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Part 1: Finally My Mommy Makeover - 3 Weeks Post Op Pics

UPDATED FROM Its4Me Jen
17 days post

I was going to post this last night, but figured...

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I was going to post this last night, but figured I'd give it till the morning thinking I'd feel better. Well I don't feel any better. Not crying like last night, but still very depressed, grumpy and feel like crying. My pre-op weight was 120 lbs which I worked really hard to get to. I wanted to be 115 lbs before surgery and didn't make it. Well my post-op weight was 126 lbs. I know to some that might not seem like a lot, but I am only 4'11 so for me it is. I know I wasn't eating healthy while in South Florida (lots of Cuban bread) because 1) most of the stuff we missed eating is not sold in Pennsylvania (like Cuban bread) and 2) eating loads of Latin food our families made us. I'm starting to eat healthy again now since I've been home, so maybe that will help. I did weigh myself this morning and weighed 123 lbs. That put a smile on my face. I calculated my boobs which put me to about 1.9 lbs over, so weight wise technically I'd be about 121 lbs. Great! But I measured my waist and it is still measuring more than my pre-op measurements were!!!! How can that be possible??? Why am I so swollen??? I'm also hurting. Not OMG I'm dying pain, but feel bruised around my abdominal, my sides, and my boobs. Enough for Extra Strength Tylenol. Then taking sleeping pills to help me sleep through the day because I can't sleep while the sun is out. I know I did a lot too soon due to my father-in-law passing, but I have planted myself in this bed since I got home. I'm in bed bored to death, eating healthy, and drinking loads of cucumber water. My daughter even worked for me at the Dance Studio on Friday so I wouldn't have to. She's been pretty much running my house because my DH is working nights this week. My poor baby girl. This is so unfair to her too. She's only 20. I want this swelling to go down and my life back. I'm miserable. Oh, and to top things off, I got my period today!!! I am soooo Grumpy and feel like crying and I'm not even sure why really. I should be happy. I really hate feeling this way!

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Replies (5)

