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Accepting my natural self

UPDATED FROM scaredstiff
4 months post

old habits

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Well it's true old habits die hard!! I spent a good chunk of my honeymoon comparing myself to other women and feeling bad about myself. I still have myself convinced that to be attractive to my hubby I need have big breasts even though he assures me he finds me attractive. On saying all this I would not change my explant I love that I'm natural and actually felt sad for women with implants while away. I just need to sort my head and thoughts out!! I will post pics soon x

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Having visited a few ps who were blunt telling me they would be empty sacks. I found one who was a bit more compassionate, saying they would settle in roughly 3 months.

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It's definitely a process to adjust to your new self and may take some time.  You look great and your new hubby sounds very supportive!
I remember your story and thought to my self that girl looks good!!! It feels great huh!!! Hugs to you! My dream is to go to Scotland and Ireland some day:-)
HI Scaredstiff, its so great reading through your journey - you sound exactly how I feel , as im sure most others felt. Ashamed and angry I got implants , worrying what I will look like post explant and worrying what my partner will think of me as he also has never seen me pre implant. Your story gives me hope that everything will be fine and turn out all right, and everyone elses stories on here have helped me so much. I will be getting mine removed in a few months. I keep having doubts about it but I feel deep down its the right thing to do to get them out, and when I read how people feel a few weeks after explant it just gives me the confidence to go for it knowing that I will feel better for it. tanks so much for sharing your story and helping people in the same boat x
You won't regret doing it! We are all so brave :-)
Your results are very good! And even if they hadn't been- there is so much more to life than the size or texture of one's boobs! I really truly believe that smaller is better, now. It's still just as sexy and far more practical for everyday life. If you would like to do some more reading than can help you, I highly recommend the book The Mass Market Woman. It takes work, but you can stop judging aspects of yourself as "good" and "bad". And when you can love yourself, others naturally will, too. Any person who judges you over your boobs has his or her own sad issues to wrestle with. You will be dead some day. Make the most of today! Be strong and healthy and give love, especially to yourself! This way of thinking has been hard-earned for me, but I'm so glad to finally be here!
Thanks for your support. I'm taking steps to help my negative self image. It's all good! Hope you're well x x
thanks for sharing!
UPDATED FROM scaredstiff
3 months post

Well it's been nearly 15 wks since I took the leap...

Well it's been nearly 15 wks since I took the leap to implant free and I have to say I have never been happier. My breasts have really settled now and apart from the scars you could never tell the horrors my poor boobs have been through. I will post new pics soon.
I am due to get married this Friday 3rd May and it will be a happy, enjoyable & natural day.
I still had the implants when I picked my dress, then when I tried it on without them I was so disappointed at the gaping part where there used to be implants but now my dress fits perfectly and I look amazing in it.
I thank God that I found this site when I did, it really helped me make my decision with all the stories of brave women who just did it.
So to all of you who encouraged & comforted me during my journey to natural - A BIG HUGE Thank you x x

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Hi, a huge congratulations to you :o) I'm over the moon to hear how happy you are and your big day is Friday! Have a wonderful day and THANK YOU too. You were one of the first posts I looked at earlier this year before I joined! I explant July! You give me hope! Very best wishes for Fri. Enjoy :o) x
You look wonderful! Thanks so much for sharing your story and congratulations on your upcoming wedding! May you and your husband-to-be always be as happy as are on your wedding day!
Congratulations you look amazing. Enjoy your big day and many blessing to you and your almost husband. lol
Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials!! This is definitely the start of a new phase in your life!!
Yes, congrats on your wedding! What a "real" and smart way to start your married life together. You are ahead of a number of us, so thanks for the inspiration!
UPDATED FROM scaredstiff
2 months post

Coming up on 11wks post and I've never felt more...

coming up on 11wks post and I've never felt more sexy and beautiful. Had photoshoot for work and was thinkin to myself how great I look and feel now.
hubby has noticed they are bigger now too :-)

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So happy for you...my surgery is April 12th and following your story has been so helpful for me. Best wishes for continued healthy healing. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Wish you the very best outcome x I know you will be much happier when youre free!
You look beautiful and I'm so happy for you. Your story gives me much hope about my own surgery.
I'm made up for you :o) You look beautiful. Its so reasurring to hear how happy you are, it gives me so much hope. I explant 1 July. Can't wait to join you on the other side. x
I feel the same way 3 months after, so happy!!
wow you have such beautiful results well done [RS bleep]