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-110 lbs - Freehold, NJ

I began my weight loss journey in 2009 when I...

I began my weight loss journey in 2009 when I decided to peruse Lap Band surgery through my insurance company. Getting approved by insure was no easy task, I spent a lot of money visiting countless doctors and jumping through hoops doing more tests than I have ever experienced in my life, like 6 months of nutritional counseling ($100/ session), a psych evaluation ($250), a written letter stressing medical necessity by my general practitioner, getting cleared for surgery by a cardiologist and pulmonary doctor, passing a sleep study, doing a stress test (even though I was only 20), and finally an echocardiogram to top it all off. Luckily, I got approved the very first time I sent in my packet for evaluation, so my surgery was covered and all I had to pay was a hospital fee.

I got the lap band in June of 2009 at Centra State Medical Center in Freehold, NJ. I weighed 275 lbs at the time. It was a pretty painful recovery, difficult to sleep and move after, but luckily it didn't last very long. The worst part was the pain in my back and shoulders that I couldn't even stretch or crack to relieve, which I can only guess was from laying on the operating table for so long. The first year, I was very unsuccessful in my attempt to lose weight because I didn't change my diet after I healed and I didn't start exercising. I found that if you drink fluid with anything I ate, it essentially washes the food right through the part of your stomach the lap band is constricting and I was able to eat more. By the time 2010 had rolled around and I was 1 year post-op, I had only lost about 25 lbs. In August of 2010, I decided that enough was enough and started going to the gym 5 days a week and eating healthier. I currently weight about 180lbs and have lost just shy of 100 lbs to date. I think the lap band is a good idea in theory, but I know that I could have achieved this goal by myself if I had just started eating healthy and dieting like I do now. The lap band isn't going to be effective if you're still eating pizza, macaroni & cheese, and chinese food, like I was. I wish I hadn't gotten the surgery and could have made that connection sooner.

It also didn't help that my doctor didn't see me for over a year after my surgery. I was only seen for fills by nurses and physician's assistants in the office, which I found a little impersonal. I was given no help with diet or exercise plans, as I was told was part of the "program". It was as if everything they said they offered as part of the Lap Band System was out the window after my surgery was done and I was on my own after that. I had complications with adjustments and haven't been back in at least 9 months to get a fill because I'm pretty sure they just want my money. Every time I leave the office, they either put too much fluid in the band, or not enough. Its not a pleasant experience, either, so I have decided not to go back for a while.

I don't know how helpful this is to anyone reading, but feel free to message me if you have any questions or thoughts!

I weighed 174 lbs today. Officially at 101 lbs...

I weighed 174 lbs today. Officially at 101 lbs total weight loss. I can't believe it…

=)

Down to 166 lbs. now, and I was down to 162 lbs at...

Down to 166 lbs. now, and I was down to 162 lbs at my lowest. I am shooting for 147 lbs as my final goal weight though. Im happy I have been able to maintain my weight for so long and that Im still in this healthy frame of mind. Once this semester is finally over and I have more time, I am going to head back to the gym 5 days a week and start up weight loss mode again. Can't wait :)

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queenb32 11 Mar 2013
I'm 350 lbs and I'm getting a lap band tm and I'm excited ive talked to several different ppl about the surgery and everyone is different . Your story is amazing and I hope my surgery goes smooth
queenb32 11 Mar 2013
You look great! !
NeenBand 28 Feb 2013
You look great! I am wondering , due to your experience, that if you had to do it all over again, would you get the band? Do you think you could have reached this place on your own?
Tammy1111 20 Aug 2012
Hello, I weigh 191 lbs and I'm searching for a provider who will do the surgery on me. This is the heaviest I've been and can't seem to lose the weight on my own. Do you have any advice on you eat healthy?
Kelita NJ 20 Aug 2012
I went to a nutritionist for 6 months and she was a big help because I was able to come back every month and tell her what worked for me and what didn't. I am still pretty much about to eat whatever I want, but for the most part I eat much healthier on a whole by mostly cutting out foods like fast food, soda, sugary drinks, velveta shells & cheese, Chinese food, and Ben & Jerry's. I've learned to ALWAYS go for the healthier option, low fat/ no fat/ reduced fat everything, fresh vegetables rather than starches, baked or grilled chicken and fish. Low calorie protein shakes are awesome too. You should go find a nutritionist to sit down with and go over your diet so you know what kind of foods you eat too much of and what you could substitute them with.
Cole' 16 Jun 2012
You look fantastic!!! Way to go!!
kaykay in Athens 14 Jun 2012
I just want someone I can talk too about this, I don't want to go through this by my self, any out that is willing to talk with me.
Peppa 16 Jun 2012

Hi. I am currently researching the adjustable gastric band. I am going to an information session in a few days. I would love someone to talk to.

