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Hi All, I am 31 years old 5"7 and about 145 lbs....

Hi All, I am 31 years old 5"7 and about 145 lbs. This Sept I decided that I really wanted to have a breast augmentation. I have no credit cards so I have been saving up cash over the last few months not buying anything just to reach my goals thinking of the big prize. I already meet with a surgeon and paid my down payment and I already got a week off from work from my boss. Now that I am getting within the last month in the waiting Period for my surgery I have been freaking out hoping I'm making the right choice I getting bad anxiety and just hope I am making the right decision I know it is a big risk and also a big reward but I just fear the worst my sister had a B.A and a few months later had to take them out so she went through 2 surgerys and spent about 10 k I have not told anyone in my famIly that I am doing this since what happen to my sister she is my step sister and I really don't have a great relationship with her I want to ask her what happen but I am afraid she wil tell my family . Also my surgeon told me to come off birth control so I would be starting my new pack tomorrow so it's all coming more and more a reality to me I am just torn on what to do I want it so bad but just scared of the worst please tell me is it worth it please help also do u think I should get health insurance before the procedure just in case of anything job Offers it but I have to pay a few hundred a month for it let me know if it's worth it thank you all

Just did my bloodwork and mammogram done yesterday...

Just did my bloodwork and mammogram done yesterday hope im making the right choice!!

My blood work and mammogram came back okay so now...

My blood work and mammogram came back okay so now last step is for me to make payment on Friday im so nervous im just scared for the worst i want to call my step sisiter and talk to her about whathappen but i fear she will tell on me

I came so close i cant turn back now its like going up to city hall and not going in.

I have fears for after the surgery cause i live withmy mom and i cant go home and i have to depend on a friend to help me out i dont like depending on others im so independent this is all becoming so real

My fear is paying the money then being broke and...

My fear is paying the money then being broke and if the surgery doesnt go right i dont want to look funny we all are women and boobs are sacred to us im scared scared tell me what to do i dont want to not do it and regret it i think im gonna go for it i feel like im driving my friends crazy idk.......

Some of my friends are telling me its a big...

Some of my friends are telling me its a big mistake i will be sorry but i wonder if they are really concerned or just jealous hard to tell

Making Final Payment tomorrow here we go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Making Final Payment tomorrow here we go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

10 days to go i went on friday and paid the...

10 days to go i went on friday and paid the balance and got all my prescriptions and meds !! now im just getting ready im going to get a few more little things like a few hoodies and button ups from forever 21 the most important thing my doc said was to go in with a postivie attitude and remail stress free

PS said 355ccs is what hes giving me i hope thats...

PS said 355ccs is what hes giving me i hope thats good!!

So my PS told me he is going to do 355 on the left...

So my PS told me he is going to do 355 on the left and 375 on the right to fix one being bigger than the other and to even them out i hope this would be big enough !!

4 more days !! Im feeling more relaxed and ready...

4 more days !! Im feeling more relaxed and ready for this!

Hi Girls i need to know are you able to eat...

Hi Girls i need to know are you able to eat regular foods after the surgery?

Also do you girls have a list of things i may need...

Also do you girls have a list of things i may need or that can help me after the surgery i already have all my meds just need to know if there's anything else that can help me

To all my friends on this site thank you all for...

To all my friends on this site thank you all for the help and support tomorrow this time i will be done i will have boobs!! i am so scared even sweating now thinking about it but i am going to be strong and face my fears and worries tomorrow. I know i can do this!! to me the worst part is waiitng to get it done i hope the nurses are nice and help me cause i am a big scardie cat!! I decided to go tomorrow norning alone and then i am having someone pick me up. Its funny but my own best friend didnt even call me or offer to come with me tomorrow its funny how some friends even get jealous for boobs but it wont stop me just motivates me more!! My boyfriend is picking me up then i will be stayiong in a hotel for friday sat sunday and checking out monday then after i checkout i will go to my follow up appointment Ps said he wants to see me on monday then after that i plan on going home to face my mother and family i know im 31 an adult i just hope they dont reacct crazy when they see me i told them all i was going to A.C for a few days to get away!!! lol ha i also have 2 small dogs a yorklie and shih tzu so i hope they dont try to jump onmy too much when i get back wish me luck girls 24 hours and coutning!!!!

Hi all I'm one day post op so I finally did it my...

Hi all I'm one day post op so I finally did it my doc gave me 330 left and 370 right to even out symetry the worst part is the fear before but the whole staff where I went was so nice I even told them about my anxiety so they covered all the tools and I held the nurses hand while being put asleep I just I imagined I was on the beach in Florida then I was knocked out when I woke up I was nauseous a little and it was hard to get up but the nurse helped me and I made it through !!! I had little pain after and the vicoden had worked miracles my boyfriend has been helping me out and getting me whatever I need from the store I'm staying at the hotel till Monday then I have to go for my first follow up visit then I will go home I will post pics as soon as I can for all of you out there scared it's not that bad I am totally scared of everything even needles and I was ok u can do it I don't think I look that big but I trusted my doc on size and I think it is better a little smaller for me

Hi all just wanted to let you know that I had a...

