Mommy Makeover...here We Go! - Beverly Hills, CA

You look pretty solid to me. However good luck and congrats!
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Why r u having a mummy makeover 4?? U look great already!!
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My story

I'm 35 and have twin almost 3yo girls. I'm 5'3" 117lbs and despite 5 day a week workouts my body never quite "bounced back" so...here we are :)
My biggest concern is the girls will react to my not being able to play with them for a few weeks and pick them up for longer.
Thanks for all of our support!
Glad you got to post your pics!!! Are you getting implants too? That is exciting!! I had mine done pre kids- but didn't really breastfeed so they are still intact and look good.  Can't wait to hear about your progress!!
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Yes getting implants too. In fact , that was where this started and then I realized that I may be really disappointed after my implants if I'm still bending over and seeing my flappy skin :).
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Good luck! Can't wait to see your results. What type of implants have you decided on?
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Better pics of tummy pre-op

Here are two more pics that i think show the skin a little better. It's hard to take the picture by myself :)
I think you'll have super results! Good luck with the little ones!
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Glad you put a couple more pics on......those last two look pretty familiar to me. ; ) Good luck! What cup size are you looking for--265-289 isn't very big at all. Course maybe you are starting out with more breast tissue than my size AA flat pancakes. lol. I got 450's starting from there and ended up a 34DD. Good luck to you!
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3 days away...I'm numb about?

My surgery is in three days and I can't really acknowledge it. Though I know deep down I'm freaked because during my cardio class I just started crying. Didn't stop moving, just kept crying.
I should add my mom in starting chemo this morning for stage 4 bile duct cancer that has matastisised. This all happen so fast...she is not showing any symptoms of being sick, they found out through a non related nose bleed. Strange and unsettling right?
I think I may be nuts for going through with the surgery still with this going on but, I couldn't bring myself to cancel. In a way I feel like the consuming nature of my surgery will be jut what I need to help me help my mom. I can get very intense about things and I usually do better with big things if I have too much going on.
Example: while I was planning my destination wedding I was production managing a film in LA and dealing with two young horses of mine that needed extensive medical treatment. It was a lot at once but, having to focus on all 3 kept me really calm.
Give me strength xo
I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I lost my dad to cancer this last May after a very long and harrowing 4 year battle......the cancer road sucks. I get you about functioning best under pressure....I am the same way. And honestly, I don't think you should cancel, especially if your mom is feeling ok now. She may need you more later on, if she's not feeling this good. I'll say a prayer for her.
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Thanks. That's a good point about her needing more later.
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I dont think you should cancel it. I think you are at a point where you will need to feel like you are doing something for yourself. And the tt will force you to take time/care of yourself. If it is what you want to do then you should. Hang in there, sounds like the reality of your moms condition just hit you.
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Weight gain??

So apparently I'm not in the category of those lucky ones that lose weight under stress. I'm now 120lbs, which is the highest I've been in a long time.

Is there any weight loss after the surgery?
Your time is here! I am so sorry to hear about your mom..I lost a few pounds after...it appears they have found their way back though.
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Yes, I think all the calories you burn healing and the diminished appetite cause a bit of weight loss. I lost ~4lbs by time I weighed a week or so after. I wouldn't bother dieting during recovery, just eat sensibly.
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I can't breath, I'm so worried

I thought I would be excited but I can't stop crying. I'm so afraid but of what I'm not sure.
I had my hair done today. Simple cut and color to cover the gray. My hair dresser said that she doesn't know very many clients as young as me with so much gray and that I must "worry a lot ". She wasn't wrong.
Has anyone panicked the night before?
Good luck! Relax...
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Good luck today!!!!
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You look amazing! I know you lost a little before so it seems you body just regulated itself. Hopefully mine wants regulate back to 115!
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Hello ladies!

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8 hours in :)

I'm so excited! The pain has been manageable with Vicodin (1/2 pill every 2-3 hours and a pain pump over the muscle)

My breasts feel like an elephant is sitting on them!!

