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Mommy Makeover Sept 7th - Massachusetts

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Spent: $7,000 in Massachusetts

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Updated 2 Nov 2011

Posted 22 Aug 2011

Hi everyone! I can't tell you how happy I am to have come upon this site! I am a NERVOUS wreck! I have had 2 c sections and gained weight with each child as they both were over 10 lbs. I have always had large breasts, even as a teen. But once the kids came along, well you know the rest. I am 46 years old and have kept off 43 lbs for 4 years. My breasts feel like 2 grapefriuts in a pair of nylons, and after 2 c sections, appendix removal, and tubal ligation, my stomach is a mess of excess skin & absolutely no muscle tone. I am a 40 DDD now and although I dislike them very much, I am terrified of looking like an overweight man when all is said and done. But my ps assures me that he will start conservative, and make sure I will look in porportion. I figure getting my belly smaller will help in the apperance as well. I am also so scared of the recovery from the surgery. I am a hairstylist and worry about recovery time. But eveyones story here has been so inspirational, I just had to share my fears and am in hopes there maybe someone out there with words of wisdom for my situation?! Thank you all so much who have shared already. Your words are truly inspirational!



Updated on 31 Aug 2011:
Hi all! So the hospital called to get my pre admissions questions in! I'm so nervous, excited, guilty. All these crazy thoughts going through my head. I know it's not good for my recovery for all this worry, but I can't help it. I am 100% confident in my PS as we have been consulting on this for 3 years! He has been so good and patient and is confident that I will be thrilled with the results. It's just the getting there for me that is making me a wreck! I must say, I am loving reading all these stories from you ladies. Thank you!

Updated on 2 Sep 2011:
Hi all, Another question. I am a hairstylist but have cleared my schedule for a full 2 weeks. I am concerned about the lifting of my arms for blow drying and cutting. How much discomfort should I expect? Any advice from fellow stylists would be great! Thanks in advance!

Updated on 10 Sep 2011:
Hi all. Well day 3 post op here. Feel really good except for the sore back from being hunched over. I had to stay an extra day in hospital as my bladder wasn't working. Ugh. My breast look small from this angle, down. LOL But compared to what they looked like before, no wonder. I'm holding off looking in a full length mirror as that is upstairs in my room and I'm on the couch in LR. My hubby and daughter say they look great! so I will take their word for it. Just wanted to check in and say thank you for all the well wishes and kind words. :)

Updated on 23 Sep 2011:
Well it's been 2 weeks and I finally had my last drain out today! I feel like a new woman! Started back to work as a hairstylist Tuesday. Man was I beat. But felt great to be back. Almost standing up straight now. LOVE my binder and don't know what I'll do when I don't need to wear it anymore. It gives me such a sense of security! I can't get it on quick enough once I'm out of the shower. I love my new body. Love not having the overwhelming, large breast weighing on my back. I can sit at a restaurant booth now without having to slide the table over to hubby. Can drive with my arms by my side, stand with good posture, don't wake up with back pain, and can see my lap! LOL EVERYONE is commenting on their disbelief in how fast my recovery seemed as I was back to work in 13 days, and moving around albeit slowly, but freely. I tell them all, and I will tell anyone about to embark on this journey for themselves. It was all due to the incredible support from my family I received. I didn't do a thing but rest for 13 days straight! Yes, I was bored of tv, books, mags, but I know that was the key to my recovery so quick. My biggest worry was shuffling to and from bathroom, and showering. My kids eve set their alarms to take turns waking me for my midnight meds. I know it is not feasible for everyone to have the same situation. But honestly, try to rest and do very minimum to let your body heal! I hope my experiences have helped, as the ones I have read previous to my surgery helped me! Thank you all so much for your support and kind words. If I get brave enough, I will post pictures!

