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54years Old and Fed Up with Turkey Neck - Yorkshire, GB

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On countdown for my neck/lower face lift plus...

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Nige54
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On countdown for my neck/lower face lift plus upper blepheroplasty in 3and a half weeks. Really excited but getting nervous now! Only about 4 people know so there will be limited pics I'm afraid ( well I will try to put some on but they will be close up! ) but I still wanted to share my experience as I've been so grateful to everyone on here for sharing theirs with me! ( thank you so much! ) Despite my user name, I'm female ( use my dads name for most anonymous things lol). My ps doesn't like pre surgery meds but other than that I would be really grateful for any healing tips- more specifically when to start things like arnica, bromelain. Also some people have mentioned ice/heat? And massage? All tips gratefully accepted! Thank you x

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September 4, 2016
Hi there, I am having exactly the same procedure on the same date as you, yikes !!!, hadn't realised its only 3.1/2 weeks away. My ps has said to start arnica one week before, other than that no one has actually told me much, if it wasn't for this site, I wouldn't know a thing, are you having a general anesthietic ??, so many seem to go for local these days. Have you had a pre op yet ??. I will also post a couple of pics soon, and like you haven't told many people. Wishing you a speedy and safe recovery.
September 4, 2016
Just to add I'm female and 61 yrs old x
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September 4, 2016
This site is fab isn't it? You can learn so much! Think I'm doing my fiancé head in I'm on the site so much!! Bit nervous about looking 'so rough' in front of him - it took me a while to adjust to how bad some of the after pics look even tho I've now looked at hundreds of pics ( don't mean this rudely I just mean with the bruising, stitches and swelling) so I hope He's not too queasy when he sees me. I'm having a general anaesthetic and have my pre op next week. Will look forward to your pics. Wishing you a speedy recovery too- will keep updating on here
September 4, 2016
Yes I'm with you , this site has been amazing, I must admit I really bruise easily so am a bit worried about the recovery, I've only booked 2 weeks off work, hope it's enough, I'm having a general too, I've never had an op ( I'm very lucky), so I don't know how I will react to anesthietic . Staying in for one night, which is prob good. I live in Watford, right opposite The Harry Potter Studio Tour, so quite a long way from you. I'm sure your fiancé will be fine and very supportive. Look forward to your updates. X
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September 5, 2016
Ive only booked 2 and a half weeks off work after so I'm with you on keeping my fingers crossed that it will be enough time to look normal! I'm so please we are having our surgery at the same time- it makes me feel extra supported! Not sure about you but when I type in necklift or facelift I cantt see my own profile- can you see yours?
I hope you are right about my fiance being very supportive- to be fair I'm sure he will be- I guess I'm just being 'vain' in wanting him to see less of the gory stuff and me looking awful, and whizz straight through to him thinking I look great!! ...hope that doesnt sound too shallow! I guess I feel that way because I was literally swept off my feet by him (after being widowed) and we haven't been together for that long really. Romance meets reality lol x
September 5, 2016
Nige54 and carpet60 - good luck for 28th September! I don't think either of you have named your surgeon yet - will you do so at some point to help the rest of us? There's so little choice in the UK especially outside of London. Thanks and best wishes for your procedures.
September 5, 2016
Ahh!! Makes me feel extra supported too, it's not something we can discuss with many people is it !!, I haven't told work why I'm off so I hope I look ok. No I can't see my profile either, I have this morning added some photos ... Yuk !!!, they should appear within 24hrs, not liking what I see at all, old age sucks
September 5, 2016
For some reason my whole msg isn't getting through ?, How awful being widowed so young, I'm so glad that you have your new man to be there for you , I'm sure he will think you look fantastic , however bruised you may be, love has no boundaries xx
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September 5, 2016
Thank you :) I will post the surgeons name later once Ive moved along my surgery pathway a bit definitely- I agree that many of the surgeons are either abroad or London, so I will be happy to do so :) Are you thinking of booking similar surgery heartsease? x
September 6, 2016
Yes I am Nige, so thanks in advance for your review. Best of luck x
October 8, 2016
I am in your area and considering the same. Any tips re: hospital or surgeon would be fabulous.
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September 6, 2016
Thank you :) It has been hard for me and my kids especially as we had a really happy marriage and family life.....but I'm so grateful to fate for giving me another chance with my fiance. Life feels exciting again....hence why I thought 'bugger it' and decided to do this as I've wanted to for so long :) .....3 weeks as of now we should be done and dusted!! yaaay xx
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September 16, 2016

I hope you find everything you need in this community to support you on your journey. Let us know how we can help!

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September 21, 2016
Thank you :)
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September 22, 2016

You're welcome!

