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After 2 Kids I Finally Got What I Deserved! - Bronx, New York

Allow me to start by introducing myself. I am a 31...

Allow me to start by introducing myself. I am a 31 yr old married mother of 2 children, 10 & 5 yrs old. I've always been thin all my life. Too thin. I'm 4'11" and weighed, at the time 98lbs and wore a size 0/1.

After having my daughter back in 2003, I gained weight but a nice amount. I went up to a size 3/4 and weighed 110lbs. I was loving my body! It was when I went on birth control, THE DEPO shot, that I started gaining weight rapidly. I went up to a size 9/10 and weighed 145lbs. It was disgusting. I was depressed. I recall nights when I would cry myself to sleep. I felt unattractive and my stomach was gross to me. Just the way "it"would lay beside me like it was my significant other, lol. I knew then that I wanted to look into having a Tummy Tuck. I went to several consultations with various PS's. One that I loved and felt comfortable with was Dr. Michael Gartner in New Jersey. He offered me TT with Muscle Repair and Lipo for $8,000. I was so excited that I immediately applied for Care Credit financial. At the time my credit wasn't great so I was denied the loan and boy was I a mess emotionally. He promised to lock the price for a year or two until I worked on my credit or had the money. I was grateful but still sad. I said in the mean time I'll work my ass off with diet and exercise. I did just that and lost a few pant sizes. I went back down but only to a 5/6 and weighed 125lbs but still had a belly. Anyway, I finally got off of my form of birth control and a year later I became pregnant with my 2nd child. In 2007, I had given birth to my son. Omg, I had HUGE belly for him and he only weighed 7lbs. I know it was because I had a stomach before getting pregnant with him. But after having him I weighed 130lbs. I had an IUD inserted for birth control and said this is it. I'm focused and I'm gonna loose this weight. Since then I've been working out daily and eating 4-5 meals a day.

I currently weigh 136lbs but I do have muscle. I've lost most of my stomach. It's obviously not going any further so I decided to go for my consult at Jacobi Medical Center. For those who don't know, this is a teaching hospital. This means, you get reduced pricing performed by an attending physician while interns (medical students) are assisting. Not a big deal for me! During my consult they spoke with me about my lifestyle as far as my health and fitness. The PS asked me what I'm expecting after the procedure and we discussed the pros and cons of the surgery. I have an appointment for my Labs/Blood work on 3/19 and my surgery/procedure date is 3/25 @7am. YAY!

Btw, I didn't go with Dr. Michael Gartner because of two reasons, 1-the price "lock in" was only 1-2 yrs which had passed and 2-I researched and found out about reduced pricing and we all wanna save money right lol.

I'll keep my TT sisters updated with everything. I'll also post pictures later today. Please feel free to ask any questions you'd like. I'm not shy. Love to all.

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That pic of the TT tat is hot!! Love it because I'm a tattoo kinda gal and I will be getting a belly ring and tat to cover up my scar...Yessss When I come to New York I'm coming to visit u..lbs I'm almost finished with my hello kitty sleeve!
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I'm not having my tt dne until Dec, but I'm in the process of designing my tt tat when my scar heals!
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Ok, thanks for replying. It's tuff because it has to be just right. I've seen thin lines like a belt across a scar and personally, can't stand the way it looks. Good luck on ur journey.

So tomorrow, 3/19 is my Pre-Op @ 9am. I'm excited...

So tomorrow, 3/19 is my Pre-Op @ 9am. I'm excited because this means I'm getting closer to my SX date. Whew! :::butterflies in my stomach::: Well, off to bed I go. Will update tomorrow with details from Pre-Op appointment.

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Good Evening my TT sisters. So this morning was...

