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Considering a BA... Hesitant - Colorado Springs, CO

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Hello. I am considering a breast aug. I recently...

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Hello. I am considering a breast aug. I recently lost 'that last 10 libs' and am very happy with my body (5'10 and 130), but have had trouble watching my small c's become practically nothing. With a bra with some padding it's okay, but there have been a few times I've caught my reflection in the gym, and I feel shapeless up top, which I've never felt before.

I would never have considered surgery until feeling this way, and have been met with a lot of resistance from my mother who has always been against plastic surgery and always made that known to me growing up. I guess I'm just looking for some insight into other people's decision making processes. What freaks me out the most is the fact that this is real surgery, which is not to be taken lightly. It seems like so many people on these boards have been planning on doing it for years and it was just a matter of when. Would be great to hear from people who were hesitant and had concerns, and how they got to the point of making the change. Thanks in advance!

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I chose to schedule a consultation with Dr. Squires after seeing all of the positive reviews on here and that he answered questions and seems engaged with people seeking information. I had only a friend of a friend that I knew who had had the surgery, and when I spoke to her about it found out that she had seen him as well. That solidified it for me, and he was the only surgeon I met with. As you can see if you look back at my earlier forum posts, I was very interested in getting the surgery, but also hesitant and really needed some time to be sure that I wanted to make such a permanent change. I can say that after a few months of really thinking about it and weighing the options, I made my decision and never once second guessed it. I am so glad I had the surgery and happy with how I look. When I went in for my consultation, I had a list of questions prepared, but didn't need to ask any because Dr. Squires answered all of them during our conversation. This showed me that he is tune with what patients might worry about or need reassurance on, and that made me really like and respect him immediately. I was also pleased by how little pressure there was from his staff. I was worried there might be some incentive to schedule that day, like money off, which for a money saver like me would have been hard to turn down if I thought I might actually end up getting the surgery. Luckily, I left with a packet fully explaining all of the charges and finance options and was given a lot of time to really make the right decision for myself. They let me come in another time before any decision was made for a sizing appointment, and it was about 2 months after I tried on the sizers with some of my own clothes that I committed and scheduled the surgery. There was no pressure at the sizing appointment and no follow up call, which I really liked. It let me process the information myself, but I knew they were a call or an email away if I had a question. Once I booked the surgery, everything progressed easily. The staff is very friendly and always made me feel comfortable being half naked around them all the time. And members of the staff shared their own stories of surgery performed by the doctor, which I found very reassuring. I do realize they are on the payroll, but it was nice to hear personal stories and it made me more comfortable. Sizing was a big issue for me, and they were very, very patient with me. I wanted to make sure I went big enough to suit my taller frame, but did not want them to be super noticeable in clothing. I kept saying they can be as big as possible when I'm naked or in a swimsuit, but I want them to be classy in work and regular outfits. They looked through endless pictures with me, had me find my own pictures and email them and discussed how my perception was off and ones I thought would be good were actually freakishly huge. The main office staff member I worked with even let me email pics the Friday before my surgery to her personal email so she could get them to the nurse who would be there the day of my surgery. The surgery went very smoothly. I wasn't nervous at all and the anesthesiologist and Dr. Squires did a good job calming my mom's nerves. I remember slipping away to sleep and then woke up in recovery. I was diligent about my meds, setting alarms and writing which one I needed to take when, and was never in any pain at all. I am very thankful for how smoothly it all went. Unlike a lot of people who want to sneak a peek under the bandage, I knew they would look very odd, so I waited until my appointment the next day. And, as expected, they were high and weird looking. But I had been warned that it would take a while for them to settle and look good, and I was surprising patient with that. I'm now almost one year post surgery and I can honestly say that I am 100% happy with them. They look incredible. They are beautiful in lingerie, a swimsuit or a sexy dress for a night out, but very easily hidden in clothes at work. The size we went with is large, I wear a 34DD, but they are proportional to my taller yet thin frame. I would say they started looking completely normal and natural maybe 3 months after my surgery. And my scars are now almost completely gone. I highly recommend having Dr. Squires as your surgeon.

