I think you interview different physicians and you really want to find somebody that you can understand what they're explaining to you, that you kind of agree with the plan that they've offered you, and that you're confident that they can give you a good result. I wouldn't try and make a physician change their plan to do what you want. It may not be what they feel they can get the best result for you. I also wouldn't go along with somebody that don't agree with your plan or think you understand their questions and that they are empathetic to you.
How to Choose a Plastic Surgeon: Go With Your Gut
Dr. David Kahn explains how a patient should be very comfortable with his or her choice in surgeon, not just from the standpoint of their experience but also from a personal feeling.