Good Evening my TT sisters. So this morning was pre-op. I went into the hospital checked in and sat till my name was called. Once that happened, I sat with the receptionist and that's where she went over my information to see if anything changed as far as my numbers, address, etc. When I was finished with Reception, I sat and waited to be called by a phlebotomist. She walked me all the way to the other side of the hospital (just kidding. But it felt like she did) there is where she took my blood pressure and weight. Afterwards she had me sit and proceeded to take tubes of my blood. 3 tubes to be exact! I then went back to the waiting area and waited for my nurse to call me. During my meeting with my nurse Carmen, she began to ask me a series of questions regarding health change, medications I'm taking, if any, and started to explain about the procedure ie; drains, compression garments, list of supplies. Then she told me the hospital tries to have you leave 2 hrs after procedure but she recommends I stay the 23hrs. So I was relieved to hear that I had the option. Guess what??? I'm staying! She said they will show me how to handle my drains and show me how to get in and out of bed. That's great. Anyway, after I met with her, I met my anesthesiologist. There he explained how I'm going to sleep and how I'll be monitored during my procedure. He explained the risk and complications, which in a healthy person are slim to none. His words. So after meeting with him, I went to finance department where I made my full payment. So now I'm paid up and anticipating 3/25. I forgot to mention at the beginning. The phlebotomist told me that the lab results are in by the end of each day 4:00pm. She said if I don't get a call, everything's ago. If I do, well that means they found something wrong. It's now 5:50 pm and no call. YAYYYYY! So sisters this means I'll be joining the flat side for sure. But I must say part of me still has some doubts tho. It's to good to be true. I feel as if the next few days I might get a call regarding blood. I don't know. I guess this is the norm.

P.S. I posted some pics of my patient package and the surgical sponges I have to bathe/shower with the night before and the morning of.

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I bet your excited!!! Your gonna be soo happy you did this!
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I'm super excited. I hope I will be. I read people go thru these stages of depression.
Hey doll! Anxious to hear how your pre-op went. Hoping they tell you everything you want to hear. Keep us posted :)
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So ladies my original date for SX was for Monday,...

So ladies my original date for SX was for Monday, March 25th. It never happened because of the teaching hospital having burn victims that came in on Friday and needed my surgeon to do skin grafts. So I was told to call this morning to see if I'm on the schedule for Wednesday. I did just that and the lady there tells me "your not on the schedule for Wednesday that's for sure" so I mentioned that when I spoke with the girl from Friday she said if not Wednesday then Friday. This woman tells me "I don't think Friday either but won't know till Thursday. Call me at noon on Thursday" I'm crying over here! I don't know if its a sign that I shouldn't go thru with this. I paid in full already and I feel like just backing out all together and getting my refund. My thought was this, if I'm not on for Friday just cancel! I'm about to get my period I'm cramping badly and today I woke up with my neck and right shoulder in a knot. Ugh! I was informed that if a "priority" case came in Mine would be postponed but I didn't think this many days away. Maybe I'm overreacting! That's the price you pay when you go to a teaching hospital I guess. :(

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I'm scheduled for tomorrow at lexon hill try them..... Good Lucky
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So I just got off the phone with the Hospital and...

So I just got off the phone with the Hospital and they told me that my surgeon hasn't arrived with the list of scheduled Cosmetic procedures. I am a little annoyed with what's going on but at the same time relieved because now that "Aunt Flow" has arrived I can deal with this alone as oppose to dealing with it and the discomfort of a TT. I asked her a question that I was curious about. "Are other cosmetic procedures being postponed too?" I said "I don't want to be lost in the "system" because of what happened." She assured me that in not "lost in the system" that my paperwork is in front of her on her desk and that I'm the first to go in out if the cancellations. So I am no longer a March TT sister but I want to thank all of the March Ladies for their words of encouragement and advice they had to all my questions. I will continue to follow the March Ladies journeys because we did go thru pre op together lol. Best wishes to y'all XOXO

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Hey sweetie, I was just checking to see how you were holding up. I see that you are on for April 3rd! Yay!!!
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Hi Pharma, thanks for checking in. Thats very thoughtful of you. So the 3rd is what they are telling me. It'll be confirmed on Tuesday if its a go. If not then Thursday for Friday the 5th. Apparently the burn victims needed several grafts. The surgeon directly spoke with me yesterday. I was relieved to hear his voice instead of the receptionist or head of plastics. He apologized and said EVERYBODY had been rescheduled. So I'm next and hopefully this week.
so glad to hear you have a possible date...Happy Easter

So, tomorrow is the day! I'm scheduled for 11:40am...