Updated on 2 Nov 2011:
Hi Ladies! Well almost 2 months post op. Feel great and so glad I did it! I am still amazed when I pass a mirror and don't see the extra "baggage" on me! My breast are PERFECT! I was so worried about them being too small for my frame,but they have settled nicely. And my belly..yay! I love how it all looks natural. Just minus the excess skin! So happy I did it! if I could give any advice, it would be make sure you have a good feeling about your surgeon. Mine wasn't warm fuzzy, but he was great at making me feel confident in him. Also, you need to REST! I can't stress that enough. I was back on my feet as a hairstylist 1e days after my op and felt fine. But I know it was due to the incredible amount of support from my family. The most I had to do for 12 days was shuffle to the bathroom, then back to the couch. It made all the difference in my recovery time for sure! Be well, and good luck on your journeys! :)

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Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 23 Aug 2011

Grapefruits in nylons..LOL.  Now that is a new one to me.  Too funny.

You will do just fine and end up with the body you have wanted for a long time.  Just remember that all of the pain is temporary and the results are worth it.  

Go easy on yourself, rest, let others clean the house and just take care of yourself.  You get this one chance to heal properly so do it right in the beginning.  This is a recovery that can't be rushed.  

I look forward to reading your posts and seeing your pictures! 

DeeMarie 24 Aug 2011
Thanks for your kind words! Pain is temporary. I will keep that in my head, thank you! I see I posted this to the reviews instead of forums. Oops, I'm going to post it in the proper section! Thank you again for the support! I love this site and am so looking forward to going over every inch of it! :)
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 24 Aug 2011

Keep reading up:)  We have some excellent support and resuorces on RealSelf.

waiting to exhale 25 Aug 2011
welcome Dee congrats on your wieght loss and you will kind all the women are a great help here!
DeeMarie 25 Aug 2011
Yes Kimmers, I have been reading till my eyes ache! This is such a fantastic website! Can't believe what luck I had finding it right before my surgery! Thanks for the welcome Waiting! Yes, you are all a great help!
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 25 Aug 2011

Well I am glad you are here with us:)

mom_me 25 Aug 2011
Welcome DeeMarie! Your date isn't far off so this is a great time to find this site! We are all cheering for you and the new gals making their dreams come true too. How much time will you get off work?
DeeMarie 26 Aug 2011
Thank you Mom_me! I am so nervous! The guilt factor is weighing on me huge right now. Daughter in college, recession etc. So I'm having a hard time focusing. I have 2 weeks off right now. More if I need it. I'm a cosmetologist so I can rearrange my schedule. I'm hoping I won't need more than 2 weeks though. I'll start easy once I do return to work as not to overdue it.
waiting to exhale 26 Aug 2011
@ Dee I know anothe Gal cuts hair she took it easy rested well after she started back you will find so many great tips here.
DeeMarie 30 Aug 2011
Hi all! So the hospital called to get my pre admissions questions in! I'm so nervous, excited, guilty. All these crazy thoughts going through my head. I know it's not good for my recovery for all this worry, but I can't help it. I am 100% confident in my PS as we have been consulting on this for 3 years! He has been so good and patient and is confident that I will be thrilled with the results. It's just the getting there for me that is making me a wreck! I must say, I am loving reading all these stories from you ladies. Thank you!
waiting to exhale 31 Aug 2011
lOL THIS IS ALL NORMAL i AM SO FAR AWAY FROM MY DATE AND i AM ALL THAT NOW!
DeeMarie 1 Sep 2011
Ugh. I have been an emotional rollercoaster lately. I feel so badly for my family! I'm hoping that once the surgery is done and I'm in my own home recovering, I'll mentally be feeling so much better and not as confused, worried, guilty, anxious, sick to my stomach, excited....
waiting to exhale 1 Sep 2011
You know what Dee sweetie I was like this yesterday too I was doing the math the money being a single mom of 4 and my BF said to me so politely in a text Ma one time one time you are thinking about your self dont worry you still have years to take care of kids.....I was like I know but I am a doing this alone... He said stop ok you have researched and I personally have looked at so many good and bad boobies and tummies I am goin to hold you accountable! Then after that I thought to my self jst this once in this 15 years(my eldest age) I am 33 now I am going to do this for me ok ok I got this.... lmfao I am sure in 2 weeks I am going to go through it again but its normal hun! That what mommies do!
DeeMarie 1 Sep 2011
Thanks so much for the kind words! Your BF is so right! My hubby is so supportive as well and so are my kids(22&20), but I can't shake these feelings. I am so nervous about how my boobs will look when all this is done. Too small? Not enough taken out? Lifted too much? Do I look like a fat man now? Ugh. Then there are the TT worries! Did he take out enough? Do I have a belly button? Do I look like a fat man now? But I have tried so hard to find similar shapes in the pictures and they all look so beautiful. My head is a whirlwind and only six days to get it together! But for now, I'm just trying to exhale...... Thanks ladies :)
waiting to exhale 2 Sep 2011
Dee sweetie I can honestly say I know how you feel.... um my pics are ugly I hate them but I posted because it was something I needed to do! Ladies tend to compare so I had too lol! You can exhale =) just dnt forget to inhale too=) I am nuts with all this info so it will be alright this is normal hun! I am going crazy thinking will I be able to get lipo because of all my excessive skin! hahah so we can exchange thoughts hehehe.... Too bad I didnt get a penny for all mine!
DeeMarie 4 Sep 2011
Ah if we had gotten pennies, we would all be muli-millionaires for sure! I have just finished a weekend full of nesting. Although I don't know why as in a few hours it will all be dirty again! LOL I just can't seem to calm down at all. It's all nervous energy. My mind is spinning. I am a hairstylist and I am so worried that 2 weeks will be ok to go back to work. I set my schedule light, but still I need the money. (Don't we all) I am in the home stretch now as surgery is Wednesday! I just want it to be Friday already. Where I'll be home, safe, healthy, medicated and exhaling! But until then, did I mention I'm a WRECK!
cottonmomma (RealFriend) 5 Sep 2011
Good luck on the 7th!! Here's to a speedy recovery & see ya on the other side!!
waiting to exhale 5 Sep 2011
you ready Dee tomorrow is your big day!
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 5 Sep 2011