November 11, 2012
So sorry to hear you're having a rough couple of days. You'll get through them....swelling always goes away, just rest!
November 11, 2012
Thank you TM. I'm not moving. Just resting.
November 11, 2012
Baby, let me tell you a true story. I used to have a colleague that every time I'll say Good Morning he'll ask me "what's good about it??". I used to tell him that I'm thankful for this gift that I got from God ,a new day. A day that is just mine and given to ME. Jen you got yours too. Now it's up to you to unwrap this gift and see what is inside or never do so and you'll never know what was inside. Right at this moment in the world many ppl are in the bed, they will still be there next week, next month and next summer. At least you'll be next summer in your way to the beach. And what a wonderful daughter you have . So please get your beautiful booty up and make the best out of this day
November 11, 2012
And don't forget ZiZi's RULE: go in front of your mirror and repeat 100 times "I AM BEAUTIFUL AND HEALTHY" Love you girlie. Hope you're feeling better.
November 11, 2012
LOL Thank you zizi! You're right and I will take your advice, except the getting my booty out of bed part. I will, but only to take a shower, but I think doing so much is what got me in this predicament. I'm just letting my body rest.
November 11, 2012
Hey babe, I hope you're feeling better by now. Today was a wonderful warm day and I thought you'll go for a walk. 4 more days and I'll know exactly what means pain and I'll feel that I'll better stay home relaxing.
November 12, 2012
I'm feeling a little better. Just had a shower and washed my hair. I changed from my CG and put on my Binder. Apologized to my 16 yr old for yelling at him earlier. He was being a 16 yr old and joking around with me and I got mad. How exciting for you though!!!! 4 more days!!! Please don't let our ups and downs scare you. Through it all, I have not regretted having this done. I was just admiring my boobs in the mirror after my shower and then my tummy, although bloated still looks flatter and much better than before. I'm happy about that and very glad I did this.
November 12, 2012
I know it will only get better. Give your body another 2 months and you'll totally feeling worthy. You know earlier I was a little moody too. I was reading in the morning another scary review. That girl left by herself to Mexic to get TT with BBL and lipo She was waking up twice during surgery . While she was recuperating there were no pain pills provided to her. When finally she got some Tylenol from a local pharmacy they charged her $100 for 14 pills. That story was making me sick until now. I'm really scared.
November 12, 2012
http://www.realself.com/review/cosmed-tijuana-mexico-mommy-makeover-the-breasts#comment-565946
November 12, 2012
That is so scary!!! I don't think that would happen in the US. Worst case scenario, if your PS doesn't provide pain pills you can go to any hospital and they will. Besides your having yours done in Florida. The people there are sue happy so I think PS's in Florida are very careful because they fear being sued. Poor thing. My heart breaks for her.
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November 11, 2012
Jen I love u!!!! Your period could be adding to an emotional expreience-you surgery + your father inlaw passing, seeing and missing your families- since u r so close with them - and you just left them. Hugs mama hope u have a better day
November 11, 2012
Thanks Blonde. You're probably right. I also think I just need some more of the crazy pills because the tylenol is not working. I just really hate those pills.
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November 11, 2012
Jen I don't know if I told u but my dreams were so close to reality I didn't know what was real!!! It was creepy! Oh and I talked non stop in my sleep- I slept the 1st week!!! I was CRAZY
November 12, 2012
LOL... What did you have? I dreamed my whole family abandoned me and were mad at me for posting about them on RS. I thought the whole thing was real. My family has been making fun of me ever since. My brother went to the restroom and called me to tell me he was there in case I didn't see him. Then my sister called me from the kitchen to tell me she was there. They were always joking with me about it. lol
November 11, 2012
Sorry to hear this - I know exactly what you are talking about...started journey at 135 quit smoking - surgery 141 - after surgery 145 today 10 weeks post op 142....the swelling is starting to go down. I think this week I am just starting to feel like myself and am wearing some pre-op clothes. I still have a bit of pain when I stretch my body straight and talll. Do not get discouraged...this will pass they say the three month mark is 85% decrease in swelling I find that to be fairly accurrate. Hang in there I promise it get better!
November 11, 2012
Thank you Amy. It helps a lot to read from someone who's been there done that and understands. Thanks for reminding me that it gets better. :-)
November 11, 2012
Jen, who cares how much you weigh??? You've got perky boobs and a flat tummy! LOL Your hard work will start paying off once your body starts to fully recover and your mind lets you relax enough to enjoy it. Take it easy on yourself and throw away that scale!
November 11, 2012
Thanks tatmom. You are absolutely right, but I can't get rid of my friend like that. My scale and I have been through a lot together. I read your review today and you really lightened my mood!!! You are so funny. It made me see the humor in all of this and the light at the end of the tunnel.
November 12, 2012
I use to tape the word "FAT" to the scale where it showed me how much I weighted. It busted me up laughing so many times. Cause in reality that's actually what your mind is telling you no matter how many times you get on there and want to see the numbers go down. I know I didn't get the MM to lose weight. I did it to see the me that I knew was under there somewhere. You just gotta wait it out girl till you see the you that's been there the whole time. Love it, embrace it. All of it, all of you. Chin up and drink that cucumber water!!!
November 13, 2012
Lol... Now I wonder if my husband is reading my email. I went in the bathroom to take a shower and find a note on my scale saying: if you don't like what I'm going to say, get off me. You're driving your husband nuts. Lol
UPDATED FROM Its4Me Jen
16 days post

OK, so this stinks!!! I just knew it was too good...

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OK, so this stinks!!! I just knew it was too good to be true. Woke up very sore and super swollen. My CG is so tight that it's cutting into me. My DH thinks I should take it off and only wear the binder loosely, but I don't even feel like moving anymore. So stuck in bed today. My daughter will have to cook dinner. I am so blessed to have her. She took her brother to get his hair cut and took the baby. My 4 year old is still here, but watching Tinkerbell so should be OK for as long as that movie lasts.

So my aches seem to be my bb (or maybe it's the hernia repair), my ab muscle, I think my lipo areas because on my sides, my boobs - but not the incisions, just the boobs feeling kind of...... I'm not sure how to explain. It's a weird pain mostly on the sides. I think it's from the CG straps, so I pulled straps down. This darn CG is so tight that it's not like if it's going anywhere without the straps anyways.

