HELP!!! What did you tell people you didn't want to know about the surgery....inlaws, kids teachers, etc

  • Rubiegirl
  • Albany, NY
  • 1 year ago

I have 3 kids ages 10,7 & 4, so they older boys will see that I had surgery and that I can't do much after my Mommy Makeover. I was going to tell them I was having female surgery and leave it at hat BUt I know they will prob mention it to my inlaws and maybe their teachers so what do I say to them? I don't want my inlaws to know bc they are judgmental and they will most likely give me a hard time and wil think we are wasting our money. I also don't want to tell the kids teachers esp my daughters preschool teacher who I have known for awhile and the parents are all pretty close at the school. They will know something bc I will not be dropping my daughter off for a week while I am recovering. Please any suggestions would be a huge help! I was contemplating telling them hernia surgery but I really don't want to lie especially to my inlaws but I just can't tell them:-(  they are also the type of people who wouldn't let me get away with just saying female surgery..l they would want to kow what. Any help would be greatly appreciated! I have 2 weeks and 3 days to the big day!, so excited!