September 21, 2016
Good luck, I'm looking to have similar surgery in uk probably next year.
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September 21, 2016
Thank you :) Hopefully when we share our experiences it will help! Its certainly been a massive help to me getting support and advice from others on here who are further down the line :) x
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21 days pre

countdown- surgery 3 weeks today

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Well this time in 3 weeks surgery will be done! woohoo! I'm excited but now definitely feeling the nerves starting too- I seem to forever have my nose in this site flicking through everyones stories!! Must admit they definitely help....especially the B&A pics! The tips have been really really useful (thank you to everyone for sharing these) although at this rate I will have to turn up at the hospital in a removal van with all the 'stuff' I keep buying as a 'necessity' ....bromelain, zinc, vit B , vit C, protein powder (low salt of course) Ice pad thingys, v shaped pillows etc etc. Me and my fella have booked for him to take me straight from the hospital to a little chalet bungalow at the nearest seaside, over looking the bay so may have to take his truck than my little car! lol. Bless him- I thought it was really sweet of him to organise as I kept obsessing about how the heck I was going to keep the surgery a secret if I was at home for 2 weeks after- and he said he thought the sea air would help (well if it used to be good enough for 'consumption' then hopefully it will do the trick for NL/FL and Blephs!! :) ......Anyway for anyone who is 'waiting' like me I just read that you shouldn't use vitamin E cream for 2 weeks before surgery - I thought it was just the tablets you shouldn't take but once I read this I checked my face cream and lo and behold it had vit E in it!! Typical! Will be looking through the others in my cupboard to try and find a vit E free option....has anyone else been told to avoid vit E cream? xx

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September 6, 2016
Wow!!!, what a fab thing to do, peace and tranquility to recover by the sea,I'm so envious.... Yes this time in 3 weeks how will we both be feeling ??, I keep reading about Bromelain, when will you start taking them?, not sure whether to get some, x
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September 6, 2016
Lol I'm hoping we will both be thrilled with the results and that makes the following 5 days of swelling/sleeping upright and any pain a doddle!!
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September 6, 2016
Not sure why but I got cut off - maybe there is a word limit!! [RS bleep]
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September 6, 2016
I also said I have researched on here and Google and I'm now def gona take bromelain, zinc, vits a,c and b, protein powder and arnica immediately after. They all get great press! [RS bleep]
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September 6, 2016
I do feel really pleased about the break next to the sea
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September 6, 2016
Cut me off again! [RS bleep]
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September 6, 2016
Yes taking bromelain, vits a,b andc, zinc, arnica as they all repeatedly get great reviews!
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September 6, 2016
And protein powder
September 7, 2016
That's happened to me too, thanks I will go into the health shop and take a look. , mmm... Sleeping upright is going to be fun. NOT, put your bed by the window at least you will have a beautiful sea view x
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September 7, 2016
Yes that's true
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September 7, 2016
All the pills I mention plus protein powder supposed to promote healing/reduce bruising so worth a try!! [RS bleep]
September 7, 2016
Thanks :) xx
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September 7, 2016
The sound of the sea will calm me-bless my fella! [RS bleep]
September 22, 2016
I'm a Yorkshire girl too, same age as you and I had the same done as you but with lower bleph as well. I hadn't originally thought about the lower, but my PS did say it's such an easy procedure it's worth having both done, rather than then needing the lower a few years later. I'm so glad I did! As for tips, the main one for me that sticks out is taking a child size toothbrush as you will struggle to open your mouth wide enough for anything bigger due to the tight bandaging required. I did bruise quite a bit and was due back at work very quickly, I found the best cover up make up was Dermablend. Like you, I didn't tell anyone at all apart from my husband. Bets of luck x
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September 22, 2016
Yes, def a child sized toothbrush! I found one that I think was classed aged 2-6yrs at Boots - I found the babies' ones, then looked for the highest age at the same condensed size!! Logic (!) being that they might be firmer & of more use. It felt VERY nice to be able to keep teeth clean through all that facial trauma! And yes, I could get the child size in on the very first day!
September 24, 2016
Hi I was just wondering if you received my last 2 messages, I sent them yesterday, ??.. How are you feeling.. Nervous !!!! Excited !!!! Xx
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September 24, 2016

Hi there. Sorry I did get one and a part message but had my grandson n spent the day and evening cleaning up sick!! So much for taking it easy!! I'm also not trusting msgs since it just sent definitely instead of my long text. I think swopping emails would be a great idea but at the mo I have a prob getting alerts for mine so would never know if you sent one without logging in!! How about if there are no kisses then u only got part the msg? Or we can swop tel numbers and text? I'm swinging between worrying myself to death and feeling really excited! Mostly excited now!!

September 24, 2016

Hi, your poor little grandson, hope he is ok now. I'm not sure how I'm feeling either, I think exchanging numbers is good as these msg are not getting through at times

UPDATED FROM Nige54
1 day pre

2days till surgery. Gulp!

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I'm getting soooo nervous now, I literally feel sick with it all hoping everything turns out well. I have to fast from midnight tomorrow night as I have to be there for 6 on wed ( so up at 4am on wed) . Don't think a lot of sleeping will be going on tonight either. I keep looking at other reviews and the after pics to try and calm my nerves. This site is a massive help. Thanks everyone for the support. X

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September 26, 2016
Good luck, this time tomorrow it will be all done and dusted..looking forward to seeing your after pics..
September 26, 2016
Oops sorry I'm a day behind..this time on weds...roll on
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September 27, 2016
Thank you so much. Im feeling a bit less terrified this morning and a bit more excited! [RS bleep]
September 27, 2016
Yay!! X
September 28, 2016
Good luck, it'll be worth it!
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September 30, 2016
Just seen this Thank you! Xx
October 6, 2016
Can we have the name of your doctor?