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Arm Lift - the First Part of a Massive Overhaul - Frankfort, IL

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I have always had larger arms. I became overweight...

mythreeboys
WORTH IT$9,000

I have always had larger arms. I became overweight in jr high and have been obese since then. I had gastric by-pass 5 years ago and lost 150 lbs. I felt great but my body looked horrible. I became depressed because I felt like I looked worse than I did before I lost the weight. Having surgery seemed like it was too expensive to even consider. I have slowly gained 50 lbs back in the 5 years since the bypass. Then I started watching a show on discovery about people who had plastic surgery to help thier self esteem and it clicked. I needed to find a way to have it done. I am going to take out a loan against my 401k. It's a large investment but I figure I spend more than that on a car and my body is more important than a car. It's harder to justify the cost when I could use that money to help my family and use it for the kids. I just know that I need it to be happy and proud of myself. I think that I will be a better role model for my kids with the surgery.

I am starting my transformation with my arms - they are very large and droopy. It's hard to find clothes because of thier size - my body is a size med/large but I have to buy 2x to fit my arms. I hate going swimming because everyone can see them. I really try to make sure no one see them. Luckily the longer sleaves came back into style because it used to be very hard to find summer clothes with arms.

I had consults with two PS in the area and I am going with Dr. Gelman. He has a lot of experience with massive weight loss patients and made me feel very comfortable.

I am scheduled to go in for my arms on 4/15/13. I will wait 4-8 weeks(depending on healing) to have the stomach done, then breasts lifted and possible thigh lift.

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Jack Gelman, MD (retired)

Jack Gelman, MD (retired)