So, tomorrow is the day! I'm scheduled for 11:40am but I have to be there at 9am. I guess at that time I will take a pregnancy test (even tho I have IUD:/) they'll check my vitals and then I get tagged up lol aka my Surgeon making his markings. My husband just said to me, "Jen, tomorrow is the day. Your super calm. Are you ok?" I said to him I guess it's because I was let down so many times during this whole waiting period with the hospital saying, " it's Wednesday. No it's Friday. No maybe next week" it's surreal!

Well I'll keep you ladies updated when possible. The support has been great from all of you. I love this site. Any tips on what to bring to the hospital last minute?

Hugs & Kisses to you all!

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Happy healing , I know your happy its over ! Get plenty of rest can't wait to see your after pics .
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hey hun im sure your resting i just wanted to know did they use staples or stitches
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Wow Congrat Jeni5447!! Glad all went well! Get a of rest,happy healing!!!
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Hello ladies, so last night was my first night...

Hello ladies, so last night was my first night home. I'll get to that in a moment.

So sleeping the first night at the hospital was great because all the Doctors and Nurses were very attentive but it was uncomfortable because of the tightness and lower back pain. Remember, your on your back while recuperating so the usual way you sleep isn't happening lol
I have to say that my overall experience with Jacobi Medical Center was great. I'd recommend it to anyone considering a cosmetic procedure.

So now on to my first night at home:
I slept on the sofa and my husband accompanied me on the other sofa. He's awesome. Choosing the sofa to rest was the best thing (I recommend it). We have a Temperpedic mattress which is great for back pain etc but its so high up that I just knew I wouldn't make it up and down. Remember, I'm 4'11"!

I got up every hour to urinate. I've never pee'd so much in my life lol but of course I was chugging down water like crazy. I've been taking my antibiotics every 4 hours and Percocet when needed. They also gave me
anti-nausea medication to take with the Percocet because I get sick with it. At one point, around 2am I had a massive headache and felt like vomiting. I tried throwing up in a trash can but I couldn't bring it up because I was afraid of the pain. I drank a tea and that helped with the nausea and headache. After that I was able to sleep through the rest of the night/morning until about 7am.

Today was a good day, I walked around the house every 45 minutes for about 15 minutes. I was able to get myself up and down unassisted a few times too, which felt good. I feel my hubby has a lot on his plate dealing with our kiddos too. He says "I can do it all honey. I got you" :-) so ladies I'll update tomorrow.

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Happy to see your doing well can't wait to see the new you
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Hope your healing is going well! Can't wait to see your po pics!
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MzJan, I think just stitches.

Post-op day/night 3: I was having a wonderful...

Post-op day/night 3:

I was having a wonderful day until 5pm this evening. My brother in-law came over unannounced with his daughter and step daughter. He was persistent. Knocking on our apartment door till somebody answered. I wasn't expecting anybody and made it clear to many that I didn't want guest for the first few days of recuperation. He obviously didn't get the memo. So anyway, my husband had to make a run really quick and asked if I'd be ok with him stepping out and holding it down with the kids. Of course I said yes. I knew he needed to get air. So my point, he wasn't here to answer the door and tell his brother to come back another day... Well I answered the door with my children next to me and he literally did a "push in"! I said"joe, you didn't get the message regarding company" he said "we're not just company were family"
in my head :::not today:::
So he came in and the kids started playing. Making messes and of course I started cleaning up. He didn't pick up after his children and I was livid. When hubby returned home his 30 minute run felt like 1 hour plus. I was so swollen that I wanted to cry. I'm typing this and feel soooo sore. I popped 2 Percocet and now I'm laying here with my feet elevated. Ugh!!! Well no more company I'm sending out an email blast regarding this LMAO

