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10 Years Later... Finally Realizing my Goal... - Gastonia, NC
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For the past 10 years I've been contemplating BA....
MariFApril 9, 2014
WORTH IT$4,700
For the past 10 years I've been contemplating BA. The time is finally right and I have a supportive husband who is behind me on this... At first he was very hesitant as he is happy with the way I am, but after going to the consultation with me and having many discussions as to why this is important to me he is on board. The biggest issue I'm facing is his "go big or go home" attitude... I want to do this to improve my appearance but I don't want them too big. I'd like to add more fullness but still maintain a natural look.
I've had two consultations, both PS within the same practice. Good reviews for both, one more experienced than the other... however, it was the sense of ease and peace of mind that made me chose between the two. Also, I had heard from friends that one particularly prefers bigger breasts and I wanted to steer clear of biases.
My biggest fear and concern is the incision. A lot of the photos are from recent surgeries and it's hard to gauge what it'll look like down the road. I'm latina and we have the tendency of having thicker scars. I was hoping to have a transaxillary incision but my PS stated those tend to be thick as well. Probably going to go through the nipple. I would like some feedback from the ladies who have gone through BAs and hear about their incision and healing.
I have selected Sientra HP Textured Round, my PS and I discussed between 325-375cc and will decide during my pre-op visit. My husband would like 415cc, but I just feel that based on my frame this is simply too big, my PS agrees. I'm 5'5'', 125lbs (hoping to lose 5lbs before the surgery).
My biggest issue is talking about it with my family. My mother is highly critical and I'm afraid of what her opinion will be. My parents are facing financial hardships and in a way I feel guilty undergoing elective plastic surgery knowing they are struggling. I for one think there will never be a perfect time, my goal is to work overtime this summer so I may have it completely paid for. The practice I'm going through is having a special and the pricing is manageable. I'm practically saving $1,000 by choosing to do this procedure now.
I look forward to sharing my journey with you...
Let the countdown begin:
48days, 12hours, 8minutes and 12 seconds
I've had two consultations, both PS within the same practice. Good reviews for both, one more experienced than the other... however, it was the sense of ease and peace of mind that made me chose between the two. Also, I had heard from friends that one particularly prefers bigger breasts and I wanted to steer clear of biases.
My biggest fear and concern is the incision. A lot of the photos are from recent surgeries and it's hard to gauge what it'll look like down the road. I'm latina and we have the tendency of having thicker scars. I was hoping to have a transaxillary incision but my PS stated those tend to be thick as well. Probably going to go through the nipple. I would like some feedback from the ladies who have gone through BAs and hear about their incision and healing.
I have selected Sientra HP Textured Round, my PS and I discussed between 325-375cc and will decide during my pre-op visit. My husband would like 415cc, but I just feel that based on my frame this is simply too big, my PS agrees. I'm 5'5'', 125lbs (hoping to lose 5lbs before the surgery).
My biggest issue is talking about it with my family. My mother is highly critical and I'm afraid of what her opinion will be. My parents are facing financial hardships and in a way I feel guilty undergoing elective plastic surgery knowing they are struggling. I for one think there will never be a perfect time, my goal is to work overtime this summer so I may have it completely paid for. The practice I'm going through is having a special and the pricing is manageable. I'm practically saving $1,000 by choosing to do this procedure now.
I look forward to sharing my journey with you...
Let the countdown begin:
48days, 12hours, 8minutes and 12 seconds
UPDATED FROM MariF
1 month pre
415cc
MariFApril 13, 2014
Trying on some different sizes at the PS office. This is 415cc, the size my husband would like. I'm thinking 375. My PS recommends 325-375cc.
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April 13, 2014
Your husband needs to understand that the bigger the implant, the higher risk of complications, repeat surgeries, sagging later, etc. Also, if your surgeon has recommended a size based on your measurements, exceeding that will not look right. You will end up with boobs all in your armpit, or symmastia. Your implant size should be carefully decided in a sensible and scientific way by several measurements made on your chest: crease to nipple on both sides, base diameter of each breast, collarbone to nipple on both sides, how much tissue you already have, etc. It is like a mathematical formula...not a decision to be made by some testosterone-fueled layperson. He is uneducated and sex-driven, and is maybe not aware that you could have dire complications from his ignorance....
April 13, 2014
Thank you for that! I keep explaining this to him... I'm pretty set on 375 and I think it'll be a good size for me. I want to be happy with the end results and I think it's important to stick with your gut feeling.
April 17, 2014
Tomorrow I will be one week post op. I got 400cc gel unders per recommendation of my PS. I made it clear that I only wanted some firmness and fullness of my breasts. I was NOT interested in large breasts. My boobs are SOO huge now and I'm getting scared that this will be what I'm stuck with. I've read many stories that of
People saying that the size will decrease in some time. Is this true? Do I just need to have patience ? I have 100% confidence into PS so I keep holding onto that....
April 17, 2014
in the first few weeks there's a lot of swelling... I have a friend who is a physician and she advised me not too be concerned at first as they will most likely not look the way we expect them to, she explained that it can sometimes be a bit of a shock initially and to give them time to settle... I've been seeing lots of photos of post-op day one and you can really see how they change after 2 weeks post op and so on... hang in there... its just a matter of time before they get to where they need to be.
