Doing VSG..about Time! - Baltimore, MD
I haven't been fat my whole life. I went through 3...
I haven't been fat my whole life. I went through 3 pregnancies and managed to look great in a bikini weeks later.... And then I became pregnant again...High risk pregnancy..In the hospital more than 6 months on constant steroids and bedrest ( and encouraged to eat ANYTHING & EVERYTHING as I was having trouble keeping food down). I didnt gain a considerable amount of weight but I became lazy. Within a month of delivery I was in a size 14, the biggest I had ever been but still far from obese. While I was home on maternity leave, the lazy & bad eating habits that was a breeze to deal with in my 20's became my biggest fear. Before returning to work in 6 months, I was up to a size 18 and pregnant AGAIN.... Again on bedrest with the steroids, I didnt gain much weight but I was still that size 18 post-partum.... I have never been able to get that weight off again. I am stuffing myself into a size 20, I need to be in a size 22.
I come from a family of obese woman. My mother, also didnt get huge until well into adult hood, but is currently about 375 lbs. My grandmother died of obesity related illness....Most of her adult life she was over 500 lbs.
While my grandmother was sick, I promised her I would never get fat. I was nearly 30 when she died and I wasnt fat, so I assumed I had it made... I would get fat like she and my mother...but here I am...
I have no co-morbidities (but neither did my grandmother for most of her life, then one day BAM!) I am getting this surgery before it is too late. My "baby" is now 11 years old. If I was going to lose it I would've by now.
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Well good luck on your surgery, I hope everything goes well! Please keep us updated on how you do!
So I totally forgot about updating this.... I had...
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Thanks for the update Vogue.
Wow, you went through quite an ordeal at the beginning! I'm so glad it all worked out for you eventually though, it must have been quite scary to start with.
Congratulations on your weight loss so far. How are you doing now, how close are you to your goal?
We would love to see an before/after photo, if you have any you feel comfortable sharing!
nearly 365 days post op
I have had a few plastic surgery consults and basically will need a panniculectomy ( removal of excess skin from are below belly buttom)... I do not qualify for full tummy tuck because I actually have visible abs...not quite a 6 pack, say a 4 pack with 2 of the packs hiding under some excess skin & fat. Doctor estimates I have 5-ish pounds of skin to be removed. Easy to hide with SPANX.... I have a prelim date for plastic surgery during the Xmas holidays....
so my guess is I will get down to about 145 pounds and that is AMAZING to me...
That hernia repair that didnt go so well is starting to cause me a few issues... was initially mistaken for Gall bladder failure ( MANY weight loss patients end up needing gall bladder removed so its a QUICK assumption on the part of many doctors when you have any post-op belly issues)
I have not decided what I will do about it yet..nothing is life threatening.... some intermittent pain ( like once a month) followed by a few days diarrhea...
my diet plan has changed a LOT.. Once you start working out a lot, you have to eat more foods.... funny how that works.... I am eating more yet losing weight...
I get like 1500 calories a day, 100 grams of carbs, 100 grams of proteins... I dont worry about how much sugar I get because honestly, with the small size of my stomach, once I get in my priority foods, I dont have room or desire to eat anything else..... so if a lil sugar slip in theere, so be it... and Fats are good for you so I dont worry about eating low-fat either...
like many WLS patients, I used to stay COLD all the time, when I increased my iron & fats, that problem went away as well.
I have lost more than an entire shoe size... before surgery, I was squeezing into a 10 Medium sometimes 10.5 and needing a wide width....I now wear a size 9 medium and need 8.5 in some shoes... I cannot wait to go shopping for boots.... I wear a size 6 jeans, though I will buy 8 if they are "super skinny".
I look good in a bikini, and luckily my excess skin can be hidden well in my panties/bikini bottom and I dont really have a muffin top...
I have returned to my old ways of being a shop-a-holic.... clearance racks are my new BFF....
thats pretty much it....
Hi Vogue,
Thanks so much for sharing your journey with us. When are you scheduled to have surgery?
You're taking a positive step towards dealing with your bad habits, which is great. One bit of advice I would give, is that you make sure that any food issues you may have are settled before you have surgery. The surgery won't remove those habits, it's just a tool to help you get to where you need to be. I'm assuming that since you've taken the step towards surgery, that you are geared up and prepared for the changes you need to make.
Please do keep us updated on your progress!
Kirsty