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Three days PO - I am amazed...

Hi everyone. I've been an avid reader of all of...

Hi everyone. I've been an avid reader of all of your reviews, the surgeon q&a's, and the forum. I hope my experience goes as well as some of yours and that I can learn from the wealth of knowledge here on RS. About me: I'm a 29 y/o mom of a 17 month old daughter with a divorce pending (we've been separated for over a year...). I know the surgeons are generally adamant against doing TTs on women not done with having kids, but as a young-ish almost single woman about to re-enter the dating world, I really feel that I need the boost in self confidence that so many of you have gotten from your procedures. That's not to say that I am definitely having more kids, as I had a rough pregnancy, traumatic delivery, and horrible PPD, but if I find and fall in love with a man, I may want to have another... Who knows? All I know is I am really upset every time I look in the mirror and while putting on clothes in the morning. The thought of being intimate with a new man with my huge flipping stretches out tummy terrifies me. Ok, enough of that. Time to be positive. :)

I'm 5'6" and 175-185 depending on the day and the scale. I know I'm overweight but the decision to have this surgery just recently materialized (like last week). I'm active duty military and they are currently paying me to go to grad school in preparation for my next job. The school I go to has a 5 week winter break and it dawned on me last year that if I ever want to do this, given my personal and professional situation, the time is NOW! I figure that the TT and lipo will take away a lot of my problem area and will motivate me to continue to improve my health/body afterwards. I am concerned with the healing time as I have a physical fitness test scheduled in early February but I'm hopeful it goes well and I heal enough to workout hard in 6 weeks.

I have three consultations scheduled in the next two weeks. Two are scheduled in St. Louis (one with Dr. Kofkoff and one with Dr. Hoffaker) and one the following week with Dr. Hawes. Dr. Kofkoff has amazing reviews and good pictures, but he also has a higher price tag than the other two. Dr. Hoffaker also has good reviews though there were a few mixed ones. Dr. Hawes has less reviews available (that I could find anyway) and the reviews are mixed. However, he has the lowest price tag. I should note that both St. Louis surgeons require an overnight stay while Dr. Hawes does it out-patient which explains the difference in price. I know I won't know the exact cost of my surgery until I do the actual consultation, but all three offices gave me an estimate so that I could work in getting financing in place.

All three offices have available OR times available for me. Hopefully those times will still be available when I'm ready to schedule. I feel a little pressures to schedule a date now but I do think its important to meet with the surgeons first. I am a horrible BS detector (I give everyone the benefit of the doubt - explains my failed marriage...) but my mom will be joining me and she's an expert. :)

One thing I am trying to figure out is about my daughter. We're attachment parenting and she still nurses when I come home from school and at night. Have any of you nursed after having your TT? She's old enough that she can climb up on the recliner loveseat with me to nurse without needing me to pick her up, but I'm worried that she'll unintentionally press down on my stomach or knee/kick me while moving around... Guess I'll ask the doctors next week.

Ok I need help. Badly. I had consultations with...

Ok I need help. Badly. I had consultations with the top two surgeons on my list (and two of the best in my city). I have never had cosmetic surgery before and don't know how to choose. Tell me what you think -

Surgeon A: He wants $11,000 for a standard TT with MR and limited lipo of my abs and regular lipo on my flanks. He is a conservative surgeon and wants me to be realistic with my expectations (which I do, I just wish he was more optimistic)...

Surgeon B: wants $14500 for an extended TT with MR and a more aggressive lipo of abs, waist, flanks, back, and inner thighs. He has a calm demeanor but a more positive attitude saying ill be very happy with the results and it will be a huge difference.

So... What would you do? An extra $3500 is a huge issue but I can make it work if necessary. My surgery will be dec 10th, regardless which surgeon I choose. I dont know why one surgeon thinks standard and the other says extended, but thats the way it is. I appreciate Surgeon A's idea of being conservative in surgery. I don't want complications, but I want to look/feel better! And I want a surgeon who knows what he's doing, not one who knows what to say to get me hooked. But I can't decide if that's what surgeon B is doing. Ugh! Help?

Decided on a surgeon - it came down to results (by...

Decided on a surgeon - it came down to results (by pictures posted here and on his website), reviews (though my surgeon has SOOOO many amazing reviews online it makes me wary that he's too good to be true...), and price (although he's less expensive than the other surgeon, he's also doing less lipo... so if that is something I want to pursue in the future, I'm glad that I'll have funds available to get it done).

One week till surgery. :)

Thanks to my brother who came to visit for Turkey...

Thanks to my brother who came to visit for Turkey day with a cough, I have caught whatever he had and my surgeon feels that due to my cough/sore throat, that it's not worth the risk of going under. Plus, the anesthetist will probably refuse to put me under anyway. It has to do with the breathing tube going into through my throat and possibly spreading my throat junk to my lungs.

Only problem is that the window of time in my career that I have to get this done, combined with my surgeons super busy December schedule, means it's possible I won't have a chance to schedule this again for years.

Sad. :(

So I was able to reschedule my surgery for the...

