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If Everybody Loves You, Something is Wrong: U Can't Please Everybody

UPDATED FROM Nini Fernandez
7 months post

Hello bbl ladies, as you all know i berly come to...

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Nini Fernandez
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Hello bbl ladies, as you all know i berly come to rs, i left this forum back in november if i am not mistaken ,( at 5 months post operation) and removed all of my photos, but...... someone gave me the heads up about someone stating that my pictures were PHOTOSHOPPED! she had the guts to ASSURE my photos have been photoshopped. were my results that good to be true , or to believe my post operation photos have been altered? its a shame someone would dedicate 2 updates in her blog to post FALSE INFORMATION about me and my photos. why would i do that?! whether you ladies think my results are impressive, or good, or just ok, or even bad............THESE ARE MY TRUE RESULTS and it is what it is. someone even said my results are too good to be true , Lol i must say thats one, if not the best comment i have ever received , THANK YOU! :)
I dont know why this person came up with such ridiculous difamation, thats what i would like to know, other than jealously i cannot find another answer, (some other rs users think the same).
now, blaming me because other patients with my similar stats (age, height, weight) do not get the exact or almost similar results as me (with my ps, ou! even though i have seen similar or even BETTER results than mine, imo) is a joooooke ladies, wth? is she SERIOUS?! UMMM....i thought we ALL had DIFFERENT body types, bone structure, frame, fat distributed DIFERENTLY, rib cage diameter, hip bone width/circumference, etc etc, and that ALL OF THIS influenced our UNIQUE INDIVIDUAL results!! but little did i know that the human body is like a production (a dummie, a toy, whatever you want to call it) that goes into a factory and they all come out looking exactly the same :S
i have NEVER altered my photos (other than to crop/blur my face and in some cases to blur the surroundings and i have done this in my windows photo gallery, i dont even have any kind of photoshopped software, lmbo), and i want to leave that clear right now, do NOT believe everything you read ladies! there are and will always be people that will distribute false statements! dont ask me why because i do not know that... oh, and this is not MY truth, THIS IS THE ACTUAL TRUTH! i have NOT ALTERED my surgery results and she will NEVER be able to back it up because they werent!!!! :) at the end it is up to you to believe what you want to believe, just needed to clarify this right now. sometimes people will believe things if no one stands up. ou...before i forget let me just address 'maryhadalittlelamb' by saying that i am sorry that she has such negative feelings towards me when she called me a "H" (fill in the 2 missing letters) . let me say i have indeed been in a healthy , successful marriage for almost 13 yrs. i truly hope you come out with the results you are hoping for and......that you wont suffer such defamation as i have for obtaining such results. thats all ladies , have a great afternoon , i will continue to k.i.t. with the positive ladies that i have met on here , via social networks, phone, email as i have been and continue to refrain from negativity. XOXO! Love, Nini.

