3 month update and questions on how to lose weight but not lose my booty

Hi my bbl sister. Like many others I have been reading reviews on this site for months but this is my first time writing to you all lol. A little bit about me I'm 23 years old I'm a mother of a 3 year old and a 18 month old. I have wanted this procedure since I was 14 but of course at that time I knew nothing about fat transfer only implants were out..lol I just knew I wanted more butt. I never wanted one to please a man because I have enough going for myself that I didn't necessarily need a big butt. The doctor I chose is Dra. Yily De Los Santos in the dr. I love her contouring skills. I don't want a HUGE fake looking butt (no offense to the ladies who do) but I want a slimmer waist and a nice size butt. I contacted her and within 2 days she emailed me back and quoted me $3200 for lipo to the abdomen, flanks, waist and full back with bbl of course. I haven't made my deposit yet because I have to make sure that I will the time off work scheduled first. Question Have any of you ladies been able to get time off work on short term disability? I want to take 3 weeks off because I sit at a desk all day and I want to be healed as much as possible before I go back. I have the money for my deposit but wont have the money for the sx until September but I want to have my sx in august so I'm thinking of financing it and paying it off the next month because im so impatient and I cant wait until September lol. Any info that anyone can give about financing as well as how to get time off work other than using my vacation time would be helpful. And ladies who already went to Yily and info on your experience as well as recovery houses would be greatly appreciated.

My stats:
Im 5'2"
currently 157 recently lost 30 pounds since april... I surprised myself!!! but want to be 147 for surgery

My measurements:
38" above chest
36" waist
37" hips
40" around butt
So as you can see Im very straight shaped which is why I want yily because she makes a beautiful waist.

U want to be 34" 28" 43"
but realistically I believe I'll be 36" 30" 43"

Hey bbl sisters I'm so anxious to have this procedure. I think part of that is because I'm ready to get it over with. Not in a bad way but this has been a long time coming and I don't know if I can wait until August. I'm trying to schedule my procedure with Yily August 4th so hopefully she has an opening. I haven't put down a deposit yet because I'm still trying to decide how much time I can take off work. I sent Dra Yily another email just asking her what she recommends for my procedure. I really don't want a tummy tuck because I might not be done having kids but I also want to have amazing results. I sent her a few wish pics a few of them are her patients but I wanted her to be honest with me and tell me if their results would be realistic for me.. I know everyone is different but I don't want to travel all the way there for results that I know I wont be satisfied with. I love her work and she makes an incredible waist line for her patients but a few of her patients have big butts and a few aren't as big. I don't want a huge nasty booty but I want enough to where u cant say that its flat lol. Not saying that he work is inconsistent because maybe those patients didn't ask for a really big butt. I don't know I think my mind is all over the place. I think once I make my deposit it will feel more real to me. I talk to my mom all the time about the procedure and she isn't comfortable with me going out of the states to have it done. Shes very supportive but is just being a concerned mother. She also doesn't want me to go alone but I don't mind because there will be nurses there to help me but maybe I can find a sx buddy that way it will ease her mind... Ill update another day ladies.......

Oh and here are a few more pics. I can hide my chunkiness pretty good with clothes huh lol

Ok so I sent Yily an email on June 17th just asking her what she honestly thought about me not wanting the TT and how my results would be without it. I haven't heard anything back yet but I'm not trippin because I know that shes busy I also sent her a few wish pics of the patients she did who were somewhat shaped like me and who had amazing results..

I'm trying to decide what to do because I wont have the money for the sx until September but I want the sx done in August. I'm thinking about financing it and just paying it off in September which isn't a problem at all but I'm having a hard time finder a place that doesn't pay the doctor directly since she doesn't accept financing... Any suggestions?????????????? I really need this done In august I cant wait until September at all.... My credit is just fine but I need some suggestions on places that will just deposit the money to me instead of the doctor...

Also I'm not sure where to go from here. If I get the loan then I can give her my deposit but what comes next??? should I buy my plane tickets.. order my passport (expedited of course) and then get my labs done? because at this point I have about 5 weeks until surgery..... HELP!!!!

Did I mention that I haven't started to buy any supplies ladies.. lol I know I'm a mess but I figured I can get that done in one day.. Clearly I need some help lol

These are a few of the wish pics I sent her.. like I said I don't want a HUGE butt but I want much more than I have. A few of these ladies are Yily Dolls and I believe one is Salama's work... but their results are amazing. Not all of them had my shape but I like different things about each photo.