Board Certified Plastic Surgeon

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March 19, 2013
HI I am going to follow your surgery. Best of Luck and please post as you can. I had arm lipo but need an AL. Know that my thoughts will be with you the 15th. Best, Vicki
March 24, 2013
Thank you! I am nervous and excited. Feel like a kid waiting on christmas.
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March 24, 2013
I hope I'll be next for this surgery. I live near NYC and having probs finding a great PS who has lots of arm surgery experience. Im excited for you too. Vicki
March 27, 2013
I had a hard time finding a PS surgeon too. Trying to find one with a lot of experience with massive weight loss patients is hard - you would think there would be more of them. I really think that I will like the PS I picked.
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March 27, 2013
Hi, That's so exciting for you. I am 51 years old. Over twenty years ago I lost 125 pounds, and was so surprised that I still had to cover all the same parts of my body that I did before I lost the weight. My body resembles yours. Last year I got an arm lift, together with a breast lift. The relief I feel not having that extra skin and fat is indescribable. You'll Love It Too !! Take care and keep us posted. Roseann
March 27, 2013
I CAN'T WAIT... I feel like a kid waiting for christmas. I am so ready to do this. I have wanted this done even for as long as I can remeber. I wish I could get it all done at once but I will try to be patient. But OMG I am so excited lol I am very curious to see how the pain is going to be and how functional I will feel after the arm lift. I cant wait to be finished! I am trying not to get my hopes up to a point of being unrealistic But... if I could wear a modest two piece in the pool, It would be the first time ever wearing a two piece since the age of 4. I am looking forward to not picking clothes just becasue they fit my arms. I know it will be here and gone in the blink of an eye but the waiting is killing me. I am glad that due to work scheduling, I have already booked my tummy tuck for May20th. Originally I was going to wait until June to be a little more healed. Now I am glad that I moved it up - I am ready to get this done and become the new me.
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March 28, 2013
Thrilled to hear you're ready to roll. I agree, get it done and over. As Im 60, though a young 60 with no wrinkles and few lines I THINK I'm going for a lower face lift (neck) first. I made this decision tonight. Will call the PS tomo and schedule asap before I change my mind. This is a usual for me- get it done and fast. Keep posting and I hope and pray your AL is not painful and your results are awesome!
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March 28, 2013
Hello mythreeboys, I had originally thought that my tummy tuck would be planned 6 weeks after the last surgery, and as much as I crave to buy pants that do not show my hanging belly, I decided to wait a little bit. I had a breast lift with implants along with my brachioplasty and had some complications that required additional surgery. To be completely honest with you, this surgery hurt like h_ll. For me I just want to take a little time in feeling good, and doing things that I use to do before I do the tummy tuck, or possibly a full body lift. However, the brachioplasty was a piece of cake in comparison, so you will probably do great. Very Exciting !! :)
March 29, 2013
When I see your pix I see a lot of strength & great structure. It shows how hard you've worked and I think your results will be AMAZING. You have a beautiful frame to work with. My PS commented on the fact that I have a natural waist ...that he can't "build that" even though people would like him to. It looks like you have a beautiful natural waist too. We're lucky!! I am super excited to see your results. It will be fun to have all that work you've done on yourself revealed. The waiting really is the hardest part...it's close now. YAY
March 29, 2013
Thanks! I cant wait to see the finished product-- and to buy clothes (I am not buying anything new until after surgeries are done and I am healed up. The waiting is killing me - It will be here in almost 2 weeks but it feels like forever. I am taking a rest right now from "spring cleaning" the house. Figure I will not feel like cleaning anytime soon after surgery. I have my tummy tuck set for May20th. I am going to get the fleur de lis extended tummy tuck. Then I will see how I am healing - I would love to get the girls lifted around 4th of july to save some PTO days at work but I think that would be pushing it. I am normally a good healer so I am hoping that I heal fairly quickly. I am so grateful for realself and the people here sharing thier stories. It really helped me make the decision to do this and now I am so excited I could just squeel lol Now I am obsessing over all the before and afters wondering what I will look like. I hope I end up looking like you : ) You had really great results!
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March 31, 2013
Hi! Your arms will look amazing. I am excited for you. I hope all goes well and you heal up nicely. Remember to try to get extra protein in for the 2 weeks before surgery. I do believe it helps with healing. Happy Easter!
March 31, 2013
Thanks and Happy Easter too! I hope I dont make myself (or you guys) crazy in the next two weeks. It almost seems unreal - Just a few months ago this seemed like an impossibility. I am thankful for all of the tips! I am going to do everything I can to make sure I have a healthy recovery. Did you ever use the silicone pads on your scars? I know I dont need them right away but I am not sure if I should order them now or wait to see if I need them?
