This has been really hard. I got really bruised...
15 Jan 2011
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x7h8a2QnC6s
This has been really hard. I got really bruised and also it hurt a lot. I felt like there were little bugs in my face that I could not scratch out. I am really swollen and look like a cat. Everywhere i go people stare at me and make snide remarks behind my back. Hopefully, this will be worth it but it is taking forever for the swelling to go down. It hurts really bad to smile and laugh too.
f you look at my rhinoplasty review you can see my videos I made and pictures too.
I am 6 weeks post-op now and I have improved a lot...
18 Feb 2011
I am 6 weeks post-op now and I have improved a lot. I made a video for my 6 week post-op.
My congestion went away but now I caught a cold so it's back again. My nostrils are still kinda uneven but I can live with that. My skin on my nose and cheeks is horrible right now. It is still really dry, rough, flaky. I can't seem to get rid of it. Any advice?
I am 3 months post-op in 2 days so I decided to...
29 Mar 2011
I am 3 months post-op in 2 days so I decided to post now. I am a million times better. I do not think I look "catish" anymore and actually I really like my cheeks and don't want them to go down more. If they do go down a lot more than I definitely would not be against getting a fat grafting touch-up. I would do it with Dr. Motykie again because he did a good job. Now that I know the entire healing process and what to expect, I would not be freaking out about it like I was the first time around. Hopefully, I will not need a touch up and if I do, I hope it is not for at least a year. I think fat grafting is worth it if you go to an experienced surgeon. Before doing this procedure though, you must know that the healing process is rough, as you can see in my videos. I got really depressed at first because I looked so strange, but now it's all good and I am more than happy. Please feel free to e-mail me any questions regarding this procedure if your thinking about doing it or have already done it.
Ok, so the other day I was examining myself in the...
17 Apr 2011
Ok, so the other day I was examining myself in the mirror and I noticed that I have developed dark purple/blue/reddish thick veins under my eye area. I never had that before the fat transfer. I had some under eye circles but not huge veins that were visible to the naked eye in a non-magnified mirror. I had a lot of serious bruising under and in my eyes and maybe it is leftover from that but it looks bad and I am not happy about that new problem. My cheeks do look more plump and I am happy about that. I had so much bruising that it would not surprise me that the bruising was so severe that those veins burst and now they are permanent. I guess nothing is perfect. I still give it a "very good" rating below because of the fact that it filled out my face.
I made a 4 month post-op. Here is the...
13 May 2011
I made a 4 month post-op. Here is the link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z11OFVWaZBA
I am 6 months post-op now. I am ok with the fat...
22 Jun 2011
I am 6 months post-op now. I am ok with the fat grafting. It filled in my hollows which is good.
I made a video showing my pre to post-op in a...
14 Jul 2011
I made a video showing my pre to post-op in a slide show format. Here is the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x7h8a2QnC6s
I am 11 months post-op now. I am very happy with...
3 Nov 2011
I am 11 months post-op now. I am very happy with the results of both my nose and my facial fat grafting. I still have a hard time breathing normally but hopefully that will improve with time too. My skin is a lot from the Vi peel too. I love my nose. To me, it looks natural and not overdone. I appreciate doctor Motykie's natural approach to surgery. At first I was very scared by the way I looked but that was just initial shock because I was so swollen. I am happy to say that I am very pleased with his work and I rate him a 9 out of 10. The only reason I do not give him a 10 is because he is just really hard to get in touch with. Other than that, he is great.
I meant to say 10 months post-op :) Oops
3 Nov 2011
I meant to say 10 months post-op :) Oops
Hello everyone. As you may have noticed, I am no...
9 Jan 2012
Hello everyone. As you may have noticed, I am no longer responding to any comments or personal messages. I posted my images and my experiences on here to help others who were having this procedure done not to be judged and harassed. I though this website was about support and questions. Unfortunately, in my good attempts, I have gotten (for the most part) many derogatory comments and I do not believe in bullying or talking bad about people and am choosing not to be any part of it. I do appreciate those of you who have been supportive. I wish all the best for those of you who have undergone this procedure or for those of you who are thinking about undergoing this procedure. Happy new year to all.
Really hard to get in touch with but he is a great doctor.
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Blue06
14 Mar 2013
Oh, by the way - you were gorgeous before the rhinoplasty but I love your post-op results, and I can't really see the asymmetry that bothers you. It may be one of those things that sticks out to you but others don't notice. You look lovely in the post-op photos. (Hope your skin issues have been resolved, and I'm crossing the Vi Peel off my potential "to do" list...)
Blue06
14 Mar 2013
schmie2, I found your review when searching for fat grafting reviews. I see in your update that you're not accepting any more personal messages, but I'm hoping you'll be willing to leave a quick update about the fat grafting? The youtube videos are all down now and I'd really like to know the recovery process ahead of time.