So I was able to reschedule my surgery for the 27th. It's been a blur of pain, sleep, drugs and drains since then, but I am amazed at my results. The fact that I know I'm swollen and that they results will get even better is hard for me to comprehend. Check out my pics! My PS removed 5.5 lbs of skin and lipo'd about 3500 cc's from my abs, hips, and flanks. No more enormous love handles!

Hey ladies! Thanks for the kind words. Don't let...

Hey ladies! Thanks for the kind words. Don't let the pictures fool you. I have a couple windows of about an hour each day when the timing of my pain meds and muscle relaxers converge where I feel like I can walk around semi-normally. The rest of the day, I'm just as hunched over as everyone else. My main problem is not overdoing it during those times because they end up hurting me more in the end...
Richard Kofkoff

Found him on a google search and learned about him on RealSelf and his website. I thought he was too good to be true because all of his reviews were glowing and no one had anything negative to say. Normally, this would worry me because I'm a realist. But there was something about his personality and how dedicated he is to wanting his patients to be happy with their results that I chose him over the other PS's in the area that I interviewed. He was straightforward with me about my expectations before surgery, and the results are better than I thought possible. I'm just in awe.

5 out of 5 stars Overall rating
5 out of 5 stars Doctor's bedside manner
5 out of 5 stars Answered my questions
5 out of 5 stars After care follow-up
5 out of 5 stars Time spent with me
5 out of 5 stars Phone or email responsiveness
5 out of 5 stars Staff professionalism & courtesy
5 out of 5 stars Payment process
5 out of 5 stars Wait times
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You look great !
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So how are you doing now?
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You should be amazed, you look fabulous!!
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you look great girl. so happy for you. happy healing
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looking awesome
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Wow you look amazing!
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You look great! I agree with shellerz I am amazed with your posture. I'm still hunched but slowly straightening up! Continue to relax and happy healing!
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Woohoo! Another one n the 27th club! You look amazing! You know what I am blown away by? You can stand up straight...you don't look hunched at all! What a blessing! Congrats!
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Hello! You look great! Amazing difference and you are only 3 dpo! Hope you get lots of rest and can take it easy as you heal. Nice to see another person from St. Louis! I think we have 3 or 4 from Missouri right now.
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Wow! You are looking fantastic!!! You must be so psyched. I am a day behind you. Here's to a fast recovery!!! :)
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Chin up girl, everything will work out,make sure to goggle with warm water and salt for the sore throat 3x a day. Sorry i dont know of a home remedy for the cough. Hope he can book you within your time limit. Pray on it.
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I am so sorry:(   

Keep positive thoughts going and tell yourself this is going to happen!!   Something tells me that you can accomplish anything you put your mind to!

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Oh no, Suzie1133! I'm so sorry. Hope you are able to reschedule.
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My surgery is tomorrow....let see what happens.
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sorry to hear about this... my surgery was cancelled twice and not because of cold.. i was all prep up and marked and then came my blood result and the surgery was canceled. happened twice because of this. i have very low Hemoglobin. buckle up and things will work out.
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Definitely agree with Tucker, sneezing or coughing post-op is the worst thing ever! Only time I really had pain. Get well soon and good luck rescheduling.
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So sorry. Praying you have a chance to make I happen to yourself
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So sorry to hear- mine was postponed from nov 27th to dec 5th. I'm recovering now, and just sneezed 5 minutes ago, believe me you don't want to do any excessive coughing or sneezing during recovery; it hurts like an sob- I'm of the mind everything happens for a reason- look at my before pics- I met the man of my dreams, and he had no problem with my awful stomach - when you meet the right person it just doesn't matter- I thought about a tummy tuck in 2007- and it ended up falling through - good thing for me because it would have been ruined in 2008 and 2009 by two surgeries - hopefully either way it will all work out for the best for you! :)
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Cheer up, I'm in the same boat!!! I had to postpone my SX as well due to a nasty cold or whatever it is. My window for 12/18 was the most perfect opportunity. Now I have to wait until May of 2013 or longer. :( Your time will come soon, that window of opportunity will open again for you. I wish you the best!!! Keep us posted.
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Sorry for your delay. You do not want a cough after this surgery! It is not fun. Kat
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On the positive side of your postponement you do not want to have to cough and sneeze post op Not Fun, that's from a patients point of view. From a respiratory therapist , which I am you, don't want anesthesia while having a cold or other respiratory tract infection. It puts you at a greater risk to develop pneumonia post-op. So hang in there and get better.
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I'm so sorry. That really sucks. I'm sure you're devastated. But your life isn't worth a TT. Holler if you need something..
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Discuss with him beforehand. My PS is truely a Godsend , He refused to do a standard TT and said I would be dissapointed with the result as it would look like I have 2 wings on my sides. It was more expensive and he was so so amazing enough to not worry about the extra money. Please discuss ur concerns with ur PS . I really want this yto work for you as much as it has for me ....
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Its going to look great , check out my profile , my tummy looked similar to yours before my extended TT. I ma so happy with my results.
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I hope my results are half as good as yours! I definitely read your review before thinking that our "before" tummies are similar (impressive stretch marks and all!). My only concern is that my surgeon only recommended a standard TT versus an extended. I hope it's enough! :)
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