I see a little blood coming through the garmet way above the incision line???

I can't wait to see my ps tomorrow and sneak a peek.

Thanks everyone!
Hi! You're only a few days after me! My surgery was November 6th. I too have twins. Mine are boys though and 2 years old. Little maniacs! How are you feeling?? I'm still walking hunched over a bit and everything around my belly is a hard swelling.
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Yay!!! You did it!!! Glad you are managing the pain ok! We have the same binder..your new best friend :)
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Happy healing! I never saw blood after my tt. But have seen it on others reviews. Sure your ps will let you know.
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Day 2 feels like a week :)

I'm in day two of my post op recovery from a BA and full tt w/mr.
I was able to get a quick look and am thrilled!! The scar is really low and not to far on the hips and he ended up choosing the 260cc high profile implants, which seem perfect.
I haven't had a bowel movement yet and I am starting to feel really bloated and uncomfortable. I'm waiting for my mother in law to bring senokot and prune juice. Also, this binder is really itchy! I'm also really hunched over but I know that's normal.
Still I'm so so happy so far. I'm going back home to my hubby and girls tomorrow. I wanted to wait until the pain pump was out before I went home because it quite cumbersome to move around with.
Until then, just resting and healing :)
Oh...
My ps said no shower until next Thursday!!
How ladies, do you recommend I wash my hair when I can barely straighten out?
I bent over in the bathroom sink to wash my hair. Hubby was willing to help too! Good luck on the bm. I think day 3-4 for me was painful, belly pain would wake me up in a sweat. But if u have the pain pump/ meds you may not hurt like I did! Good luck!
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Photos from day 2

Maybe someone can wash it for you? When my hair was clean, I felt human. Although I didn't have the mommy makeover. TT and Lipo all over the place. With the BA added not sure you would want to attempt such a feat on your own. I remember feeling exhausted and dizzy just showering the first week in. You look fantastic and we are almost the same height (not weight wise, i'm 125lbs). I'm curious about the high profile and how that looks on you once you get the 'big reveal' My doc and I spoke about moderate profile. I do have saggier boobs than you tho..So many things to think about (Heading in for a BA soon)> thanks for sharing your story. Hope you are feeling good. Sorry about all the stress tho. Try to laugh and smile and find the positivity in each day.
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Hi! He didn't even consider the high profile until I was under. He said, and I agree, that I'm so narrow shoulder to shoulder that the mid profile was just too wide. I also started out with no breast tissue at all. When do you go for you BA?
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Sounds like you are in a good place, keep us updated!
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Good Morning!

Feeling great this morning! Still no BM but my mom helped me wash my hair and I "frenched bathed" so I feel like a new person :)
I had to take my pain pump out at 2;30am because it was leaking from the tube and as a result was empty much sooner than expected (awesome, right!). I slept more than the last 2 nights and overall and moving better so I'm happy and ready to head home.
I'll miss being with my mom though...it's been really nice doing the mother daughter thing and I know she's sad I'll be gone today. She's doing really well do far next round of chemo is tomorrow and this whole last week she has been okay. Tired but not sick so we are grateful for that!!
I'm going to keep taking my supplements, drink tons of water, eat super low sodium/high protein foods and heal! Thanks for all the support! I can't imagine doing this without all of the rs women out there.
Get some dry shampoo (called Psssssst!!!) Even if you manage to wash your hair for real, it will help you space out how often you have to do it. Good luck!
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You are going to have GREAT results
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Glad to hear your mom and you are doing well!
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Damage after bowel movement?

This may be tmi but, here it goes: I finally had a BM and it was hmmm....big and hurt like SOB! During said BM there was a terrible burning sensation in my muscles and the The last 3 hours following it, my stomach really hurts! It feels like muscle soreness and gas. Is there a chance I hurt the stiches in the muscle?
I dont think you hurt anything going. You could have, but chances are you just pulled on the mr a bit. I'd rest and wear your cg. Of course your ps can have a look at you if want.
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I Will see how it feels in the morning. Trying to rest and stay positive. Thank you for responding. :)
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On it :) thank you.
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All good :)

After some serious rest after girls went to bed and a few more easy BMs. It seems everything is fine. All the pain must have been from the initial BM stress and gas (gross, gotta love this site). I'm so relieved.
One note: my drain is suddenly having very little output so I will call my doctor tomorrow about that.