Pocahantas
23 Nov 2012
@Bunni, I am in the same situation as you. Had uneccassary blephroplasty when I was 30. Ended up with hollowness and dark-circles under my eyes. The surgeon even convinced me to reduce my upper lid(it was my first surgery, I was naive, walked into the first surgeon and signed up for procedure with no reasearch). Now I have ptosis and unable to close my left eye fully.
This was 6 years ago....but when you have been burned once - you are all the more carefull. Eyes being such a central part of your face...I have been too afraid to touch it. But at the same time hate the hollowness and dark circles as it ages me A LOT.
Anyway, I have been researching and the best surgeons for this procedure in my opinion are Dr Seckel or Taban MD. I actually flew to LA to meet with Taban and was satisfied with the consultation and impressed with him and his experince(he's an occuplast surgeon and only deals with eyes). Dr Seckel is on my shortlist because he is the only one who actually does 'arcus realse' prcedure and has dealt with patients with hollow under eyes and dark circles specifically.
Hope this helps!!
nadiahoney
14 Mar 2013
Wow, Pocahantas, just saw this. What a shame! And so young to have that happen -- I mean, for a surgeon to do that and take your money was so wrong because I am ten years older and when I ask for that doctors laugh at me. They say it would be wrong to do that to someone before it's time. Have you tried fillers for the hollowness and all that? If you get the right person (and I found one even in the middle of nowhere) with lots of real reviews to back it up, I bet that could be a temporary fix at least. I have liked what radiesse and juvederm CAREFULLY and well done have done for my draggy, hollow spaces. If I EVER find the right doctor for fat (I hear there are only three at this time to even remotely consider, one in SF, one in Ny, forget where the other is) I will do it. If Schmie lets us know hers lasted, hers looks wonderful. But so many times you have to keep getting it redone so I would like to know, Schmie! It looks so good in yr pics but what a pain if people have to keep going back in for another "shot."
dogma
23 Nov 2012
In the future, use SINNECH (medical grade arnica). It helps with (little to now) bruising and pain and helps heal faster. I had a face lift and 20 hrs after surgery at my first check up my doctor told me I looked like I was 1.5 weeks into recovery. I use it all the time for injury and surgery for my pets/friends and ALWAYS have the same remarkable results. I also use the pre/post of vitamins from MakeMeHeal.com -excellent. SInnech can be purchased there or Amazon. Makes a HUGE difference in recovery. Appreciate your input as I am now about to have fat transfer and corrective rhynoplasty and am a bit nervous due to the "in office" procedure. Sorry to hear stupid people messed with your posts. Very helpful, I am grateful.
Misty H.
(RealFriend)29 Apr 2012
Hi bunni
I had a fat transfer along with a face lift and temple list with Dr. Cruise in November 09. I was so happy with the results that I no longer thought that I was too old to have a breast augmentation. So I went back to Dr. Cruise in April 2010 for a breast augmentation. I really love these results. I am thin so I went back to Dr. Cruise for a second stage fat transfer to just add a little fat around my temples (where bone was showing) and in my forehead and just a little more in my cheekc. The results were subtle, but I am pleased.
When I run into people I haven't seen in a while they stop and look almost stare. I can see their mind thinking. They tell me I look really great. They then ask if I am doing my hair differently or if I have lost weight. They can tell something is different, but they can't figure it out because it looks natural.
I have had 3 surgeries with Dr. Cruise and I love the results from all 3. He really is a skilled surgeon and a compassionate person. I can't recommend him highly enough. I my experience he is worth it.
No I don't work for Dr. Cruise....I am just a very please patient.
Good luck!
bunni
29 Apr 2012
Hello Schmie! I am looking into doing fat transfer under my eyes due to loss of volume from a lower eyelid blepharoplasty, removal of my bags under my eyes. My under eyes are flat, and a bit sunken in and I have more wrinkles too and I'm only 27 years and I look older now. I was looking towards Dr. Cruise and I'm sure you heard of him since your on Real self a lot. =) How long has it been post op? Has your fat remained in place or absorbed away? I keep reading horror stories and that fat transfers does not last long etc. And I got quoted 3500 and thats a hefty fee alone. I need some guidances. Help please! =)
anthony555
12 Jan 2012
You look amazing after your surgery. Thank you for sharing your story.
Pocahantas
9 Jan 2012
@Schmie (re update on 09/01/2012). Thank you for your info. It has been very helpful. And you look wonderful both before and after.
In life you can never make everyone happy, so just make yourself happy ;o) Happy new year to you too, I look forward to your vids on youtube. Poca x
Receding eyes
9 Jan 2012
Forgive me, my comment was directed at schmie2.
