Super Sexxxy Mama

Hi RS ladies!!!! I am 23 y.o RN mother of 2. Ive...

Hi RS ladies!!!! I am 23 y.o RN mother of 2. Ive been with my fireman bf since we were teenagers. Needless to say my body has taken a beating. Im 5'2 155lbs. Pre-preg i was 130lbs. I love my hips butt n thighs 43" hips, in my culture thick is better i jus hate my boobs n tummy!! I had a consultation at Pascual MD with Dr. Mcadoo. Im sooo excited borderline obsessed!!! I unfortunately tried to finance but my credit took a beating while i was uninsured in nursing school and was hospitalized for ruptured ovarian cysts. Now im making good money and able to get rid of my flab my credit is killing me. Im down bc my bf says he will cosign if i save $6000 on my own ???? ive made a 1200 payment to the office n by the end of summer will be dwn to a balance if $8k but i want to hv it done in september to be bikini ready for my bday in november (i live in miami) n i want to tk him on a vacay to jamaica for his bday n i MUST be sexy by then!!!! I live on RS DAY AMS NIGHT looking at profiles n mommy makeover posts waiting to get mine. Its very depressing bc i hv a small petite frame n with my faja on im like ridiculously sexy bt that comes off n the flab wins. Thank god i wear forgiving scrubs to work but im tired of looking 43 at 23. Oh yea my consultation was for a mommy makeover TT, BL, BA with 600cc HP silicone and lipo of upper/lower back. Im a 34 droopy C 32" waist and 43"hips which i love but im not happy with the upper part and i needed to vent!!!

Change of Plans

Hello RS fam! Okay so for the last 2 months or so, Ive been having reservations. I was scheduled to have mommy makeover, started paying. Made payment of 1200 and stopped. Fo whatever reason, gut said, uhhhhh put it in savings instead. Anyway, I am completely obsessed with this site, and started comparing and thinking. I say all of that to say, Im not sold on going to my original Dr. I made a consultation with Dr. Freiman for tomorrow. I have 2000 saved up so far in my savings, and on the site they have silicone implants for 3500, TT 3500. I figured for that price and a lift upwards of 8500 possibly, I could have my surgery for sure by the end of January beginning of Feb. And, hopefully I could receive a "professional" discount for being a RN (I pray) anything helps. The other Dr. was 13000.... which was a hell of a lot more. Besides, I can see work that the Dr's have done. Which brings me to my next question.... should I go to Ortega or Frieman. I want to change my consult to Dr. Ortega now, I'm a mess. His results look pretty nice as well. Oh My!! I just want to get super sexy, super quick!!! LOL any suggestions?

Tummy pics...

Results I want

The skies have opened up!!!!!

Okay ladies, So I posted yesterday about my reservations about Pascual MD etc etc. so, I had a consultation with Dr. Friedman today that went AMAZING!!!!!!! I love him. Very straight forward, knowledgable and actually gives a crap about your wellbeing post check! Unlike the jerk heads over at Pascual Office in Aventura. I will still get a TT, BL, BA w/silicone and side lipo. HOWEVER!!!!!!!!! He advised with a lift 600cc will pretty much "fall out in my cereal one morning" so he puts it lol so his max will be 421cc not exactly what I wanted, but I'm sure ill love them all the same.... I feel completely blind sided, like those mo-foes over at Pascual office in Aventura where in it for $$$$$$$ and alot of it $1400 to be exact. So needless to say Im sold. My wonderful lovely BF financed the procedure for me and I paid the difference... ???????????????????? i love him!!! Okay so this is where it gets truly F***ed up!!! Their mommy makeover special ran me $7500!!! I feel guilty for even mentioning that price it feels like a steal. I mean i feel like i should be arrested. Thats half the price of Pasual and so many beautiful ladies can vouch for Dr. Freidman on Real Self. So, I of course had no surgery at Pascual office but I left a $500 deposit day one to lock in $13500 from that sales woman Irivette. Man am i stupid. And oh i get even stupider!! I started making payments in which they will NOT refund me saying non refundable up to $1000 in deposits. But my thing is ny deposit was only $500 $700 was my payments... Like really??? Im so glad i found Real Self that saved me upwards of 6500!!!! I emailed their HR guy to get the truth about the deposit because I feel like I just gave $1200 away... But I wont trip because im Coordinating with my BF so that I can take time off for my surgery and hell be able to stay home and help me with the kids and stuff. September looks in the making from my view point... Im so excited I feel numb.


Im fuming!! Im not only mad at myself for being so silly! But im also pretty pissed that I gave these people $1200 of my hard earned money! The sales people are Just that SALES PEOPLE!!! They dont care about you and only want your money!! I basically lost $1000. I guess you live and learn and so im getting my procedure with a Dr that actually has customers that you can see and is not like McDonalds of plastic surgery!

