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Getting closer to 40; getting me some boobs - southern Minnesota

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I am in my mid-30s and I am done having children....

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I am in my mid-30s and I am done having children. Everything in my life revolves around my children who I love to pieces but I decided to do something for me, finally! I am getting a BA April 10! I have been wanting to do this since I had my first child 16 years ago. I nursed all three of them and I do not regret doing so but it has left me sucked dry! I never had big boobs, in fact I never had medium boobs but what boobs I DID have are now completely gone LOL!

I had three consultations last summer and then met with the new surgeon last month. I finally decided to go for it. I like that he had over 20 years experience doing breast augmentations. I also liked that he has an operating room right in his office so consultations, fittings, surgery and aftercare are all done in one place. I found that convenient and it really helps keep costs down. At first I was extremely excited that it was finally going to happen now I am extremely nervous and I'm questioning all the details of the surgery. I originally was going with 375 cc saline implants put in axillary. Then after reading a lot of the comments from the doctors on here and the more research I did I changed my mind and drove hours to my surgeons office to sign the paperwork to have 375cc silicone implants put in inframammary. I feel good about switching to silicone and the incision site but am still questioning the size. One minute I think they will be too big then I'm wondering if I should go to 400cc. I think I'll stick with my first instinct and stay at 375. Plus, I do not want to drive that far again to sign my name to change it! Ughhhh all the anticipation and not knowing...so hard!

So some details about me: I am about 5'3" and 110-120 pounds (depends on what scale I step on at what time and if I have clothes on-lol)! I wear a 34 B and I would say a SMALL B. I am hoping to be a full C. I don't want to spend the money and have them be too small but I am not trying to make a statement either. do not want to go to work and have people do a double take or think I'm changing my profession (if you get my drift). I will include a before picture with some of the comments I have received from doctors off of this site.

From the opinions of the doctors' responded on here, seems unanimous to switch to silicone and do it in the breast crease. Several also stated that my nipples are placed very "lateral" in my breasts. They said they could be somewhat pushed out to the sides (YIKES!!!) one even said that iffy surgeon doesn't place them correctly I could end up with "walleye boobs"! Well jeepers...that sound super attractive! So more than hoping for "wish boobs" I'm just praying they're not too high and strangling me or out to the sides like googley eyes! Wish me luck!

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Jessica the medical assistant is great! Very personable and down to earth. Office is quite small but he has an O.R. Right on site which is great. My nurse and anesthesiologist were very nice and friendly as well. Dr. Smith had been a plastic surgeon for something like 23 years. He is board certified as well. He is very particular and set in his ways. That was fine with me because it showed he was confident in what he does. He was not a sales man in any way. I was happy he was not pushy on anything. I'm only one day post op but am happy thus far.

