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A New Journey.. - Fort Lauderdale, FL
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I'm so happy to come across realself. Having to...
NewselfCANOctober 7, 2013
$5,840
I'm so happy to come across realself. Having to express the feelings that are going through your body as you go on a life changing experience with other woman that can relate to one another :)
So my story starts off with wanting BA since I can last remember and now that I'm 27, I can now afford it and have decided to go through with the procedure! Cannot express how excited I am for this and it's happening in a month to be exact. Been dreaming and living boobs for the past month as well lol. I'm from Alberta Canada and will be flying out to Fort Lauderdale to get these girls done which makes me extra nervous, hoping things will go down smoothly, and flying will be a breeze. Will be staying 7 days from pre op to post op within that week. Has anyone flew to a diff state or country to get them done? And how was your experience.
My stats are 5'3 and fluctuate between 115-119lbs. Physically active with lifting weights and cardio. I'm originally a full B to small C in the bra category hoping to become a D-DD but I have researched that cup size has nothing to do with it as every body type is different, so I'll just go with the advice from my PS with the different sizes of cc's.
So the shitty part of this whole journey is that my boyfriend does not support this at all. And does not understand why I want to go through with it, he thinks I'm gunna look so top heavy or Unproportional, pornstar boobs, etc that it will mess up what he loves already. Also brings up the cost of it (which we don't share finances to begin with) I almost feel like he doesn't think I know what I'm doing. But I am 100% sure I'm making the right choice for Myself. Am I being selfish for not taking into consideration of my boyfriends opinions? This whole process would just be so much better if I had his blessing and not feel like whenever I want to talk about it, it's not gunna turn into an arguement.
So my story starts off with wanting BA since I can last remember and now that I'm 27, I can now afford it and have decided to go through with the procedure! Cannot express how excited I am for this and it's happening in a month to be exact. Been dreaming and living boobs for the past month as well lol. I'm from Alberta Canada and will be flying out to Fort Lauderdale to get these girls done which makes me extra nervous, hoping things will go down smoothly, and flying will be a breeze. Will be staying 7 days from pre op to post op within that week. Has anyone flew to a diff state or country to get them done? And how was your experience.
My stats are 5'3 and fluctuate between 115-119lbs. Physically active with lifting weights and cardio. I'm originally a full B to small C in the bra category hoping to become a D-DD but I have researched that cup size has nothing to do with it as every body type is different, so I'll just go with the advice from my PS with the different sizes of cc's.
So the shitty part of this whole journey is that my boyfriend does not support this at all. And does not understand why I want to go through with it, he thinks I'm gunna look so top heavy or Unproportional, pornstar boobs, etc that it will mess up what he loves already. Also brings up the cost of it (which we don't share finances to begin with) I almost feel like he doesn't think I know what I'm doing. But I am 100% sure I'm making the right choice for Myself. Am I being selfish for not taking into consideration of my boyfriends opinions? This whole process would just be so much better if I had his blessing and not feel like whenever I want to talk about it, it's not gunna turn into an arguement.
UPDATED FROM NewselfCAN
1 month pre
Goals
NewselfCANOctober 7, 2013
So I wanted to post some pics of my goal result. I feel I have enough natural breast tissue to achieve these looks to fill out the volume. I'll post my selfie in a later post :) what do you think are the average cc's in most if these pics?
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October 8, 2013
I agree. If your doing this for yourself and it'll make you feel good then do it. He will come around once he understands better.
UPDATED FROM NewselfCAN
1 month pre
Truth be told.
NewselfCANOctober 8, 2013
So I got the balls to mention again to the BF that I'm going through with the procedure and everything is already on a roll, no backing out now! boy was he upset. He was saying so many different things about how it was a bad move and going to be a bad investment etc. so I couldn't even pinpoint the main reason why he is so against it? he even said why I couldn't wait till after I had kids to get them done. Why would that matter, I would still be getting them done. Now at this point we've exchanged words, some were hurtful on his part and now we are in a minor civil war not speaking to one another. UGH just what I needed.
On a side note I am still extremely excited 1 MORE MONTH!! yipppy
On a side note I am still extremely excited 1 MORE MONTH!! yipppy
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October 8, 2013
My guess is your BF loves you, I would see it as a positive reaction (read the Huffington Post article "25 Reasons to Not Get Breast Implants"). Perhaps he's thinking into the future (to a time when you will share finances)? This won't be your only surgery, so it is a considerable investment. Kinda sounds like he's thinking practically, "if it ain't broke" sort of thinking...after kids things sag/deflate, so surgery to correct that may be more worth it in his eyes.
October 8, 2013
I can see his point of view, and I know that I may have a revision down the road and I'm fully aware of that. It would just be nice if I can share this experience with him. :(

October 8, 2013
I'm sure it's a complicated thing for a loved one to deal with a surgery of this type, not everyone handles it well. Hopefully you guys can talk it over more and his concerns should come to light and then you could address them. Good luck, hope it goes well!
October 8, 2013
Who is going to look after you post op if you are flying somewhere else and BF does not support you? You need someone to get your meals and help you get dressed etc for at least a few days post op. Also it is not just a revision you need to think about post kids it can also affect your ability to breast feed so maybe this is what your boyfriend is referring to. Just some things to think about before you make your decision.
May 20, 2021
He is so against it because he is worry about the increased attention you are going to get from other men.
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