Mommy Makeover Except the Breasts - Tijuana, Mexico
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Hi everyone. I'm typing this from my iPad and am...
- 8 Nov 2012
Hi everyone. I'm typing this from my iPad and am in the recovery room, so please bear with me if I make mistakes.
I wish I had found out about this site before surgery (I found the forums section the evening before surgery).
My biggest complaint was my arms. I lifted heavy weights when I was young and the skin must have never popped back into place. It's embarrassing. Although my body is on the heavy side, 150, the arms just make me look enormous.
I went to a plastic surgeon in Palm Beach, FL to simply address my arms. Instead he told me everything else that was wrong with my body. Nice :(. Oh, and HE didn't think arm lift surgery was necessary, just lipo. In the end, he gave me an estimate of $18000 for liposuction. I felt defeated.
Called a friend and told what happened and he said he knew a woman that went down to Mexico for Lapband Surgery and she looks amazing. I called him that day. October 22.
The next 2 weeks have been a whirlwind of blood tests, phone calls and consultations between the doctor, myself and the staff. The best part is that the Doctor calls me. I said I wanted a full tummy tuck and he said, from the pictures, that it might not be necessary. I felt safe in the fact that he would tell me to remove procedures, not add them.
I've never had plastic surgery of any type, so once my local PS told me my body issues, I just wanted this done ASAP.
I'm 49 and have had 3 full term pregnancies with 2 live births. The kids are in college now, so it felt right to do this for me. My DH said he thinks I look great just like I am but he has listened to me complain about my fat self for years and told me he would support whatever I felt I needed to do.
So here I am, post surgery. Pain is pretty high but bearable and my body is already looking better if you minus the guts and gore.
In all I had a full tummy tuck, arm lift, ultrasound lipo on back by bra strap, lipo on inner thighs, lipo the entire lower half of torso (front and back) and a fat transfer into the butt.
Exhausting day. Finally got to my room and they...
- 8 Nov 2012
I hurt everywhere and now I'm crying. I just want to go home.
Did I mention the pharmacist who brought them over, 14 pills of nothing, charged me $100 cash.
Up and down on how I feel about this. I think the...
- 9 Nov 2012
My biggest issue is all the intense pain. I have come to find out that in Mexico you only get over the counter pain medicine. My doctor asked me if I have a low pain tolerance. I was like 'huh'? I talked to another woman here and she said a lady who left before I got here cried non stop, so I know it's not just me.
Anyway, he said he'd call in a real pain killer...yea! Now the nurse just came in to tell me that they can't locate one at any pharmacy so they are going to give me a shot. So I'm screwed. I will get one shot and in 4 hours I'll be back in the same exact place.
So NO! I would never recommend coming to Mexico for surgery simply because of the pain issue UNLESS you can come equipped with your own pain medicine. Otherwise, you are going to be taking Tylenol for this. Oh, did I mention they charged me $100 cash for those 14 Tylenol pills? Pooey :(
I really hoped all my updates would be concentrating on healing but I can barely move to even look. I haven't eaten a bite of food since Tuesday because I'm afraid to have to go to the bathroom.
Sadly, I'm not going to get the pain medicine. ...
- 9 Nov 2012
I think I did too much surgery at once.
Lipo front and back entire torso.
I can't find any position to get comfortable. I look like a plum.
I'm just going to have to deal with it. At this point, I've just made up my mind that Tylenol is what I'm getting and I'm going to have to deal with it.
It did raise my spirits to see how good all the stitches look and that everything was so flat! Baby steps!
I can't believe I forgot to mention this. I woke...
- 9 Nov 2012
It didn't hurt because I must have had a nerve block but I was awake. They didn't notice so I said something like, 'I'm awake, I don't think I'm supposed to be awake'. It was weird because they talked back at me. Someone was still working on my stomach. I think he was doing the lipo still because I could feel my body moving back and forth and something on the left side. Then I was out!
Next time I was still on my back but they were cutting my stomach. Still no pain, nerve blocks are a beautiful thing, huh? So I tried lifting my head but they had some type of drape of my head so I started pulling it off and they grabbed my arms to stop me and started really sort of yelling not to move. I'm thinking they must have already done the arm lift or were just in the process (not sure, had a drape over my head) but that time they sort of yelled, so it must have mattered that I not move. Then OUT!
Maybe I have a really good metabolism for drugs? Maybe the pain pills are good and the anesthesia was good. Maybe I'm just a really great metabolizer. Wow, the lady finds out her gift in life and it's a lousy 'gift'. ha!
