Still Undecided??? Temporarily Scheduled 9/29/2011 - Atlanta, GA
Ok I am a mother of three, (21,17, & 9)as with...
Ok I am a mother of three, (21,17, & 9)as with others I gained weight mainly after my second two pregnacies that I never lost.I have a pretty strenous job with alot of lifting. I was scheduled to have tt & bl today but got nervous & cancelled. I was nervous about being under for a lengthy amount of time and hubby is worried about the stretching of the muscles/skin. I really would like to have this done but now that I am convinced I am having a hard time trying to make him feel at ease with it. Oddly enough he knew I had talked about wanting this and now that we can afford to do it he suggested that I do it for me but now he is worried about it. I have so enjoyed reading everyones comments and it really has helped me to decide this is what I want but does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can make him more at ease with it??
We also haven't told anyone not even kids yet and we are trying to fit into schedule since kids do sports. If anyone has any advice I would love to hear it???
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Well a new date is set!! October 6th at 9:00AM....
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Well today I talked with my hubby that I plan to...
See he knew I had talked that I would like to do something and we really didn't have the extra money. But he knew we were getting a little extra and said he wanted me to do something for myself that I had always wanted to do. I have a wonderful husband!! But then he was afraid he pushed me into it.
But I feel there is something else bothering him and he wont tell me. I feel like it is work since we work together and I will be out a little and he will be doing double duty. He won't tell me but it is hard work (sheet metal) and we already work 60/70 hrs week and I now he will have to pull my weight too. I feel bad but if I didn't do this now it would be next summer and I would really like to be better by then. Just want him to talk to me about it.
But I do think I am excited now which will turn to nerves a little later!!
Welcome!
Once you are mentally ready everything will fall into place. If you are ready and confident in this decision then your husband will follow suit.
If you are uneasy about this he will pick up on that energy and that will not help. If he knows this is something you really want then he will support you.
It will all happen when the time is right.