The Date is Set!

September 22!!!! Im so excited, Im nervous all at the same time. Im jus hoping everything works out with my job and getting the right time off. Im also nervous about my 15 month old daughter who loves herself a good "picky up" 2 weeks of no snuggles is gonna be hard. What are some things ill need to get prepped for surgery??? I forgot the preop package I was so excited I walked out without it lol

The countdown is ON!!!!!

Hey ladies!!! So, the countdown is on. Im super excited still dealing with the Pascual MD situation. I have receipts and everything supporting my situation and they still will not refund my money minus the deposit. They feel as if they should keep it ALL. I hadnt even set a surgery date or anything .
Anyway.... Ill refocus because it makes me angry every time I talk about it. I wish i found you guys first, n ill be $1200 richer and a lot happier.
Im less than a month away from the flat n sexy side but I don't know what to buy??? I know I need colace and coconut water LOL but whatelse do I need???!!!! Lol HELP ME!!!! I don't know what else to expect...

Less than 3 weeks away!!

So i bumped my surgery up to 9/18 because my job did not approve my vacation for the entire two weeks I requested. Which bothered me a bit but healthcare is all about politics and 2 senior nurses requested October 2 -6 so i had to revise mine. But whatever, im going to be sexier sooner lol. Flat side here I come. Ive made a list of things I think ill need. Im ready

Family BeachDay!!! Aaaarrrrggghhh

17 days before my surgery and my family wants to go to the beach!!! I look horrendous in my bikini but im wearing it to remember how disgusting i look and to celebrate my last beach day as a fat mama!!! Lol the only person next beach day with a fat belly will be my little turkey lol my 16 month old daughter n by far hers is the absolute cutest tummy ever!! So im going to try and have fun. Wish me luck


My nerves are kicking in

Morning ladies!!! Im a nervous wreck! Im so excited to have that perfect tummy n set of jewels but my nerves are out of control. Im anxious for no reason almost. I started buying my supplies, bought a bra compression stockings, gauze Neosporin arnica tabs colace milk of mag band aids my pist op meds a grocery list now what?

Less than 24 hours!!

Hey guys!! Ive been working like a mad woman to secure my days off. Im filed with so much anxiety and im gettn cold feet lol but im going to stay prayed up and look forward to the flat side. Im not gonna b able to snuggle my baby or the big one lol make love to my sexy hunny for two weeks im gonna die lol im gttn waxed right now i have evrything packd up for happy healing groceries and seasoned meAt im jus looking forward to the results. I hope my results look natural i like them and so does he. We shall c i guess lol thank you all for the support and well wishes!!! Ill see you guys on the FLAT SIDE LOL

Im here!!! and freaking out!!!!

Ok so todays the day, im here im nervous and Imscared! But Amy is the CRNA and she made me feel so wonderful. I hv my mommy by my side n my hunny otw!!! Keep me lifted in prayers!! See u on the flat side

I made it to the flat side

Im finally coherent lol! I nade it but the nausea is a beyotch!!! It intensified my pain 3 notches! Finally kept food dowh so far thanks for the support pics tonorro!


Hi Rs family! So im 3 days post op and im sore and swollen all over!! Theres this sharp pain in my right hip wen ever i move my right leg. The top of my tummyvs really swollen n my breast are hard n high he gave me 397 cc silicone n they are nice size for me . I hate sitting around helplessly. Sitting down day n nite is hard work. I jus want to heal. I was kinda dowbln bc my bf said he doesn't like my breast. He's supportive n helpful tho but he likes me before which is nice but i cant hv long saggy breast and lumpy fat belly. So im doin ths for me to feel hot about myself . Im gonna take a bath today n ill post pics.

Feeling better

Hi everyone, my incredible mommy came over and i got a bath today she took the kids n im much more active. Walked upstairs n down basically straight up. Not much pain jus super sore!!! Drains are minimally draining n gttn lighter. I peeked at my tummy super swollen no idea wat my belly button looks like i jus wanted to gt changed up lol thanks for the love happy healing!!!

2 days Post Op pics

10 days post op... Not all good news

Hey ladies! Well I'm 10 days post op, n my tummy is healing beautifully, wish I could say the same for my breasts. I developed a hematoma on the right side, and I'm going to my PS tomorrow to see what I have to do about it. The left is awesome size and everything but my right has been bothering me for days and at my one week post op my doctor was not there for religious holiday and the nurse obviously is not able to identify complications because she kept assuring me it was fine and just do massages. But I'm s nurse and I know my body. So that's where I'm at now.

