 4.25.11 - Toms River, NJ

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Updated 3 May 2011

Posted 12 Mar 2011

My 24th birthday present from my boyfriend is a full tt and breast augmentation. I have 2 beautiful little boys (14 months and 3 months). Getting pregnant immediately after my first son (being pregnat for almost 2 straight years practically) really did a number on my body. Not to mention the fact that my first son was 8lb14oz and my second son was born at 37w weighing 8lb2oz (pretty decent size babies). I was told by my ps that my abdominal muscles are completely seperated and the only way to repair them would be to manually do it - so TT here I come!

I am SO nervous and am having morbid thoughts like, 'omg what if i dont wake up? i dont want to leave my kids' This site has been so helpful though knowing that all you girls can relate. I will be posting pictures before and after the surgery.



Updated on 14 Mar 2011:
Oh! I forgot to mention that I'm 5'4" and 128lbs - so hopefully the height, weight, and pictures will be a good comparison for others with the 'same' body.



Updated on 19 Apr 2011:
4.19.11
Went to my PS today for my pre-op appt. I am beyond nervous and as much as i want my pre-baby body back, i want to back out! I cant stop these morbid thoughts. But i wound up getting my antibiotic prescription and my pain med prescription. Was told the surgery would be a little over 3 hours long and that he had to suture my muscles from the breast bone all the way down -_-
Im worried that there are questions I should have asked and forgot to but i still have 6 more days til my surgery to think of things. Is there anything I should ask??

Updated on 24 Apr 2011:
My surgery is tomorrow morning at 7am. I will be posting before and after pictures after tomorrow. My PS said surgery was going to be a little over 3 hours. Im nervous and excited at the same time. Cant wait to have a nice flat belly =] Ill be sure to keep everyone posted.

Updated on 26 Apr 2011:
1 day post - op; I'm sore and its very difficult to get up and down. The drains are a nuisance like everyone says. I'm on my couch recliner bc it was too difficult to get in my bed. I'm taking dilaudid for pain and keflex as an antibiotic. My PS wants me to go to his office today to check everything which I'm dreading-it was painful to ride in the car so I'm not looking forward to the 20 min. car ride today.

Updated on 26 Apr 2011:


Updated on 26 Apr 2011:
Day 2 post-op: a lot better than yesterday! I was told the day right after surgery would be the worst and so far that was right. The day of was no where near as bad as yesterday. My muscles were so extremely tight that it hurt to make the littlest movement. Now, at day 2, its getting a little better. Movement is still limited but I've found out that having my boyfriend 'hoist' me up instead of my pushing myself up has REALLY helped. I'm mostly experiencing soreness/tightness more so than pain.

Updated on 28 Apr 2011:
Dont know how i could have forgotten :( but I did: my BA and lipo were postponed. My PS felt that bc I needed a full tt with muscle repair and that bc I would be under for atleast 4 hours from tt surgery alone, that'd be best to wait for BA and lipo as to not put so much 'stress' on my body. So back in 6 months I go to finish.
Day 3 post-op: muscles are very sore but feeling better little by little every day. The incision hurts on and off but nothing unbearable. The drains are ANNOYING! I cannot wait to get them removed on Monday. Every time I move I feel the drains pull, its def no picnic.

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Updated on 29 Apr 2011:
It HURTS to laugh! My 2 sons were being funny lil men and I couldn't help but crack up, and that was a very bad idea. My stomach is killing me :( ... other than that,I feel really good. I got 5 hours of sleep last night and I'm gunna attempt a shower today. I'm tired of feeling gross...yuck! I to have a drs appt today so I will update later

Updated on 29 Apr 2011:
Came back from post-op visit today. My drains are coming out on Wednesday thank goodness! And my swelling has gone down A LOT ... I can't wait until August/September when its gone completely!

Updated on 1 May 2011:
Day 6 post-op; I feel SO much better except for the drains. I'm able to walk around for a while now but I've noticed the more I walk the more I swell. It's been six days and I just now had first BM. It was NOT fun but I do feel better now. Please take a stimulant laxative if colace isn't helping!! Went to PS yesterday and he said I need to wait until Wednesday for the removal of the drains :( so I'm hoping the next 3 days go quickly!