We will all be thinking about you tomorrow and sending happy thoughts and hugs your way.

DeeMarie 5 Sep 2011
Oh thank you all so much! Keep them coming as I have till Wednesday and I am so nervous, yet excited! I think I'm ready. Picked up scripts, family is all ready, clients rescheduled till 2 weeks, I just need to speak with my PS who has been on vaca last week! Hubby says that's good as he will be all refreshed! I am such a wreck, my warped cloudy thoughts are saying, "Um, no, he will be wishing he's back on the beach instead of working hard to make sure my grapefruits in nylons don't end up like man boobs!" Ugh....But thank you for the support and kind words! Please, keep those well wishes and good thoughts coming and I will for sure post how I will be doing! Thanks to you all! :)
waiting to exhale 12 Sep 2011
Ok dee how are you today how are you feeling! Taking it easy I hope all is well!
DeeMarie 13 Sep 2011
Hi ladies! I posted a comment a few days ago, but don't see it. Of course, I may have been a bit unfocused and not done something right :) 6 days post op and I'm feeling well. Can't stand up straight, and as I have read, back hurts from that now. From large breast back pain, to this. LOL But it's ok. I came home with 4 drains and had 2 removed yesterday! Hopefully the other 2 will come out tomorrow. Pain is minimum. Of course I have my binder on and hospital bra so that is making me feel so much more secure. I am sooo bored! My family is incredible and I have nothing to do but focus on getting better. I truly am so blessed. I'm not sure what size my breasts are as the full length is upstairs and I haven't tackled those yet, but when I look down, they look so good! As hubby and I were driving to dr yesterday, I commented on how I could see my lap when sitting now! Thank you all for the kind words and well wishes!
waiting to exhale 13 Sep 2011
Ahhh Dee you made me want to cry because I know that not being able to see my dang seat belt let alone my lap feeling! Ahhh sweet victory!
Fridab 29 Nov 2011
Hi DeeMarie...hope all is well. Could you provide the name of your PS? I am looking for a doctor for a mommy makeover in Massachusetts as well!
waiting to exhale 13 Sep 2011
I am glad you are feeling well!4 drains and 2 down yay! So bord lol I have my days all set up with my bf he has 4 game system a bookshelf of movies net flix and a shelf of books and why do I suddenly feel this is not going to entertain me I dunno! lol!

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