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O
January 14, 2013
Hey NINI, Since when did this become a negative/hate blog. We go to the doctor we share our results, experiences and get hated on or stalked in my case. It is sad I had to take down my pictures because some just judge instead of taking it for what it is worth and it is just people sharing their own personal experiences. Just wow. I can say that I has 1200 CCs in each cheek and my 1200 looked nothing like other people's 1200. My body ate most of that fat up! But I still after almost 7 months see a great improvement. You really don't know what it is until 6 solid months! Anyway I wish you Well Nini and to those who will follow in our path and to those that came before us. Happy Healing!!!
NF
January 15, 2013
optimistic, some of the ladies can be sooo negative and viscous, truly sad but thats how it is (unfortunately). and theres nothing we can do about it, just to refrain from negativity. some dont understand that our bodies react different, what your body might tolerate, mine might not, i wish people would undestand that and educate themselves about it. am glad you can still see a great improvement from what you had before, i do too! some need 2 rounds, some even more plastic surgery or some get it in the first procedure. the ps can only do so much for us, no one is guarantee to come out looking like yaris sanchez (i mention her because alot of ladies really wanna have her results) . we are all built differently. have you decided to have a round 2?
C
January 14, 2013
Nini it's all jealousy xx
NF
January 15, 2013
thats what other rs members tell me ...but seriosly, i am happy for the ones that get their desired results, and wish the best to the ones coming after us. i think we should all be happy other users as well. why hate?
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January 15, 2013
I can't believe someone called you that. WTheck, unreal! You're simply writing about your experience to help anyone if you can and this is what you get, ay! I wouldn't say that unless I had real proof and I wanted to purposely hurt you for whatever reason and I still wouldn't swear at you. Wow, i'm sorry this is happening to you. Now I can't see more update pics from you anymore :( Your reviews helped alot. Thank you Nini. Good luck with everything.
NF
January 15, 2013
oh yes she did! and of course NO proof at all , its IMPOSSIBLE because thats false... :/ commpletely defamatory! thanks for the good vibes nargas :)
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B
January 15, 2013
Nini we have to take the good with the bad, any social network that we join is a risk. Drama is every where and there's no avoiding it unfortunately, we all at one point will experience it and all we can do is either ignore it or add more flame to the fire!! Me personally I don't believe most accusations without seeing any proof, but she claims to have it so we'll see I guess!! Just sit back relax and wait for the movie to start girl and just enjoy the previews as they come!!! You know I'm here for you Hun, you're one of the few and I mean very few that I connected with on here!! You don't have to prove yourself to anyone boo just so you and keep it moving!! ;-)
NF
January 15, 2013
so on point :)
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G
January 15, 2013
Nini, if someone thought that my results were fake that would not make me remove my pictures. This is a blog for yourself and other women to enjoy. I really enjoy looking and the before and after pics. If omeone says something negative about me, I would not remove my pics because in the end they win!!! I would keep up my pics and keep it moving because at the end of the day their opinion does not matter. Now, I would really appreciate if you would put your pics up so that others can enjoy your results and also give you the positive feedback that you deserve!!!! Don't let let others make you feel bad about yourself. It's your decision, but I would just let them continue to hate by looking at my beautiful body! ijs
NF
January 15, 2013
girl2, this did NOT make me remove my photos at all. i had already removed them since november.....
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G
January 15, 2013
Okay, I thought that was your reason, I know some women on here remove there photos because of what others have to say about them. Well, thats good that you did not do it for that reason, are you going to put any photos up for others to view your progress? I plan on going to Dr. S for my touch up because the first ps did a not so good job.
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M
January 15, 2013
Can you out them back up??.. Theres hardly anyone on here with post op results after a few weeks i wish women would keep them up so other women could c them and the progress and hse the photos as resources. Why did u take thm down
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G
January 15, 2013
I had my bbl In 2011 and pIcs are stIll there, I really dont see what the bIg deal Is to some women*shoulder shrugs* people just look at them for encouragement and to get an Idea of how they mIght look
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G
January 16, 2013
So, did you just come back on here to make a statement? I think that there are women that would love to see your results........if your really wanted to update, you would have up your photos and present progress. Not trying to be mean or rude, but that stuff annoys me sorry. Updates about results w/no pics.....where they do that at?
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M
January 16, 2013
Lol agreed! It's annoying to me as well
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G
January 17, 2013
You feel me Jamaican booty, she clearly sees that people are asking to see her results, and she will not respond back, that is super rude. All she has to say is, "I dont want to shoe my progress" which is still silly to me because this is what realself is all about. Why would we want to hear about someones results and not be able to see the pics???....makes no sense. If thats the case she should just delete her page......like I said, I had my surgery in 2011 and why would I remove the pics?? I'm going to leave them there for others to see.....smh
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G
January 17, 2013
I mean show my progress...lol
B
January 15, 2013
mammas, I am glad that you have taken the position of letting things slide. As you and all of us close to you know your results are real. It is sad how adults can be pretentious and vicious toward an individual they don't even know on a personal level. I will always have your back you know that ;-)......... Wuv ya friendy and you know I thought you did not need surgery before because you were gorgeous then and are gorgeous now as well, however I do see a change in your personality and that was a turn for the best. I am happy you got amazing results that seem unreachable or untrue for some. TQM xoxo
UPDATED FROM Nini Fernandez
5 months post

Just like my title says (or like Paulo Coelho...

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Nini Fernandez
Just like my title says (or like Paulo Coelho says) If EVERYBODY Loves you.............SOMETHING is WRONG! You cant please everyone.