Mommy Makeovers with toddlers

Since this was such a major concern for me going into this I just wanted to make a quick note. Kids are amazing! I think I easily underestimate their ability to adapt to there situations with ease and comfort. My girls are my loves and can also be a bit 'clingy' so I had some concerns. But, My husband and I started telling them the day before about mommy getting body fixed up and that I would have boo boos for a while. And that this meant that I would not be able to pick them up and could only give gentle hugs and Mostly that other people would be around to help. They have been so cute! They are so gentle and want to help. One daughter keeps giving me instructions when I'm walking to move slow and keep my head down! (She heard my hubby say it :).
I'm so grateful for them and my incredibly sweet and supportive husband. I can't imagine doing such a big wonderful life changing thing without the love and support of my family and the real self community.
Your girls must be SO adorable! Reading your last post melted my heart! It's amazing how sweet and comforting the little ones can be. Their intuition is amazing. You look fantastic so far and I can tell your final results will be phenomenal! Congratulations! Can't wait to see more of your recovery.
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Your family sounds amazing, looking forward to future posts
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Thats great! Nothing better than a supportive family!
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No more drain!!

Hi All, today I got my drain out and it was so simple...no pain, no burn, no problem.
I got a good look at everything and am thrilled. I think I got too confident after my appointment and did too much walking around the house picking up toys, preparing dinner because now I feel so swollen and exhausted. Looking forward to a long rest tonight :)
I know it's only a week so I don't expect to be doing running already, but I am looking forward to doing more daily routines without being hunched over and worried about swelling up :) last whine- my breasts!! Oh my...having that feeling of being engorged when I was breast feeding is awesome- NOT.
Still - so so so happy I did this, I would dance if I could!
Looks like the doctor did a fine job-
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Thank you!
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I agree about the housework. After my first post-op week, I started back in to picking up, making dinner, dishwasher, laundry, etc. I went slow......and had more help, but not like my first week of recliner sitting. I even "walked" around on my knees with a hand vac to try to control the dog hair tumble weeds accumulating. I tried not to bend at the waist, or reach too much, or twist. But I still got yelled at for that one by my dr. Ended up with a seroma that had to be drained. I'm trying (hard with six kids) to be more careful now and make the kids do more--or--harder for me--just let it go.
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My first shower

I had my first shower this morning and got to see my body in full view. Wow! I love it now and more importantly realize that I should have always loved it. It's beautiful, strong and healthy and I'm grateful for it.
AND....my shower was awesome!! My friend told me today after I showered that yesterday she had to keep a few steps away from me lol!
Looking forward to following your progress!
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WOW! We are in the same boat. My twins are boys and are 2 years old. They too are doing pretty good. (Minus an little emergency with one of them). I am glad you are so happy with your results! You look great!
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I think kids adapt pretty easily too and I'm so happy yours are being helpful. We are so quick to put the guilt on ourselves for not being able to do everything for them when in reality they are super excited to "help" us for a change . I had my boobs done in 2010 and I for a brief moment thought of going bigger during this procedure but then I remembered the pain and backed out. I remember we exactly that feeling like an elephant was sitting on my chest-- it was rough for a couple weeks. Anyway-- good to read your story keep healing well I look forward to your updates!
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Hmmph...