Come to think of it, this isn't the first time I've woke up in surgery either. hmmmm
Post Op Day #3 Feel fine! Yay! Thanks...
- 10 Nov 2012
Feel fine! Yay! Thanks everyone for all you warm wishes and notes. Helped me so much. I'm in barely any pain now, just the normal aches you could expect.
The nurse came in at midnight to check vitals and give me medicine (Tylenol PM, I'm not kidding) and I told her I was fine, didn't need anything. It's crazy. This time yesterday I really thought I was going to die from the pain but today, nothing. Sure it's achy but I feel pretty good considering what my body has been through.
I love when they change the bandages and I see just how much my body has shrunk down. Love love love that. And my hands are swollen still so this is my body swollen?! I'll take it! Yippee.
Later today I plan to figure out how to wash my hair and clean my body with the help of my nurse. Then I'll ask the nurse to take some new pictures too. That is one thing I can't get enough of, they always are in here seeing what else they can do for you. And the food is super healthy and 24 hours room service. (never have done that but that's what I heard).
Oh this is a weird thing here: They have a spa (ok, fun for facials) but they give massages! (???) Why? I don't know. Some dumb bunny on the floor went to get one yesterday. Face/Palm I didn't even know what to say to her. So I asked the obvious....How'd that feel? She said it hurt. Well, gee Wally, no kiddin'. I can assure you, I won't be going to the spa...ever.
Have a beautiful day everyone. And again, thank you so much for all your kind words. You brought me through a very scary ordeal and now I'm pain free and ready to heal my new body. :)
4 day Post Op: I don't even know what to write...
- 11 Nov 2012
I don't even know what to write really. Boring day....blah, blah, blah.
Things are starting to get itchy, so I guess they are healing up. :) That's good!
Dr Quiroz took out the drains in my arms, so I only have the TT drain left. Super good! It's hard to move with drains, so I'm feeling better already.
Wednesday I go home. I stripped down tonight to get a picture. Looks pretty good I think. ( It's the one in the tshirt.) I even took right after eating dinner, how's that for confidence?
Thanks again for everything, you've all been great.
Post Op 10 days I'm HOME!!! I left Mexico on...
- 17 Nov 2012
I left Mexico on Wednesday. Took me 13 hours total to get home and can you believe it, I got a middle seat! They switched aircraft and I lost my aisle seat. Not only that, the guy by the window had Montasuma's Revenge! :( I told him, as kindly as possible, that nothing about me moves very fast, so if he wants, I can stand for the whole flight but he needs to give me a warning if he's going to start throwing up! I was veeeery nervous. Luckily, he didn't throw up..yay! But he did get up about 4 times...boo! It is really hard to get out of those seats with all these stitches in my belly, butt, back and arms. No pain, no gain I guess. So happy to be home.
Called my doctor, who's also a friend and was able to get some REAL pain medicine. Ok, it's a week after the big event but for the first time I was able to take the edge off a little. Ahhhhhhhhh
Ok, don't think I 'm a total moron but I just had to see what I looked like in my bikini that I wore to send my before picture to Dr Quiroz in Mexico. So, that picture is 8 days post op. Of course you can still see all the stitches but so what, it gives me a lot of hope that I'm heading in the right direction.
I also am posting all my before and after pictures (so far) to give you an idea of how much difference one week can make. Although I'm still so very, very swollen.....I'm NOT as swollen as I was before I hit the 'flat side'. It is shocking to me that I ever let myself look this bad. I honestly went to the gym all the time, don't know why it just wouldn't go away. Oh well, gone now.
I can't wait to see how this looks in a month when the stitches are out and more of the swelling is gone.
2 weeks post op. - Getting the stitches out...
- 21 Nov 2012
What an ordeal.
Doctor failed on this one. He said to go to my doc and have them removed today. Made the appt and showed up. Doc took one look and freaked out! No way! She said that I should be at a plastic surgeon and not a GP. Wish he had told me that. She started trying but gave up after an hour of digging them out. Only got the belly button ones so far. No plastic surgeons she could find because of the holiday so now I'm at the emergency room. This stinks!
Word of warning to out of country peeps, make sure to have a proper plastic surgeon set up at home for suture removal. Wish I had done that.
I think the docs sometime forget that we aren't medical professionals and don't think like that. I was planning on baking today but now I'm cooling my heals at the hospital ER. Bummer!
