Scheduled with Dr Cardenas on Aug 7 2014

I'm scheduled for June 28 2013, I I'm 45 raise 3...

I'm scheduled for June 28 2013, I I'm 45 raise 3 children and adopted 2, been in the military serving my country and now I have spent out on my kids education, dental and medical. Single mom in the house. I'm a registered nurse and we making it work.

But at this point I'm doing all this for me....I'm 5'51/2... 192 ...I don't know my measuments. I just know depression and depression has me in a bad place. And I still need to lose 25 pounds before I go to DR.

I don't know how I'm going to get the money plane tickets etc.....but I'm do something. My date is June 28. Pray for me. I need to be yily doll.....I need to get my sexy back, my self esteem back. I need to feel good about my self....cause I can't live like this no more.

I'm send the deposit money on Monday . I'm gets...

I'm send the deposit money on Monday . I'm gets cup and beg on the side of the street,

63 days....to lose wight and come up with a plan.....

63 days....to lose wight and come up with a plan.......this is stressing me for real. I need oprah or Ellen to come pay for us all
Everything will fall in place, just trust in the man above:)
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sent prayers up for your surgery plans i totally relate i have lived my life for the well being of my fam and happiness of others for my whole adult life and to have needed the aid of happy pills "thats what i call antidepressant pills"lol this has given be back my life and a sense of self that i have not felt in foreva gurl momma gotta find and take care of her self in order to have strenght guidance love and wisdom to give to her kids so i say if at all possible make your transformation a reality go for it you owe it to yourself>>> change is a awesome thing!!!!!!!!blessings for [peace and clearity sent up as well xxxx
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Beautiful sexy very beautiful!
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Ladies, I got my quote today.....yeah. It was...

Ladies, I got my quote today.....yeah. It was very general and the estimate is 4250. Great price, great price, but that's not including the travel and scripts, etc. I'm so excited honest, but I'm stressing the hell out thinking about coming up with the money and all the list of things...Lord help me....and thank you ladiesd for all the energy you post. It is truly helping with my depression. I'm going to start on this treadmill and theses dusty exercise tapes I have.

I'm having a yard sale next Saturday and I set up...

I'm having a yard sale next Saturday and I set up an etsy store and another online store, any one else got any ideas on how I can raise this money...short of selling a kidney....j/k. #motivated. Oh I'm a RN if anyone wants to hire me to go help with their recovery before or after my dates...I'm available. Any other ideas?
I know that's right....get yo hustle on....No time to play booootay is a callin .lol Good luck
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Congrats to you! Great price! I luv your story and you have been holding you and the family down for a while. It's your turn now! Pace yourself with booking flights, set aside money for recovery house or hotel, massages, tips and misc. items and you will be fine. I am working on the same time frame and decided to pace myself no doubt. Besides I just came out of pocket on a surgery prior so money is tight. Good luck to you
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Congrats, quote to get what done?
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Ladies I just want to let you know there are...

Ladies I just want to let you know there are websites that you can request donations for your BA...there are several so Google and see what u come up.. its worth looking into
Hey Gurl Welcome.. I'm going to Yily on June 6th.. We have a Calling all 40+ forum you can type it in the search bar above to find us..
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Where are the websites you can ask for donations
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Google donation for breast implants and several pop up
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Wow what what a day. My emotion area in a funny...

Wow what what a day. My emotion area in a funny place after all the drama this an,,,,but i going to stick with yiyl.

Pretty red and I are booked for the same day and...

Pretty red and I are booked for the same day and paid our deposit. We met here and I'm happy to have someone to talk to and go thru this process with. We read miabooty's review yesterday and we were hurt. I mean we called each other and emailed each other several time because it really upset us to think the Dr we had chose would be that mean. Anyway we decided we had already made a choice and in that situation ...things are not going down like that....my money WILL be right so her attitude better be right. Period end story. 58 days to go and I'm still only looking at my new insanity tapes...smdh. but I am taking my vitamin energy drink and my green smoothies. It doubles the iron count. And vemma protein drinks, I want to look like I tried to lose some weight.....lol
I really want this ladies..and I'm praying everyday for my situation to be positive and Godly.

