So Excited at the Thought of Loosing my Baby Belly! - El Paso, TX
Hi everyone, my name is Jackie. I am a 31 year old...
Hi everyone, my name is Jackie. I am a 31 year old mother of two, ages 3 and 21 months. I am a Registered Nurse and live in El Paso, TX. After my first baby, my body started to bounce back (I somehow manage to escape without a single stretch mark). I became pregnant with my 2nd baby when my first was just 10 months old. My body did NOT fare so well this time. I have really big love handles that give my hips a boxy look that is difficult to hide. I also have stretch marks and a floppy pouch at my suprapubic area. I never considered abdominoplasty until I stumbled upon this site and saw some really excellent results. So, I worked up the courage to schedule a consultation for October 4th! I cant imagine how wonderful it must feel to put jeans on and not have floppy skin squeezing over the top like bread dough!
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Ok, so has anyone had to deal with guilt over...
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Just my two cents. Good luck to you, whatever you choose!! : )


I am glad to hear that you are doing your homework, too! It's great that your sister lives in Albuquerque, if you decide to go there. Don't they have a great Balloon festival in October? : )

Guilt is a normal feeling to have. I think that if you read most of the profiles on the site mention guilt at one point. It's okay to do something for yourself. Just make sure that this is what YOU want. It is a very big decision and it's good to have support around you. Focus on the positive and best of luck. :)
back in the saddle
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Welcome to RealSelf:)
October will be here before you know it. I look forward to following your journey and sharing your happy results!
Funny how our poor tummies don't bounce back after the second child. Well soon you will be sliding into your jeans without a muffin top and will love it.
I highly recommend 3 or more before making any final decisions. Even if the first doctor seem like he or she is for you...keep looking.
Then if everything checks out as far as credentials etc then listen to your gut. Go with your first reaction and that will never lead you down the wrong path.
I was extremely fortunate and never had any problems. My surgeon is amazing and had follow up appointments with me for 9 months after surgery. He was always there for phone calls and would see me whenever I needed. His nurse was also fantastic and pulled a couple of stitches for me as needed.
Keep doing your research and you will find the correct surgeon. What is the next largest town close to you? Maybe ever a little drive and you would find more of a selection?