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Think Thrice Before You Get Them -Coeur D Alene, ID
UPDATED FROM RingingDagger
3 years post
Old pictures
$12,200
Unfortunately, I don't have any pics of me naked with 225cc's.
Replies (3)
November 15, 2013
Your story is really beautiful! I, as well, will think of your grandma often :-) wonderful story, thank you for sharing. How are you doing these days??
November 28, 2013
Just wow....thanks for sharing. I am still considering implants as part of a BA/BL, but having a foreign body in my body definitely does give me pause. I just don't know if I would be happy with only the BL and small B boobs.
UPDATED FROM RingingDagger
3 years post
How to Boost Your Self-Esteem
Oh no, of course I dont' have the answer to that and it would be childish of me to try to save the world with my crooked posts here, but
I've been reading some of the comments on this site and want to share a little story of a woman who had saggy unattractive breasts, was in her 50s, wasn't beautiful, and yet had young and older men lined up at her walkway ready to fall on their knees begging for her attention only if that woman moved her brow.
My grandma is in her 70s now, and she lives in ************ and has no idea I'm using her as an example. She was in her early 50s and she was already a widow, and let me tell you if you ever looked at her picture you would never say she was beautiful.
During my childhood, I spent most of my summers at hers, and we were very close. Her breasts were... Ladies, some of your are saying you have/had ugly breasts, but my grandma's... Me and her would joke on her rolling them up before sticking them in her bra. And she also had scars on her tummy from multiple health-related surgeries, and some extra skin there from the times when she was heavy and then suddenly shrunk down after loosing over 50 lbs.
She never had any cosmetic surgery done, she wore no make-up and the only thing she would wear on her face would be lipstick. Oh, and she colored her long hair dark brown to cover gray. That's it.
And yet, men would chase her like dogs chase a butterfly. Men of different ages. Here is the story: once, a man of her age and his son both fell in love with her at the same time. She of course, turned down both of the proposals and stopped any further relations, but the fact of that happening to a 50-some-year-old woman... You may not believe me, but she visited us two years ago, and I could still notice men turning their heads following her with a gaze.
Why? Because she was and still is full of life. She's positive. She's smiley. She's got that cluster of energy that draws both men and women to her. And when she listens to you, she listens wholeheartedly. Girls of my age (I was a teen then) would come to her with their broken hearts and tears for a piece of advise about this or that guy. She would listen and support, and never judge, and give her best. She could remarry at least 10 times if she wanted to, but she decided not to.
She was far from beautiful, but she's always been attractive and interesting, no matter how ugly her breasts/tummy/legs/anything were.
One of her advises to me was this: "Why are you concentrating on this or that part of your face or body? People perceive you as a whole, not parts. And besides, what seems unattractive to you, could be that something that drew that someone to you."
My wise grandma... Anyway, I had extra 30 min today and thought why not share this. Who knows, maybe this will boost someone's confidence and remind them that what's inside is so much more important.
I've been reading some of the comments on this site and want to share a little story of a woman who had saggy unattractive breasts, was in her 50s, wasn't beautiful, and yet had young and older men lined up at her walkway ready to fall on their knees begging for her attention only if that woman moved her brow.
My grandma is in her 70s now, and she lives in ************ and has no idea I'm using her as an example. She was in her early 50s and she was already a widow, and let me tell you if you ever looked at her picture you would never say she was beautiful.
During my childhood, I spent most of my summers at hers, and we were very close. Her breasts were... Ladies, some of your are saying you have/had ugly breasts, but my grandma's... Me and her would joke on her rolling them up before sticking them in her bra. And she also had scars on her tummy from multiple health-related surgeries, and some extra skin there from the times when she was heavy and then suddenly shrunk down after loosing over 50 lbs.
She never had any cosmetic surgery done, she wore no make-up and the only thing she would wear on her face would be lipstick. Oh, and she colored her long hair dark brown to cover gray. That's it.
And yet, men would chase her like dogs chase a butterfly. Men of different ages. Here is the story: once, a man of her age and his son both fell in love with her at the same time. She of course, turned down both of the proposals and stopped any further relations, but the fact of that happening to a 50-some-year-old woman... You may not believe me, but she visited us two years ago, and I could still notice men turning their heads following her with a gaze.
Why? Because she was and still is full of life. She's positive. She's smiley. She's got that cluster of energy that draws both men and women to her. And when she listens to you, she listens wholeheartedly. Girls of my age (I was a teen then) would come to her with their broken hearts and tears for a piece of advise about this or that guy. She would listen and support, and never judge, and give her best. She could remarry at least 10 times if she wanted to, but she decided not to.
She was far from beautiful, but she's always been attractive and interesting, no matter how ugly her breasts/tummy/legs/anything were.