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March 31, 2013
Are you on the count down yet?
April 1, 2013
I have a countdown app on my phone so each day my hubby and co-workers get a countdown! lol I am excited ---two weeks from now i will be a bundle of happy excited nervous energy.
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April 4, 2013
Hi, I did not use silicone pads on my scars. The only thing I have used is the Mederma Advanced Scar gel and only after it was recommended by my PS. I got the larger tube. I had a very difficult time finding it, well receiving the correct product. If you need it and want some advice let me know. Good luck!
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March 31, 2013
Only you ladies would understand. Today Easter Sunday dinner I will be wearing a sun dress with no shrug. OK, well I'll still have it in the car. This will be the first time exposing my arms since I was ten years old. I am testing out my confidence with my family first. I'll see if I could pass the salt without raising my arms very high :) lol Wish Me Luck Mythreeboys this day will come for you too. Everyone have a nice Easter
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March 31, 2013
How exciting for you. Oh, I "get" it. Sometimes I put a tank on and go out and just dream of what it would be like w/o these arms. Actually it's empowering but heaven forbid if I run into anyone... Happy 1st Easter sleeveless.
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March 31, 2013
Thank You MissV.........Ha Ha That's why I use to do gardening in the back yard sleeveless and put on long sleeves for gardening the front. The stupid stuff we put ourselves through. Hey maybe a year from now we can all post pictures in tank tops. :) I hope everything goes your way MissV, Mythreeboys, and all you other ladies. I'm looking forward to see future posts of how happy you are after your surgery.
April 1, 2013
OGM - I cant wait to ditch the shrug - It is so hard to find them large enough in the arms. Whats weird is I have actually been wearing tanks around the house-- normally I dont expose anyone to the sight of them. I cant wait to wear something with short sleeves or a tank in public -- i will feel half naked : ) This is the last week for my big bertha arms -yipppeeeeee
April 1, 2013
I love it - Go Team Tank Tops lol I cant wait to see what we all look like a year from now.
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April 4, 2013
Aww! I hope you were comfortable and had NO reaction from people other than YOU LOOK AMAZING!
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April 4, 2013
Hi Ladies, First off, is it me or are these posts confusing? I can't tell who responded to who or what sometimes. 1LoLo1...When I saw my Mother that day she grabbed me and hugged me and said "I can't believe it". They all knew how I had suffered all of the years sweating in 115 degrees wearing long sleeves in the summer while sitting on a chair next to the pool. By the way, I must have looked at your profile over 100 times thinking how I hope I look that good after I get a body lift. My boyfriend has a pending knee replacement surgery, so it may not be for a while. However what scars me it looks like the money for it has been dwindling away the longer I wait. Yikes !! can't do that. Mythreeboys......Anytime for you now. I really can't wait to see how happy you will be. Keep busy, take care of all your affairs, it's your turn now !!!
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April 5, 2013
I totally agree that the posts and the way they are listed are very confusing!! I can't always tell what post I'm actually responding to if other people are commenting. I think RS should address this. Thank you. I appreciate your compliments. I just saw some of my other 'before' pictures and I can't believe the difference. I am so glad that I did it. I am SO happy that you had such positive reactions and especially from your mom. That brings tears to my eyes. Don't worry...you will have your procedures done. Just keep putting money aside.
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April 20, 2013
Do they have arm SPANX.LOL. I need em. So terrified after my lumpy wavy arm lipo. Im looking and watching My three Boys for inspiration. The amount of pain, swelling, burning, tightness after the armlipo that lasted months and thought would never end. It did, leaving me with a bigger mess than before. I am not an obese person, just have large arms. Traumatized by the memories...
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April 20, 2013
What do you mean, what happened to your arms?
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April 20, 2013
I had a major lipo done on my arms 5 yrs ago. The biggest PS in NYC did it and cost a small fortune. The pain was beyond and the front of my arms are wavy n lumpy. Now that the lipo is done they sag- I need a lift and reduction but I am still remembering the very bad discomfort . I actually thought I had nerve damage- it was that bad.
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April 20, 2013
A I am very sorry that this happened to you. Are you able to get this fixed, had you spoken to another surgeon, and could they tell if you have nerve damage? I could imagine that you would be apprehensive to even try. I do have a compression garment for the arms that look like spanx. :) You must post before and after pictures of your upcoming facelift, however there goes your anonymity, and you could have a neighbor say "see Henry, I knew she had something done" :) ......Take Care Miss V
UPDATED FROM mythreeboys
8 days pre

