Hello ladies!!God I am so happyyyyy I have you to...
Hello ladies!!God I am so happyyyyy I have you to discuss these things with!I am not sure where to begin really,it has always bn there,I always knew I will get bigger boobies at some point especially after my two pregnancies.Things changed a few months ego when looking in the mirror my arms had gotten really big I wanted to cry everytime.Since then I decided I could leave with small boobies,but not the arms I saw.My priorities....small arms,nice waist,fuller bum then comes boobs!I can't wait,I am obsessed!Everytime am in the mirror all I see is the new me!Originally wanted fat transfer to boobs and bum,but drs think I might not have enough...so ladies I will need ur help deciding on what implants to go for if I hve to.Thank you so much fro reading and maybe leaving a comment.xxx
Wish waists,realistic waists,wish boobies n bum n realistic ones
I have dedicated a few hrs everyday to check out the same before and after photos...again and again I admit.
Here is what I come up with..(see photos)
And here are the boobies...
First comes deciding whether to them or not,over n over again..at least thrice a day I change my mind...but whatever I might do in the end...here are the results I expect,would love and wouldn't mind..
Coul be fat transfer(my no 1 choice),saline or silicone..
Dented scars on my tummy...
I have these two maybe 3dented scars,one is visible on the photo the others on the csection scar..I hate them so much..I have decided to have them corrected this week,I don't want anything getting in the way of my tummy lipo,plus I still have enough time to heal before I go to India.Dr says I just need local anaesthesia,I might not need anti biotics.
That is something to keep my mind off BBL for a week or so...(see photo)
There it is.will upload the csection ones tmoro..not there is anything exciting abt them really.
c section scar dent
Here the other scar that I wanted to redo,my doc says not to touch it,good news is he will do a mini tummy tuck with that...love the idea.
I can't wait!I am in beauty business... so for the days I have left am going to design or redesign something that I can lie on facing down without hurting boobies,coz I really want to do them at the same time.I think I once saw it somewhere but for expecting mothers when having massages face down..
Tday is my bday!it would have bn so exciting if I had my new curves to flaunt!But soon!!!
More wish pics.28 days to surgery day
I can't stop looking at before and after pics,wondering how I will be looking like in a few weeks time..in 28 days to be exact!I can't wait!Am still wondering if to do both fat transfer to bum and boobs at the same time...anyone who did it and thinks it s doable...pliz help,I need a push!If u r reading this,thanks a lot.
All me photos
All my before photo,the next photos will be my afters God willing.
Plastic surgery simulator,20days to go!!!
Finally gave into the app,I love it.Check out what I did,not much bt am already loving what I see..I didn't touch the hips,bum.i took in a bit on the waist..looks good..I think I will ask my doc to put most fat in the hips.What do u think ladies?How does th bottom of my bum look like?could I get away with it?I really need to be a bit comfy on the plane back home in 7days after surgery.Thanks in advance.Am not sure if am getting excited or depressed coz time isn't moving really..
16 days to go
Eating past every day,hoping to gain some fat in the remaining days..let's see.i am 59kg,1.60m tall,36-32-39,biceps are 12".i need to be 28" waist,10" biceps..the rest..is bonus!Am like,if the fat doesn't take I won't be so disappointed,as long as I hve those two to die for!
Happy healing ladies n gents!And keep calm n wait for ur turns to come,those in the same boat as moi.
One week to go..
I am not sure what am feeling at the moment...really excited bt a bit scared too especially when I decided to have a tummy tuck as well....MAYBE..
I got some of the things that I need for India unfortunately haven't received my arm Cgarment in time...will have to use the hospital one.
To do next week:Visa application and braiding hair that will last me at least 8wks..
I am going crazy 24/7 feeling guilty,saying to myself that I probably don't need this,that am asking too much.?and I still can't decide on whether to do some procedures n not the others...I can go on n on.....BUT then I remembered that I have been asked if I was pregnant at least 3 times in the last two months..I don't want to be called pregnant when am not.In my head I was like u sh'd see me in the next 3months or so.lol
And one of the p'ple who thought I was pregggrs is an ex boyfriend,it was embarrassing bt I think I had an excuse ready.I am scheduled for lipo on arms,abdomen,sides and fat transfer to breasts and bum and mini tummy tuck with MR.And I know that's a lot,unless my doc says otherwise and as long as there is no general anaesthesia for more than 3hrs am in!Without muscle repair I know my stomach will not be flat.Anyways...let's see what how it goes.thx for reading.xx
on the way to India,counting hours...
Two days to go. Am actually feeling fine,I didn't expect it.I haven't cried yet,I miss my babies like crazy bt am also excited I get to sleep for two full nights with no night feeding n all the mummy duties.I I've bn trying to have one meal pr day so I can cope better with pre surgery fasting..so far not working,still eating as usual n enjoying it.Well ladies,the fat might not take or last as long as I want, but I know in the end I will still have slimmer arms n a beautiful smaller n tighter waist..butt n boobies are bonuses!! Excited!
India day one
I made it,it was a long journey,the waiting in Dubai airport was the worst really,they sh'd hve a cinema in that place or maybe there is..?