Will update tomorrow. Good night ladies

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Hey there again! Just caught up on your posts. So sorry you had such a hard time getting ur surg date figured out...eventhough I am not surprised since Jacobi is such a big hospital ...but what's important is that you are flat and fab now! I am very very shocked that you are able to get up unassisted, I still need help to get up from lying down. Take it easy, I too tried cleaning a little and wanted to DIE after about 20 minutes of dishes and wiping counters. Sounds like u have a great support system so don't be afraid to milk or for what its worth. Ur own title says u deserve it, so don't forget that. Rest, u have a lot of sexy strutting to do this summer and u don't want to wipe urself out before then! Haha get to sending that memo, I had a few visitors and flowers right after surg but once I realized activity brought swelling and swelling brought pain , I quit all that sh**! I even left q birthday party dinner early last night because I was ballooning and hunching within an hr of sitting there, and everyone was pretty understanding. Hope u continue to heal well!
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Happy healing !!!
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Thanks Hun

Hello ladies, sorry I haven't written since April...

Hello ladies, sorry I haven't written since April 6th. I took muscle relaxers and it was over from there. I've been sleeping well since. I'm Post-Op day 5. Tomorrow is my first Post-Op appointment. Supposedly I will be getting my drains removed. FINGERS CROSSED. I just washed my hair over the bath tub, standing up. I have the shower head that comes down with the long hose. It felt great. Yesterday I washed up by the sink and this time I used a washcloth, dove and warm water instead of the baby wipes. It felt so refreshing even tho the bathroom floor was flooded. Lol well I can go without pain meds. It's been like that since Saturday evening. So on a scale of 1-10 pain is a 1. Now back pain....ugh terrible. It really burns. Well that's all for now TT sisters. Any questions please feel free to ask.

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UPDATE POST OP DAY 6: Hey there TT Sisters. So...

UPDATE POST OP DAY 6:

Hey there TT Sisters. So I'm finished with my Post-Op appointment. Everything went well. I'm BALLS free. Thank god. I saw my tummy for the first time. It looks great. I got the ok to start showering YAYYY. When that binder came off I was sooo itchy. I wanted to scratch so hard but didn't wanna ruin my new tummy. The drains didn't hurt coming out. Not sure if it was because I was on 2 Percocet... The way to describe what I felt was a BURNING SENSATION. Everyone who still has BALLS and are afraid of the removal don't be. It's not that bad. Good luck.

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POST OP DAY 7: Good morning ladies, so last...

POST OP DAY 7:

Good morning ladies, so last night was rough for me. I had severe gas in my stomach near the left side of my ribcage. It was so bad that I broke into cold sweats. I tried ginger tea, ginger ale, water, gas x. Nothing helped. I took a muscle relaxer and I fell asleep so I wouldn't have to deal with the pain. I DO NOT know if this is due to having a TT. Well I am better this morning so I hope to have a good day. Will update later.

Have A Good Day Sisters!

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I just came across your post. I know your only a few days out from surgery, but I just wanted to let you know its going to be a long road to recovery and you will get discouraged. My PS nurse had a TT and BA and the same time and she talked with me about it and when she talked to me she was a year PO and said she still had some swelling some days and I still do. Just don't over do it to begin with. I was told no ab workouts until at least 6 months PO but I waited until 9 months PO to start them. I didn't exercise as much as I should have until 9 months PO and a word of advise to you would be to do some cardio or something sooner than that I ended up gaining 8 lbs more than what I weighted on the day of surgery now im down 18lbs since January. Good luck and I look forward to following your journey.
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Wow, thank you so much for this info. I am only 1 week post op and I miss working out. My last day if HIIT cardio was the night before surgery. I wanted to get my last dose lol
You are welcome! ive recently started hitt training too its hard!

Post Op Day 9: Yesterday I over did it going to...

