What can I do about the swelling? Still very swollen 2 weeks post op.

Hello ladies. I'm going to have Brazilian butt lift & a tummy tuck & lipo done on my flanks, abdomen and back all at the same time. My concerns are how I'm going to position myself while sleeping as well as during the day for a min of four weeks. My dad said to use a inner tube so I don't put pressure on my new booty :)
I'm super excited to have my new body but extremely nervous as well. Im very scared of the pain & the recovery. The only thing that keeps me positive is the results.

I'm turning 30 in sept. 11, 2013 & my husband & I along with some friends are going to celebrate in Jamaica so the thought of me wearing a bikini again is motivation to go theo the surgery.

As of now I am gaining weight, so far I've gained 13lbs & I'm super depressed about it. My husband wants to take me out & I just want to stay home in baggy clothes. Me gaining weight has really taken its toll with my self esteem as well our marriage. I don't feel sexy what's so ever & it effects our sex life as well. He reassures me that he's still into me all the time.

Has anyone have the same procedures as me if so do you have any tips? How was you recover? How did you cope with the pain? When Dod the pain subside?

I will post my pre op pictures as soon as I figure out to lol.

So I have my 2nd appt with Dr. Gallegos Monday oct 22
This my oppratunity to ask tons of question I didn't ask the first time. Any suggestions?
So being that there is only two ps in nm that do the Brazilian butt left I went to both for a consultation. The one I didn't choose said that he will not do lipo on my abdomen only flanks & hips I have nooo shape as it is. Then he said that my incision would be going across of course but also going up near my belly button. Do for what he was going to do he was charging 1500 & some change & said I'll give you a discount on lipo on your abdomen after & that was an additional 2000 so 17000.00 wow! Ummmm no!
So the doc I'm going to said he would do all this procedures I listed above as well as injecting fat into my hips to give me more of an A line body shape as of now I have an H shape... Can we say Eeew I hate my body shape lol.

So I put on my jeans today.. Ugh they don't button anymore :(
I feel like I should lose weight for now & try to gain like a month before but I'm afraid I won't gain enough on time. CAN'T WAIT FOR MY SURGERY!