1 month post op - What a month. My husband asked...
- 8 Dec 2012
Here's a weird one. For the last 3 days I've had horrible pain on my right side of abdomen, about mid way between ribs and incision site. I've had to stop doing anything physical at all because the pain is unbearable. Nothing helps alleviate it either. I have Vicodin and even that doesn't help. It's in a very small area, constant and feels like a small knife is in there. Not even an exaggeration to say it parallels the pain post op. Really bad. Contacted PS and he said it's normal healing process. I went to look it up and sure enough, the books say that about 3 to 8 weeks post op with MR, the nerves will regenerate themselves and reattach. The pain will last for a week to 10 days or for some people won't even happen at all. Lucky me :( You've been warned. I thought something else was wrong because it isn't by an incision but everything I read said it would be one or the other side (not both).
Besides that, just slowly but surely getting better.
5 weeks post op and finally worked out. I was...
- 13 Dec 2012
My scar is very lumpy, like a fat piece of licorice. I just bought a silicone fx cover for nights and already started silicone stuff that you put on like nail polish for the day. I'm hoping it flattens it out some. This scar is horrible. The last bit of scabs are almost off but the raised scar hasn't flattened at all. Does anyone know how long this takes normally?
I've had a few people ask me to update, so here...
- 30 Apr 2013
Dr Quiroz had said it would take 6 months for all the swelling to be completely gone but I do think it isn't going to get any better than this. I will probably update again in a few days to show you a couple flaws that I want addressed but overall, I think it came out amazing.
The flaws: Right side hip, the scar is a little too high and has a small dog ear. I have to put a little cover up on the scar to keep it from showing in the swim suit or pull up the swim suit to keep it hidden.
My elbows are chubbier than my arms.
Both things probably are just my bodies fault more than his. When I look at the photos post op, things look correct. I had originally wanted to have my legs done too, at the same time. When I went to have everything done, Dr Quiroz had me stand in front of a giant mirror with no clothes (shudders) and he sat behind and to the left of me where I couldn't see him. He had me verbally state aloud what I didn't like about my body starting with what I disliked the most and working down from there. I disliked my arms the most, hands down. I could cover the tummy but living in Florida, the arms are a tough one. Then the stomach, the bra strap fat, and then finally I said the legs.
He asked about the legs and I told him that the plastic surgeon at home had mentioned that to be symmetrical, I needed them done too. I told him that my husband said they would look better if they were thinner. It was at that time that he said he wasn't going to be doing the legs. He explained that his reasoning was that the surgery is for the patient ONLY. That I wasn't very concerned about my legs and only had shown interest in them once it was pointed out by others. He said it made him uncomfortable and that the extra surgery on top of how much I was already having was too much anyway. I was starting to freak a little because I DID want some of the fat taken out...I really did. So he agreed to a little lipo on the inside of the legs but wouldn't do more than that. He said if I chose to do it later, after I healed, that would be fine but not in November.
I will say, looking back, that may have been the best decision ever made. How I could have possibly moved by myself and gotten onto a plane, made the connection, and finally home to Florida with my legs done too is a mystery.
I think Dr Quiroz is an incredible doctor and I do plan to go back to do the legs and ask him to fix those little flaws, if it's possible. I would also like to have a breast lift, possibly. They are pretty good by themselves but could use a little help. I figure time will surely add to the gravitational pull, so why not take care of it while I'm out there?
My husband was so impressed with the results, he is sending his pics in too this time for a little tummy lipo. He's very muscular but would like his stomach flat. You know the doctor is good when your man is willing to fly across country to have a procedure done. I'm just glad that this time I will have company.
This is what the scarring looks like 5 months...
- 1 May 2013
I am adding a before and after picture, in...
- 3 May 2013
I am putting up my last group of photos. Some are graphic of the scars up close, immediately after surgery or withing the first few weeks. I've seen people commenting that they are afraid that all those odd bumps, flaps, and folds are permanent....they aren't. But they are ugly and scary. Agreed. But, as your PS probably has told you, time is your friend. They will flatten out and fade. Just give it time.
So everybody, thank you for all your support. Thank you for everything. You held me up when I thought I would die from the pain. You supported me when I thought I was a freak for life. But I'm not! It works...and it will work for you too. I promise. Hang in there and believe.
Good luck to you all!
Dr Quiroz is an amazing surgeon. He has a great manner about him and easy to talk to. My only issue has been after surgery trying to get pain medication.