I'm a little bored, which is very unusual. After my overdoing it the other day I've been basically in bed resting for 1 hour up for 45mins, bed 1-2 hrs up for an 1hr. Is this about normal for this point?
My boobs ache while I'm moving around and my stomach doesn't hurt it just feels swollen and big. I'd love to hear what everyone else was up to at this stage.
Wow you are looking great :):):) Will be looking forward to your updates xxx
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I was so close to adding in bigger implants while I was doing my tummy. BUT I remember my chest hurt so freaking bad. Soooo much worse than my.tummy is hurtjng. I don't think I moved off the recliner for at least a whole week with chest in 2010 (lift and implants) So i think u r very brave and tough doing both. I imagine week two.post is going ti be a huge turning point for you. Week 2 boobs I remember I went and did a little light black Friday shopping and was totally fine. You will be back at it in no time $!!
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Heal baby heal!!

I went to my two week po visit today and am feeling good about how it's all going! The tape was removed and the scar looks good. Dr. Stevens gave me biocornium gel to put on the insicion and said I can start to move around more and work on standing straight. Two more weeks before I can resume regular activities like running, walking with dogs etc... Still have to be careful not to engage the Ab muscles, which is not easy at this stage.
My breast look great! Really like them:)
Please say a little prayer for my girls. They are both fighting fevers that keep jumping to 104. We are all pretty tired and bummed we are missing Thanksgiving with the rest of the family.
Though I can't help feeling how much we have to say thank you for this year.
My mom is undergoing chemo for bile duct cancer, and I'm thankful that she is handling the treatment well and has even been able to work a little, which she loves. My father in law just got diagnosed lung cancer, but I'm thankful that it can be removed in one surgery.
I'm thankful that I have a husband who has not left my side since my surgery and even more so since the the girls got sick two days ago, even though he really has so much work to do. I'm thankful for my closest friends that check on me everyday, literally. Lastly, I'm Thankful that my surgery went smoothly, my recovery is better than expected and I have this forum of amazing women from all walks of life to share this life changing experience with.
I hope everyone has a happy and low sodium thanksgiving!

Photos :)

Grrr...where are the photos

A few more from today

You look great! How much activity are you able to do? My surgery date was11/12. I was feeling great and standing pretty straight last weekend. Spent 3 hrs Monday sitting on floor with my girls (1 & 2.5) and I really didn't think I over did it. Wound up swollen with a lot of pain at incision. Went back to visit Dr yesterday, he said I wasn't infected. But now I'm hunched over again and spending most of my day in my recliner. I didn't think this was how it was supposed to go.
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Looking great!
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Looking good, definite progress, where are the boobie pics? I am sorry to hear that you are missing out on Thanksgiving :(
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Boobie pics

I'm a little shy about posting these and definitely don't have any old photos :) but thought it was only fair that I post some pics.

No more garmet?

So my PS said at my two week visit that I didn't need to wear my binder anymore or any other garmet. He said of course there will swelling but that will be there on and off no matter what. Anyone else's doc say this? I bought some garmets because I feel like they'll be a reminder to not over do it.
From what I've read in this sight that is a exactly how it goes for a quite a few months. Do a little more-swell, rest, do a little more-swell, rest. I'm not really sure when the swelling every completely subsides...a year maybe? I wouldnt sit on the floor yet with the girls. I tried and it used way to much of my abs for my comfort. Right now u am walking around a lot following them about, squatting down occasionally to pick up stuff but I rest a lot because my back starts to feel like it's on fire from walking a little bent over.
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Thank you!
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Thank you!!
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Incision opening?

Can you ladies help me. I'm freaking out right now. There is a tiny spot in the center of the incision that is seeping some yellowish stuff! Can it be opening? I don't feel like I've put any strain on it, I'm not even walking straight yet.

Another thing: when I'm sitting I still see some wrinkling above my belly button as if the skin was just so stretched that is has not elasticity. Does anyone see that on themselves ?

Thank you.

Love my PS Dr. Stevens!

