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Breathing All of God's Air - Arlington Heights, IL

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I have had a complex about my nose for a long time...

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Lloydushka
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I have had a complex about my nose for a long time. It started, I believe, my freshman year in high school. I remember switching from glasses to contacts and was made a joke by my classmates and the upper classmen. So from then on I decided to keep my glasses on my face to conceal my "snoz". About 3 months ago I had my laser eye surgery. Now I am seeing my nose more clearly and I still dislike it's appearance. I told my friends but they all say I have a nice nose. I tell them that because of my nose, I suffer from poor self-esteem. My feedback is: You should find self-esteem within. You're going to end up looking like Micheal Jackson. You want to look white? You are married, who are you trying to impress. I'm doing this for me and I'm going through with it. I have made up my mind. I have maybe 5 people who are cool with it. My best friend snitched to my Mom that I was considering it. She tried to talk me out of it. My sister is cool with it because she remembers how depressed I'd get. Recently I took my first step and got a consultation from "Liposuction & Cosmetic Surgery Institute" and the surgeon who interviewed me was Algrid Mameniskis. He seemed chill and knowledgeable. But I'm still researching. Peace!!

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August 22, 2014
Just make sure you choose a doctor who has lots of experience with ethnic noses, and view lots of before & after pictures at your consults. I have seen plenty of pictures of African Americans with bad nose jobs, because the surgeons seemingly tried to make their noses as small as possible...reduced nostrils too much, etc. Looked very unnatural.
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August 22, 2014
Thanks for the advice. It is understandable that I should find a Doc who has had lots of experience with African American noses. I've tried searching in the Chicago area for Docs that have a vast experience with African American noses. Very Few!! I now realize that I may have to search out of the area. Oh well, have to get it right the first time. No revisions.
August 22, 2014
You kind of look like Boris already. Having the nostrils brought in and refining the tip would be a great look on you. I agree with lucidity about picking a PS who has done hundreds of noses like your own. It's what I did. My nostrils were brought it, too. Just keep in mind there they can be brought in only so much before looking unnatural...so don't expect a Barbie nose! Also, don't be hesitant to travel for a good PS. It's worth it.
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August 22, 2014
Thanks and I agree with the tip refining and the nostrils. I have realistic expectations. Not too too small or pointy. I would like people to barely notice a change. Just some minor adjustments would suit me. The world would collapse if there were two Kodjoes. I still want to maintain my ethnic appeal and individuallity. Doc AL who I saw recently suggested the same and he also mentioned sanding a small notch I have on my side profile. I'm patiently waiting and researching. Thanx!!!
August 22, 2014
Sorry but your nose looks good and fit your face! Small nose on you i think dont looks good! I know i dont change your mind...Dr Boheme have good results here on Rs.
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August 23, 2014
I'm just going to have some subtle changes done. I don't want a small nose. Just a smaller tip and nostrils. I like my bridge/profile. I'm looking for a natural look. Thank you for your opinion. I'll check out Dr. Boheme. Has he done a lot of ethnic noses?
August 23, 2014
Yes his do alot ethnic noses and all his patients very happy.I think his good understand obout ethnic noses and dont make to diferent changes.Good luck:)
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August 23, 2014
You're handsome and just subtle changes for your nose will look good. All the best and please keep us posted.
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August 23, 2014
Thank you. I agree that only some minor alterations would be perfect. I still want to maintain my ethnic look and I don't want the change to be too too noticeable.
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August 23, 2014
Your nose look similar to mine in terms of shape/ proportion. That wide at the base and those flared nostrils . If it helps I agree that you should be doing this for yourself. I just finished undergrad and a new nose is at the top of my list! Goodluck finding a surgeon, I will be checking in and following your story ! You got my support :)
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August 23, 2014
Thank you. You understand were I'm coming from. I hate the way my nose flares out when I smile. As long as I keep a straight face I'm good, :). I'm working overtime to get the money and my wife is very supportive. Peace!!! I keep posting updates.
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Lloydushka
I've decide to pause on the ganja smoke until I've reached my goal. Wish me luck. Mary Jane is so expensive and I like to smoke everyday.

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August 23, 2014
i think you look fine but i understand your concerns. i have the same issue. my nose flares out when i smile a tad too much and i want a more refined tip but i def want to keep my ethnic features. its a bit frustrating finding docs who produce great results on ethnic noses. have you checked out dr jason hamilton yet? he's in cali- too far for me but i would be willing to travel at this point. i had a consult with him a few months ago and i like his results on his website. he's really down to earth and realistic. i just want more options before i totally commit my nose to him so my search continues....i will be following your journey!
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August 27, 2014
I'll be sure to check out Dr. Hamilton and his website. Thanks and good luck to you.
August 24, 2014
What's the "white man's air". This sounds kind of racist to me, and to answer your question Dr. Anil Shah seems to have a stellar reputation in Chicago and he's not white.
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August 25, 2014
Title has changed. Sorry if I offended you but it is a line from a comic. Dave Chappelle said it in a skit when he played a black blind guy being a leader in the Klu Klux Klan. I have started following Dr. Shah and watching his videos. Quick to through out the racist card? Thanks.
August 25, 2014
I apologize for the misunderstanding. I wish you the best with your surgery :)
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August 24, 2014
I understand it's a personal decision for you. I was the same way. I didn't let anyone tell me no for an answer. I got a rhinoplasty and unfortunately now I regret it. I hope you find a great surgeon and are happy with your results. Just my opinion, you already look better the those guys you posted. Your nose is nicely masculine and very appealing.
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August 27, 2014
Thank you for your concern and support. I'm still looking and I will keep everyone posted.
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August 24, 2014
I think you look really good with your current nose dude(in a completely heterosexual way). I'm actually trying to get a nose like yours as an upgrade from my basic European nose. -But good luck in your endeavors, and I hope it turns out well.
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August 24, 2014
I just had to comment because that Dave Chappelle skit is hilarious :P Seriously though I don't think your nose needs too much work - so go with a doctor who has a conservative approach and only wants to give you a slight tip and nostril reduction and you'll look great!
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August 27, 2014
Thank you for the advice. I know, I miss the show. Be easy!!