Pocahantas
9 Jan 2012
Oh ok LOL, after I wrote such a long reply hehehe
missladyface
8 Jan 2012
I don't understand why people we're snickering behind your back after surgery. You seem like such a sweetheart.Also, the surgery appears to only be an improvement to an already beautiful girl. Honestly, I was surprised you wanted ps when I saw you before photos. Understandable, though. I get that as well and I desperately want a nose job and possibly a lip lift and fat transfer to the cheeks. What I'm trying to say is you have good genetics should you choose to pass them on. Take that from someone who has extremely harsh standards on feminine beauty.
Pocahantas
9 Jan 2012
Well said MissLadyFace :o)
Pocahantas
6 Jan 2012
@Receding eyes, thank you for ur comments. I do agree with u that I don't 'need' nose job. The imperfection is very slight and as per your and my friends opinion I am swaying towards leaving it alone.
I am 35. The 'teen' pic u refer to is when i was 29.
I have always had slight eyebags even in my teens. In 2007 (age 31) I consulted a surgeon who told me that I needed Quadrilateral conj. Blep.
After surgery i had complications, for 2yrs I couldn't close my left eye (it still doesn't close completely and feels tight when I blink). I had dry & watery eyes, eyebags looked worse, upper eyelids incision widenedleaving a scar, I developed hollowness under around orbital area which I never had before.
I am now slave to fillers which always leave a tell-tale tide/ridge and I still have bags after the filler, but at least the hollowness disappears.
Pics don't always tell the full story. The postfiller pics don't show how filler push and frame the eye bags when I smile hence I am looking for more permanent and natural looking solution. Hence I am looking for an ocuplast who will make my under eyes like a baby's bottom.
My husband tells me that although my problem is not severe but he does see it and agrees i look tired. He is the most 'anti-surgery' person ever. But even he is supporting me on this issue.
Pocahantas
6 Jan 2012
@Receding eyes, forgot to mention the most important thing, I haven't had fat transfer.
Receding eyes
6 Jan 2012
Your fat transfer results are the best I've seen. You still looked good in your pre-op photos but I can sympathize with the frustration you had with your tear troughs; maybe you thought they made you look older than you are.
Comparing your pre to post-op pictures is almost like comparing an adult picture of you to a
late teen picture of you.
Your nose looked fine before. I think way too many women get nose jobs they really don't need. However, a person wouldn't notice the asymmetry of your nose unless you pointed it out to them and I doubt anyone would think it really makes a difference to your overall beauty.
May I ask how old you were when you had it done? I'm 26 now and considering fat transfer for the lower eyelids.
Pocahantas
7 Jan 2012
@Receding eyes, please see below, I have posted the answer for you, thanks :-)
wth
8 Jan 2012
I would say she looks 40 in the 2011 (post filler photo)
So to say that she looks late teens, in my opinion, is so far from the truth.
reasonnotrules
5 Jan 2012
You look great in the photos your submitted. I'm envious of your "apple cheeks." Are they really a product of fillers, or did you have high cheekbones and the same cheekbones when you were younger?
I was born with pretty flat cheekbones, and now as I'm getting older, the loss of fat is making my cheeks look as flat as ever. I've considered getting fat grafting or fillers for this problem. I was wondering what's the story behind your beautiful cheeks, and whether I can achieve similar.
Pocahantas
5 Jan 2012
@Reasonnotrules, Thank you very much, you are very kind, it is a combination of already high cheek bones with filler on top.
If you are considering adding volume to your cheek bones, than you are on the right path to think 'fat transfer'. I am not a big fan of fillers, I have regretted getting mine. I am waiting for mine to disperse naturally. Once they are gone, I will have fat transfer to blend my lower lid/eye bag with the cheek bone.
For you, it is best to consider an occuplast facial surgeon who specialises in that area as cheek bones are so close to the eyes.
I have researched many, so far Taban Meheryar has been a pleasure to talk to. He is helpful, informative and un-biased, his patients are over the moon with the results.
The worst to deal with has been Dr Steinsapir. I was quoted $1250 just for consultation with him and his PA Faith is extremely rude. If the PA has such a huge ego, I wonder what the surgeon is like. Dr Remus Rupta and Seckel are also very good.
Please do your own research and view loads of before and after pics, ask to speak to previous patients and take your time.
I hope it helps. x
carrob
3 Jan 2012
I agree with wth. Many women are disfiguring themselves in an impossible quest. To compete with a photoshopped image is a goal of many women? What about education, volunteerism, spirituality, and love? Aren't those more admirable (and attainable?) goals than having chipmunk cheeks, sausage lips, or half-grapefruit breasts? Is something wrong with our society? Just wondering...? wth, you are right on so many levels!