I've only been on here a few days and I've learned...

I've only been on here a few days and I've learned so much. I see some ladies on her that I'm not sure are real. They want you to take theses doctors and make it seem like its (her) best friend. It seems that that person does more advertising and speaking for certain Dr's (yily) then the doctor does herself. The fun thing is this person has not even had one procedure done by that doctor. I've seen snickering and taunting of anyone who has a bad experience with a certain Dr. And to be honest I don't think its right. To monopolies the blogs and act like you hold some special relationship with this Dr., you have never even met....smdh is a new kind of stupid. I'm going to take each and every persons experience as the truth. I believe you. As a nurse I no everyone's pain is not the same and neither is there experience. Long post short. One of these ladies maybe even some of these ladies are walking with blind faith.
Thank for acknowledging people's hurt and pain. Best of luck
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State quacks down on plastic surgeon By JAMIE...

State quacks down on plastic surgeon
By JAMIE SCHRAM, Police Bureau Chief
Last Updated: 10:47 AM, February 3, 2011
Posted: 2:44 AM, February 3, 2011


A quack has been busted for luring city women to the Dominican Republic to perform bargain-basement plastic surgery on them -- leaving them disfigured and in pain, authorities said yesterday.

Hector Cabral, 51, who is not licensed to practice medicine in New York, has allegedly been collecting victims since at least 1999.

Back then, a Manhattan singer told The Post he performed liposuction on her and left her with a near-deadly infection.

He was not charged at the time, but investigators with the state Attorney General's Office have now charged Cabral in four other cases.


HECTOR CABRAL - 'Disfigured' patients.

HECTOR CABRAL
"Disfigured" patients.

And "it's hard to believe there aren't more victims," a law-enforcement source said.

Officials said Cabral would seek out his prey in salons and spas throughout the five boroughs, mainly in Washington Heights.

A fixture at the shops, he would chat up female customers -- and then whip out his black marker on the spot to indicate where on their bodies they needed a tuck and liposuction, court records say.

He used cheap prices as bait, officials said.

The women would then fly down to his office in Santa Domingo for the surgery, officials said.

But the thrifty medical procedures came at a steep cost. The women suffered substantial pain, scarring and permanent disfigurement afterward, authorities said.

Cabral was arrested Monday on charges of unauthorized practice of a profession, according to Attorney General Eric Schneiderman.

The timing of his bust was particularly inconvenient. He had already scheduled several consultations for the week, law-enforcement sources said.

A woman who answered the phone at his mother's home in Yonkers and identified herself as the housekeeper defended Cabral.

"I think all this is a big mistake -- he's a wonderful man," said the woman, Maria Jimenez.

"In the Dominican Republic, he's been a licensed doctor for almost 20 years. He went to France to get a degree in plastic surgery.

"I know people who had surgery with him in the Dominican Republic, and they said he was good."

jamie.schram@nypost.com
Yeah it's old news, surely you can find videos on you tube. Hec!! after so much practicing on girls and disfiguring many who had not come forward, I guess you can say he has improved his skills. At a cost to some ladies but people will still go to him regardless. Becuz IT ain't happen to them so y should they care. The world we live in gets ignorantly desperate continuously until it reaches home. GOD is my only praise, not man!
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isn't that old? what was the date?
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ok, just saw the date, thanks
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Hi ladies, I been thinking about the infection...