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B
November 20, 2012
Amen!
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A
November 20, 2012
I pm'd you Nini
L
November 21, 2012
What RS does not realized is the freedom given is what makes it worth while..& Their will always be someone doing a procedures commenting about their results... Words "can" express how good a job our surgeon has done or compassionate Doc can be. That's the reason they have the rating with the stars. they allow us to change that... we should be allowed to delete or to change our pics as we see fit that is an added bonus we give to the readers as well as RS. I have been happy to do so knowing I have that freedom
NF
November 21, 2012
Very well said !
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November 21, 2012
After reading some of the reviews and seeing how some people are disappointed with Dr Salama's work, I was wondering if you are still happy with your results. I do remember you had some amazing results and you are more than 8 weeks post op. How do you like your results at this point?
NF
November 21, 2012
1wifey, Thanks for asking.am actually glad you asked because I had been receiving private msgs (which I haven't reply to yet , asking the same question) . And I would like to respond to this specific question here that way I don't have to reply 100 times. I am now 5 months post operation and I LOVE my results. My body is BEAUTIFUL , not only do I say this but people around me always comment (positively) on my body. My shape is crazy, (in a good way) I am madly in Love with my TINY waist and awesome hips. My waist to hip ratio is out of this world. (Women stare at me all the time) My butt has GREAT projection, everywhere I walk men stare at my behind like something unreal . *blushing* Now, Are my results perfect? NO! they are not. Dr salama has to work on my crease in a touch up, why? Because my crease (before my bbl) has Never Been round. This is an issue I had since BEFORE my surgery. (My anatomy) . salama tried fixing it and my body(butt) didn't wanna take that fat there. It reabsorbed some fat that was injected there So it's still not round as I would like it to be. I definitely NEED more fat injected there to make it rounder and hopefully my body wants to keep it all this second time around (crossing my fingers). I want an ENVIOUS crease. I love butts with beautiful slopes and not shelf ( my personal taste) . That's my only issue (my crease) and regardless of it I REALLY TRULY HONESTLY LOVE my overall results. And I tell everyone that asks that I know that I wouldn't had achieved this silhouette if it wasn't for salama. I really don't think any other doctor could had given me this body =-) I HATE my crease and I often complain about it (even though I seriously have to say that my husband n others think I am crazy because they don't see what I see and then others do lol ) but then again sometimes we can't go agains nature. The dr and also someone else told me that fixing a crease is something very hard to do. I have done some research and also read responses from other drs here in RS and they all say the same thing. So I now know that dr salama did everything he could do to fix it, how my body reacts to it it's different. And I have said it before, dr salama wants to help me achieve my dream butt. He has good intentions , and wants to make me COMPLETELY happy. Am I going back to him? I honestly still don't know the answer to this question. I have to get all the pros and cons together and then decide if I will go back or not. (Because I am an out of towner). So YES , I am overall HAPPY with my results . . Now on another note, i don't work for him, I want to clear this point because I have been accused of working for him and thats NOT TRUE!!! and missmiami, foreverbooty n some others KNOW FOR A FACT THAT THAT IS A LIE. and for the record I am NOT an impostor either lol hilarious how some people have such imagination :p
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I
November 21, 2012
You look awesome, I love your body. I'm happy that youve been such a positive support to everyone here. I was wondering if you could post a pic of what kind of crease you're looking for? Im just curious to see what type of butt you're after.
NF
November 21, 2012
I see I missed the " I can ONLY speak for my results. " part. So there it is :-)
F
November 21, 2012
Nini I think you should copy and paste this into your review...a lot of the girls who have asked you this question will not receive the notification to read this.
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B2
November 21, 2012
Nini some cannot handle what they can't understand or envy. Sometimes easier to spit fire instead of trying to put out the flames.. Way to keep it classy. :-)
NF
November 21, 2012
Thanks ;) an i concur with the fire comment >:)
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N
December 7, 2012
i agree, ninis shape speaks for it self.
NF
November 21, 2012

1wifey, Thanks for asking.am actually glad you asked because I had been receiving private msgs (which I haven't reply to yet , asking the same question) . And I would like to respond to this specific question here that way I don't have to reply 100 times. I am now 5 months post operation and I LOVE my results. My body is BEAUTIFUL , not only do I say this but people around me always comment (positively) on my body. My shape is crazy, (in a good way) I am madly in Love with my TINY waist and awesome hips. My waist to hip ratio is out of this world. (Women stare at me all the time) My butt has GREAT projection, everywhere I walk men stare at my behind like something unreal . *blushing* Now, Are my results perfect? NO! they are not. Dr salama has to work on my crease in a touch up, why? Because my crease (before my bbl) has Never Been round. This is an issue I had since BEFORE my surgery. (My anatomy) . salama tried fixing it and my body(butt) didn't wanna take that fat there. It reabsorbed some fat that was injected there So it's still not round as I would like it to be. I definitely NEED more fat injected there to make it rounder and hopefully my body wants to keep it all this second time around (crossing my fingers). I want an ENVIOUS crease. I love butts with beautiful slopes and not shelf ( my personal taste) . That's my only issue (my crease) and regardless of it I REALLY TRULY HONESTLY LOVE my overall results. And I tell everyone that asks that I know that I wouldn't had achieved this silhouette if it wasn't for salama. I really don't think any other doctor could had given me this body =-) I HATE my crease and I often complain about it (even though I seriously have to say that my husband n others think I am crazy because they don't see what I see and then others do lol ) but then again sometimes we can't go agains nature. The dr and also someone else told me that fixing a crease is something very hard to do. I have done some research and also read responses from other drs here in RS and they all say the same thing. So I now know that dr salama did everything he could do to fix it, how my body reacts to it it's different. And I have said it before, dr salama wants to help me achieve my dream butt. He has good intentions , and wants to make me COMPLETELY happy. Am I going back to him? I honestly still don't know the answer to this question. I have to get all the pros and cons together and then decide if I will go back or not. (Because I am an out of towner). So YES , I am overall HAPPY with my results . . Now on another note, i don't work for him, I want to clear this point because I have been accused of working for him and thats NOT TRUE!!! and missmiami, foreverbooty n some others KNOW FOR A FACT THAT THAT IS A LIE. and for the record I am NOT an impostor either lol hilarious how some people have such imagination :p

