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7 more days til my consult! Wish me luck!

  • posted 1 year ago
  • updated 28 days ago
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  • North Carolina

PRE WARNING, I haven't gotten a nose job yet,...

PRE WARNING, I haven't gotten a nose job yet, but I am looking into it and I am 100% going to do it, I just don't know when! But I will provide you all with pictures of my side profiles, so you can tell me what you think in your honest opinion. I'm not the best looking thing, eh. I'll also put some photos in there that'll look like I've had a nose job but really I just went to facetouchup.com and I gave myself a virtual nose job. hehe.

I could tell you all the same reason why I don't like my nose, and how I didn't like it from a certain age which was around 11 or 12ish.

Which is ALL true.

I'm 20 now and I'll be 21 in March....I've really contemplated and wanted a nose job ever since I can remember and all my friends and family have known this as well.

I'm half italian, you can tell a lot by my nose, it's ethic looking, could be described as jewish/arabic nose. It kind of resembles a birds beak, most people tell me my nose fits my face, but I don't think so. I think it's too big and too harsh on my face, I feel like a nose that's more suitable to my face would soften my features and be more feminine.

Now, without a doubt, my nose is not my ONLY problem, it used to be but over the years I've started to be self conscious about everything on my face, but my nose has been the main problem and well, I'm sure you all believe that a nose can either make or break a face. I'd go on a 6 page essay but I don't feel it's necessary to explain how MUCH I hate my nose, because let's face it, if I'm HERE, I obviously hate it enough to be researching all this stuff on the computer instead of just brushing it off my shoulders.


I'm putting up more photos, I figured I'd...

I'm putting up more photos, I figured I'd show you guys what I look like from the frontal profile.

As you can tell, you can notice my nose is quite large, but you can't really tell much from the front until you see my side profile.
There will be pictures I upload that are from my wedding.

Okay, so...I've found two plastic surgeons so...

Okay, so...I've found two plastic surgeons so far that I'm really researching about and considering to have as my plastic surgeon.

One is located in new york, and the other is located in Miama Florida.
Now, here's the problem, I live in North Carolina...my husband is stationed here because he is in the Marines, I don't know when or if we will ever be stationed elsewhere, but I know that I want the best of the best rhinoplasty surgeon to do my nose, no matter where I'm located.

I know that traveling to a surgeon that's out of state will obviously cost much more, but I've already searched for plastic surgeons in the NC area and not really many come up that look like they'd be very good at rhinoplasty and I don't like their work they've done.

Now, I've broken my nose three times in my life, all of these events in which it happened were when I was under the age of 13, possibly even 10. (Ah, I probably should know when all the times they happened but sadly I don't)
I know that I do definitely have a deviated septum and I know that I was told I'll need surgery on it eventually. I'm not sure if having a deviated septum will somehow make my rhinoplasty surgery cheaper by any means, considering it may be considered medical and not cosmetic. However, I have to be honest, I know my nose has been broken 3 times and I have a deviated septum, I have no problems with my nose that I know of, I mean I broke it all when I was young, so even if I did have a problem, I'm sure I've passed it off as something normal, but so far. No problems, I don't even snore at night, I'm quiet as a mouse....

If any of you could help me with this kind of question, that would be greatly appreciated. Either way, if it's not covered under medical, I still will go through with it and save up the money, I believe it's worth it and I want to feel happy about my reflection in the mirror. :)

Here are the two doctors I am looking at...

Here are the two doctors I am looking at.

http://www.drsamrizk.com/index.html

http://www.southfloridarhinoplasty.com/

Check them out if you're on the east coast and if you've been searching but couldn't find any legit plastic surgeons that seemed skilled in this particular surgery.

:)

So, I'm just gonna share a little bit on my...

So, I'm just gonna share a little bit on my thoughts and feelings about people around us that react to plastic surgery, especially Rhinoplasty...I'd say ever since Elementary school following up 'til Middle School and even into some of High School, I've always been teased about my nose...So, it really bothers me now that I'm older when people tell me my nose isn't "that big," or "your nose fits your face."

^^^ My above post didn't think it needed to finish...

