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MY Dream FINALLY COMES TRUE! - Milwaukee, WI

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Well I am not sure how to start but I have always...

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Nenee098
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Well I am not sure how to start but I have always been busty growing up but not like this. But it began to get out of hand when I began having children, especially after my last ones which was twins. As they got bigger I began to have alot of back pain lower/mid/upper and shoulder pains. It had got really bad this past March when I couldn't get out of bed for about two weeks. I was worried cause my birthday was coming and I did not want spend my birthday like that. I got better enough to get out for my birthday. Then like a month later my shoulder went bad I couldn't use it at all. I knew had it had to be because of my breast. So I went to an PS whom accepts my insurance. He explained everything to me and answered all my questions. He was very nice and didn't rush me. He made feel very comfortable. Then he had me go into one of the rooms to get undressed.He checked me out suggested that I become a C cup and took pictures/ notes. They submitted to my insurance which they denied. My primary doctor and PS corresponded about my condition and she really wanted me to have the surgery. So I kind of gave up but she gave me a pep. talk about not giving up and how I would benefit from the surgery during one of my visits to her for a follow up on my physical therapy treatments. So towards the end of Oct.2011 I had the option to switch HMO's, so I did. I got in touch with the lady who work with getting pre auhro.'s at the PS office and asked her if she could resubmit all my documents again after Nov. 1, 2011.....So...this past Friday(11/25/2011)I went to check the mail.....and their was a letter I thought was about my son but IT WAS THE APPROVAL LETTER!!!! I just screamed YES! YES! I immediately called my mom lol.But I was so happy words can't express how I feel I been wanting this done like over 10years now. The office was closed due to the holiday but I will be calling the PS office first thing in the morning!!!! I know I sound desperate but I am so ready to be healed from all this pain and to get some kind of confidence back... So I will keep you guys posted on the scheduled day of surgery!!! Please feel free to give me any advice, comments, tips, or motivation/inspiration!!

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Philip L. Sonderman, MD

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I got the call today!!! I am so excited and...

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I got the call today!!! I am so excited and nervous. My Scheduled Day is..... Dec. 8,2011 @ 7:30am!!! I will keep everyone posted!!

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November 29, 2011
wow so happy for you! i am in the same boat with ya girl. I have had big ones ever since 2nd grade and I really feel like i should have done this about 10 yrs ago. I am waiting on my approval and there have been obstacles(paperwork getting shuffled around and not sent to insurance in timely manner) but my insurance has my info and is hopefully brewing up an approval....wish me luck!
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November 29, 2011
Hey Cutiepieme... Thank you I am so excited and relieved!I had some obstacles in the beginning myself so I know how you feel. I really hope you hear some good news soon!! I will keep you posted and hopefully you will do the same! Good luck!!!
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November 29, 2011
yay! first congrats! and second, you are 3 days after me! will you be going in for a preop appointment? i didn't as i just got the call from the hospital 2 weeks ago and i just see the PS the morning of the surgery. does it feel like you are running out of time to get your stuff in order? especially with the kids, i feel i am about a week behind schedule but that's just with everyday stuff lol, now with the surgery thrown in there i feel UBER behind schedule!!!
keep us up to date! i am finding just randomly jotting down thoughts everyday on my review is helping relieve the pent up mind jumble!
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November 29, 2011
Hey tawlie... Thank you!!Wow are you nervous???No I don't have a prep op appointment either all they have said so far is they will be sending me an info packet out and that I should be at the hospital at 5:30am and that I am going to be the first surgery of that day at 7:30am. As far as feeling like time running out... No not at this point cause I am a planner so I got it all mapped out. I am sure I will feel overwhelmed this weekend cause I am going try to get everything in order and done by this weekend. I have a few things that I have planned for Monday and Tuesday after that I plan to TRY to relax until the big day lol. I do have a sitter planned cause I have a total of 6 children... 3 in school and 3 at home!! Yes, I am always busy lol. But my older ones will assist me that day later on. If you was wondering their ages they are 14,11,8,4, and 2 1/2 year old twins. I found out my approval and surgery date just within the last few days so I am still in shock but I will definitely keep everyone posted and updated on my thoughts and feeling. I wish you luck also and hope to hear from you soon.
November 30, 2011

I am so excited for you!!!   That's wonderful your new insurance  is going to cover you!    

The size C cup is a perfect size and I know you will feel so much better after the reduction.  I honestly felt like a new woman the minute I sat up in recovery.  You will have the energy of Tigger and want to bounce...LOL

You will do absolutely fine and your older children can really help you out with the little babies.  As long as you rest and don't lift anything for the first month you will do well.  Did the doctor give you any idea of how much he will remove?  