I emailed him about my incision and he emailed me right back! He said it should be fine and not to cover it with a band aid. If anything use gauze. He also said I could come in Saturday and he would look at it.
What a relief!!
Hello :) How are you feeling? Has the oozing gone away? Your updated pics are so beautiful!
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My Dr warned me there may be oozing and not to worry but glad u will get it checked. I'm stuck in this garment 4 weeks at least but i think we all realize now my Dr is very conservative. ...I feel safe in it though so I'm not bothered by it .....yet!
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I've got some ooze too, just a bit, and the front of my incision is a hot mess in comparison to the sides. My PS also said it will resolve itself. I know its un-nerving though to see that. My mind went berserk thinking worst case scenario. Just gotta trust our doc's:)
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Movin and groovin!

Hi Everyone,
It's been a long week...both my girls were knocked down hard with 104 fevers for 4 days and coughs. Everyone is better now but my poor sweet husband looks like a zombie.
I hope he takes a few days to himself to relax a bit. He's been working so hard taking care of me, the kids, the dogs and the house.
I'm now back full time with kiddos, whew! I'm tired. I've been squatting, bending and sitting at their little table and I'm ready to pass out. I've also started wearing this garmet made by Victoria's Secret called the embracer. Love it!! I think I've had way less swelling since wearing it. I still sleep with my binder and I go without anything for a few hours a day also.
Oh yes, the oozing has stopped but now I think there may be a stitch poking out the the old belly button scar, though I'm not bothered by it.
I'd love to hear if anyone else is moving around this much and how it's feeing.
Oh yeah I forgot!! I had my usual glass(es) of wine last night :) so nice. Now if I can just get running again thing will feel normal :)
I will post pics later.

Thanks everyone!
Looking good chic!
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You look wonderful an your scar is low like mine!!! You are so tiny!!!
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I have ooze too. Starts and stops. My surgeon said I would be ok as well. Must be fairly common. Glad I'm not the only one in that situation. The wrinkly skin, once you stand up straight maybe it'll go away? Since it's kinda lax right now from being hunched over.
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4 week ps visit

Hi everyone,
I've been in such a funk so I haven't written. I was really down about all the swelling and the little wrinkle still above my bb when I bend over. I saw my ps today and he tried to be sensitive but in a few words said give the swelling time (which I know) and that my skin lost so much elasticity with age and the pregnancy that the wrinkle couldnt be helped. Wtf!! Am I being unreasonable? I saw the laser rep after to discuss treatment of the area and she said I have to wait another 2 months before making any decisions.

On the good note- I'm cleared for excersize and riding my horses again!!! He said I may be too uncomfortable but that I won't hurt the incision or MR. "Listen to my body" :) and no heavy lifting. I'm mostly a runner/cardio junkie/ equestrian, so I'm good to go. Thank goodness! Because anymore of this woes me shit eating/no excersize crap and I'd need a whole other surgery!
Thank you for being supportive over this last month. If anyone has had any issue with the wrinkly skin please reach out.

Happy healing ladies!!
You look great. I would give it a month and see and if you are not happy then say so. You are not that old at all so I think they need to zip it about that agree bull crap!!
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Yay excersize!

So it's official: I'm back to working out and wow what a difference it makes in my mood :)
I've two days now of an easy 5mph jog. Yesterday I went 2 miles with the dogs then this morning was able to go 3 miles but had to walk when I hit small inclines. My swelling has gone down since yesterday which I'm attributing to the excersize. It really strange to be so weak but I know it will come back fast.
I'm not using the binder or spanx at all now.
The swelling from a few days ago was because of all the salty food. I wonder if I will always swell in my stomach now after sushi or chips and guacamole??
Your two weeks pics are incredible..Congratulations :-) Yes its so sad about salt, I miss it, even just a little now and then. boo hoo! The only treatment I've heard of and seen before and afters that were impressive is called Thermage. Have you heard of it? Alot of actresses get it on their faces and its some kind of light therapy that causes your collagen cells to have a party. People do it on their knees and hands too.
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Yes I think I will be doing the thermage in 2 months for another $2500! But I think my surgeon may absorb some of that cost...let's hope anyways :)
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So happy to hear your making progress! I'm curious if the salty food swelling trend will continue too?? Salt isn't good for ya anyway and I try to avoid it. Seems like dinner time is the worst for that!
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Back to life :)

It's been 5 weeks since the surgery and it really has flown by. I'm back to a regular running routine of 6 days a week and there is some slight swelling still but not so bad. I will definitely need thermage in a couple of months but am still really happy that I did this.
I know this would not have been doable without the amazing support of the real self community, thank you!!

