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Ever since I was in middle school, I have hated my...
hms014May 3, 2012
WORTH IT$10,000
Ever since I was in middle school, I have hated my nose. I've always considered myself an attractive girl, but I hated the way I looked from certain angles. From the time I found out that you could actually surgically alter your nose, I've wanted to get a nose job. Of course my parents just thought it was something I would grow out of, so they never even entertained the thought of it. Now that I am 22 years old and have a job of my own, my parents have finally come to terms with the fact that
1. I have no grown into my nose, nor have my insecurities gone away
2. If I make the decision to do it, then they have to respect it. So, I have started the search of finding a surgeon and have scheduled my first few consultations. After reading the posts and reviews on this website, I figured it would be great to start this with a support system. I love the way I look from the front, except for my nose being a little too round at the end and it drooping a bit when i smile. My main concern is my profile. Any tips or recommendations during my search would be greatly appreciated. I kind of feel as if I am completely overwhelmed by all the information that is out there and figuring out if it is trust worthy or not. I found one doctor, Dr. Eric Joseph, in West Orange NJ who appears to be one of the best and I love his work, so I am hoping when I meet with him in two weeks that he can do something for me. After the initial consultation, how long do you usually have to wait until the surgery can be preformed?? I'll keep updating this as I get deeper and deeper into my 'new nose' quest.
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This site has truly been amazing during this...
hms014May 9, 2012
This site has truly been amazing during this process!! Seeing all the positive reviews, and even some of the negatives, has really made me more aware of how I should be conducting my research for this. Plus, it is amazing that everyone is so supportive.
I have scheduled my first few consultations for after I get back from vacation. I am so excited and can't wait to see the computer simulations. It is so difficult to look in the mirror and figure out what would look good, because I am used to seeing the same nose everyday. I'm Italian and don't want to loose everything about my nose. A cute little button nose just wouldn't look good on me, so I am hoping that the doctor's and I can come up with what will look best!
I have to admit though, after reading through some of the horror stories on this website and other places online, I am terrified of something going terribly wrong. I guess proper research and choosing the right doctor is the only thing that will make me feel better about it.
Hopefully the doctors will give me the simulated images, so I can upload them on here. I would love to get feedback from others who have gone through this journey.
I have scheduled my first few consultations for after I get back from vacation. I am so excited and can't wait to see the computer simulations. It is so difficult to look in the mirror and figure out what would look good, because I am used to seeing the same nose everyday. I'm Italian and don't want to loose everything about my nose. A cute little button nose just wouldn't look good on me, so I am hoping that the doctor's and I can come up with what will look best!
I have to admit though, after reading through some of the horror stories on this website and other places online, I am terrified of something going terribly wrong. I guess proper research and choosing the right doctor is the only thing that will make me feel better about it.
Hopefully the doctors will give me the simulated images, so I can upload them on here. I would love to get feedback from others who have gone through this journey.
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May 9, 2012
Yes, it's always nice when someone compliments you and says your beautiful they way you are.. because you are!! However, when you have to wake up everyday with something that YOU don't like and you're making the decision for the right reasons then I say go for it! You're doing your homework and it is totally normal to feel nervous and lots of different emotions. I am also Italian and wanted to keep those features about myself. A good PS won't give you a little button nose that doesn't fit your face! Lots of luck during your consultations!!
May 9, 2012
I completely agree!! I appreciate the love and support of my friends and family, but ultimately, I'm the one who has to feel good about myself.
May 9, 2012
Hello Hollys2424,
I am a mother of an adult daughter who recently had rhinoplasty done to her nose which was very similar to yours and fitted and looked beautiful on her just like in our case. Before surgery, I tried hard to change her mind because I was really afraid that given that she looked pretty the way she was, any change can only make her look worse. But she was determined to have it done. So, 2 weeks ago she had it done. I am awfully sorry to tell you though that despite her earlier consultations with many doctors and finally getting it done by quite a known and popular surgeon, so far my fears appear to be turning into reality. My daughter definitely does not look any prettier now if not much worse than before. In fact, I think she is regretting it immensely at this point. They say that the real results will not be known before at least until after 3 months, but at this point neither she nor I have a lot of hope. I hope she becomes at least as good looking as before, but only God knows at this point. I have written this to you just so that you think twice before plunging into an unknown which may have lifelong consequences. This doesn't apply to someone with real ugly looking nose but those who are trying to become 10 after they were already 9, it's a big risk. I am not trying to change your mind against it, but only to give you a more realistic view beyond the fairy tales. You are a pretty woman the way you are....just like my daughter was before the surgery...and that's the only reason I have written this.