April 22, 2014
They will change....I am at the same stage as you...BA on 4/10 & mine are still just as swollen as day 2-3... They are like 2 hard round balls!!! Did your surgeon give you the band to wear...I have to wear it everyday for two weeks from 4/16... It will help them to drop apparently & like you I am so impatient....my friend said I took her about a month to drop!!! Our end result will be amazing & I also didn't want to do it for the size! No worries ;)
April 22, 2014
It is normal for them to take 2 or 3 months or more to drop and fluff, but they can keep changing for 6 months to a year. Patience, girls! :-) And O wouldn't buy any expensive bras until 3-4 months out, as your size and shape and the way they fit in the bras will be changing....
April 13, 2014
Hello, I personally think the 415 sizers look good on you. Remember they will look a bit smaller once in. If the doctor says it's ok then the risks can't be much higher than the 375. It is a 40 cc difference. If you put it in a sandwich plastic bag you can maybe see how much the diff would be. Just google converting 40 cc to liquid measurement. I did that for 50 ccs and it's a good visual. I think we all stress a lot about the size which of course it's the most important decision. I just went through the same but I finally made a decision! Best of luck deciding :-)
April 13, 2014
Her base diameter is measured in millimeters...yes, that is a small amount. But even if it's only 40 cc's difference, those millimeters in width can make all the difference in fitting an implant to a correct-sized pocket for her breast tissue. It does make a big difference in aspects too subtle for people who aren't Plastic Surgeons...there is much more to consider than simple cc's....
April 13, 2014
I totally agree! 40 ccs does make a difference in the diameter of the implant. That's why I said if the doctor is okay with 415. If he's not then of course listen to him.
April 13, 2014
If you feel that your mother will be critical about it, then don't even talk to her about it. Just keep it between you and your husband. It is sad that they are having financial difficulties but you don't owe them the money that you have set aside for surgery. When you bring children here, you cause them to need to be cared for. A lot of people just don't get that and expect us to be under our parent's thumb our whole lives.
April 14, 2014
It's a hard decision and it saddens me to have to secretive about it, its a lose lose situation no matter which choice I make. I suppose there'll never really be a perfect time but I think there are windows of opportunity and you have to take advantage of those. Another thing I hadn't thought about is discussing it with my 11 years old daughter. I don't want her to become self conscious about her body specially since she's just now starting to develop. Lots of things to take into account, thank you for reading my story and for the support :)
April 14, 2014
My daughters are 10 and 12, and do not know that I have had an augmentation. There was no reason to tell them - they are only with me 1/2 the week each week, and I had my ex take them on vacation when I had my surgery. A week and a half later, I had them back but didn't have to act any different. One day I might tell them, but maybe not. Funny thing is, I found out that my Mom has implants when I was in my mid-thirties, from a mammogram report she had laying around. I have never brought it up to her, and she has never told me. And she doesn't know that I got them. It's just such a private thing, I figure it's my own business....
April 13, 2014
I too like the 415 sizers on you. I feel they won't be too big, but you have to go with what you want, and go by what PS says will be best. I can't wait to see your results :)
April 14, 2014
If you are a grown woman and wife and mother, your parents or whomever else, will just have to accept it and move on. Or, you don't even have to discuss it with them. You don't need their approval...you are an independent grown woman. I never even told my parents...there was no reason to get them all stirred up. None of their business, really....
UPDATED FROM MariF
1 month pre
Upset husband
MariFApril 15, 2014
So I had uploaded a few photos of myself trying on different sizers, my husband got very upset about it and I took them down. No nudity or any personal information was included, anyone else have this type of issues? On a better note, I wanted to share this website I found that might help visualize the size of your breasts… http://www.reshapr.com. It can sort of give an idea but the picture doesn't always turn out so great. I tried it with a bra on and it worked better. Hope this helps some of you ladies…
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April 16, 2014
Sounds to me like your husband has issues with insecurity that need to be addressed...maybe scared because of your pending new hotness....
April 17, 2014
Hmmmm....your in a tough spot. Above all you have to listen to your ps on sizing. They can tell from experience how much your chest can handle. And taking a couple wish boob pictures allows them to see what your goal is shape and size wise. Although I have been every size from 32a to 36d with my skin, chest wall, etc taken into consideration all I could could get was 280-380cc cohesive gel ( gummy). Went under a 34A and now with the. 350cc that fit me perfect I am around 34d/dd! So you don't have to hit the 400cc's to "go big" ;)
I can see a husband maybe having issues with you posting pics if he doesn't understand what this site is. It is meant to help all of us who are considering/scheduled/recovering from augmentation of some sort. A nice supporting family full of information. If he sees it as more of a [RS bleep] hub it could upset him. I have only been with one man in my life and he was supportive of me posting and prior even embarrassingly read and helped me figure out what we both wanted from this surgery. Our decision natural looking full breasts in the safest manner possible ;)
As for $ well it is expensive but as they say "you get what you pay for" surgery is not something to get a bargain on. There are usually financing possibilities, cash prices, etc. ask and see what is available to you and decide of the time is right. And know even though not common there is always the chance of more expenses if something goes wrong. Never what we want to hear but I have an incision that isn't quite healing right and just had to go for an extra visit and get more meds. Meds alone have cost over $125!
Best wishes to you! Be safe and confident in your decisions:)
April 17, 2014
I will be one week post op tomorrow. Will these HUGE things really ever go down in size ? Starting to get a tad nervous.... I made it
Clear that I only wanted what I had to have some fullness and firmness ... Yikes.... Any thoughts anyone?
April 20, 2014
Same height and weight. Got sientra 380 mod smooth round. (Their moderate is like moderate plus)
April 20, 2014
I have slightly broad shoulders and chest. I'm thinking you have a narrow chest that's y you're going with hp?
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