^^^ My above post didn't think it needed to finish posting the 2989438732847 essay I wrote, so it just decided to take the first paragraph...Cool. I guess I'll keep my rant short and simple...back to people reacting about my nose job. I often hear stuff like..."You'll come out looking like Michael Jackson," ...."What if you come out looking worse," ......"What if this, what if that," I hear those statements and questions all the time...Basically just a bunch of people who don't support me and it's really ridiculous...Most of it's my family and friends.....it honestly really makes me wish and hope that I come out looking amazing so I can tell all those people to shove it. They really don't understand that I've done my research and have been wanting this surgery for so many years now....I think I know there's a bunch of negative possibilities that can happen, but I just hope and pray for a great outcome. I think that's all you can do in situations like this that you put yourself in. Some girls want to get a boob job, some want to get a face lift, some want liposuction, but all in all, it's Rhinoplasty that's the most judged. All because it can drastically "change," your face...well, practically every other Plastic Surgery out there does the same thing, you wouldn't have what you have now if you didn't get it done. Am I correct?

I don't see what's so wrong for someone to want to improve their looks and their self-esteem.....Heck, girls do it all the time with makeup, and let me tell you....makeup can drastically change ones appearance as well, the only difference is they can wash it off......(Lol some don't, they just keep re-applying)


Any who...I'm tired of the negative comments towards me from friends and family for my decision. But, I'm sure everyone else on here has experienced the same.....I just felt like ranting about it. Thanks for reading :)

So, I'm getting more and more nervous as the days...

So, I'm getting more and more nervous as the days get closer to my first consultation. I feel like I know what I want done to my nose and at the same time I don't...like with my side profile, I want the hump obviously shaved down some and my nostrils to be smaller. I feel like they're too LONG.....and Idk I guess I just feel like the side profile won't be the hardest to really do, but imagining my frontal being changed...I guess I just don't know what would really look good from the front...you know I want my side profile to match my front profile...I hate when I see people who get their noses done and the side looks great but the front looks all disproportionate to the side. I feel like it's my nostrils from the front that need changing....they look big, I feel like people can see my BRAIN from my nostrils LMAO......I just feel like the front profile is a lot harder to FIX than the side.....does anyone know what I should do about my frontal??? I'm really hoping that the surgeon has some sort of idea and it's a good one......:)
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Okay, so I finally did it...I've set up my first consultation ever for my Rhinoplasty which takes place on May 1st 2013 of this year. Let me tell you, I'm pretty dang excited and nervous as well.....I think I've found a Rhinoplasty surgeon the east coast near me who is within driving distance (3.5) hours that seems like they rate when it comes to Rhinoplasty.....I'm however very nervous because I asked the lady at his office if he does computer imaging and what not...and she said he does not....that he doesn't believe it's an accurate portrait of his work, basically something along those lines. P.S. The doctor I'm consulting with is Dr. Robert Ciardullo....and when I heard that....my heart dropped.....My question is....IS that a red flag? The fact that he doesn't do computer imaging? OR is that just me being silly. I feel like most Surgeons these days do computer imaging, and ALTHOUGH they don't come out looking exactly like the picture, it obviously gives the patients a perspective of what the doctor is going for...you know? SO. I know there's quite a few people on here that have gone to Dr. C for a nose job, how did that make you feel when he didn't do computer imaging!? I'm sooooooooo curious.....PLEASE respond. Thank you. I just don't want to come out with a huge wide looking nose if I didn't have one to begin with.