Updated on 2 May 2011:
Yesterday(Monday) was day 7 post op. I went to PS and he took the drains out - I'm not gunna lie it wasn't too pleasant, but thank goodness they're out! I'm moving around ten times better and I can finally take a real shower tomorrow!! SO excited. I will be posting more pictures tomorrow.

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bridg0809 14 Mar 2011
Aww been there with the morbid thoughts too. I think thats rather normal. Anesthesia is much safer these days. I had my TT 3 weeks ago and feel so great! Would do it all over again! Good luck
Angiemcc (Community Manager) 14 Mar 2011

It's so true! I think almost everyone has such thoughts before going under. But you'll do great. You've certainly paid your dues being pregnant for that long. I'm looking forward to following your journey and seeing your before and after pics.

You might want to check out Kimmers' Tummy Tuck Survival Guide and my Facebook page Moms Who Want Their Bodies back.

Brick4338 14 Mar 2011
glad im not alone with the horrible thoughts! hearing such good things and great recoveries makes me feel A LOT better!! thank you ladies =]
semperfimymarine 15 Mar 2011
OMG I went through the same thing! I just tried not to think about it, and just did it. lol. I have anxiety anyways, and knowing I was going to have surgery didn't help it! However, the closer it got to my surgery date, the calmer I became, i'm sure you will go through the same thing! I'm so glad I went through with it, and it's all over with! By the way, my PS used I believe what is called twighlight sedation, so I was asleep for the whole thing, but only had an IV, I was not under general anesthesia, and I have never had surgery before so I have nothing to compare it too, but it was great! Check and see how you will be asleep because I swear when I found out I wasn't have general anesthesia I felt alot better about it. ;) Good luck and try to stay focused on the results afterwards!
Brick4338 15 Mar 2011
I know exactly how you feel b/c i suffer from anxiety too with out having to worry about this surgery LOL ... I know for certain my PS doesnt use twilight anesthesia for TT's i already asked lol ... Im going to the same PS that did my breast aug 5 years ago and i actually woke up twice during my surgery.... :o so as nervous as i am about general anesthesia it might be for the best b/c i sure as he** dont want to wake up during a TT lol ...
Brick4338 15 Mar 2011
Do you ladies know how to change the PS in the review? I was going to use the Dr that i posted for my TT surgery but felt more comfortable going to my previous PS who already operated on me...
semperfimymarine 16 Mar 2011
Hi Brick, you have to email the realself help, if you scroll down to the bottom of the webpage, under the about section, there is a contact button, then you can just email them and ask them to post the doctor you want up on your profile. ;)

Oh yeah, and how freaking torturous was it waking up during surgery? OMG, thank god that didn't happen to me! Yeah I think General is the way to go for you girl! lol
Sharon at RealSelf (Community Manager) 16 Mar 2011

Hi Brick,

I've removed the old doctor's name from the review. Let me know the correct name and I'll post it for you.

