Hi, I'm 42 and like a lot of you feel like my eyes...
Ok, so back to eyes. The surgeon I was originally going to go with was young, handsome, had an amazing modern office and was the most expensive. In addition to upper and lower, he recommended a browlift (endoscopic) and canthoplexy. Basically another $7k in add-on procedures. The other four ps said that it was not necessary because of my age and look. I asked for a revised quote to take out those procedures and was told, well... that's what the doc recommended so it stays... as is. They were nice about it but I thought it was a tough stance.
Luckily had the most amazing experience with my selected surgeon (yea!!). Lots of details in my other two reviews (BBL and rhino) but in a nutshell.... he's great. Attentative, rapport was excellent and very supportive and knowledgeable, and very complimentary. I really felt like these things were going to improve my very decent looks into the next level. I was convinced even before I got the quote!
Honestly I haven't thought about this surgery that much because I'm obsessed in the BBL and looking at bootays all day. That RS board is especially active and very interesting. I'm not planning on taking much time off (in Friday and back at work Monday --- abeit very sore). I figure even though I won't be able to sit for 3 weeks, I can still hide it better than a bunch of bruising on my face... so I'm saving two weeks off for that recovery. Given that I'm actually way more excited about augmenting my nose than even the eyes at this point. The thought of a nose job always freaked me out but talking to my surgeon and reading RS stories.... I believe that will make the biggest difference of all in my overall appearance. Just wishing I was more savvy like some of these reviewers who decided in their 20's to get the surgery instead of 40's!
pre-op for BBL last SAT
I'm trying to get to be able to work from home after face surgeries so cross fingers! That would be a blessing.
Ok, psyching up for Friday surgery. Wish me luck!
DAY 6 Post Op from BBL
Anyway you can see more on my BBL post, I know that you're here for the eye lid surgery details so basically.... postponed till after 2/1/2014 only because my husband's company's having their annual party at that time and I can't have bandages on then. At least then I won't have to lie to the office about it. I mean they know about the eyelid, not BBL and only some know about the rhino. They know I'm already planning on taking time off (two weeks I think).
Ok more soon I'm sure. Thanks for checking.
Butt Done, now nose then eyes
Eyes will be 2/10 which is also my 43 birthday... but I don't mind spending it in surgery. The only bummer is that I am taking off two weeks for recovery and that means going back to work with stitches in my eyes. Oh well. So far hiding the BBL at work has been successful but the office has been quiet because of holidays.
I know that this is the the eye lid board but this procedure has become so minor compared to the other two. At times I debate whether I need the lower lids done. I want to pull back the muscle so that the crepiness from a "drapery effect" won't give me dark circles. I admit that at times when it looks good but today, even though I'm not particularily tired... I look it so yes I want it both done at the same time. I think that the result will be nice. Still me but more awake.
I'm also planning on getting a short hair cut after the procedures (or at least before returning to work) so that people are more focused on the hair than the "work".
OK, that's an update.... more to come.
16 more days till eyes!
So regarding the eye surgery... Dr. S originally showed me a picture of a lady who had lower bleph and there was a small mole near the bridge of her nose in the before. In the after, it moved to more the corner of her eye and upwards too. He said basically he would move the muscle out and up (not diagonal because that would be right into the eye). I know a lot of lower bleph is removing fat (don't have that problem) but not sure if "regular" bleph is mostly skin or muscle. Another doctor recommended canthoplexy but I'm not exactly sure what the differences are... just that it's more of a solution for droopy lower eye lid (which I don't have).
I think that recovery will be a breeze though. I'm planning on taking pharmacutical grade oral arnica before, during and after. You can get it on amazon http://www.amazon.com/SIN-SinEcchTM/dp/B000IOOMDO/ref=sr_1_fkmr1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1389120873&sr=8-1-fkmr1&keywords=sinnech+tm and I think that it's really helped me during my BBL. Also, it's important to apply ice immediately on the night after surgery to reduce bruising and swelling. I also have some stronger allergy sinus meds on hand just in case they start acting up while I'm trying to recover. I don't think sneezing and sniffling is going to be good during recovery.
I'm excited to try new eye shadow techniques after. Right now I keep it rather plain or bare due to the fear of it coming right off or smearing.
I'm also considering plumping up lips at the same time (I know such a slippery slope). I also though... should I get a peel a the same time since I'll be out of work anyway???
My husband's been pretty good. Especially recently that we have been able to have some sex again but I know he's not looking forward to another couple of weeks of me being out of it. Hopefully he sees how happy I am with the results (which was his biggest fear) and see that it will all be worth it and more!
BTW... watching a marathon of Dr. 90210. Guess this whole plastic surgery thing has really opened an area that I hadn't really considered and now I'm fascinated and want to know everything about it. The biggest reason... such major changes can happen and people get so happy and lives are changed. Also, to believe in the beauty of the body and it's ability to heal! Amazing.
one week post op
My consultation was amazing. My surgeon made a connection with me and I felt an instant familiarity with him and his office staff. Very warm and knowledgeable. You can tell he's passionate about his work and genuinely interested in his patients as unique individuals with their own set of challenges. He was more interested in making sure I was basing my decision on correct information, than 'getting the sale'. As far as his expertise.... no yelp reviews (bummer) but over a hundred RS reviews... all excellent. I was like, 'is that possible?' But as I clicked on their stories, I could tell that they were real people in various different backgrounds and situations but with all the same conclusion. Gives me confidence about his expertise and follow-up support. I emailed the patience consultant one morning with a laundry list of questions and to my surprise, Dr. S called me later that day to answer them all. How cool is that? Also--pls check two more reviews on him on the BBL and rhino board.