I go for my pre op appt tomorrow night. Just one...

mythreeboys
I go for my pre op appt tomorrow night. Just one more week until surgery : ) I am very excited and nervous. Trying to get as much done now so I dont have to worry about stuff after. I really hope I end up with the results I want. I really would love to some day wear a sleeveless shirt or dress. I am praying this goes well. I have my tummy tuck set up for May 20th so I am hoping to be ready for it by then

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April 8, 2013
Hello there fellow GBS sister! Isn't it tragically ironic how that happens.....lose so much weight and feel like your body looks WORSE without it! I totally "get" you. Have you scheduled your arms to be done alone for financial reasons? Just wondering, since you want to have other procedures done, why you didn't schedule something else to be done with the arms. Ideally, I would think the breast lift would have been a good combo. Anyway, just wanted to wish you good luck!! Just one week left!
April 8, 2013
Thanks! My PS will not go past 5 hour surgeries. My arms are going to get lipo and extended arm lift. They are estimating the arms will take 3-4 hours so there was not a lot I could lump with it because I have so much extra junk. So My arms are my most hated part of my body so I am getting them done first then the tummy tuck is next up. I am getting the fleur de lis tummy tuck so it will take another 4-5 hours. After they are healed up and I can see if anything need a revision, I will get the breasts lifted and If I need a thigh lift, it will get lumped with that surgery. I was torn trying to decide if I should try to go to a Dr that would do multiple procedures but the longer you are out and the more trauma you cause at one time, the more dangerous it is. Since I have anemia and nutrition issues because of the GBS, I have decided to try to be patient.... trust me, it's killing me to wait and make this a drawn out procedure. I orginally wanted a total body lift all on once. It's hard to find a Dr that had a lot of massive weight loss patients. I wanted to find someone local - I was originally thinnking about going out of state to get it done. But if there are complications, it would be hard to travel back and forth. I had a really good consultation with Dr Gelman and as long as the arms go OK - I will continue with him
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April 8, 2013
Never think PS is just a walk in the park. I agree, recover first, then move to another part. I just hope youre ready in such a short amount of time from the AL for the TT. Keep posting. Ive know youre date is fast approaching....YAY!!!
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April 8, 2013
After reading so many stories, and countless answers to peoples questions from doctors, I can see more than ever that plastic surgery is more complicated than I ever knew. Surgery, surgeons, and the patients are so individualized. What's good for one patient most definitely may not be good for another, and one surgeons technique, may not be another surgeons technique. I think that is why there is so much importance put on choosing a surgeon and trusting the one that you choose will do what is right for you. I think my surgery was around five-six hours for extended breast lift with implants, extended arm lift, and removal of extra fat and skin well under the armpit. Nothing could have prepared me for the post op pain and recovery. I was so sick to my stomach, and could not hold anything down for two days, and could not reach a fork to my mouth. I could not even wipe myself after using the bathroom. I hurt so bad I cried off and on for 2 weeks "why did I do this" while telling myself thousands of women before me did, so I can do it too. Family members think I am a gluten for punishment to even consider a body lift. Now there will be others that will say that they were driving in a week and back to work. No doctor given his or hers years of experience can tell you for sure what your recovery will be like
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April 8, 2013
STS: Well said and so very true! Sorry you had to go through such a rough recovery. I guess the good news is that you and so many of us (based on the thumbs up responses on this site) can say it was worth it in the end. As my PS has told me many times...soon this will be a distant nightmare. MTB: Good luck on your upcoming surgery. I really hope you have a positive outcome and an easy recovery. If I can say only one thing...stay on top of your pain by taking your pain pills on a schedule, around the clock. No heros here!
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April 8, 2013
Hey 1LoL1... I like that quote of your doctors. I may use that one day.
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April 8, 2013
Geez !! Sometimes on this site I can not tell who is replying to whom or what.
UPDATED FROM mythreeboys
1 day pre

WOW... it's here already! I am excited and...

mythreeboys
WOW... it's here already! I am excited and nervous. I have to leave the house at 5:30 am. I hope I can sleep tonight. Arrrgggghhhhhhhhh Bye Bye Arms ... Can't wait to see you go!

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April 14, 2013
Good Morning mythreeboys !! Tomorrow is your turn!! I hope that everything will go well with your surgery and that you have an easy recovery. Take Good Care Of Yourself, Shed The Spanx :)
April 15, 2013
Thank you : )
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April 15, 2013
Yes tomo is the 15th- you're the surgical star! Best of Luck and I'll pray for the best of possible outcomes.
April 15, 2013
Good luck girl! I'll be thinking of you! Can't wait to see pictures and hear how it goes for you. THere aren't alot of stories aobut this procedure.... I want to get my arms done too!
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April 15, 2013
Good luck and safe surgery!! Can't wait to hear it all went well and see pictures when you are ready.
April 17, 2013
Good luck special lady
April 21, 2013
Thank you : )