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lmj123 10 May 2013
Hi! How did your consultation go??!?
AppleCake 3 May 2013
Hey! How'd the consult go?
AppleCake 24 Apr 2013
Hey! I am going to see Dr. C on Monday for a consult...how do you like him? I'm so nervous but excited too lol I've heard both good things bad things about him, so I don't know what to think anymore! Any advice or tips? Thanks :)
Matilda24 5 Apr 2013
Your nose looks absolutely flawless from the front, but i understand why you would like to have surgery for the profile. i think it will just enhance the natural beauty that you already have. I can't believe how many people on RS tell people they shouldn't have surgery, it's stupid. I thought one of the ideas of a site like this was to support people, not make them feel bad for not being so in love with every little flaw. I hope you're getting lots of support at home and that others on RS are helping you out :) Good luck
Allie.06 1 Apr 2013
I believe if you want to change something about yourself it should be up to you and it shouldn't matter what others think. I had a lot of people tell me there was nothing wrong with my nose and that I was beautiful and I shouldn't change myself and I should accept the way I was made. Like you I remember being made fun of from a young age about 11/12 I'm about to turn 25 in August now and just had rhinoplasty/ septoplasty done performed on the 26th. I paid 5400 cash for my surgery with a 1200 discount bc of my job. I have no insurance however if you need septoplasty your insurance company will cover the time for the or for that part and for the surgeons cost for the medical part. However you will be responsible for the OR and surgeon fee for the septoplasty. Good luck to you! You are beautiful but I can see where you would want to get this done. It was something I have wanted done so long and I can't wait to get my confidence renewed and have my cast removed Friday :)
Baratod 28 Mar 2013
I had the same question to my surgeon regarding the frontal view. He told me by changing the profile the front automatically changes. I also had my nostrils cut back. I have a sewn line in my alar crease but you cannot even see it. I have been using Mederma gel like crazy!
Mellymelly 29 Mar 2013
Good! Yeah, I want probably minor adjustments to my front view... like my nostrils appearing smaller from the front....because they're rather huge......Idk, just minor changes for the better. Nothing too crazy! I hope he has a great idea in mind. :)
Miss.K 28 Mar 2013
You definitely have to outweigh the good and the bad and ultimately it has to be based on your own personal feelings. It is a shame people can't me more supportive, but I am sure it is all out of love and they just can't imagine you looking different but still like yourself. I hope you are happy with your result and that it indeed does prove them wrong!
Rayah7 19 Mar 2013
Your nose actually reminds me of my own. Only I like it one you lol ;) But I TOTALLY understand wanting to get it done. I hope the best for you! Can't wait to see your results!
Rayah7 19 Mar 2013
I meant I like it "on" you oops.
nosejob12 17 Mar 2013
Your nose is so pretty! Wish I hate your natural nose, should have show ur nose pic to my surgeon! :)
nosejob12 19 Mar 2013
Lol.. I meant "wish I HAD not HATE your natural nose" typo
iglo13 16 Mar 2013
u are so cute , definetley gonna look better after the nose job, im very much intrested in seeing ur results, i think all you need is a deprojection , good luck :)
lmj123 15 Mar 2013
You are so pretty! I think a well executed subtle rhinoplasty would be awesome on you. Of course you don't NEED one, but I can see why you want one. I don't NEED one but I know I want it, and it will make me feel so much more confident. I can't wait to finally choose my doctor and go through with it! Thanks for all your photos and I'm looking forward to seeing your result and following your story!
Mellymelly 16 Mar 2013
Thank you! I will definitely keep y'all updated. :) I really want to ask the surgeon so bad if they could video tape the surgery. Coz once they're done and sow up my nose ill see the end result before it gets all swollen.
lmj123 16 Mar 2013
I thought about that too, but asking to take a photo right after!!
sarah_tonin 14 Mar 2013
I totally agree with your rant - only I believe that (at least with most of the people I know), it's not just rhinoplasty that gets a bad rep. Pretty much ANY cosmetic surgery has a negative connotation thanks to the way media always portrays it - for example, I love the show "Glee", but they had an episode where the main character (who has a large nose) had her nose broken and then discovered she had a deviated septum and the surgeon said he could fix it for her and also fix whatever cosmetic issue she has with it while he's at it. She entertains the idea, but EVERY other character (minus one who is revealed to have actually had rhinoplasty before) freak out and basically paint it out that she must really hate herself deep down inside if she goes through with it, because she's clearly incapable of loving herself the way that she is. Not only that, but they made the entire septo/rhinoplasty process look TOTALLY unsafe and careless - she saw the surgeon once, he told her