Hi ladies, I been thinking about the infection situation...could it be that the people who are washing the garments are not washing them well with a good cleaner or are the being washed together...? These garments are being placed close to your skin and if all of you are being helped by the same nurse and she not washing her hands.....infection is going to spread. Anyway ladies horn in with your thoughts and how this is being handled in the RH.
It could be anything... One gurl had cellulitis and I've had that before and it hurts like Hell...I had it in my hand, and I NEVER saw a cut or even a pin prick on my hand.. IDK where I got it from...I didn't do anything different or go anywhere dirty...Dopefiends get this alot.. There was a lady in the hospital with me who got from her dog that bit her during a thunderstorm...In the infection that have been documented on RS Ensure Addict had infection at the site of drain, Jcsoenda6 had it in her Belly Button and Cin40818 had it in her belly button. You should read their blogs for their story. The other thing is by the time you figure out you might have an infection your already on antibiotics and until you know what kind of infection you have its hard to prescribe a antibiotic to cure the infection. IDK if women with the infections were already on antibiotics when the infection started. Yily prescribes Amoxicillin. Each one of the women stayed in different locations. I can tell you that Yily is not the only doctor in DR who has patients on this site that had an infection these things happen in the US too. It's imperative that RS members consider this, talk to their PCP about the best anti-biotic to take to DR. Also, before these women shared their stories I think RS members thought WE were Infection Proof and didn't consider this could happen.
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Most people are resistant to amoxicillin and several others....,but its to late for me to explain...I'll sign in tomorrow and I've read some of the blogs you referred to and the same thing applies. One nurse or doctor can pass staph or mrsa or any infection to any part of your body and amoxicillin will now cure it. At that point only iv drugs can help. I suggest Rocephin given in the muscle after as soon as surgery is over. But you have to be able to give yourself the shot. ...any way
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Well the days are getting closer and I think I...

Well the days are getting closer and I think I have the money to do what I want done and then some. I prayed to God that if I was able to get the money it was meant to be. My worry is how I'm seeing some bigger girls treated. I learned of a Duran doll who almost died last week by the name of Sandra Jones. If you know her tell her I'm still praying. Anyway. I'm scared as hell. I'm preparing for infection and drainage clogs. I still have lost any of this weight and after see mothers day pictures.....I know I'm wrong. I have no excuse. I need a group of friends willing to help me work out. I'm confirmed date is June 28, I sent my deposit, but Yily and her team are so damn confused. Smdh.....How do you ladies feel the work on larger ladies comes out. I've only seen one lady that was a log size and she turned out perfect. Please refer me to any others. .....
What your etsy store name?
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Thisthatandother@etsy.com
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I'm So Excited

I'm almost sure the closing of one of our properties will happen next Thursday. So I'm excited. I wanted all these things done but I think I'll pump the breaks. I'm getting the tt, and bbl and my thighs done. That's it period. I'm already taking a health shake and vitamin drink and that is really helping my energy level and makes you iron very high. I'll start ordering all the other thing the 1st of June. I'm SCARED AS HELL! However I know God has opened the door for me to do this. Heck I might even go to see Dr. Alston.....oh and I'm going shopping for something while I'm there...something that says I did it. Any suggestions?
Gurl, that happened 4-5 years ago and da pain is real.... Hoping I never encounter that again, but if I do I wont wait a fucking week to go to the doctors....
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Anyone scheduled for June 28

please tell me what the Lord is trying to tell me. I received 2 great job offers in one week. If I accept these offers and I will. I will start this month. I can explain the previous planned trip but do you guys think it will be possible for me to work a 9-5 after only 10 days post-op? Ughhhhh I'm not complaining...cause when you ask for the Lord to open Doors he open windows as well....THANK YOU LORD
I am scheduled for aug 1 with Duran. I might miss you. You mentioned in a couple posts back that a duran doll almost died. Can you send me her blog??
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She is on fb and on Dra. Duran friend list her name is Sandra Jones and she is from Canada.
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UP Date

hey ladies, just thought I would up date you on me. My situation has done a 360 sense I 1st posted on here. I got a new job...yea me...A new friend (pretty red) and a new little sports car. I had to push back the dates for my surgery to Dec 20 and staying until Jan 2...taking the whole family. My sweetie pie has been so supportive of this process, he just wants me to be happy again. I sat back for a second and read most of the drama on here and it really is a shame. I've have problems contacting Dra Yily after I sent my deposit to reschedule but I promise you I will be sitting in her office at 7am on the dot the day I told her to reschedule me...I've sent emails and tried what's up and in Spanish and English and from what I can tell is she doing to much and need some better communication sources. If I find a way to get my deposit back I will probably change Doctors. I'm taking boxing and several cardio classes to decrease the weight so that my look will be on point. I don't want a big ass fat head and a little waist. Any way that is what's going on with me right now....My money is getting better and my emotions are as well. Put that all together and I put it in Gods hands and the end results will be a better me.....posting up pic of my new baby...boy she make me happy
..Heyy Friend... I kno u r njoying dat new car of urs {all smiles} & workin long hours on dat new job!!! Keep ur head up & Dec will b here b4 u kno it ...♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡♥.....
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what the HELL is going on in the DR

