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Laser Vaginal Rejuvenation

  • posted 4 years ago
  • updated 3 years ago

Best money I ever spent! My husband really didn't...

Best money I ever spent!

My husband really didn't want me to get the surgery. He insisted that I didn't need it. I know things changed a bit after my pregnancies. The main reason I wanted the surgery was the incontinence which is totally gone! My husband is not small..a bit bigger than average..it takes a little more effort for him to get it in and I'm always pretty naturally lubricated.

Its been 7 months since the surgery and he still can't get over the difference. From the outside it looks so much better and I didn't get anything done.

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kjc1216 21 May 2013
I had vaginal rejuvenation surgery on may 9, 2013..it has been 12 days now. (Had it done in Detroit). The day of surgery was not bad, I was just real tired. Day 2 was another story. On my scale of 1-10 the pain was 9. Ice was the only thing that seems to help. Every day it has gotten better and better. I am real nervous about having sex the first time. Right now I can't even imagine it. It seems there are very few women who update their stories about this surgery. Everyone is willing to discuss the surgery and recovery maybe the first time they have sex but not a whole lot more.
bella53 15 Jul 2012
I'm 54 and had my son @ at 41. He was very large10lbs which left me torn bow to stern and with now very bad pprolapsed uterus which hangs into my vagina. Has anyone had this procedure to correct that problem?
Djluv 19 Oct 2012
Can I have you Dr info? I also send u a message with my email...
1JOY 2 Jun 2012
I JUST HAD THIS DONE...THE WHOLE 9 YARDS, PLUS A BREAST LIFT, AND FRAXEL LAZER ON MY FACE....OMG....MY RECTUM HURT ME SO BAD , THE PRESURE WAS UNREAL, AND YES THEN I GOT CONSTAPATED.THAT WAS THE WORST! I THOUGHT I WOULD REALLY DIE. THE PAIN MEDS I WAS TAKING DIDN'T EVEN NUMB MY PAIN....THE BREAST SURGERY AND LAZER SURGERY I HAD...I FELT NO PAIN. I HAD THIS DONE ON MAY 17TH, TODAY IS JUNE 2 AND JUST NOW IN THE LAST COUPLE OF DAYS HAVE I BEEN FEELING ANY RELIEF. WELL I GUES THE HEALING PROCESS IS ON CAUSE NOW I FEEL STINGING AND BURNING AND ITCHING, AND MAYBE NOW HAVE HEMORROIDS FROM THE BOWEL MOVEMENT I HAD THAT ALMOST KILLED ME...TWO OF THEM AS A MATTER OF FACT...HOPE I DID NO DAMAGE.I'LL FIND OUT IN A COUPLE OF DAYS. MY ADVICE IS DON'T HAVE IT DONE UNLESS YOUR SEX LIFE IS REALLY SUFFERING. I'M 51 AND HAD TO THINK LONG AND HARD ABOUT THIS. MY HUSBUND AND I ARE VERY SEXUALLY ACTIVE AND I WAS GETTING NOTHING ANYMORE, NO FEELING AT ALL...SO I PRAY TO GOD THIS IS WORTH IT AND WILL HELP. ALSO MY ADVICE IS ...DO NOT LET YOURSELF GET STOPED UP....I TOOK STOOL SOFTNERS, LAXATIVE'S AND LIQUID SITRATE SO REALLY MY BOWL MOVEMENTS WERE LIKE WATER. THAT WAS THE SMARTEST THING I DID, PLUS NOT EATING BIG MEALS. SO NOW I'M WALKING SLOW HAVING A LITTLE PRESSURE. MY DR. DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT ANY BATHS CAUSE I COULDN'T TAKE SHOWERS FOR A WHILE CAUSE OF THE BREAST LIFT SO I SAT IN VERY HOT WATER WITH EPSIOM SALTS ...NICE.... GET PREPARATION H...RUB IT FROM YOUR BUTT ALL OVER DOWN THERE, YOU WILL BE SUPRISED.GREAT RELIEF. I'M STILL ABOUT 4-5 WEEKS DUE FOR SEX, SO WE WILL SEE. I KNOW THIS STORY WAS LONG, BUT REALLY WANTED TO SHARE. GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE. EXCUSE MY SPELLING AND ALL CAPS, VERY TIRED AND STILL TAKING PAIN MEDS.
Anon06 23 Aug 2012
Thanks for the advices, please keep us posted on the progress.
8205anon 19 May 2012
So .... it's been 2 years ......
(California Doctor)
For the price I paid it was well worth have fun and great sex. Now that it was been two years I wanted to report my findings. Sometimes the sex is really great and at other times it's horrible. I haven't used any toys (he said that would cause it to change) but one of my boyfriends had a huge dick and maybe he messed it up. I want to emphasize that I DONT REGRET having the surgery nor do I regret using him as a doctor but in the beginning the sex was amazing and since i only had 2K to spend it was money well spent. However, If I wasn't hopping around from partner to partner then I probably wouldn't be saying the results didnt last. I plan on saving up for Dr. Matlock. I put myself on his email list again in order to receive the LVR promotions.
GOOD LUCK to you all :)
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Christina's rejuvanation 30 Apr 2012
I had this surgery done in2012.. For me was great. Although, the first time did not hurt like most women, but it felt super tight. And everytime after that has been great. My husband says that the doctor did a great job. My incontinence has been controlled 85 percent but anything is better tHan me not being able to control my bladder. The pain after surgery is horrible ( only for the first 3days).it is mostly the constipation...that bothered me. I hate that there is not so many people or husbands that give there experience after the surgery but I will have my husband post a review real soon, so that you can get another point of view
Daisy224 14 May 2013
Do you have an email address that I can contact you at so we can chat privately? I'm scheduled to have surgery in 2 weeks and I'm very nervous
kjc1216 21 May 2013
I had this surgery done on may 9, 2013. If you'd like to chat my email is kjc7933@AOL.com
515AF 2 Apr 2012
Does anyone have a recommendation for a doctor in the Chicagoland/Northern Illinois area?
MissesT 28 Aug 2011
Thank you so much for sharing this experience. It sounds like after my surgery I might stay away from sex with men with a huge cock though (unless I really fall in love and marry one).
Btw. Don't call yourself a whore with only 3 partners in 1,5 year. That's nothing. You could have had a different one every weekend and that's called enjoying being single. Men don't care, why would we.
LidiaAnna 23 May 2012
MIssesT, EXACTLY! Glad to see a woman with common sense on here :)
8205anon 27 Aug 2011
OK, it’s been one year and five months since my surgery and here are my results. I’ve only had sex a handful of times (about 20 times) with 3 different partners (I know what a whore). Anyway, the first guy was tiny and the next was huge. I was really afraid the second guy surely messed it up for anyone else who would come after him. Well … a few days I had sex with a new man whose penis was very skinny … yes you know what I was thinking … I was worried I wouldn’t feel a thing. However, my pussy gripped it like a glove. It worked!! When I read the other postings it seems as if the surgery that costs 10k stays virgin tight. Well mine is not virgin tight. It’s smaller but not virgin tight. I think if you have one partner then the outcome wouldn’t change. Since I had a guy with a huge penis it kinda left it’s imprint so the skinny penis didn’t feel as tight. However, I want to make it clear that the surgery still worked because before I wouldn’t have even felt such a skinny penis. It was good for both us … (he called for more so it must be good). If you are married and plan on being with the same partner it will remain as tight like the first time after the surgery. And ladies who are single like me who don’t have 10k to blow it’s worth it!
Keyta71 18 May 2012