Kirsty at RealSelf (Community Manager) 4 Jul 2012

Hi KayKay,

Are you having a Lap Band yourself?

caroler 10 May 2013

Kay, I had lap band surgery 12/20/12. I had a great surgeon (recommended by my Dermotogist and Primary Care doctors). She and the office staff are wonderful and very accessible. If you do some homework (check w/ primary care dr for recommendations), you should find someone you will want to do the surgery. I was 253 @ my heaviest and close to doing insulin as well as diabetic meds. I am down from 2,000 miligrams to 500 a day). I am only 4 11 1/2 so I was obese. I am currently @ 204.8. I love to cook and eat and have had some trials and tribulations as habits are hard to break. Food is an addiction!!! I plan to join a support group which should help plus your friends will encourage you to continue. It is worth it. Please PM me I am going in for my 3rd adjustmt next week and will ask the office for a good dr reference where you live. PS-Even joined a gym - hate exercise, but it helps!!! Good luck! I am still glad I did the surgery ~ Carole.

Cole' 9 Jun 2012
Thanks for the info. You look fantastic so bravo to you for succeeding.
Kelita NJ 3 Jul 2012
thank you! :)
KATHYINMA 14 May 2012
I had lapband sugery 4 years ago at 62 years old. My insurance had no problem coving it. They also covered my tummy tuck, breast reduction, pendalectomy and lipo on my upper legs because of the rash I had under my belly and breast. I took pictures of myself with the rash and I was approved 12 hours later. Best thing I ever did. I have lost 152 lbs and feel like a new woman.
Kelita NJ 3 Jul 2012
My insurance wouldn't cover a tummy tuck or breast lift, unfortunately. I got the tummy tuck anyway, but paid a pretty penny for it.
Mindy San 13 Nov 2012
what insurance did you have?
lynette1674 25 Mar 2013

wow that's amazing, im trying to get the lap band, your story was very helful as im 58 and thinking I might be to old. now I no im not thankyou.

Kirsty at RealSelf (Community Manager) 27 Mar 2013

Hi Lynette, welcome!

You're definitely not too old! Have you spoken to any doctors yet to see if you're a candidate?

Angela101Angel 18 Mar 2012
You loll great! Congrats on the healthy lifestyle. :)
CassW 18 Dec 2011
Thanks for the info, I am interested in getting the lapband, I weigh 280lbs and I'm concerned about sagging skin.
Kirsty at RealSelf (Community Manager) 19 Dec 2011

Hi Cass,

Usually, if you're wanting to lose over 100lbs there will be sagging skin that will not return to normal. Most WLS patients choose to deal with the sagging skin in favor of losing so much weight, and getting healthy. There are always surgery options after you've lost the weight, such as: body lift, arm lift, thigh lift, etc

Have you spoken to any doctors yet?

Best,

Kirsty

Kelita NJ 19 Dec 2011
Everything snapped back pretty good for me except for my belly, but thats where I carried most of my weight. My aunt had trouble with her arms and likes to call her skin "bat wings" now lol. But honestly, after losing so much weight its easy to have a sense of humor about a little sagging skin. It does snap back a good amount over time, especially with exercise, but you'll most likely have some sagging. Totally worth it :)
CassW 21 Dec 2011
Hi Kirsty, thanks for the info. I have not spoken with any doctors yet. But I agree that losing the weight trumps sagging skin!

Thanks for your help.
CassW 21 Dec 2011
Thanks Kelita,

It helps to hear someone who has experience say that it is worth it. I want to attend an info session, I mentioned it to my husband and he immediately said no, and was against it. "I like you as you are . .." but I think that liking me is more important. I will give him a few days to cool down :-))

Thanks!
Kelita NJ 21 Dec 2011
It's about so much more than just a physical aspect. I feel so good now and I'm a happier person because I'm healthy and active. He may like you as you are, but maybe if you take the position that you want to live a long, healthy life he'll be more open to the idea. It really is just a tool for healthy living ;)
atlgrl 28 Jun 2012
Thanks for ur post. I've been contemplating, I've actually started w/ the nutritionist & so forth but I keep thinking its the wrong option for mr & that I can definitely lose the weight but then I think about how may times I've yoyo'd back up & how I've dieted myself up to getting this big. But It seems like if I don't have the discipline now to do it I can't expect the lapband to do it for me? What do u think?

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