I don't care, though. Still VERY glad I did this. This little set back will not put a damper on that. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE my boobs. The are already super soft to the feel as if they were my real boobs. So don't believe the lies about saline boobs being hard and feeling fake to the touch. Mine were overfilled from 375 to 450 cc's and still feel super soft. You would never know I had a BA by touching them for sure. They feel just like my real boobs! Not sure what to say about my TT though because I'm not taking this CG off. Forget the ear plug for BB today. This CG is not coming off for anything. Either I have a small Hoo-Haa or my CG has a very large whole down there because I have no problems peeing through it and do not get it dirty. I can also poo through it with no problem. Just have to be careful with the wiping (I know, TMI), but I just pull the hole way back once my Hoo-Haa is dry because it will then cover my Hoo-Haa and then have no problem wiping my back side.

I am super behind on your reviews, so will spend the day just catching up since I can't get out of bed anyways. So don't be surprised if I'm commenting on a review you posted like 5 days ago. LOL I've had a lot happen and still catching up.

Love you guys and hope those still healing are healing well, and those who are getting ready to come to the flat side are super excited as I am excited for you!!!

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UPDATED FROM Its4Me Jen
14 days post

Officially 2 weeks Post Op today and I can't...

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Officially 2 weeks Post Op today and I can't believe how fast time has flown. Quick update because my flight leaves today and need to get to airport soon.

Short version:

PS appointment went great!!!! DH tried to abandon me and fake a phone call because he thought we would get reprimanded about sex, but I took his phone. Dr. Pane stated if I'm dancing and having sex with no issues, that was great!!! Yay!!! My incisions look AMAZING!!! I posted pics, but we forgot to take a pic of TT before they re-taped it. It is also very thin, low, and look amazing. This might sound silly, but I was concerned that everyone is having muscle spasms and so much pain and I'm not. I had a horrible first few days, but been standing straight from about day 2 or 3 and have been on my feet since my FIL passing which was just a few days after my surgery. Dr. Pane stated that my not having too much pain or muscle spasms was great and was very happy with my recovery. Again, my incisions look amazing!!! I am so, so happy!!!! With my dark skin, I was really worried about having very noticeable scars, but I am only 2 weeks Post Op and you can barely see them already.

One thing I am worried about is my BB. I didn't want to end up with a giant whole, but didn't want an outie either. Not sure what mine will be. Dr. Pane stated it should go in some and it's still swollen. I hope so. But all in all, GREAT SURGERY RESULTS. HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY!!!!

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November 8, 2012
Wow! Your incisions do look amazing! You should be very happy with your results!!! As far as your bb goes....mine didn't start to sink in until 6wks, you just couldn't see that in my pics. It actually is barely below the surface, I figure it takes awhile for that... I'm so, so happy for you and your post-op outcome :)
November 10, 2012
Thank you so much TM. That means a lot to me. ;-) I am so excited about my incisions and hope they continue to heal this good. Did you try the ear plug thing for your BB? I did today and it seemed to sink in a little. Or maybe it's just the swelling going down. lol Either way, I will try the ear plug thing again tomorrow.
November 8, 2012
incisions look great!! Have a safe flight home
November 10, 2012
Flight was great, but boy was I swollen and in pain by the time I got home. Then we got home at 3:00 a.m. to a flooded basement, stinky fridge, and two stinky freezers. I guess the storm hit pretty bad over here and we must have lost power for a while. Yuck! No fun.
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November 8, 2012
Looking hizzy nizzy!
November 10, 2012
Thank you my friend. ;-)
November 9, 2012
You're looking gooooooood and perky :-]. The incisions are healing beautifully. About your BB would you ask your PS if he'll approve you to insert a ear plug? I read somewhere that in order to get a innie girls are doing that. But just if PS permitted. I am so happy for you and I can't believe already passed 2weeks. Happy healing love.
November 10, 2012
Thank you zizi. I tried it today and it seems to be working. I had a lot of trouble with it. It kept popping back out no matter how much tape I put, but we added a quarter then taped over the quarter and that seemed to make it stay. I planned to leave it on all day and all night, but swell hell tonight and I couldn't take it so had to remove it. My CG is so tight right now that I might just take it off too, but I know I shouldn't. I'll put the ear plug in again tomorrow if swelling goes down. I have my cucumber water in fridge ready for tomorrow if it doesn't.
November 10, 2012
Oh, I'm so sorry for the floating, but I'm glad you make it back home safe. Everything else is take time so try the ear plug when you can , I'm sure it will help you.