Hi Ladies - I am scheduled for my BR surgery in 3 days and I am excited/anxious (as seems to be VERY normal!) - but one of the things I am most anxious about is how to manage my kids after I am home. The older one is 7 and so he is pretty self-sufficient and understanding, but the little one is 3 (and a solid 30 lbs) and will have a hard time with mommy not picking him up! How long before I can lift my little one again - what has your experience been? thanks!