Pocahantas
4 Jan 2012
See response to WTH, applies to you too. Have a great day ;o)
Carol11
3 Jan 2012
Don't do it. Problems can happen even with the best doctors. This procedure is too risky and almost impossible to reverse the mistakes. And even if the doctor doesnt make a mistake, you still might get lumps. It has ruined my life for the past year, and many others. Thats all I can say. Good luck!
Pocahantas
4 Jan 2012
Thank you Carol, I appreciate your concern and you are spot on that the things can go wrong even in the hands of the best surgeon and I know that from my pictures it looks like I dont need fat transfer. But this is because I get restylane fillers at the moment. These fillers are costly and have to be re-done every 6-9months. Hence I am looking for a longer lasting solution.
Pocahantas
2 Jan 2012
The profile pic is perfect thanks to photoshop. If you have a look at my post 'eyelid surgeon I am looking for the best' I have posted some real pics of me.
I will be having fat added to my cheek bones and orbital area with possibly marginalis release. So far Kenneth D. Steinsapir is on the top of my list.
Hi bunni
I had a fat transfer along with a face lift and temple list with Dr. Cruise in November 09. I was so happy with the results that I no longer thought that I was too old to have a breast augmentation. So I went back to Dr. Cruise in April 2010 for a breast augmentation. I really love these results. I am thin so I went back to Dr. Cruise for a second stage fat transfer to just add a little fat around my temples (where bone was showing) and in my forehead and just a little more in my cheekc. The results were subtle, but I am pleased.
When I run into people I haven't seen in a while they stop and look almost stare. I can see their mind thinking. They tell me I look really great. They then ask if I am doing my hair differently or if I have lost weight. They can tell something is different, but they can't figure it out because it looks natural.
I have had 3 surgeries with Dr. Cruise and I love the results from all 3. He really is a skilled surgeon and a compassionate person. I can't recommend him highly enough. I my experience he is worth it.
No I don't work for Dr. Cruise....I am just a very please patient.
Good luck!
In life you can never make everyone happy, so just make yourself happy ;o) Happy new year to you too, I look forward to your vids on youtube. Poca x
I am 35. The 'teen' pic u refer to is when i was 29.
I have always had slight eyebags even in my teens. In 2007 (age 31) I consulted a surgeon who told me that I needed Quadrilateral conj. Blep.
After surgery i had complications, for 2yrs I couldn't close my left eye (it still doesn't close completely and feels tight when I blink). I had dry & watery eyes, eyebags looked worse, upper eyelids incision widenedleaving a scar, I developed hollowness under around orbital area which I never had before.
I am now slave to fillers which always leave a tell-tale tide/ridge and I still have bags after the filler, but at least the hollowness disappears.
Pics don't always tell the full story. The postfiller pics don't show how filler push and frame the eye bags when I smile hence I am looking for more permanent and natural looking solution. Hence I am looking for an ocuplast who will make my under eyes like a baby's bottom.
My husband tells me that although my problem is not severe but he does see it and agrees i look tired. He is the most 'anti-surgery' person ever. But even he is supporting me on this issue.
Comparing your pre to post-op pictures is almost like comparing an adult picture of you to a
late teen picture of you.
Your nose looked fine before. I think way too many women get nose jobs they really don't need. However, a person wouldn't notice the asymmetry of your nose unless you pointed it out to them and I doubt anyone would think it really makes a difference to your overall beauty.
May I ask how old you were when you had it done? I'm 26 now and considering fat transfer for the lower eyelids.
So to say that she looks late teens, in my opinion, is so far from the truth.
I was born with pretty flat cheekbones, and now as I'm getting older, the loss of fat is making my cheeks look as flat as ever. I've considered getting fat grafting or fillers for this problem. I was wondering what's the story behind your beautiful cheeks, and whether I can achieve similar.
If you are considering adding volume to your cheek bones, than you are on the right path to think 'fat transfer'. I am not a big fan of fillers, I have regretted getting mine. I am waiting for mine to disperse naturally. Once they are gone, I will have fat transfer to blend my lower lid/eye bag with the cheek bone.
For you, it is best to consider an occuplast facial surgeon who specialises in that area as cheek bones are so close to the eyes.
I have researched many, so far Taban Meheryar has been a pleasure to talk to. He is helpful, informative and un-biased, his patients are over the moon with the results.
The worst to deal with has been Dr Steinsapir. I was quoted $1250 just for consultation with him and his PA Faith is extremely rude. If the PA has such a huge ego, I wonder what the surgeon is like. Dr Remus Rupta and Seckel are also very good.
Please do your own research and view loads of before and after pics, ask to speak to previous patients and take your time.
I hope it helps. x
I will be having fat added to my cheek bones and orbital area with possibly marginalis release. So far Kenneth D. Steinsapir is on the top of my list.