hi everyone, I been gone for a min. now I'm back again. I been off and on and reading different things about the clinic DR Yily, Duran and a few others...I'm rescheduled for Dec 20th....and I'm worried. I know anything could happen anywhere but it's becoming a habit at this clinic. I don't want to lose my deposit but.....damn.
Ladies please post any updates to me....and if anyone has gone sense the clinic reopened please let me know your experience.
☆★☆Friend I have 11 days :))) ☆★☆
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I'm scheduled for 10/21, The fact that the DR health dept shut them down frightens me. I have a small son to raise. Ive just been monitoring all the girls reviews to gain more insight. You should check with jenn85 she is scheduled for 6/9 at CIPLA. They literally just reopened... I think she be a great source on the what's going on now at CIPLA
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I feel the same as u however vanity and ego allow me to believe I want this....if it is my time only God will know...I'm praying the whole time and before and after this procedure.
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fuck Yily

I'M not going into a lot of details...but I know for a fact she not doing her own surgeries and she is a bitch....and she stealing peoples money without doing the procedures.
end of that.
Wow, Why You Say That?
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why is no one telling that Yily is prego

why is no one telling Yily is prego and suppose to be doing 4-7 surgeries a day.....I'm telling you don't believe she cares a damn about you....anyone who carries her purse around while doing a work up on a patient ...it is clear where her priorities are.
There's also a rumor that Yily is not even the one performing the surgeries. She is allowing med students to do the operation under her supervision. One girl said she woke up and Yily wasnt even in the room
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She is not doing her surgeries....if she even does one I would be surprised.
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HAS ANYONE HEARD OF DR MANUAL GUTIERREZ ROMERO IN TIJUANA

After all of the mess about Yily, and that center....I just had to say no....I want to try Dra Duran but the mess in the DR is too much for me. My friend told me about Dr Gutierrez and I'd be three miles from, the board and american hospital if I have a problem. I've seen bad reviews on everyone and really good ones, however if anyone can show me proof of a really good Dr in Tijuana or know about the one I mentioned above. Please let me know.

Dr Julio Saldana

Dr. Saldana responded to me the very same night (Sunday)...I received a quote after sending my pictures, however I'm not truly sure if I was able get my point across about what I wanted. Any who his office will contact me tomorrow. I will let u guys know it goes.

Dr Cardenas

My final choice....my surgery is may 21. I will stay in the recovery house 1or 2 days. I was quoted 6100. She gave me a call and said I will have a banging body. FATiMAH called as well. They both speak good english. Her quote was higher but her customer service is what sold me. So now I have to work on this long list of things to do and not to do. Buy another garment and lose weight. I still have my days of deep depression and lack of energy but its getting better. I saw were some girls on YouTube were taking this diet pill with lots of success so I'm trying it....so far so good. I don't have the same fear I had about going to Yily. That anxiety and that drama, the health dept and the deaths....I just couldn't. I'll be close to american hospitals if anything goes wrong and that relieves a litte anxiety by itself. Ok ladies peace for now

my wish pic

Hope this is realistic

another wish pic

This will be the new hair do ...and I got to lose this wait...no need to have thin waist and a fat face.
Chin lipo maybe an option....but botox is tomorrow. And b12 shots for weight lose and energy.

Dear Sisterless

I'm so sorry for your loss, but this in no way is your sisters fault and don't let Yily or anyone make you believe that. I know now why Yily has the 5th floor now. SMDH. HOW MANY LIVES DOES IT HAVE TO BE BEFORE WE SEE THAT THE DR'S associated with that place are butchers. Yes you get the cut right most of the time, but at least 80 percent are having problems.
Sister less I will be praying for you. Vengeance is mine sayth the Lord and these people will not get away with what they are doing.
I tried to warn people a few months ago about Yily...I hope people start really doing the home on these doctors.
Good luck, I'm going july 1st seems so dang long I'm still losing weight to tho. I will be following your journy.
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Awe hell no! I am terribly sadden that poor woman's sister has dies. That must be devastating but I have been hearing so many death talk about DR. that's terrifying. For the price us ladies are paying the surgeon should be doing our bodies not assistance. OMG!
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I agree..... And since they owner of the clinic is only doing community service for the 7 women he killed and Yily has the 5th floor. I guess she will have to get a bigger purse cause several are still giving her their money...
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what do i eat