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U look so gr8!! Well flat now!! U must be sooooo hapi:-) if not u should be!!x
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Wow you're looking so good! I'm impressed that you're running. I'm dying to run but I'm so nervous it's going to hurt! Way to go!!
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Holy frack! U r running 6 days a week?!?!?!? Omgosh I am such a wuss I'm too scared to even try but now I really want to!!! Boobs and tummy I seriously can not believe how well you've healed, so so happy for you! U rock and I need to stop.eating salty food apparently as well (I never do eat added salt but today had chips and salsa and I seriously can not believe how swollen I am....think it's so much more noticeable now with the skin gone tho....happy but sad too) who am I kidding I'd rather give up those amazingly delicious Juanita tortilla chips than my amazingly flat belly. Sob story over :) Congrats on an amazing outcome I'm so happy for you!
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Lots of swelling now

Last month I was thrilled but now not so much. There is a lot of swelling above and below the bb and a lot of gross wrinkling when I bend over. Also, my doctor said there is failed muscle repair right at the very top which just pisses me off!!
The swelling is something I'll have to be patient with and the failed muscle repair I will have to get over but the wrinkling is really not something I'm okay with. Doc said that there was so much collagen and skin elasticity loss during the pregnancy that it's not something he could fix with the tummy tuck (would have been nice to know that beforehand ). He said that I can try thermage laser $2500!
I'm trying to channel "fitandflat's" positive take on this surgery and that we didn't do this to be supermodels and we are perfect in our imperfect bodies.
Just wish I wasn't as uncomfortable with my stomach now as I was pre-surgery.
How can your dr. tell there is failed muscle repair? What does that mean, exactly? I'm sorry you are not happy right now. I am 4 months post op and I am not happy yet........still have hope I will be. But some days I get scared that this is it.
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You lay flat and then do a slight sit up and if the there is a gap where the stitches were then the repair failed. I will post pics tomorrow. Sucks!! This is not it though!! You will definitely see a huge difference a year from now.
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Ah. How high up does the MR go? It feels like a gap on me way up high (like where your ribs go up and meet) but I think that's just the gap between my ribs I feel that high. Down from that even slightly everything is tight. And I'd be able to tell, I think, because I had a 3 1/5 inch separation! Do post pictures. Did he say why a MR would fail?
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Pics of MR failure and wrinkles

Here are some pics of the swelling and other fun bits :)

Some pics left off

Sorry to hear about the wrinkles an mr failure. But you are right, "perfect in an imperfect body". I am happy to be rid of the twin roll! How do you know you have mr failure? ( mines not flat like yours, but i dont think the mr failed) Your belly is still nice and flat, im jealous ;). And you have a nice waist!
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That's nice of you to say, thank you! The doc checked by having me lay down and then do a mini sit up. There is a gap/indentation in the upper ab area.
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Also, how long was it before you were able to lift your kids? That is one the main things I am concerned about as I have a almost 2 and 4 year old. Thx
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Beverly Hills Plastic Surgeon

My doctor is wonderful! I've been so impressed with him so far. Every call or email I've made he has gotten right back to. Dr. Stevens made sure that I knew exactly what to expect with the outcome of my procedure and he's was patient with me while I vacillated between implant sizes and whether or not I wanted to do the TT, with absolutely no pressure at all. In the end, I asked him to choose the size of the implants and I couldn't be happier. The TT scar placement and my new belly button are perfection as far as I'm concerned. On thanksgiving day I emailed him with a concern and he responded within 5 minutes! Lastly, his staff are friendly and professional and his practice is easily accessible and private (which is really nice when going in for those first couple follow-up visits). I feel lucky to have found him among the hundreds of choices to filter through.

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