I am a mother of an adult daughter who recently had rhinoplasty done to her nose which was very similar to yours and fitted and looked beautiful on her just like in our case. Before surgery, I tried hard to change her mind because I was really afraid that given that she looked pretty the way she was, any change can only make her look worse. But she was determined to have it done. So, 2 weeks ago she had it done. I am awfully sorry to tell you though that despite her earlier consultations with many doctors and finally getting it done by quite a known and popular surgeon, so far my fears appear to be turning into reality. My daughter definitely does not look any prettier now if not much worse than before. In fact, I think she is regretting it immensely at this point. They say that the real results will not be known before at least until after 3 months, but at this point neither she nor I have a lot of hope. I hope she becomes at least as good looking as before, but only God knows at this point. I have written this to you just so that you think twice before plunging into an unknown which may have lifelong consequences. This doesn't apply to someone with real ugly looking nose but those who are trying to become 10 after they were already 9, it's a big risk. I am not trying to change your mind against it, but only to give you a more realistic view beyond the fairy tales. You are a pretty woman the way you are....just like my daughter was before the surgery...and that's the only reason I have written this.
May 9, 2012
I'm very sorry that your daughter had such a bad experience, but perhaps you two feel that way simply because it is such a huge change and you aren't used to seeing her with a different nose. I hope that, with time, she becomes happier about her decision. While these types of stories certainly make me think twice, ultimately I need to do what makes myself happy and hope for the best. Like I said before, I am going to speak with several reputable doctors and hear what they have to say before making a decision. This isn't about me trying to get from a 9 to a 10, though I sincerely appreciate the compliment, but is about me feeling comfortable and happy in my own skin. But I appreciate your concerns and will definitely keep them in mind.
May 10, 2012
Oh my, I agree with your Holly. I don't think many people on this site are getting a nose job to be a "10." It's about feeling comfortable in your skin. Unfortunately there are "bad" nose jobs that happen, but that is why you do your homework and find someone to specializes in rhinoplasty. This site is for people to support you in your journey, not try to change your mind. :P
May 10, 2012
Awe, thank you !! For both comments! You were as well, but I am so excited to see how your recovery goes because it looks great already! I'm certainly doing my homework, but it is terrifying to not know how it will turn out. I just know that I've had these insecurities since I was a kid, and I'm tired of having those periods where I notice my nose every time I look in the mirror. Your story and everyone else's on this site have made this process so much better! =)
May 10, 2012
Yes, for support not to try to change your mind! We have enough people that will try to do that! Thanks girls for all of your ongoing support! Surrey, I can't wait to see you cast off!!!
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I was wondering if anyone has used carecredit? I...
hms014May 12, 2012
I was wondering if anyone has used carecredit? I have heard a lot of awful reviews about it, which I'm pretty sure were a result of the people not paying their balance off within the promotional period, but I wanted to get some other opinions on it. I would love to hear any good/bad/middle of the road opinions on it before I choose it as a financing option! Thanks everyone!
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May 17, 2012
You are going to be just fine. I agree with you about the cute little button nose thing... some people can pull them off, but you don't want to look like a completely different person. You still want that sexy exotic look, which you have btw. Very pretty already, and this will only add to it.
I have read one horror story so far and it makes me worry sometimes because some problems arise later during the healing process such as nostrils caving inwards? Scary stuff indeed, but it's well worth the risk when you choose a good doctor. I always suggest going with your gut feelings too. If the place seems off or sketchy... don't do it!
Good luck, and hope your vacation was fun! I am sort of on vacation now recovering, but I much rather be on a cruise or on some remote island and not in my house. Haha
I have read one horror story so far and it makes me worry sometimes because some problems arise later during the healing process such as nostrils caving inwards? Scary stuff indeed, but it's well worth the risk when you choose a good doctor. I always suggest going with your gut feelings too. If the place seems off or sketchy... don't do it!
Good luck, and hope your vacation was fun! I am sort of on vacation now recovering, but I much rather be on a cruise or on some remote island and not in my house. Haha
May 17, 2012
Thank you so much! I have a pretty good feeling about the doctor I am meeting with on Tuesday, so if all goes well with the consultation, I'll be getting my surgery on the 16th! It's a little frightening because it will be two weeks before I move to Raleigh (ironically enough) and start my new job, but the way I look at is I would have had to do it in the middle of my job with only two weeks to recover, so what is the difference going into it! Chances are, no one will even notice since no one knows me yet.
May 17, 2012
Very good! Yeah I took two weeks off too and it's not bad so far just swelling. I hope you like Raleigh! It's a good mix of people despite what some think, and you have the beach and the mountains nearby too. Hope you settle in with ease and meet good people! Good luck and pray for your easy recovery
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"New nose quest". I love that! You are a really pretty woman, and a refined nose will make you that much lovelier. You're smart to do your homework, too. Choosing the right surgeon can make all the difference in how happy you are with your new look.
You find 9 Things I Wish I'd Known Before Rhinoplasty helpful (written by yours truly) and 15 Basic Questions to Ask Your Rhinoplasty Surgeon.
Good luck and please let us know how your consultations go.
Save the money and leave your nose the way that it is.
Seriously, you look great. Don't do it!