Hi 8205anon can you please email me your Dr. contact information. k*******l.com

Keyta71 19 May 2012
THANKS A BUNCH!!!
cr8tvgirl 9 Aug 2012
Thank you forsharing. I am 5 wks post op and a little anxious as the guy im seeing is big too. Might be the time to reevaluate our relationship if hes going to christen the ship! :)
newmommy2013 14 Mar 2013
Can you please send Dr's contact info?
MissesT 14 May 2011
Not yet. But I hope I will soon. This can definitely help.
porchia 5 May 2011
has anyone had this surgery to treat a minor systocele after child birth?
MissesT 1 May 2011
Contact Dr. Gary Alter or Dr. Matlock or Dr. Miklos and Moore. They'll be able to help you or at least recommend you the right doctor.
Jennygirl 14 Feb 2013
I would add my doctor Dr Disaia, but he only does the outside....the lips. In that arena he was pretty awesome. :)
heartnoir 1 May 2011
Please someone refer me to a doctor on the West Coast preferably Northern California. I have had issues with air getting trapped in me after childbirth and I am disgusted with my body. My husband wont even touch me he is put off by all the air. I had a natural childbirth with my daughter being only 6lbs. Sex is painful and I am 18 months postpartum. I can't live like this it is ruining my life. Please someone give me the names of good doctors. My OB gave me estrogen cream which didn't help at all he isn't addressing my issue. I need a real professional in this field. Thank You!
Momma2three 4 Mar 2012
That's just sad that your husband is that shallow. It's not as if you can control it. Women's bodies do many more crazy things than men's do. Cut yourself some slack. : )
MissesT 10 Mar 2011
Anywhere is good. I'm willing to travel far for a good doctor :-) (yes, i am desperate)
Sharon at RealSelf (Community Manager) 11 Mar 2011

What about Dr. Gary Alter (you might know him from "Dr. 90210")? I don't know him personally but he does a lot of genital surgeries. He's in Beverly Hills and NYC.

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