Post Op Day 9:

Yesterday I over did it going to the supermarket. I should've kept my derrière home. I was feeling good and decided to go for it. I came home and for the first time since surgery, I was SWOLLEN. I took a muscle relaxer and fell asleep around 9:30 pm and woke at 6am to help my husband get our children ready for school. My tummy feels like a rock. I DO NOT recommend going out or moving around this early post op.

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You should take it easy and remember outings cause swelling ... At 8 weeks normal things like shopping don't bother me just long trips. Happy healing
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Thanks Sarav59, I really learned my lesson.
Fel better today...trust me ...the doing nothing will last at least for 3 wks so let go of what u can't do now ....we haven't done an actual formal grocery shopping since before my surgery ..anything we need , I send hubby to get. Lol try it , it works!
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POST OP DAY 11 Everyday gets better. I am...

POST OP DAY 11

Everyday gets better. I am standing up straight! I actually been straight since POD5. But comes the evening....I'm slightly hunched. That's when I need to use my cane to walk. I don't mind. I'm bored at home. I can't wait to go back to work. Hubby has been super supportive since day one and has continued helping me with the kids. Some weekday mornings he doesn't want me up helping. He says "I prefer you to recuperate so we can get mommy back" love him! Well nothing else has changed. My BM's are regular again. That happened POD9. Thank god. I have 2nd Post Op appointment on 4/16 @ 9:30am. Don't know what they are going to do at the next few appointments. The hospital called me Thursday saying my insurance is inactive. I never went there with insurance information! I thought post op appointments were included with the surgery. Oh well, I guess if not they will have to bill me or I'll just walk over to their billing department. Will update you ladies soon. Xoxo

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Jenni you look great, god bless ! What other cosmetic procedures do they do at Jacobi Hospital . And what else did you get done besides TT , how much was the full price.
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POST OP DAY13: I just finished at my 2nd...

POST OP DAY13:

I just finished at my 2nd post-op appointment. My PS was so happy with my results aka his work. He said im still swollen. I was happy to hear that because I was starting to think these were my final results. He cleared me for sex. So hubby was excited about that LOL.
I CAN NOT workout heavy yet but I can walk and work on my arms with handweights/dumbbells. He says I can rip open my incision and then that'll be major problems. He mentioned that all that over the counter stuff is a waste of time and money ie; the Bromelain and Arnica. He swears by the binder/CG and says I should continue wearing it for another 4-6 weeks. He strongly recommends Silicone Strips but says I can tape my incision if I want. I'm gonna go buy the strips now. My next PO appointment is in 3 weeks. At that appointment he will take photos and do a comparison with my Pre-Op pics. I can't wait!

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Amazing! Can't wait to see more pics, but judging from the earlier ones, I know you're gonna be on Fire! :) I have not been "formerly" cleared for sex...but I gave in several times already to my husband's sexual advances lol...it's great cuz all I gotta do is lay there :)
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Lmao, I can't LexC. I'm rolling over here. And thank you. I hope I will be on fire!
Lol hope it doesn't hurt to laugh ;) don't have TOO Much fun tonight (wink, wink)

POST OP DAY 14=2 weeks today Went out to the...

POST OP DAY 14=2 weeks today

Went out to the mall this afternoon and Hubby bought me a Beautiful pair of Michael Kors heels! He said "babe for your two week TT anniversary!" So sweet. They are so sexy. I can't wait to wear them out.

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@ jeni5457 that sounds good to me. im like so impatience. im so worried im not going to be able to handle all the pain because im getting a mommy make over. the breast and the tummy. thank god theres girls like you we can talk too. this site is really hepling me cope.
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Awww thank you. That's great to hear. I LOVE this site. Everything I need to know or any question I may have gets answered.
did they remove the stretch marks above your belly botton. this is such a big consern for me. i wish i knew how much of the ones above my bb would still be with me. can you give a suggestion
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Post Op Day 21 Hello Ladies, hope all is doing...

Post Op Day 21

Hello Ladies, hope all is doing well.
So I haven't updated much because nothing has really changed. I will start to post every week unless something new comes up.