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March 21, 2014
We have surgery on the same day :) I CANNOT WAIT!!!
March 21, 2014
How exciting!!! I'm excited but starting to get so nervous. I'm worried about going back to work that following Monday (I cannot get any more time off than that) will I be able to do my job? Will I walk into work and have it be so obvious that I have this done? More than anything I'm worried about how they'll look. I know they'll look weird for a while and we have all heard if "frankenboob" but I'm so nervous that they'll end up too high or too far apart...or BOTH! I my goodness wouldn't that be a sight?! Lol! How are you doing? Have you bought any scar gel or anything yet? My surgeon has not said anything to me about all of that stuff and I just want to make sure I have everything ahead of time so I can be prepared. If so, what kind?
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March 21, 2014
I'm going in Monday for my preop, so I'm sure I'll learn more then. I've bought some bras, a bedrest pillow, a neck travel pillow and the arnica gel. If he suggests I get anything else, I'll definitely let you know. I am so ready to get it over with! I've taken off until Wednesday, just in case. As long as you don't have a very physical job then I'm sure you will be okay. I'm nervous, too. Very scared about the IV (I'm such a wus). My boyfriend makes fun of me because I'm on the site looking at boobs 24/7. If you have any questions or want to talk, feel free to PM ME. I have a very professional job, so I'm nervous about coworkers being able to tell. I have a lot of blazers that hide it well if need be. You'll be fine and I'm sure you'll love your results!
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March 28, 2014
Don't worry, you can wear shirts that are a bit looser for the first week, and no one will know unless you tell them. I am quite a bit bigger than I was, and wore a tight-fitting shirt yesterday and no one even looked at them. I was also worried people would notice and start rumors or something! They will ask you questions about your hair or compliment your outfit bc overall, your appearance has improved, but they won't zero in on your boobs. ;)
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March 21, 2014
I think the 375cc will cause you to go up at 2 cup sizes. So don't be surprised if your end result is a D. But I feel the look and proportion is more important than a specific cup size. The doc on here say anywhere from 200-250cc contributes to one cup size. We have different anatomy, but I have 380cc Saline, and also struggled with "maybe I should have gone bigger." I'm happy I didn't bc they look huge right now due to swelling! So I feel my surgeon and I picked the right size. Good luck to you and I hope you achieve the results you're after! ;)
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March 21, 2014
Sorry for the typos. Stupid iPhone! Lol
March 21, 2014
Thanks! Keep me posted with your recovery. When did you get them done?
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March 21, 2014
I just got them on Monday, March 17th. So far I am very pleased with the results but anxious for the swelling to subside. Looking forward to seeing your results! If you have any questions, feel free to message me or post on my review. ;)
March 22, 2014
Thank you ! I'm sure I will!
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March 26, 2014
I think you will be happy with your choice. My surgeon told me 25 cc's doesn't make a huge difference. If you told your dr what your goal is they should get you there. I also wanted saline but once I talked with my dr I decided silicone since it looks and feels a little more real. He does equal amount of saline and silicone and doesn't push one over the other. Good luck and I'm excited to see your results we are only one day apart with our surgery dates!!!
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March 21, 2014
I went up 2 sizes to a 32D with 225cc HP silicone, above the muscle, though, and I weigh 105 lbs. so you don't know what you'll get, but check out how "small" my D's are on my profile. They are easy to hide and fun to flaunt with a good push-up. Do not be scared of D's because they are proportional to your body. I suggest 375. You will be really really happy with the outcome.
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March 22, 2014
I agree with Mamamel. A D cup on your frame would not be too excessive. I'm about the same size as you are, and mine will end up being in the DD or DDD range. It all depends on your hip width, shoulder width, and body type.
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13 days pre

Getting closer!

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14 more sleeps to go! Getting anxious and nervous. Now if only everything else in life would start falling into place, right?! Called my PS's office today to touch base. They said probably no scar gels/creams (not sure why maybe this will change after my four week postop). They told me to pick up a couple loosefitting sports bras that do not cut off at the breast crease so I will be on the hunt for those. Does anyone have any good suggestions? The day I went for my consultation (which is also the day I scheduled my appointment and paid for my surgery) he prescribed me all the meds I'll need. I picked those up the next day. My pre-op is next week. I hope everything goes well so nothing has to be postponed! They reassured me again that I would be able to go back to work that following Monday. I am very nervous about that I am having my surgery Thursday, April 10th and that only gives me five days! I do have to do lifting at my job and it can be quite physical at times. So I'm really hoping I will feel almost myself by that Monday because I cannot get any more time off-YIKES! I hope all you wonderful ladies are recovering well and I am looking forward to hearing more of your journey and results for those of you who haven't got yours done yet! This site has been amazing!

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March 28, 2014
Check out my profile for some bra suggestions. Walmart, ShopKo, Target, and places like that have great sports bras that are inexpensive. It's important to get several different sizes bc you won't know exactly which one is going to fit, and your size will fluctuate with swelling and as the implants drop. Some of the sports bras made for full-figured women are awesome bc your band width will also be bigger for a week or so. They are often made to be comfortable yet supportive. I have Fruit of the Loom, Playtex, Just My Size, and Danskin brands. All cost $10-$20 each, and the ones that didn't fit, I returned. :)
March 28, 2014
Good to know! It's so scary entering into the unknown world of "the boobed ones" lol!
March 28, 2014
How many women with silicone actually get a MRI every 2-3years? Im not asking to judge anyone. I've read that most women don't unless something happens that makes them fear they may have ruptured. I know they recommend it but just wondering how many of you actually do.
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11 days pre

Some more of what I'm workin' with

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A few more befores. Figured I needed a few more to compare my afters with.

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