I am scheduled for a Mommy Makeover in May! I have been looking into this for more than 20 years now. My oldest is almost 30. Now is the time! I still have lab work to confirm and some last minute financials to sort, but it seems I am on my way. I have recently gone through a break up of a 9 year relationship. It was not for me and I had to put down the weight of the relationship that I had been carrying; and had no business carrying. But there will never be a perfect time for elective surgery. I have wanted this since my babies were small. I have four beautiful children, delivered by cesarean section. I am approaching 50 and this is my time! I would really appreciate any and all insights and tips, information, encouragement you might have to offer. Its a huge thing to decide to take care of things that have been on your mind for 20 years. I have always felt my outward appearance did not match my inner self. This makeover is for no one other than me. I want to feel comfortable in my own skin. Stretchmarks, extra cellulite, none of that concerns me. Its my kangaroo pouch and non existent breasts that I would like to take care of. I want to have my body reflect the feminine side of my personality. My children's father loved my body and said it was what gave him his children. My last long term partner loved my body and fully supported my dream to take care of these areas. Its just how I feel and how I want to feel. I am excited to have a woman's figure; not that of a teenage boy not yet gone through puberty. I know this surgery won't magically change my life... and yet, it kind of will!! I have realistic expectations, I do not wish to look like porn star... I just want to feel comfortable in my own skin and have the confidence to be myself as I feel on the inside .. having my outward appearance more closely matching how I feel as a woman.