Wishing for a better silhouette. New York, NY

Hey Girls,
I've been on this site for quite a while... All the reviews I've been reading have been incredibly helpful. I've been waiting to get a bbl for a long time now. I've finally had my first consultation with Dr. Schulman 11/15 and finally scheduled surgery in May ( wish I could do it earlier but my job is really demanding and earlier couldn't work out). He's very attentive and great listener. He's also sticks to what's realistic and doesn't make his patient make unattainable goals. Honestly, I love my body now but I'm really unhappy about the flatness of my booty. I'm really hoping that Dr. Schulman can give me a more formed butt. Honestly, i'm really nervous about recovery since I only will have 2 weeks off work.. I live alone but having a friend (from out of state) stay with me for the first week.

ps. I have a really deformed butt.. There a huge dimple that makes it impossible for me to look nice in dresses.

I'd love to catch it up with a few bbl ladies of how their experience been.. This is just early phases, but I want to be prepared.

Also, I work out normally, do you think this will affect the fat for my bbl? please advice. Thanks again Ladies.

Best wishes.

I'm so excited and nervous!! I'm sure it's normal to be frantic now since I've already paid off my surgery and this is actually happening... I've also kept this surgery a secret since I really don't need any extra commentary from people telling me to "love my body the way it is".. I'm over that. I think people should have the choice to do whatever makes them happy and helps them gain more confidence in their shape.. It's not for others to debate about. Also.. How long do you need to refrain from sitting? I'm young and social so it really make me disappear from hanging with friends and don't really want anyone knowing any of business.. How have you ladies balanced this? Any advice is greatly appreciated.