Three years ago I weighed 327lbs. I lost 125 of it...
Three years ago I weighed 327lbs. I lost 125 of it with diet modifications like clean eating and portion contol. I have a large flap of skin and loose shin and tissue above my belly button. Because of this skin my mobility is impaired. I cannot run unless I'm spanx'd to death which is just not comfortable either. I am also now a certified personal trainer, my way of paying forward my weightloss, but who would trust a trainer thaat looks fat? Not me.. so I decided its time for me to do something for me. :) I go in Monday... I am writing this on Saturday.
The pros of this are limitless.. the cons are just the down time... am I nervous? Heck yes but I know I am in great hands. I will upload before and afters when I get home.
So today was a dressing change.. I was completely...
So today was a dressing change.. I was completely unprepared for what I saw.. instead of the anchor cut that the PS and I discussed as the only chance I had at good results, I basically received a panniculectomy.. I am distraught. My pain is not under control and I would have never gone through with this if he would have told me prior to surgery that he just wasn't going to bother doing the surgery we had talked about. I understand there is bloating and such and the results cannot be judges for weeks but with all the loose skin on my upper abdomen I am at a loss.. sorry for such a negative post..but I had to vent my despair.
Went in for post open wound care.. The PS...
Went in for post open wound care.. The PS explained his choice of not doing the full surgery.. He fixed the drain that was hurting.. I ammuch better now.. thank you all for your support. :)
Ok today is day 4 post op.. My goals for today are...
Ok today is day 4 post op.. My goals for today are to be pain killer free, take my second shower, check on my garden ( point at anything that needs to be weeded) and maybe fold some more laundry ( no I am not able to get it out on my own lol) and make dinner. Day 4.. my lower back is killing me from being stooped over and sleeping in weird ways, my drains are in the dang way of everything, and I would like for the colace to work but other then that my only" discomfort" as the nurse deemed it is in my hip area.. feels like something is pulling..other then that it is a billion times better then day 2. Wish everyone well in their healing or decision making process. :)
Ok on to day 5.. Yesterday went ok. I ended up...
Ok on to day 5.. Yesterday went ok. I ended up having to take a pain killer when I got a tickle in my throat leading to a coughing fit.. new note to self Avoid that ever happening again!!! I will be keeping halls refesh handy for quite awhile. I am increasingly frustrated will my "balls" the drains are always in th way. (My drain insertion points are on the insides of my thighs) I am very very very hopeful that they will take them out Tuesday. So maybe today will be a no painkiller day. Sleep is still on and off but its also improving..I was able to walk alot more yesterday without being exhausted....My new belly button is ummmm something but even with my pot belly and that i now have i am content with the results I think.
Lets see day 6.... boredom has set in. But at...
Lets see day 6.... boredom has set in. But at least yesterday I was able things around the house like dishes and dinner. A little more each day..Not in any real pain which is a huge plus. The is just alot of stretching sensation. :)
As far as the blues goes.. I am having to look at my before pictures often so I can remember where I started. It at least stops the tears about whays less. I have to remember to be grateful.
Its been a week since surgery. I got my drains out...
Its been a week since surgery. I got my drains out today!!!! Its so much better. :) My movement has improved a tremendous amount. I had a visit today and it went ok. I am just impatiently waiting to be able to sleep normally and then the bavk pain will go away. I drove myself to the appointment today. The freedom helped the blues. My swelling is down. I still get tired quickly but its understandable.. Healing more each day. :)
How are you doing? I saw you are starting to swell.. I have read that is pretty normal. Are you ready to be drain free? I am keeping my fingers crossed for you.
Thank you for your kind words :) It really does help to hear from other people who have delt with this.
Being an Army wife is an experience.. hubby has been gone a lot the last 3 years.
How's your son dealing with Mommy having a boo-boo?
My son have been very helpful to me. He picks up what I drop lol.. I hope it continues next week when hubbys leave is over. :-)
Hope you get some rest tonight.
As fas as the binder goes i have been undoing the top two hooks and letting me have some breathing room. Lol I detest the thing. Some of the surgeons on here say they dont even put patients through the " torture" since there is no proof it helps. So i a feel ok with having it a little loose if i am eating or just sitting.
How are you?? Did your appointment go well?
My appointment went very well...my doc is pleased with the way everything is looking and that I have minimal swelling so far.
Now, if only I could stand up straight to relieve myself of this torturous back pain....!
How are you sleeping?
We are getting there :)
My binder is like a girdle I think its spanx type material with zippers and eye hooks. I have a velco one but itches horrible and bunches up weird so I prefer this one.
How many drains do you have? I only have one. It has started to bother me a little bit today, probably since I'm not taking anything.
My sleep is so-so. For some reason I can only sleep a few hours at a time. I'm accustomed to sleeping on my belly and/or side, never on my back.
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? I'm 25, gonna be 26 on April 16th.
I have 2 drains... they are in the most obnxious spots I could have imagined right in the creases of my thighs. I think since I have all the skin I do I was able to stand up straight faster.
Your drains do sound like they could be nothing but painful. Mine is sticking out of my vagina. I keep wondering what they do about the hole once they pull the drain out. Yuck!
Did they do muscle repair on you or just deal with the skin? I still don't understand your whole situation. Sorry.
I haven't been peeking much other then to adjust the foamy stuff and add bactracin to my belly button.. but I can't wait to see it in 2 weeks. :)
Don't be shy or ashamed of yourself...be proud!! And it will only get better. Hugs and kisses!
Tomorrow I may get brave and post some pictures. I just don't wanna scare people off. Mine was more for reconstruction then just a tummy tuck. My PS removed about 10lbs of skin and fat..But believe me anything is better then what was there lol
My pain is not nearly what it was yesterday. It seemed like the tegaderm (sp?) was pulling on the incision site. Once they removed that today I as able to move more freely and that has helped a tremendous amount. Yesterday I as taking percocet on schedule not a second late but today I only had to take it once. I think I got so excited about the shower and the freedom of movement I got a little ahead of myself and decided I could handle going to walmart. Lol. Not quite ready for that. I can't take the huge motrin they gave me so I am onl gonna take 2 normal ones.
My PS used internal stitches, glue and a layer of steristrips to hold it together.. Then moved my belly button up. (That doesn't look great yet lol) I am taking montana arnica on schedule and that seems to keep my bruising to a minimun but I look like I swallowed a basket ball. What did you think when yu saw your tummy without the dressings?
Actually, I am still taking the pain killers at night...my insomnia is more about being home sick than anything else.
Don't worry..you will be home before you know it. I am the same way and don't like to be away from home and my family. It is not a great feeling I know but just focus on the healing right now.
The more you relax and rest the quicker you will heal. You will have your life back to normal in no time at all. And with the bonus of the beautiful new tummy.
Hang in there:)