I am excited to follow you on this journey:)  

I love seeing more Wisconsin ladies on the site.  

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November 30, 2011
Thank you so much Kimmers25!! Yes, they will be a big help like they always are...lol I hope that I will have energy of Tigger lol Yes I plan on following all orders that he give me. I take this very serious because I know that I must take of me so that I can take of my children...so that won't be a problem. And no he did not give an idea of how much will be removed but maybe I can ask him before he performs the surgery! But honestly I seen him for my consult this summer so it is possible he may have or may not, I don't recall. I was also excited to see that you was Wisconsin also. If you have anymore advice or tips please feel free. I need all I can get...and I will def. share my journey and as much info. as I can so maybe I can help someone who is or will be in my shoes later on down the line or whenever... Thank you again!!
December 2, 2011

Here you go...some info for you:

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December 2, 2011
Thank you so much Kimmer!!!
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November 30, 2011
wow you have your hands full girlfriend! thats a blessing to have all those helping hands...;) As for my approval I got news today that the dr i have been patiently waiting on doesn't even perform the BR surgery at the hospital my insurance covers...but i was prepared. I just happened to make another appt with another PS today and they can do my surgery on the date i need it...right before christmas....i was soooo upset right before walking in my other consult and left out so happy and pleased with the dr and the staff. I am going to start my own page with info that i am going through and how to help others not make the mistakes ive made. Thank u for sharing also!!
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November 30, 2011
@cutiepieme... Yes I do lol but I do have some helping hands I must admit. Well I am glad to here you got good news that out did the bad!! So what do you have to do now as far as transferring the approval to the other PS? Or do you have to do anything at all? I noticed that you stay in Memphis... My mother lives there also. Which is cool to know someone where you live! And what date will you have now... U welcome I will keep sharing my experiences here with everyone.. wish you luck Hun!!
November 30, 2011
Wow, your surgery date was set really fast. That's great, you don't have to think about it for months like I did. I'm so glad you are this excited about the BR, because, it is such a life changer. I feel so much younger. The back pain made me feel so old, and the heavy breasts made me NOT want to be active, because, well, it hurt having those suckers bounce around all the time!!! I have four boys, 14,12,5 and 4. I thought I was a busy mom. I can't imagine throwing twins into that mix. Those kiddos of yours are going to keep you young!! So, it's a good thing the new you will feel 100% better after getting rid of that baggage. Lol. I went from a DDD to a C, and i have so much more energy, and most importantly, no more pain bringing me down. You are giving yourself the ultimate Christmas present. I am so very happy for you. Good luck, follow the dr's orders, get your rest, and get ready to meet the new, and improved, you. :)
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November 30, 2011
Hello Dallas3174.... Yes it was approved and set so fast I have not absorbed it all in yet lol. Wow, your boys are around my kids age minus the twins lol...And about the twins that was a surprise and shock to me and for me lol!!!I couldn't even imagine having twins before they came but they are my little blessings. I can't wait to feel better with no back/ shoulder pain!! Also I could use some more energy.. I totally hope this will be my ultimate Christmas gift and much needed one at that...And ThANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I will definitely follow his orders and if you have anymore advice please do share and stay in touch!!!
UPDATED FROM Nenee098

Well... I have about 8 more days until my surgery!...

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Well... I have about 8 more days until my surgery! I have been researching alot and getting advice from a lot of people whom has had this surgery, which is Great!! My sleeping habits has been crazy because I am very excited! But I did have a feeling of nervousness come over me last night as laid down for bed....I think the closer it gets I will become more nervous because I never had any major surgeries before.... I called to my PS's assistant this evening with just questions I had cause I have not received my info. packet yet but they have mailed out already.. Well I am about to go to the store to get things that I need for after my surgery. I like to be prepared lol! I will continue to keep you posted about how I feel each day before and after surgery!

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November 30, 2011
Congratulations on your approval! I'm sure you are going to love the results! I had my surgery in May and I love my new perky boobs! Your recovery is going to be tricky with the little ones----no lifting for a month! Please keep us updated.
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November 30, 2011
Hey Seven7686...Thank you!! I really hope I do love the results!! I have read that everyone really love and like their new boobs!! But yeah it is gone to be very tricky with the little ones especially the twin boy cause he a little momma's boy at times and likes he to hold him at times. But I have faith that I will make it without injury..lol! I will definitely keep you guys posted!!!!