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A New Journey.. - Fort Lauderdale, FL
UPDATED FROM NewselfCAN
17 days pre
2 Weeks!!
NewselfCANOctober 22, 2013
$5,840
It's literally 2.5 weeks left till I get the girls! :D
UPDATED FROM NewselfCAN
1 month pre
Relieved :)
NewselfCANOctober 9, 2013
My boyfriend is no longer mad and going to accept the fact that this is what I'm going to do. I guess he was able to put his thoughts together after our arguement and come to a conclusion on how to deal with it. He told me there was no point in staying mad at me, and that I am the best thing that has ever happened to him and if this makes me happy then he's going to have to get over it. It makes my heart smile to know he will be there for me in the end.
I've also told my sister about it now, and she freaked me out like no tomorrow! the way she says things just made me think twice. Such a rollercoaster! holy moly.. I'm sure I covered everything from researching the good and bad about BA and its my choice for taking a risk and going through with it, being from Canada and going to the states to get them ladies done. My sister is also worried cause she says I'm not a normal candidate because when I was younger I had open heart surgery and that i have built up scar tissue etc. (that was 21 years ago) I forgot to take into consideration that part !_! so I'm going to go ask my doctor about it. I have even asked my PS regarding my situation and if I'm still a good candidate, and he absolutely agreed I was. I'm sure he wouldn't do it if there would be complications cause it would be a bad reputation on his part? I'm healthy, active and overall my well being is great. So I'm trying to stay positive.
I've also told my sister about it now, and she freaked me out like no tomorrow! the way she says things just made me think twice. Such a rollercoaster! holy moly.. I'm sure I covered everything from researching the good and bad about BA and its my choice for taking a risk and going through with it, being from Canada and going to the states to get them ladies done. My sister is also worried cause she says I'm not a normal candidate because when I was younger I had open heart surgery and that i have built up scar tissue etc. (that was 21 years ago) I forgot to take into consideration that part !_! so I'm going to go ask my doctor about it. I have even asked my PS regarding my situation and if I'm still a good candidate, and he absolutely agreed I was. I'm sure he wouldn't do it if there would be complications cause it would be a bad reputation on his part? I'm healthy, active and overall my well being is great. So I'm trying to stay positive.
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UPDATED FROM NewselfCAN
1 month pre
Truth be told.
NewselfCANOctober 8, 2013
So I got the balls to mention again to the BF that I'm going through with the procedure and everything is already on a roll, no backing out now! boy was he upset. He was saying so many different things about how it was a bad move and going to be a bad investment etc. so I couldn't even pinpoint the main reason why he is so against it? he even said why I couldn't wait till after I had kids to get them done. Why would that matter, I would still be getting them done. Now at this point we've exchanged words, some were hurtful on his part and now we are in a minor civil war not speaking to one another. UGH just what I needed.
On a side note I am still extremely excited 1 MORE MONTH!! yipppy
On a side note I am still extremely excited 1 MORE MONTH!! yipppy
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October 8, 2013
My guess is your BF loves you, I would see it as a positive reaction (read the Huffington Post article "25 Reasons to Not Get Breast Implants"). Perhaps he's thinking into the future (to a time when you will share finances)? This won't be your only surgery, so it is a considerable investment. Kinda sounds like he's thinking practically, "if it ain't broke" sort of thinking...after kids things sag/deflate, so surgery to correct that may be more worth it in his eyes.
October 8, 2013
I can see his point of view, and I know that I may have a revision down the road and I'm fully aware of that. It would just be nice if I can share this experience with him. :(
October 8, 2013
I'm sure it's a complicated thing for a loved one to deal with a surgery of this type, not everyone handles it well. Hopefully you guys can talk it over more and his concerns should come to light and then you could address them. Good luck, hope it goes well!
October 8, 2013
Who is going to look after you post op if you are flying somewhere else and BF does not support you? You need someone to get your meals and help you get dressed etc for at least a few days post op. Also it is not just a revision you need to think about post kids it can also affect your ability to breast feed so maybe this is what your boyfriend is referring to. Just some things to think about before you make your decision.
May 20, 2021
He is so against it because he is worry about the increased attention you are going to get from other men.
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