I'm up trying to wrap all this around my head....so much to do in such a short time....and the worst part is I'm gaining weight...Wth...stress stress...I'm a ocean of mixed emotions....Monday I will call the doctor to see if I need to push back my date to maybe June to lose some weight..... I feel some type of way. I don't think... No I know I won't be staying at the recovery house. My spouse is coming with me and its just not worth the price to me. I'm worried about the pain and the mild antibiotic cipro I will be given...I'm bringing all my meds and have one garment and looking to buy a smaller one asap...all the medical stuff...uugggh
6 weeks and counting.
Thank you that is my second date I wanted to change to but I think it will be may 21
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AUGUST 7TH 2014. FINAL DATE

I changed my date one last time...I promise this is the last time I change my date..I'm keeping sticking with Dr Carmina. I'll be staying in Tijuana for 22 days then getting on a 23 day cruise...I figure I'll heal best in a nice tropical setting and 24 hour room service and on board medical help if needed. I'm so ready at this point. I'm still trying to lose weight and yeah ...its not going so well. I was on a Tijuana web site and they mentioned a drug called redotex...not avalible in the in the states. Has anyone else heard of this drug. And I know this might sound gross but does anyone have any use compressions garments they would be willing to donate....any size..I can alter. I'm going to be on the ship for 23 day and return home 6 days after the cruise, and I really can't afford 3 or 4 garments. I'm buying all my maxi dresses from thrift stores. And I'm taking all my meds with me. And the only supplies I'm getting new are dressing care stuff. I still haven't figured out the marble trick but I saw a silicone belly button bandage. I'm doing my PCA facial peels so I will look great and found some of the best body lotion and sunscreen and medical mineral makeup at beautipage.com/debbiemcraeperry. If you go to opportunity you get a entire kit of facial products for $77 dollars..my hubby will be doing my facials and hands while I'm recovering. And it has soothing eyepads for puffyness and a neck pillow u can use warm or cold. I'm cutting pennies seriously... I got our room in Tijuana for $65 a night and it across the street from the doctor and includes a breakfast/lunch buffet and a onsite casino. Even our cruise was cheap.com...I'm also getting a used walker to help for that bent over postion. Well that's all for now. And let me know if anyone will be in Tijuana at that time.
Thanks but it looks like I will be following you...I had to change my date.
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Robles

Man I saw some pictures of Dra. ROBles and all I can say is wow...her before and after pictures are the bomb. However I'm sticking will Dr. Cardenas...I'm starting to have dajavu. I have 99 problems. So much going on right now. Good news I talked with one of the Md in mexico Dr. Graham who prescribes the diet pill redox. So Im going to give it a try. First one to be popped in my mouth tomorrow which is my birthday. Oh ladies...I saw some of Dr Jamisons patients and several are gaining back alot of weight plus some. How are some of you seem to be holding the weight off or have you been strictly diet and exercise? Ok till next time.
Hey, are you ok?
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yes I'm great
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lost some weight

I lost 17 in one month...I tried exercise and diet and nothing worked. so diet pills are the way i went. I'm sorry if anyone does not agree. My blood pressure was up and my bmi was 33. in one month it went down to 30 and my b/p went from 126/86 to 118/76...please don't judge me. The bad news I still need to lose 22 according to the Dr. ughhhh

26 days till I have my surgery

I'm 20 pounds trying to get down least 15 more before I leave. I order 5 different garments for less then 200 dollars. I ordered a silicone belt to help with healing. Had to change hotels because I'm staying so many days. But my rate at the Amigo was 65.00 a night. But the second one is less then 30. a night and totals 604 for 21 days. I'm not leaving Mexico till I am healed. I will be on Vacation for a total of almost 60 days. It will be a lot but I'm praying everything goes well. My hubby got me a walker. the rest I'm getting from the dollar store. And oh yeah I got my vitamins. i guess the only thing left is compression holes. I'm nervous and worried but I'm going to do it.

if anybody can help

http://www.gofundme.com/bg8tqk if anyone can help please help me with this cost.....

lymphatic messages in Tijuana

Does any one know a private person that does lymphatic messages in Tijuana?

