I have loved going through this website and...
I have loved going through this website and following all you lovely, brave ladies on your amazing journey to the Flat Side. I have been debating whether or not to start my own story on here. Mainly because I was so nervous to post my "before" pictures. I can't believe I have posted them.... ugh! I can't even stand to look at myself in the mirror let alone share them with the world. But I have received so much information and tips that I wanted to contribute, so here I go!
My surgery is scheduled for Monday morning. I have been so excited for the last two months, but am now starting to get nervous. I have down so much reading about what to expect, tips and preparation, but I still feel so unprepared.
Less than 9 hours to go! I am so nervous I can't sleep!
Since the pictures didn't upload last time, I'm going to try again. Hopefully they will work this time.
I know I should already be sleeping, but I can't get my mind to stop pacing. Trying to prepare things ahead of time for my husband to make it easy as possible for him. I keep reading and re-reading the pre-op and post-op instructions, praying that I haven't forgotten anything. I took the Volume (sp?) over an hour ago. I wish it would have just knocked me out. Did anyone else have problems with the Volume not working? Did their doctors recommend anything else?
Thanks for the support and I'm looking forward to joining you all on the Flat Side soon!
3 days last op with new pic
Sorry it has taken so long to update, I have been sleeping most of the day. Pain has been pretty tough, but I'm keeping up on the pain meds, which helps. I still can't believe what I see when I look in the mirror. It doesn't rain look like me at all. That's all I can write now, my eyes are staying to get blurry.
1st post-op check up with doctor today
The hour car ride there and back was the worst part. Every turn or bump hurt. Doctor said everything is looking great. He told me that he "delivered two 8 pound kids that day" I had no idea what he was talking about (I'm blaming these pain meds) But he told me that he took 16 pound of flesh and fat from just the front! Crazy!
I haven't been able to take a picture of my back, but I am anxiously awaiting to see what that looks like.
I was teasing my doctor today and asked if he forgot to do my thighs since I didn't notice any difference. He laughed and said that my thighs are even bigger than when I started. He said they will stay large and swollen for 4-6 weeks. That seems like a long time, but I was just glad to be told they will go disk a lot more!
I promise I will try to get better at taking pictures. Right now I can't stay up very long.
Thanks for all the support and we'll wished, it means a lot!
I finally understand "swell hell"
After all this reading for months, I kept hearing the term "swell hell". I never fully understood it until now. I feel like two complete different halves of people. Like I have been cut in half and put back together, but they mixed part off me up with someone else. My midsection is so swollen and huge, I feel like I am going to pop! I know that the swelling last for a long time but I'm looking forward to just a little relief.
My doctor told me that he wanted me to shower daily. My mother in law (who is like a mother to me) is taking care of me and doing an amazing job. But even though we have been so close for 13 years now, I can honestly tell you that it is sooooo weird to have your mother in law get you naked and help wash you. But you have to just surrender your self to the help. If anything this will make us
I also wanted to add that I can answer any questions you might have or want to ask. If you don't want to make it public, feel free to private message me.
Thanks for the continuing support and kind words!
one week update
I can't believe it's been one week already! I've been able to start doing little things by myself now. My biggest accomplishment is that I can make it to the bathroom all by myself! Pain is diminishing, still get really sore after waking around. My incision stings
every now and then. Like pins and needles. PS said it's normal. I got one drain taken out today, it was such a relief! I get my second one taken out tomorrow, I'm so excited! I'll finally be able to pull up and keep up my pants!
1 month update!
It's been 4 weeks, but it feels like it's been 4 months! This week was the first time that I have been able to take back 100% of my motherly and wifely duties. Up until now, I could do a little here and there, but after being up on my feet for a bit, I would start getting really sore.
I am mostly upright for the most part. I still feel like I hunch over a lot. Because of the swelling, I am still really tight, and it can be uncomfortable to stand upright because it pulls on my stitches a bit. Speaking about the stitches, I am all the way sealed up, except for one spot on my incision (picture attached). That little spot has been a pain. It still oozes. So I have to still clean it twice a day and keep it covered. Instead of getting the expensive scar treatment cream, I decided to just use bio-oil. I LOVE the placement of my incision. Every pair of underwear and swim wear I have tried on has COMPLETELY my incision. My doctor told me to bring a pair of undies or bikini bottom on the day of surgery that I typically wear (or would dream of wearing someday). He then made my scar so that it would always be hidden. LOVE IT!
My biggest pain right now is the swelling. I remember reading everyone's reviews, talking about "swell hell". Not only is it discouraging when you are looking in the mirror. But for me, it is painful. I feel like a water balloon about to pop! I love my result now, but my doctor said that I am still totally swollen and I will continue to go down in size. Like I said above, it feels like it's been 4 months of recovery, but I am only 4 weeks out! I didn't attach a picture, because I forgot, but I have seen no change in my thighs. That has been really discouraging. Has anyone else had lipo of the thighs? How long did it take for you to see results? My doctor told me that you actually swell up larger than you came, and I will eventually go down and see results. So I'm excited about that!