3 Kids 1 Graduating, Now Ready to Spoil Me! - Miami, FL

Like all of you here I put wants behind the needs...

Like all of you here I put wants behind the needs of my children. I am blessed and proud to say one is graduation University, # 2 is year 2 and the baby is legal to work which equals more money for mommy to do what mommy wants lol! I had D's when pregnant but now flabby C. I am getting back to the happier sexier me
Working out, praying and smiling more. Raising kids is hard work lol. I did some research and will be heading Miami as it is cheaper than Canada. I want to do gel and still haven't decided on the teardrop or round.
I wish I could say I have a lot of support but to be honest this site will be my support team I you all will have me. My family are in the medical field so they are totally against it but then again they all have bigger breast than me lol.
Thank you for reading and have a positive day

June 27th the BIG day- Literally!

I'm heading to Miami on the 25th and Dr. Ortega will be performing my surgery on the 27th. Because of a few positive reviews and my research on his 25 years experience I decided to go with him.
I am nervous and scared but overall super excited.
Now the BAD news- my hubby can't go with me as he is a teacher and school finishes that same day.
My family are still not sure why I want to do this but I don't care - it's that mean to say?
They say strangers are sometimes your best sounding board so you guys may see me in here A LOT. Lol

A week away and a minute short of a breakdown

Hey ladies
It has been awhile and next week will be my BA surgery. I'm a bit nervous and getting scared at the same time.
Some of you may remember I told you my hubby can't go but the good news is my awesome niece will come with me so I won't be alone after all:)
I have been having a few negatives in my week and Im trying to do my best not to let it affect me but: I've noticed I have gained a bit of weight and I can't find any pictures lately that are not scaring me. I am also have a hard time finding bras for post -op. My blood work still hasn't reached the US. How do stay positive and not cave? Oh I almost forgot to mention my 14yr old will now be living with his father as I yesterday because I found weed in his bag and he has been kicked out of private school for cheating.... How the hell do you cheat in religion class?!?! Sorry I know off topic but honestly I'm here typing and I just ha to get it off my chest before I break down.
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I just saw some of the photos you posted. Was hoping that wasn't your wish pick lol How many days post op are you? Did the patient coordinator call you? You might want to call then office and ask some of these questions. I felt better getting up and walking around for a bit but needed to rest often. I think that most breast aug patients go through boobie blues. Mine were worse at 2 weeks but started early on. Kind of depressing sitting around. It does get better but takes some time to get through it. Hope you feel better soon and post some updates!
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Hope all goes well on your surgery today!!
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Hey Coco, can they fax your lab instead as mine was fax . I did the text and the results were faxed in two days. That is an option just in vase it is not there before you leave. Keep your head up, everything has a way of working out
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I think my doctor is doing that but he said there was stuff on the list that Canadian doctors need so he sent me to a lab so it's 3rd party I now have to wait for them to send to my doctor.
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Hi Coco, what size are you thinking of going to? Aren't you super duper excited about this next step?! I'm happy to read that you're going to have your niece to take care of you, how long will you stay in Miami before heading back to your home town? Hope you get a decent amount of time to rest. About your child cheating... Well... It was religious studies and when will he really need that in his practical every day life unless he was planning a life in the church? He's at an age when he's testing the limitations of things and honestly, there are a lot worse things that he could do. As long as he feels regretful of it, I think it's good to take it with a grain of salt. Don't stress too much and focus on the great journey you're giving yourself xx
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Thank you Sommar and thank you for all your updates. It gives me something to focus on so my child can still breath- lol
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Hehe thanks x hope you're not too hard on him or yourself :)
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Ugh teenagers..I'll never forget the day I found a rolled joint in my then 15 year olds room..I took it a step further and told her my younger daughter ate it..scared the living shit out of her..our kids are gonna experiment with many different limits in life,it's our job to kick then in the ass and catch them if we can..this to shall pass lady..on the bright side your gonna get fabulous new breast in just a few days!! You deserve it, enjoy your trip enjoy your new body..everything usually falls into place xoxoxo
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Ms.Fine Thank you I wish I thought of your idea lol. Thank you for the positive words
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I couldn't agree more with you and the community. Regardless of your family's medical background, how are larger breasted women allowed to judge you? You have raised three kids (mine are 15, 13 and 11,) and it's a lot of work. Glad you're doing this for yourself...you deserve it. We're here for you all the way so keep us posted and update us often!
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You won't regret it! Bummer about your hubby though. I never told my family because it was none of their business and it's been nice to just have something for just me.
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Good for you, it's an exciting journey. This website has been invaluable to me!!
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I had a hysterectomy 11 years ago. It was radical, meaning she took everything, did not leave ovaries behind. Did you keep your ovaries? From what I have read, the tear drop results are better on very small frames without much tissue. There is a higher percentage of them rotating which means surgery to correct. I love your wish boobs. I can't see why you wouldn't be able to get them. If I were you, I would take a pic of them with me and show him that's what you want. I know what you mean about lack of support only because I lost my mother, sister and best friend. If they were here, I would have had the best cheerleaders in town! But I did have my daughter. She encouraged and supported me through the whole process and then nursed me. Can hubby fly down after school?
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Congrats on finally doing somthing for yourself!! I too know exactly what that's like!! I have 3 children and a hubby so 4 children lol. You'll love your new breasts!! It really is life changing!! Can't wait to see your jeorney :) xoxo
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It is so ridiculously expensive here in Canada. Flew to Atlanta to get mine done..no regret..do your research amd all will be well. Saving for my tummy tuck for January. .:
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Ya I'm going to do mine next year too. It will be easy as they can go through the same spot as the hysterectomy scare. Thank you for sharing and please let me know when you do yours
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I think your wish pic is very achieveable. How are you healing from your hysterectomy? I had my breast augmentation on 22 April and had similar breasts to yours. My results are very natural looking.
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Congrats on taking the big step! I am in the medical field and I too am always sacrificing for my children. Including my figure, which used to be pretty good . When my dad passed away last year, I received a small sum of money. My family encouraged me to use it for something for myself. Since I did not have a lot of money I had to do tons of researched and go very budget friendly. I refused to sacrifice quality due to lack of money. Now we laugh and say I have Tijuana titties. Be sure to do your research!! Look at lots if pictures so u can show your ps what your idea of perfect is. Also be sure to check in what the ps revision policy is. I also took arnica pills and bromelin on the advice of my ps and it helped a ton. My dad always loved big boobies, so I know he would live the fact that I spent this money in this way. Do you have a date yet? Are u going for a more natural look? Or like porn star titties. I did not want mine to be overly large. Do u have a lift too? Are u going over or under ?
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I just realized your post op, breast looks great and a tummy tuck too- I'm saving up for that one!
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Sorry for your loss Melodysweet and I am glad you did something to make you happy first- we moms forget how to do that so good for you. I booked last night so my journey now has an official day and DR. I am going for the natural look
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