One of her advises to me was this: "Why are you concentrating on this or that part of your face or body? People perceive you as a whole, not parts. And besides, what seems unattractive to you, could be that something that drew that someone to you."
My wise grandma... Anyway, I had extra 30 min today and thought why not share this. Who knows, maybe this will boost someone's confidence and remind them that what's inside is so much more important.
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November 7, 2014
Been contemplating BA for 20 years. Finally went to have a consult and was going to call In The morning to schedule the surgery, but have been having nagging feelings in the back of my head. Your post has convinced me to hold off. At least for now.
Thank you for posting. I wish I could give you a hug!
UPDATED FROM RingingDagger
3 years post
Day 18 POST-OP
First of all, I am terribly sorry I haven't shared any of my old pictures yet. No excuse for me, except for the fact life is so busy... and I'm not thinking of my breasts AT ALL.
Which is a great thing. Ladies... I'm the happiest I've ever been. About my breasts: the left one is still a little swollen, the right one is a little tighter, and they are more or less aligned. The scar below the right breast is lower than the other, though, and it might stay lower forever. I am surprised by how I don't even care that much (I'm not on any antidepressants or any drugs at all).
One thing I noticed, in the last two or so years I had countless depression episodes, and I couldn't figure out why I would be so depressed without any legitimate reason, besides my breasts being unnaturally big, but I wasn't obsessed with them. Now that I've read a few other reviews on implants, I realize that silicone could be linked to depression syndrome from a medical point of view. I neither have sufficient data, nor have read any medical research on the topic, but from personal experience I think I can without doubt say I am not depressed anymore. It is still probably too early to speak confidently explants are the cause, yet I am not depressed. Given they are far from being beautiful ))) One of the ladies mentioned higher suicide rate in women with breast implants, and if their data on silicone causing depression is accurate, I can totally believe it being true. Wow. Women, and young girls especially, please, please, please do your research...
On looks. Ladies... What a pleasure it is to have so many options. Want bigger breasts - push-up bra! Want normal breasts - regular bra! Want small breasts- sports bra! I can finally fit in my favorite blouse from four years ago, and everything from neck down looks proportionate. Not low, not big, not tight, not heavy. Just right.
My doc said no work-outs for one month, but I cleaned my house today and felt so light and wonderful, no pain at all. Can't wait till I start jogging/weightlifting again. And in a couple of months I will be able to stand on my hands and do a cartwheel...
I don't know how many women are reading this, but if you are one of those who just got their implants out, my humble piece of advise would be getting distracted from your body. It does take a long time to heal, and looking and concentrating on it all the time would bring nothing but useless worry to you and your loved one(s). Just engrave in your head that your are beautiful and go help/love/support someone else. God, if only I could give myself this same advise three and a half years ago...
Ladies, stay beautiful, stay kind, stay positive, and deep thanks to all of you who commented and supported )
Which is a great thing. Ladies... I'm the happiest I've ever been. About my breasts: the left one is still a little swollen, the right one is a little tighter, and they are more or less aligned. The scar below the right breast is lower than the other, though, and it might stay lower forever. I am surprised by how I don't even care that much (I'm not on any antidepressants or any drugs at all).
One thing I noticed, in the last two or so years I had countless depression episodes, and I couldn't figure out why I would be so depressed without any legitimate reason, besides my breasts being unnaturally big, but I wasn't obsessed with them. Now that I've read a few other reviews on implants, I realize that silicone could be linked to depression syndrome from a medical point of view. I neither have sufficient data, nor have read any medical research on the topic, but from personal experience I think I can without doubt say I am not depressed anymore. It is still probably too early to speak confidently explants are the cause, yet I am not depressed. Given they are far from being beautiful ))) One of the ladies mentioned higher suicide rate in women with breast implants, and if their data on silicone causing depression is accurate, I can totally believe it being true. Wow. Women, and young girls especially, please, please, please do your research...
On looks. Ladies... What a pleasure it is to have so many options. Want bigger breasts - push-up bra! Want normal breasts - regular bra! Want small breasts- sports bra! I can finally fit in my favorite blouse from four years ago, and everything from neck down looks proportionate. Not low, not big, not tight, not heavy. Just right.
My doc said no work-outs for one month, but I cleaned my house today and felt so light and wonderful, no pain at all. Can't wait till I start jogging/weightlifting again. And in a couple of months I will be able to stand on my hands and do a cartwheel...
I don't know how many women are reading this, but if you are one of those who just got their implants out, my humble piece of advise would be getting distracted from your body. It does take a long time to heal, and looking and concentrating on it all the time would bring nothing but useless worry to you and your loved one(s). Just engrave in your head that your are beautiful and go help/love/support someone else. God, if only I could give myself this same advise three and a half years ago...
Ladies, stay beautiful, stay kind, stay positive, and deep thanks to all of you who commented and supported )
Your story is wonderful...and so very true. I will think of your wise grandma often!