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“Very Unhappy with my Blepharoplasty (Upper and Lower Eyelid Lift)”
Spent: $4,000 in Athens
I am hoping to get some insight from anyone who has had Eyelid lift (blepharoplasty).
I am 41 years old, and had upper and lower eyelids done has been 10 days ago. My swelling is down and most of the bruising, except for the dark purple ones on the left and right of my eyes. I feel like I look plastic - like one of my daugher's Bratz dolls or something. My eyelids don't seem to open all the way. When I look up my lids feel very tight and my eyes take a weird shape- like they can't retract into my eye sockets properly. Besides, one of my bottom lids seem droop a little. The overall effect makes me look like I am half asleep, or had to much to drink. Plus, I feel like the doctor shaped them wierdly, with the upper lids too high in the corners towards my nose.
I am feeling really self conscious. I did not tell anyone at work I was doing this, and I am totally paranoid that everyone notices that I look weird. I spent days looking at before and after pictures online, and none seem as drastic as the difference I feel about my appearence. I do realize this procedure takes time to heal, but somehow I can't imagine ever looking normal again.
My lower lids (bags) have bothered me for years and I would have done anything to get rid of them. The uppers were a little puffy but otherwise not too bad, but I would not have gone through with this had I known what it entailed and the potential length of recovery. The doctor/nurses told me I would be "fine" in a few weeks. I would appreciate sharing experiences with anyone else here who has undergone this procedure.
Will post some photos as soon as I get my camera fixed.
Thanks!
Updated on 23 Apr 2011:
Hello, It has been 3 1/2 months since my eye surgery. My eyes look much better than they did at 2 weeks. However I still cannot look up the way I used to before my blepharoplasty. My eyelids do not fully retract to allow me to see properly when looking up. As a result I still look a bit weird when looking up but it is something I have now got used to. My vision has also been affected, as my eyelid seems to be in the way when looking up and my vision is a bit blur (only when looking up).I guess I have to live with this... My lower eyelid results have been fantastic but my upper bleph could have been better...
Updated on 25 Apr 2011:
I just managed to take a photo of my eyes when looking up. The arrow shows you the eyelid that doesn't fully retract into the eye's socket. As a result, my vision is blur (only when looking up) and my eyes look "weird".
Just wondering: is this normal? dfoes this happen to all of you who had blepharoplasty???
Thanks!
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I am not happy with the final result- too much skin removed- eyes look hollow and unatural- crease dissappeared. On the other hand, my eyes look more "open" which is not too bad and look ok with the right makeup. But overall, had I known the outcome I would't have the upper bleph done!



Hi Andrianna -- Welcome to RealSelf and thanks for posting your story. If you haven't already, you may also want to post your question on our Doctor Q&A Forum for some professional opinions.
I've heard of not being able to shut your eyes completely after surgery, but not the other way around. Have you asked your doctor about this?
Good luck and please keep us posted on the rest of your recovery. :)
Thanks,
Anna
Thanks for your comment. I think I have reached my final result and things haven't changed much since my last post. I still look weird when looking up. I believe that the reason for this is that too much skin was removed from the side of the eye that is near the nose. That's why there is no crease in that area and the skin does not retract to let my eye completely open when looking up. Anyway, I am used to this now. I use makeup to create a fake crease. This is not what I expected but I have to live with it! :)
I did not have any noticable bulging at the corners under my eyes, rather I had an overall swelling of the lids (the lids were quite thick for a while), and overall puffyness under the eye. Honestly no one really noticed it - I wore glasses and eye makeup and looked totally normal. I made sure not to put any creams or moisturizers near my eyes and to use oil free makeup remover, as that has always made my eyes puffy - even before the surgery. My best advice is to wait. It takes a lot longer than people think for everything to settle down, and after the initial swelling is gone, it happens so gradually that it sometimes seems like nothing is happening.
But the worst is that i can't look up..my BF took a pic of me while looking up and i look terrible. i am not sure if i'll ever be able to look up. i hope it'll get better as you say..i really hope..I'll see another doc just to get another feedback next week.
Also, i dont recommend this surgery with local anesthesia to anyone..you feel the pain in your brain while they're cutting the tissue in your eyes..it's sooo painful.
It's been almost 4 months now after the surgery...The scars are still seen but i started using a medical jel lotion called Contractubex and after 2 weeks of using it, the scars are way better! I can't believe that but my eyes look better and the scars are slowly disappearing every time i use it. When i first started using it, it felt very itchy and when i asked a doctor about it, he said it means it's recovering. I wanted to let everyone know about this jel so maybe it can help. Also, please use a lot of Vitamin C and E if you want fast recovering. I still hate my doctor and i hope he goes to hell but i'm glad that there's hope that these scars may not fully but almost disappear by using some products without another surgery.