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May 25, 2014
Congratulations on your weight loss; you should be very proud of this accomplishment. Of course, it is frustrating that you have lost breast volume as well. The best way to alleviate your anxiety when it comes to proceeding with elective breast surgery is to do your due diligence carefully when it comes to selection of plastic surgeon. Make sure that he/she is certified by the American Board of plastic surgery and has significant and demonstrable experience ( as well as safety record) achieving the types of results you will be pleased with. Once you make this choice, everything else including selection of anesthesiologists on surgery facility follow. Then, it will be important for you to communicate your goals carefully as well. In my practice, I find the use of goal pictures and computer imaging very helpful during the communication process. Best wishes for a successful search and surgical procedure that you will be very pleased with.
May 30, 2014
Thank you, doctor. I think I need to begin meeting with surgeons to get a better feel for the procedure and finalize my decision.
May 25, 2014
Hi! I really hear you. I have always been on the luscious curvy side and liked it. But last year, due to some health issues with my neck and back i was immobilized for a while and gained a bunch of weight. I have since lost it and damn, if my boobs didn't go first! I also have family who have harsh judgement for the so called superficiality of BA. My husband is excited about the idea, but also fine if i don't want to do it ultimately. I have had to do some real soul searching to figure out how i feel about it. I feel a bit guilty for wanting my breasts to be more "perfect" since there is no real issue with them other than getting older and breastfeeding. I worry it is another version of the body image issues i struggled with as a younger woman. Unlike Botox, or fillers (both of which I am doing and am very happy with), this is not only MAJOR but it is also something that will require surgical update in the future!It won't wear off and i can't change my mind if i don't like it. I worry that this is the opposite of aging gracefully. On the other hand my body and sexual confidence are important to me, and feeling sexy is important for my marriage. I think a BA will give me a confidence boost the way fillers in my chin have. Is it a slippery slope? Perhaps. I have decided i am at peace with intervening here and there as long as it does indeed boost my confidence. I am trying to be mindful of signs that it is becoming an unhealthy dynamic in my life. I go back and forth between desperately wanting to do it, and feeling a bit sheepish for wanting to do it. I am really looking forward to my first consult with a PS on June 3 to understand what my personal options are and to narrow down the possibilities to some concrete specifics. Does this help you feel less alone? I am so glad you spoke up. Thanks! And congrats for going in shape! That is awesome!
May 30, 2014
Thanks for letting me know that I'm not alone with the indecisiveness. It is scary that it is so permanent, and I'm very worried about the whole slippery slope thing. I come from a family where all of the women aged gracefully, but I know that I will want to look my best, even if that means some help (fillers, etc.). I hope that I will have a moment where I will know whether it's right to do it, otherwise, I worry I'll be that person cancels last minute due to cold feet. I really appreciate hearing your story. Please let me know how your consult goes!
February 12, 2015
Don't do it, your tuts are amazing as they are!
UPDATED FROM Inspir8
6 months pre

Still doing research... considering starting to schedule consultations

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I still feel unsure about my feelings regarding the surgery. I know that I need to do more research, but I think the next step might be meeting with a surgeon to understand more fully exactly what I'm thinking about doing.

I've also seen a lot people mention that they were sure they wanted to do it after they saw a friend's positive experience. I don't have any friends who have had this procedure, but I do feel that would be very helpful. Also kind of scares me that I would be the only person not only in my family but among my friends and acquaintances. Will I be known as the vain one?

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5 months pre

Excitement

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Tonight I told one of my friends about my interest in a BA, and to my surprise she way very excited! I didn't expect her to be judgy or anything, but she was totally and completely excited about it. She has naturally big boobs and I guess wants to share the love with me!

It felt good to share my thoughts with someone, and I think I'm really leaning toward doing it.

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June 11, 2014
So my mom has had a lift and BA, after four kids she said enough! That was years ago, and other than that I am the only one in my family and of friends. I didn't want them at first because I liked how lean I looked flat chested. But then when I was naked, different story! Also, low v-cut shirts looked so amazing with a little fluffy cleavage showing, nothing trashy, but just a little on the top. Not trying to sway you, but I am so happy I did it thus far, and being as tall as you are, I wouldn't go too small either! I'm just under 5'10" and was SO SO SO worried that 450cc would be obscene, but I can tell peeking around sides of bandage they will just drop from here and look natural for my frame. Plus you sound very slim, would be a great compliment to what is already a very lean body!
June 12, 2014
I have been surprised that the couple of people I have told have been cool about it too. Maybe it's me who has felt judgemental about others? I have to say, after being on this site, I have released my judgement of others. I think that ageing gracefully is all about confidence and style, and having implants doesn't compromise either of those things. So.... big news... I scheduled for October 9--the day before my birthday! AHHHHH!