Thigh Lift: Stories
Write a ReviewThigh Lift Left Me with Sagging Skin, Unnatural Contours - Corona Del mar, CA
- sky9
- posted 1 year ago
- updated 1 year ago
- Not Worth It
- Cost: $8,000
- Corona del Mar, CA
I have always worked out and watched my diet... I...
- 22 Dec 2011
I have always worked out and watched my diet... I was in good shape but still had sagging skin on my thighs. This surgery left me with unnatural contours and my skin now pulls and sags in a very unnatural and uneven way. I am very self conscious and depressed about it. Basically it looks horrible. Dr. A was impatient and rude to me about my concerns.
yes but it didn't accomplish much. It cost 4,000. I paid another surgeon 5,000 to try again and while he did succeed at making the scar thinner and some improvement in the skin laxity and contour problems, those problems still exist. Now I am out of money and can not pay anyone to finish the work, although I am told that further revision is possible. I just have so much regret and this whole thing has taken such a toll on my life. I feel exhausted and severely depressed. I can not stand living in this body as it is. I don't know what to do. I have spend a lot of psychiatric/counseling care and tried various anti depressants as well....as a result of this well. I can not afford that kind of help anymore either. I feel like I am at the end of my rope.
I feel so awful.. THis surgery ruined my life.
Thanks BB...... I appreciate your kind words. And sending you sweet angels as well. Want to learn to love myself again... imperfections included. Sometimes it can be so hard.
BB
The consult was very good.... he is a good listener. I had the procedure.... one side came out beautiful!! ... the other improved.. but still has problems. So I have a follow up on Monday and am hoping Dr Svelack is as compassionate when it comes to redoes. I'll let you know how it goes.
How was your consult? I am also thinking about going to him.
I am going for a second consultation with Dr. Svelack. I think he may be able to help me.. but I am also worried that it could go wrong. Hoping and praying he can help and I can get back to my life. Thank you all who have replied.
How is it going? What's the status on your repair surgery?
I finally had my medial thigh lift (scar from grion to inner butt cheek) on Feb 15th and i had several complications with the scars healing, but as of yesterday all parts have closed (fingers crossed that my body stops rejecting the deep sutures). I also have a lymphocele that my doc has drained 3 times and is going to put a drain n today.(set back)..but all and all my thighs look great (aside from the swellin). But my issue is the outter appearance of my vagina. My labia majora is almost non exsistent and the mons (upper lip like part), is gone. I say it looks like a vagina on crack....its very scary looking to me. The inner labia just hangs out unprotected, getting dry and irratated. My hubby doesnt see anythg wrong with it. He thinks its easier access to u know what. But i hate the way it looks. Even if no one will ever see it, but him, i hate it and i want it fixed. So I aplogize for down playing your feelings. Although that was never my intention, in retrospect it may have appeared that way. I cant and dont want to live my life with a creapy looking vagina. So i understand your plight. I wish u luck in locating a ps to fix your incision.
Take Care,
Headliner
HI headliner... I have heard there are surgeons who specialize in what you are talking about it.... I think you could find someone to help if you google it. ANd check reviews.... Best of luck to you ... Sky
PS I did find a surgeon to help revise my incisions and I'll post the outcome. Keeping my fingers crossed as well!
reconstruction. I have considered doing my majora because my clit and minora are so much more normal sized now, that it feels a little bigger but all the reasons I had it done are gone so I decided against it. Sex was uncomfortable being pulled in and out of my vajayjay, and when oral was performed, men would just assumed because I was "baggier and longer" there that they should be rough, or even just plain confused because my clit was so diffiult to pin down (so to speak), I look completely normal now, and have actually compared mine to other very nice looking women and I am pleased. My name is Brandi, and if you speak with Zena at Dr Alters office, you'll be so relieved...I can give you my word by experience...Good luck sweety~
Thanks for your comment Rosebud.
WHo is your surgeon??
Sky was hurt you want them to take responsibility and it's SO hard when they don't. Especially when YOUR the one that wakes up to the pain, mentally, physically and emotionally every single day! And they don't they don't think about YOU AT ALL!
Thank you of your comment . I have been looking for another surgeon.
May I see pics plz. The pic I see on Dr's Web sites looks great.