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TT October 5th looking forward to the second half of the make over

Name: TT October 5th looking forward to the second half of the make over
Item: Tancredi F. D'Amore, MD (retired)
Rating: 5
Author: Nicks Mom

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I am 47 and I had my wonderful son at 41 and it...

Nicks MomMarch 2, 2011

WORTH IT$13,800

I am 47 and I had my wonderful son at 41 and it can take a toll on you at that age when you gain an impresive 70lbs and have a 10.2lb baby.

I just kind of gave into my aged body and was trying to deal with the big change, but was approved and covered to have my breast reduced by insurance so I thought why not do both at once. TT/ Breast reduction with some lipo to even things out.

I am so happy to have found this site to read, learn and be prepard for the surgery.

I tend to over think everything so this is going to get worse before it gets better. I am doing my best to stay calm but it is going to be a roller coaster. I am not as worried about the pain as I am the anestisia(did i spell that right?) and not waking up or getting a clot....and when I DO wake up and being in so much pain not being able to snuggle with my son in the mornings when he comes to our room. I don't want to scare him or for him to pass the stage of wanting to be with Mommy while I am healing He is the BEST THING in the world. Ill post photos later.

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Replies (8)

shanon0307

March 3, 2011

san Francisco, I think alot about not being able to hold my 3 year old I have been talking with him about mommy getting the "pizza dough" belly cut off and telling him he cant just come jump on me. Im sure gonna miss having him on my lap everynight but I'm sure time will fly and then we will be all healed up and glad we did it :). looking forward to your pics. Good luck and keep us posted

Nicks Mom

March 4, 2011

I just hope he does not grow up too fast while recovering. I know I have a small window then he will not want to hug on mommy, cause he is a big boy. His hugs the best thing in the world.

Angie_M

March 3, 2011

Aw, 6 is such a cute age! He was a healthy weight, wasn't he? Yes, that can do a number on your bod. I'm glad you're able to get your body back, though. That's fabulous. If you get a chance, you might want to read JenBob's 10 Things I Wish I'd Known About A Mommy Makeover.

I've also started a Facebook page called Moms Who Want Their Bodies Back where we discuss everything from plastic surgery to healthy recipes and exercise.

I hope you find lots of support on RealSelf! We're here for you.

Nicks Mom

March 4, 2011

Thank you for the help. I am having a hard time getting around the site on my iPad. Not able to load photos from iPad ? But love this sight it's been very helpful and insightful.
Thanks

Proud Mommy

March 15, 2011

San Francisco, I decided to read your post after you've commented on mine. I understand how you feel, and I definetely would like to talk to you more about what to expect with interaction with your son after the surgery. That was one issue I under estimated on....

Proud Mommy

March 15, 2011

By the way, keep in mind I'm 10 weeks post op and my kids can get on my lap, but have to be very careful with movement and applying pressure to the stomach area. It's still kind of numb and sensitive.

Nicks Mom

March 15, 2011

Hello, thank you for letting me ask all these question. I think I am doing the right thing by starting to ask questions early. My son is ALL boy and likes to play and run and jump to me. It is going to be hard to tell him he can't. I also work full time and for the most part am the bread winner. My husband helps alot so I will get help from him with my son. I guess there will be alot of just wait and see. I will go back to work in 10-14 days but will be able
To work from home for 2 weeks after
That. I am trying to get my son ready for this, but you know the memory of a 6 year old? I am just wince when I think he is going to jump on me. I hope you are feeling better every day.

mamas4boys

March 19, 2011

Hey, I just wanted to say "good for you!" in deciding to take this journey! It's so important to feel good about ourselves, especially after having a baby! I can understand your concern when it comes to the recovery & having a child to take care of at the same time!
I have 4 boys under the age of 4 years old, and I'm only 2 wks post op! I don't have any family or help, other than my husband, plus we have a puppy! It's been quite an adventure! lol Anyway, if there's any way I can help you or make you feel better about the whole process, let me know!! Good luck to you!!

UPDATED FROM Nicks Mom

2 months pre

Did anyone have quilting stitch with one drain?

Nicks MomMarch 17, 2011

Did anyone have quilting stitch with one drain?

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Debbie8634

March 27, 2011

Best of luck to u on your upcoming surgery.

I just had a mini tt this past Tues. My kids are older now so they are old enough to understand my decision/surgery.

I did have a breast aug when they were very young....Let's see.....2, 2, and 3. I was absolutely desperate to repair my empty water balloons. They were horrible. Everything worked out ok. I had Grandparents come in who helped in every way. I actually stayed in a hotel for the first night because that was the worst and my husband was fetching me ice packs all night long. In your case, you may be in a hospital? Your son will understand when you say "mommy has a boo boo". Maybe mark on a calender as a countdown to when u can pik him up. You will find ways to cuddle. I understand. It's all overwhelming enough and we worry most about how our decisions impact our children. But I promise, he will be no worse off...

Best of luck and keep me posted.

Nicks Mom

March 27, 2011

Thanks for the response. I think he will be fine it's me that is going to have the issues. :) I am so very nervous, I hope I'm doing the right thing. I want it but so worried something will go wrong. I have To get those thoughts out of my mind. Did anyone have those thoughts? I think about it all the time.
Ok breath.........I am glad I have this time to relax and go through all the emotions..
Hope you are feeling great and bet you look Fab!

Nicks Mom

March 27, 2011

Middletown7828

April 22, 2011

I had the same thoughts. I think we all do what if I dont wake up what if what if??? I had a mini tummy tuck 10 days ago and I feel great! I was also dissappointed was suppose to have breast lift with augmentation but my mammo showed some cysts that were not there last year soo dr. recommended I wait another 3 -6 months after another mammo. I was soo disappointed but I believe things happen for a reason. Better safe than sorry and your recovery will be less painful each time even though you have to go through it twice Best of luck and enjoy your vacation!

UPDATED FROM Nicks Mom

1 month pre

Well less than 7 weeks to go. Wish I had it done...

Nicks MomApril 4, 2011

Well less than 7 weeks to go. Wish I had it done last year, I'm on my way to Mexico next week and would have loved to wear a 2pc. I am trying to eat right and work out but not doing either very well the last 2weeks. I will try to keep at it while on vacation. I weigh 157 and wish I was 10-15 lbs less before surgery. I might be able to lose 8 before SURG. But will be tough.
Well just needed to put my goals out there and then I might just do it.

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MsWhit

April 5, 2011

My PS used quill sutures but I had no drains.

wannabeskinny

April 5, 2011

may i ask who's your doctor? im from the bayarea too and planning on getting a mommy makeover.

Nicks Mom

April 5, 2011

Doctor McClure in Napa is great. And so is Dr. D'Amore in Marin. What part of the Bay Area are you from?

wannabeskinny

April 6, 2011

im from the east bay benecia

Nicks Mom

April 6, 2011

I would talk to Dr McClure in Napa I thinks he also has a office in Sonoma.

wannabeskinny

April 6, 2011

thanks! ive consulted with one doctor and he's charging me 20,000+
for the procedure i think its too much?

Nicks Mom

April 7, 2011

What are you getting done? I would for sure go see someone else. My first consult wanted 16,000 for breast lift and TT.
I am getting a TT with Lip of the flanks and the sides. My insurence is covering my breast lift. and i am paying 10,800.
$20,000 is alot but need to know what is being done and how much work/time there is.