I'm Having trouvé uploading pics

I keep trying to post pics idk what's the problem new iPhone 6 not cooperating



No HEMATOMA!!! Went to Dr Freiman today and he said I have no hematoma to massage be patient and praise his feet in a month post op lol I have to say my Breast feel better today. I iced them yesterday and stressed about them for four days straight!!! I'm super swollen and I'm worried of course because I'm not "flat" like some ladies are post op.... Idk I'm gonna work out like a dog as soon as im able to. Happy healing ladies...

Need honest feedback

Here's my results and I want to know exactly how Im healing. I feel like I'm too puffy and that it may not be swelling but instead more like he didn't make me really flat....
Dr. Jacob Freiman

Dr. Freiman does really nice work. Aside from my complication I'm satisfied overall. HOWEVER the office staff is not up to par. The patient coordinator is full of it. She does not follow through or follow up with anything . In your presence she's absolutely amazingly sweet but once you leave the office you're on your own. Their supposedly 24 hr on call process is Bologna. You don't get call backs. If your doctor is unavailable they apparently don't cover each other's patients. So therefore if you have a problem you're on your own. For the price and work he's worth going to but if you are looking for a professional atmosphere and reliable follow up care with clear concise answers then probably not for you if you develop complications like me

4 out of 5 stars Overall rating
4 out of 5 stars Doctor's bedside manner
3 out of 5 stars Answered my questions
2 out of 5 stars After care follow-up
2 out of 5 stars Time spent with me
1 out of 5 stars Phone or email responsiveness
2 out of 5 stars Staff professionalism & courtesy
5 out of 5 stars Payment process
4 out of 5 stars Wait times
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Oh my goodness!! You look fantastic!! You are only a week in. Things will get worse before they get better! From what I can see everything looks so good. My breasts were hard and lumpy from my reduction. I had to massage and wait it out, but eventually everything calmed down and things are feeling much better!! Be patient and happy healing!!
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I had to glance at your b4 pics and you look fantastic. Chin up!!
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You are definitely swollen but you still look flat! Im still puffy all over too...even my back is swoll and he didnt do any work there. Your breast look right on target. Did you go under the muscle? The drop and fluff happens slower under the muscle but you can already tell theyre going to look amazing. My ps gave me a chart that shows the feeling & swelling for most patients and it says week one pain and tired, week 2 moody, freaking out, wondering if its not good and lots of swelling, week 3 starting to come together and some swelling goes down. He calls week 4 the 'show off' week where you will start feeling really good about everything. I think your ps did great work but needs to work on meeting all aspects of patient recovery. They know that you may feel nervous about your results at this point and should be there for you in some way...its part of the recovery process. Just having the paper showing the steps helps me but still if I email my doc right now he will personally email me back with quickness! When I look at my lil chart, it makes me go "okay, Im not a weirdo...thats just the feelings that come with this week" or "yup, Im swollen and moody...right on target" and helps a lot. Im just so happy you dont have a hematoma!
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also I think the breast that usually stay high and hard and swells the most is the side you write with because your muscles are stronger there...if its under the muscles.
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You're an awesome surgery buddy lol thanks doll and yes they're under the muscle
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Yes I definitely agree they need to do better. I was always taught in nursing school it's imperative to treat the WHOLE patient.... Thanks for the chart tip
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Wonderful advice lady! And you look amazing already mschocalate :) follow the chart, your right on point, stay patient. Just think in a week or two you will be showing off those awesome boobies & flat tummy! I'm so happy for you, happy healing :)
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Great info on the chart!! Thx. I have to copy that for when I'm ready!
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Yay! So glad to hear it's not a hematoma. Whew! Happy healing.
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Thanks doll
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Awesome news! Keep healing well.
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Thank you
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Good luck Hun and wishing you a speedy recovery
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So sorry about the hematoma =(
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Thanks guys
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Wishing you a speedy recovery on that breast. Glad to hear everything else is going well. Hope your phone cooperates soon so we can see your pics. I'm sure you look fabulous!
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Aww g
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Glad to see u doing well!!
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I cant wait to see your pictures. and your boyfriend will enjoy them once everything settles im sure ;)
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Does your bf understand the drop & fluff part of your recovery? Even if he doesnt like them its really not helpful to say it to you while you are in so much pain. Im glad youve done this for you because youre the one who has to wake up and live in your body. Try not to let him get you down. I am getting a pinched feeling when I move my leg too...I think it is in the stitches for me. Im at day 6 and have already noticeable d&f but I went over the muscle so it may be faster. Did you go over or under? You sound like a very strong woman, you are going to come out of this even more awesome than you went into it. (((hugs)))
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YaY! So happy for you. Hope youre nausea subsides quickly :)
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