I actually think I like India.Anyways,there was someone from the hospital waiting for me a the airport as I arrived,which is a good sign,he spent a few hrs with me as there was a bit of mix up with hotels,he made all the necessary calls and left me when everything was all sorted.I visited the hospital in the evening(sat) just to check it out.i met some ladies who work there,they seem nice,I will tell u all abt them after I have spent some days with them.The hospital is clean,smaller than I thought but isn't a problem at all,better I think.I checked out my soon to be room,nice n clean.i think am ready,just can't wait to meet Dr,have the talks n get these things out of the way.Tmoro(sun)is blood work,CG measuring and final decisions made.am not looking forwards to fasting..
Well,it is festive season in India,fireworks going off every min,let's c how easy sleeping will be.Talk to u tmoro ladies
India day 3
27 Oct 2014
Day of treatment
I had an appointment to meet with the doc,it was short but really there isnt much to talk abt as we have bn communicating for over 3months now.He what I thought he would be,Dont ask me what that,and I will still have him as my doc.Anyways,he doesn't think I need a full tummy tuck(I agree totally) that's a huge relief,o am a coward, really want a tiny waist bt scared of how to get there.Will do a mini one though,just to tighten the skin a little. I am meeting him again in a few,will give u all the details and what exactly am having done tmoro.
..almost forgot,tday I had xray,more blood work,and other tests that I have never had before,I was impressed I must say.and I got measured for the compression garments..again..impressed!It looks like tmoro I will have a flat stomach,fuller bum and smaller arms in a few hrs.although Doc seemed a bit shocked that I want to increase the bum that I got already!!lol
Day of surgery..
No complaints at all,at least not yet!photos soon!Am doing great, was awake throughout, had an epidural. The best team am telling u.Mini tummy tuck with MR,lipo arms, sides n abdomen.No boobies.Thx for the messages
All there is to know so far..
First of all I salute u ladies who have had work done on tummy,boobies,arms,bum...let's say the whole body and u made it thru recovery!!am not sure how to get thru the day without sitting...seems impossible but am managing somehow.
Fast forward a bit,when I remember something will just say it anyway.Day before the surgery looked like we might not do it coz my white blood cells came count came out low.we re-did the test and all results were better/normal.
2days post op
Am proud to say that I have not needed help to get up or sit down.But mostly glad I chose to stay in the hospital.It would have bn very difficult to come n go for medication.am still on antibiotics,painkillers,n drain still in.just got one for tummy.
I do love my new shape,especially my waist,when I lay down,the way it falls deep in..arms will take time to get used to.i look like I have bn working out a lot..weird coming from big round to just touching the muscles..although they started hurting a little.Dr warned me it would happen.By the way,he is the best!Am not even healed yet and I think it was worth a very effort made to be here.Bum looks nice n full,it doesn't go flat when I lay down,hated that...am sure will soften again bt will enjoy it for now.I was awake for 3/4 of the time spent in the operating room..Enough for now..will think of what else happened and do ask questions pliz.I am a fussy eater,I just like my boring African food,I don't try new things...so that's not bn easy for me considering most places including the airlines serve curry for breakfast.so am on KFC diet,the only familiar food.And the language will be an issue by the way but p'ple are always willing to translate for u.
discharged from hospital..
Things going well so far,no complaints at all..I will be travelling home in two days,am not looking forward to the journey..bt am going to c my babies..that's enough gd reason to take me thru it.I arrive in Dubai n straight to boarding the next.really worried about the swelling especially with no time to rest in between. Did I mention that I hate compression garments? HATE!bt I need those,and expensive too!photos tmoro,arms looking good,scars..the best looking scars even if I have to say so myself.layers ladies..and I think am getting my wish bum..tell me what u think.xx
I feel as good as I feel..really,I walked tday,did some shopping.At last I enjoyed(a lot)some Indian food last night..will do the same tday.I still can't believe how scared I was..most reviews are really discouraging...or I did what I always do,prepare for the worst..Or this doc is just amazing.Am trying to brag abt this to my mr..but his clueless..I can't wait to get home n talk go my gals who understand.I really hope I get to keep my butt after the flight ahead of me.anyways photos..and it is true,My dr does check on how am doing everyday...Amazing right?
Almost one post op,I still feel great,like I could even hit the gym.It gets me excited thinking abt the gym/swimming pool.I can't wait to just show off,to stand n sit without holding my tummy in,to lay down n hve that super sexy sunk in in look around the waits area.few days to go.
Dr gave me a go ahead to sleep without CP on tummy bt decided to keep going for many reasons...ONE-I am so used to these things breaking my ribs,I don't know how to do without.TWO-I really can't risk uneven bumpy stomach...it is going very well will just try n go for as long as I can.THREE-my waist still looks tiny even with the girdle,foam,the vets n everything else I hve invented for even a flatter tummy.
I have not experienced serious pain or discomfort,the scar is completely healed,my arms look so good and I haven't even started wait lift yet,they are still sensitive not painful,my waist still going down,just under 27".My butt has gone down as well but looks awesome still.i believe I was 41" 1 day p/o now down to 39.5"...I hate measuring but I do and keep asking my friend if she thinks it has gone down..she thinks not.i really hope I get to keep what's left..I looooove everything abt it..how It fills my clothes,how good it looks in my most boring clothes,how it just looks good just doing nothing.I am thankful I went thru this smoothly,really thankful.Happy healing ladies