Hi all just wanted to let you know that I had a really great recovery I was in no major pain at all I had my BA on Friday and by Sunday I was out at the movies I wasn't in pain but needed help getting up to go to the bathroom that was the worst part for me I stayed In a hotel that Friday sat and Sunday and checked out Monday and went home I told my mom and she didn't believe me and I said I'm not kidding she was like why did u do that to yourself then after 5 minutes she said it's ok I understand u are young and she even went with me to my first post op visit on Monday i came off the pain meds on Tuesday and just take a muscle relaxer once in a while now I am ok but the only thing is that when I put clothes on you cabt even tell I had anything done everyone says Its the compression bra holding them down I just feel flat and I want to see results I'm a little disaponted now but maybe I need to be patient I am posting all my pics on Monday when I get back to work I am also dreading going back cause they all want to see me and i feel there is nothing to show
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flawless101 30 Mar 2013
Yes Def no peeking. Remember they keep forming and softening up as the weeks go on. I actually am starting to like how mine are forming now 6 Weeks later. So that Being said - if you like them now you will love them more as time goes on. ... keep us posted
Sharon9527 4 Apr 2013
Hi there u think it really takes that long for them to settle I'm about a week post opp and am feeling a little disapointed do they get bigger in time ? Also this compression bra pushes them down so when I put on clothes u cant even tell I had a BA
flawless101 4 Apr 2013
Yeah I was so not loving mine at first and I'm glad people were there to tell me they change. Im 7 weeks out and they have softened, dropped a little and look larger... Don't forget the muscle is holding on to the implant very tight so once it realizes is not a foreign body it loosens and let's them free... give it time. .. promise. I Remember thinking mine were not big enough and now I think they look too big (at times)... keep me posted...
flawless101 4 Apr 2013
Oh and ps I just realized you are still wearing your compression bra.... omg once that comes off you will see a new world. .its holding them down big time. hang in there. ...
Sharon9527 4 Apr 2013
Thanks you make me feel better !!
Sharon9527 4 Apr 2013
Yes u have to be patient
Sharon9527 4 Apr 2013
Meant I have to be **
flawless101 30 Mar 2013
Yay your on the other side... now just heal up quickly and enjoy your new perky boobies...
Sharon9527 30 Mar 2013
Thanks I can't wait to see them on Monday doctor said to keep on surgical bra and not to peek
luvmyhuskies 30 Mar 2013
Congrats!! Can't wait to hear how you are doing!
Sharon9527 30 Mar 2013
I feel good had very little pain I just keep taking the vicoden every 6 hours so far so good
BlaireWaldorf 29 Mar 2013
Best of luck to you! It's going to be fine!!! I wish my surgery was today!! Lucky girl ;) hope you are feeling well!
LaBarbie1010 29 Mar 2013
Hope everything is going well for you today!
Marie4562 28 Mar 2013
Hi Sharon, I am scheduled for my BA at 2PM today. So it looks like we're bosom buddies! It's interesting that I've received some of the same negative responses from my family and some friends as well. I traveled to Miami to have this procedure done, and my "best friend" who originally planned to go with me, backed out at the last minute. Less than a week before departure. Ah well. I'm not sure if I missed it in your post, but did you decide where the incision site will be?
Sharon9527 28 Mar 2013
It's under the bottom I'm going in alone tomorrow morning at 630 am wish me luck !!!
Marie4562 29 Mar 2013
By now, i assume you are in Boobyville and on the road to recovery! How are you doing over there? I'm still anxiously waiting. Can't wait to see your pics!
Sharon9527 30 Mar 2013
Yes I am doing well I will post pics as soon as I can I just hope they are big enough he Did 330 cc and 370 cc on the other to fix
Morgan_Willow 27 Mar 2013
On top of these suggestions I have also heard bendy straws are helpful. I can see why then you don't have to sit up to drink.
Sharon9527 28 Mar 2013
thank you i will make sure to get them
flawless101 27 Mar 2013
Good luck Sharon. I'm 5 weeks post op lift and augmentation 500cc silicone and I'm in love with them. Good luck. I Just needed lots of pillows to prop myself up, my pain meds, liquids and my ipad... You will do great I best of luck. ..
Sharon9527 28 Mar 2013
yes ipad will be a life saver!!
GoBigTallGirl 27 Mar 2013
Hey there Sharon.....there are a few things you should have before hand and preparations in your home before your BA. If you type in " things I need before my breast augmentation" on this site in the search window....various blogs from others will come up. I purchased some extra pillows, had arnica for swelling and Bromelain for bruising which you can get at any whole foods store or order online. Your doctor may give you some or tell you where you can get some. I purchased alcohol and also scarguard for my incisions and some alcohol and cotton wipes so I could clean the area as needed once the strips came off. You will need to make sure you have your meds in a bag or a pill container because you will not be able to open up your med tops...and have them by your bed so you can easily reach them. If you have a recliner, you will most likely feel more comfy sleeping there instead of propped up in your bed. I didnt realize that until the 4th day and boy did the recliner make a difference. You wil also need frozen peas that you can use for the swelling on your babies....i didnt really do it as much in the beginning but I was not in much pain. I did it to help with the morning boob. Umm let me think... its been almost 4 months since my BA...Oh yes have something to read or occupy your time when youre not sleeping ...books, whatever right next to the bed. Hopefully you will have some help. And get your home in order, try and clean up as much as possibel beforehand because you wont have the strength to do it after. You will need your rest....sleep as much as you can...and take your meds on time and you will be just fine. If you have any other questions, please feel free to contact me. Oh yeah on the way home... you might want to hold your babies...the bumps in the road will be annoying. So I just placed my arms around my babies so any bumps would not make them move too much.. So excited for you and cant wait to see your results. Youre gonna look fabulous!!!!!
Sharon9527 27 Mar 2013
thank you im giving your list to my boyfriemd now so he can get me the stuff good idea with the med caps being off and avaiable i never even thought of that !!
GoBigTallGirl 27 Mar 2013
Sports bras too. I didn't buy any but the compression bra was getting on miss you nerves when I had to wash it. So extras will be good too
Sharon9527 28 Mar 2013
yes good idea but im wondering what size sports bra to get what do u think large?

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