I need help

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day 13 post op

well ladies im a live and well. maybe not so well. 2 days ago. i stated feeling really tired and my period came on for 2 1/2 days (not normal for me). my incision is hard around the vag area. and my incision is not hip to hip...its longer. i'm not doing a full review yet because there is so much i want to say. i started a video blog as soon as i got out of surgery and will put it up on youtube as soon as i get back in the states. Am i happy not really. is my tummy better then it was yes, however i have this long ass high scare around my ass. and i'm not interested in tattoos ass cover ups. would i ever do this again.....hell no. i hope its the swelling and all that but i just don't think so. i have a follow up in the am to get at least one of my drains out and hopefully my stitches out. they have started to get scar tissue over them. Smdh. my inner thighs were supposed to be lipoed but ive not seen a stitch or bruise to that area....i had 400 cc to each cheek 3.5 lipos and 2.5 lbs of abd removed. So ..So much i want to say but i have another week here before my belly button stitches will be removed. And ladies always ask what you are being given, because not one of mine was labeled...hopefully i will get to the states soon and get some rocephin. i brought my own medication (gentimycin) and was made to feel i needed the $250 worth on meds at the clinic.
oh and i had to pay my entire balance walking in the door after a 12 plus hour flight. i was marked up photographed 20 times in all my sweaty glory. Then i was allowed to go to our hotel. i did not want to go to recover house (my hubby is a nurse) and pay 1000 usd for 5 nights plus 85 additional for my spouse. we stayed at hotel Astor and loved it for 3 weeks for 604 usd. ladies i promise to put up pics but right now is not a good time i want to be sure before i bash this whole situation and hurt feeling. but either or i will tell you guys the truth good or bad. all the critics, don't come for me unless i call u
good night

day 21

Tomorrow will be my last visit to my dr visit and wed will be my last day in tijuana. I dont think i am totally healed and will be running to an er or urgert care as soon as i get to the states. My drains are out but alone my suture lines are opened and draining what the dr says is fat. the area below and above my abd are hard and along with my back have to be messaged everday. the swelling is going down alot and i hope it goes down more. right now im not totally happy. i have this big long ass scar around my ass and im still draining and hurting especially in the morning. it takes 3 hr to shower dress wounds, message hard still areas and then get in a garment. and God help me find a good postion to sleep at night. thank God for my loving hubby.
Hi Hun, Just read your review. I hope things are going good for you and your body is healing properly!
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I'm at the 3 month point an I've had to have a ct scan I will post the email exchange of what the results are, but in short it is not good because i am being refered to a surgeon by my primary MD. But Dr C. says this is perfect....GTFOH....please Lord take the wheel. Thank You for your kindness.
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CARMINA CARDENAS Was anyone there in Aug 2014 and having problem

I'm 3 mos and 2 weeks post op with Dr Cardenas
and I'm still not better...I've had a ct scan and I've been advise to see a surgeon.....I'm so trying not to cry and type in anger....but God Help me. Ladies I promise I will tell my story all the way to the end and I will only tell the truth and post all my pictures, but at this point I'm so upset and in so much pain I'm afraid my words will be harsh and that is not my intention....please be patient with me as i am trying to be
Hun I know I commented on this on your other blog...follow your heart girl...whatever you have to say...in due time say it...**WISHING YOU WELLNESS AND HEALTH** God Bless
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Dominican Republic Plastic Surgeon

DR Carmina Cardenas was my DR but i can't change her name out

3 out of 5 stars Overall rating
3 out of 5 stars Doctor's bedside manner
3 out of 5 stars Answered my questions
3 out of 5 stars After care follow-up
2 out of 5 stars Time spent with me
4 out of 5 stars Phone or email responsiveness
5 out of 5 stars Staff professionalism & courtesy
1 out of 5 stars Payment process
5 out of 5 stars Wait times
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