he could give her a nose job, said he had a spot open the following week and could squeeze her in, and that was that; no morphs, no long consultations, not actually showing how all of the serious surgeons not only encourage the patient to take their time doing their research but a lot actually enforce this by having a mandatory amount of time that a patient would book their surgery in advance (for example, a month or two ahead). On the show, it wasn't even close to realistic either in the sense that she said she wanted her friend's nose, and she shows him a picture and the surgeon just goes, "yeah, okay." In the end, she chooses not to do it (again, because she loves herself the way she is, and clearly getting a nose job would've meant that she hates herself).. I was - and still am when I think of it - infuriated when I watched it. It's no wonder that everyone else doesn't actually understand why any of us go through with procedures like these... My rhinoplasty was the best investment I ever made for myself; I still look like me, only I no longer worry about my nose and I feel prettier. Ugh.
Mellymelly 14 Mar 2013
I get what you're saying. But Lea Michelle actually wanted a nose job in real life and I believe some day she will. She's just going to convince herself that it's wrong and she should love her nose. You don't have to love all of your flaws and I think if there's a way to fix that one flaw you absolutely hate then I say do it. It's hard to live a normal life when you're constantly worried about a particular body part. For me it's always been my nose and I always hated the fact that people could see me from the side I would always try to hide it which is super hard and practically impossible to do. If it'll make me happy then who else should really give a crap? Lol ehhhhh
sarah_tonin 14 Mar 2013
I think it's hard to get a clear idea of whether or not she personally actually wants to get one because some sources say she's always considering it, while every interview I've ever seen, she says she's proud of her Jewish nose and would never change it. Having said that, we have no idea what's going on in her head, so she could very well feel the opposite inside. I know that Diana Agron had two rhinoplasties, so obviously the cast and crew aren't COMPLETELY anti-cosmetic surgery because they don't let it change their opinion of her, which is good, because why should it? I completely understand what you're saying (I think we're both trying to say the same thing lol); for me, it was always my nose, my teeth, and my boobs that made me feel self-conscious and bugged. I currently have braces, and I got my nose fixed, and I'm still on the fence of whether or not I want implants one day (I'm going for a consultation regardless in the fall), but the point is still the same: it's no one else's business, and if it makes the individual happy then THAT'S what should matter. :)
Mellymelly 14 Mar 2013
You're just like me! My nose my teeth and my boobs are all something I would love to fix!!!! But I'm hoping to do my nose first since I can't really hide my nose like I can with my teeth and boobs! But that would be awesome to have all those done as well in the future.
sarah_tonin 14 Mar 2013
Totally! :)
lmj123 15 Mar 2013
AGREED!
gift2myself 14 Mar 2013
You're adorable, but I agree with you that changing your nose would improve your appearance. Please, look into lifting the columella and nostril reduction... not just removing the hump. That is what will make the biggest difference. SO many people focus on the hump, when that is not even the first thing people notice IF the nostrils are large. My first rhinoplasty focused on the hump only and ignored the nostrils, and of course, I still hated my nose after the surgery, and ended up having a revision. P.S. I've seen great reviews on this site about Ciardullo, and he can do hump, columella, and nostril reduction all at the same time. (btw, nostril reduction might not be needed if columella can be lifted high enough) Check it out, so you're informed, and good luck!
Mellymelly 14 Mar 2013
Thank you! Yes I am definitely looking into more than just shaving down my hump. I have pretty large nostrils as well and I don't really like my columella as well and I'm also focusing on my frontal profile as well. I know I want some changes to it to improve my frontal view as well. I guess I'll just have to ask Dr. C about my front because I feel like that's the hardest part to do is match your side with your frontal. Please write me back if you have any suggestions on my front view :P I didn't know what I would look like with a nose job until I morphed my nose a bit and I was like wow I could definitely improve my appearance now that I can kinda see what it would look like
tracileigh 13 Mar 2013
Hi there - yes, you are a very cute girl, but I can see why you might want to make some changes with your nose too. I'm sure people tell you that you are pretty all the time. Its the same with me. I dont feel that I am ugly, just that my nose could be better and it holds me back from looking nicer. People will get on here and try to tell you not to do it. Dont let those people make you feel bad. My biggest suggestion is DO YOUR HOMEWORK!

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