NF
November 21, 2012

I see I missed the " I can ONLY speak for my results. " part. So there it is :-)

UPDATED FROM Nini Fernandez
5 months post

I asked kirsty to please remove ALL OF MY PICS for...

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Nini Fernandez
i asked kirsty to please remove ALL OF MY PICS for now. i dont care who says what. and everyone is entitled to their opinion, this is MY decision and i want ALL of my photos removed from my page. IF rs later adds the "delete" tab THEN ill give it another thought but for now i hope they take all of my photos down. It is not like ill be here forever so why not take them down now, gotta listen to my intuition now or ill regret later =-)

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P
November 17, 2012
What will end up happening is people will just close their accounts.
NF
November 17, 2012
i am p! girl P!!!!!! exactly!
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B
November 17, 2012
Even if you close your account it still stays on the site. You can not remove it our its contents! That's what's making me so angry. I knew I couldn't delete what I wrote but we were always given the option to delete a photo!
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B2
November 17, 2012
Wow... But wait u were able to delete you're pic where u almost showed ur face? So what's different now! Absurd.. Smh
NF
November 17, 2012
thats a pic i deleted a long time ago my friend.... now i cant delete ANY of my pics, that option has always been there, not anymore. i know i decided to post my pics, (thinking i i could delete them at any time)
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B2
November 17, 2012
Yes that's what I was saying. So now you can't? >:0 well I do know that last month I was trying to delete my account because I felt bad that I was not ready to post anything & RS stated I could not do that.. smh. They should def. Have guidelines posted some where so that members know fully what they are committing to once signing up.. ESPECIALLY considering this site is of such a personal & delicate matter for most..
NF
November 17, 2012
i swear that if they dont allow us to delete our pics at any given time, i am going to stop using rs.... i am a top contributor here, and they will loose me an others users too.... i know that for use. so whatever they want! am just waitng to see what kirsty has to say about it.
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B2
November 17, 2012
Well without giving too much away my profile name indicates just that.. I need to see how this plays out & I will def. Look into such possible scenario first thing Monday when I'm back to work.. smh.
NF
November 17, 2012
me too..... seriously! am going to send you my number because i might just fly away from here. besides some conversations are better by text because the pms are not so private either , in case some didnt know, rs managers keep up with everythig we send my pm) another thing i dont like :/ thats why we and others prefer texting.
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B
November 17, 2012
Wow!!! So not cool what the hell is going on???
NF
November 17, 2012
am sooo overwhelmed girl.................... thankfullly i never posted my face but..............it is still wrong that we cant delete our own photos when we choose to do so..............
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B
November 17, 2012
That's ridiculous nini trust and believe with enough complaints they will change that!!! Smdh just plain stupid I tell u
L
November 17, 2012
I tried to delete my acct. pics, and edit some things. RS would not let me so I was like just forget it. I'll keep it up so I can make comments.
NF
November 17, 2012
lola, i knew about the comments but def not about my pics, thanks but the only thing i wanna do right now i deleted my photos.
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S
November 17, 2012
Hmmm they might lose alot of traffic . We should have that option I had a another page before and I wanted it deleted and create a new one and I kept getting emils back saying you can just change you email ... You can just create new username, I opened it for you to change your dr until I had to say listen I want to delete this page that's it that's all ok just delete it and they finally did Jeesh
NF
November 17, 2012
i just email kirsty, waiting for an anwer, if rs doesnt allow me to change or delete pics whenever i want to, ill stop posting here in rs..................