Cheers,
--Sharon

Brick4338 19 Mar 2011
Thank you so much for the help ladies =D ...
-Sharon the PS' name is Dr. Michael Rosen he's in Toms River NJ
thank you so much!
-Semper waking up during surgery wasnt as bad as it seems lol i was still so groggy from the twilight anesthesia, it was more a tugging sensation from being stitched up but didnt feel any pain thank goodness!! So im def. going to stick with general lol
semperfimymarine 20 Mar 2011
Brick are you willing to post before and after photos? =) It's so cool that someone else my age is having this done too! And we both have two little kids. I'm super excited for you. Oh and I will be 7 weeks post op this week, and so my husband and I went out this weekend dancing... OMG bad idea.. I never drink, and I had quite a bit,and yesterday I paid for it! I was soooo swollen all day, I have been trying to force myself to drink a ton of water, but I'm still feeling dehydrated. LOL lessen learned to anyone else thinking about going drinking after this! haha
Brick4338 24 Mar 2011
hey semper, yes im def going to post before and after photos! just waiting til it gets a little closer to my surgery date... and ill be sure to learn from your lesson lol no dancing or drinking for a while lol... hope you feel better hun
MsWhit 19 Apr 2011
Your the same age as me and almost the same stats! Everyone has had the same feelings but we've all overcome those feelings and moved forward with our makeovers. Look we've made it!!! You'll love your new body and as 24 yr olds we should be able to flaunt our bodies and wear bikinis! Keep in touch and I hope you get all your looking for. Goodluck :)
Ms G 24 Apr 2011
I'm wishing you luck on your surgery and a speedy recovery.
Brick4338 24 Apr 2011
thank you so much
lotsobabies 24 Apr 2011
good luck tomorrow
Brick4338 26 Apr 2011
Thank u
Brick4338 26 Apr 2011
I will be posting my before and after pictures soon. I can't get to my computer right now so I'm stuck using my phone, but pics will b posted
lotsobabies 26 Apr 2011
Glad your at home and beginning your recovery!
Brick4338 26 Apr 2011
Thank you girls! How long did your swelling last until? I realize I'm only day 2 post-op but I'm so swollen that I look more puffy than before.
MSmomof2 27 Apr 2011
I am almost 5 weeks post op and still can't fit into jeans I was wearing the day of surgery!! I know this isn't encouraging but trust me it will still look better even with the swelling in a couple of weeks. I noticed that you also got a BA did you go with saline or silicone and how big? Good luck with everything and happy healing!!
Brick4338 28 Apr 2011
Thank you msmomof2! That makes me rest a lil more easy. I forgot to update that I didn't get my BA or lipo yet :( my PS felt that with me needing a full tt with muscle repair that doing other stuff had to wait since my tt was so extensive. He felt he didn't want to put my body thru all that 'stress'. So i go back in 6months to 'finish'
32w/3 28 Apr 2011
Wow, I am so anxious to see your results. I had 3 babies all 18 months apart so I too have felt like I have been pregnant for the last 3-4 years. My youngest is 10 weeks old and I've been waiting to go for my consults because I still need to lose 15 more lbs. I have been told to wait 6 months post pregnancy, but maybe I should make my consultation appointments anyway?? I am 5'2" and currently 140 lbs. Target weight before surgery (BA and full TT) is 125. I gained 58 w/ my 1st, 55 w/ my 2nd and 60 w/ my 3rd. Yikes. I hope you are feeling better and I am excited to see your results!!
Brick4338 28 Apr 2011
wow!! i feel your 'pain' with being pregnant forever lol. if your comfortable at the weight your at now then you should go to some consults!! but if your set on losing the 15lbs i would wait. i wanted to lose 10lbs before my surgery (im 5'4 and was 126lbs when i weighed myself the morning of surgery) but i couldnt wait for my body back. My PS also said losing 5-10lbs after my tt wouldnt hurt anything. so i decided not to wait! our stats are very similar so it would be a great comparison =]
im actually going to take some pictures today!
32w/3 28 Apr 2011
I am excited to see your pics! How are you feeling??

I am going to try to lose at least 10 more before I go in for consults, so I'm going to make my appointments for June. I lost 45 since my baby was born (Valentine's Day) so hopefully the last 10-15 won't be too bad. Do you have alot of help with your kids? I am shooting for surgery beginning of September..I will have my husband here to care for the kids but that's it. When will you be able to lift your baby?
Brick4338 28 Apr 2011
=] im excited a nervous to take pictures. im still very swollen so i have a feeling im going to be upset but i have to remember its gunna take a while.
thats awesome that you lost 45lbs in 2 months!!! congrats!! I gained around 45lbs with my second son and had him the end of november '10. it took me about 2 months to lose 35lbs but the last 10lbs were the worst thats why i said 'f it' lol.
i have my boyfriend staying home from work for 10 days - im hoping that ill be ok by then. its very difficult to get up and down so im scared bc i only have his help for 6 more days. =/
my PS said i wouldnt be able to lift my sons for atleast 4 weeks (my 16mo, old is 28lbs and my 5mo. old is 21lbs)so idk what im gunna do ... but make sure you have help for atleast 10 days!! they say you cant walk upright until 7-12 days post-op

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