So today makes 3 weeks since I had my Tummy Tuck with Muscle Repair. I can't believe it. Feels like just the other day. Anyway, I feel great! It's been smooth sailing for me. Thank God. I got a cold the ending of last week so it was about 6 days with LOTS of coughing, sneezing and chest congestion ouch! But I survived lol. I'm back in my bed. I left the sofa Friday night. Oh how I've missed my bed. I've learned to cope with the CG/binder but for the past few nights I found myself ripping it open in the middle of the night and falling back asleep. Strange... Anyway, my next PO appointment is in May. That appointment I will be having pictures taken and I will ask when I can workout. I miss working out :-( summer is around the corner and I'm noticing some cellulite on my @$$.

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look at you hot mamma!! Looking good, and healing good, what more could a girl ask for ? :)
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Thanks love. Your right;-)
I am happy everything is going well enjoy the summer gbu
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UPDATE POST OP 1 MONTH So I've reached the 4...

UPDATE POST OP 1 MONTH

So I've reached the 4 week mark. I've been feeling great up until the past few days. I'm swollen from sun up to sun down :-( it's odd to me because every story is swelling from the beginning and goes away as the weeks go by. Also, I sit down and there is a fat roll! WTF?! Is this happening to anybody else? How do I deal? It's making me sad and upset. I'm so looking forward to start working out.

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Let me start off with Omg you look amazing. Its been over a yeqr since I've been on realself. I went on my profile and came across your comment and remembered you. I'm glad you went through with it and everything worked out. I still haven't done the surgery yet but still have the idea of getting it done in the back of my mind. I waited becaus3 i thought maybe I wanted another baby but I'm definitely done having kids and I'm ready to take care of me and hopefully i can do that by the end of this year. Well, i hope all is well and take care.
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Looking good hun!
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you look great congrats gbu
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It's My One Year Tummy Tuck Anniversary

Hello TT Sisters! I've been M.I.A. for a long time and I want to apologize for it.
So it's been exactly 1 Year since I had my TT. I have to say that I wasn't 100% satisfied with my results. Around 4 months post op I started working out intense. I had done Focus T25 and had to take a before pic. It was so gross. I still had a puffy tummy and love handles. Bra bulges, back rolls. UGH! So I completed the entire program, which was 10 weeks and took my after photo. I was pleased with what I accomplished but still had the back rolls and all mentioned above. Anyway, I'll post the pic. I'm still working on my fitness and Clean Eating.

Now that I'm at my 1 year mark, I'm ready to go back in for more SX. I have a scheduled consult in May 2014 for a "Scoop Lift" Butt Lift aka Fat Transfer, with Dr. Matthew Schulman located on Park Avenue in NYC. His work is AMAZING! My co worker got hers done there and she looks soooo good. His technique is like no other. Ya'll need to check out his website www.drschulmanplasticsurgery.com the pictures will have you with your mouth open. His work looks natural. Not like those who's legs don't match the A$$ lol. Anyway any questions, Just ask. I'll update as time gets near and after consult. xoxo

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1 Year Post Op PICs

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Your journey sound so interesting thank you for sharing, did you get the scoop lift with dr. Schulman?
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Thx Molove. And ur welcome. I haven't had my Scoop lift procedure done yet. I posted another review on BBL. Check it out. Hoping for September 22nd.
You look soo good girl! Hi I can really identify with you as I am also short, 5.4, but similar body to yours. Being short I have like no torso plus curvy and carry my weight in my midsection. I totally get not being totally satisfied with your results. I am feeling the same way at about 6 months po but I am really starting to work on it more. I have always been an avid workout person- always had to to keep my weight down. Unfortunately I have been diagnosed with 6 different foot issues in the last year. That was part of my motivation to have the TT plus from being over weight years ago then losing weight and fluctuating by about 10-15 pounds through the years. Your pictures have been even more motivating for me to really work hard to finally get rid of my last 15 pounds once and for all! Take care. :)
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