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22 Yr Old Getting Labiaplasty+Hood reduction in BKK
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I have researched this procedure for years...
behappierJuly 8, 2016
I have researched this procedure for years (literally, used to send emails to clinics inquiring about minimum age to get it done when I was in high school) and am finally in a place where I have the time and means to do so. I am very nervous and excited for the consultation I have booked on the 20th of this month - provided it goes well I 'll have the procedure done soon after. The Dr. I am going to is female, which helps, and has tons of experience which was important tome. THe reasons I want this done are that I have always felt strange and embarrassed about my labia, and it makes me uncomfortable when exercising, especially biking and running. It has really affected my dating life as I'm paranoid about someone seeing it, and the only guy I was somewhat intimate with had a weird reaction, like it was something he didn't know what to do with or had never encountered( we didn't have sex and I know this is more due to him being an inexperienced loser but it didn't bolster my confidence to say the least).I am sick of my fear of dating people thinking they will reject my body, and the discomfort and shame I feel because of it. However, I have apprehensions about the possible results too and hope to still have some labia and that things will be the same when I choose to (tmi/sorry) masturbate. I honestly have not seen anyone comment on this but it is really important to me so I hope the area will feel the same and can be touched in the same way after. I am hoping to do it by simple excision and preferably local anesthesia but will decide at the consultation. I hope my experience can be of help to someone else, particularly those in Asia (where I am having it done).
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July 11, 2016
If you go through with your procedure, how much is it costing you in bkk if you don't mind sharing once you know which way you are going?
August 1, 2016
The price I was quoted at the consultation is 48,000 thb, which equates to around 1050 gbp or 1380 usd, for labiaplasty and clitoral hood reduction.
August 1, 2016
Hey there, glad to hear you're doing your research and you've got some great questions. How it works afterwards is so important. I had this surgery myself 7 years ago and had no major issues with it at the time. However 7 years on I've begun to experience constant pain on my left labia. Because of my experience I couldn't recommend the procedure. I had it done for the same reasons as you - I was paranoid about showing it to potential partners. I did have a boyfriend comment on it's size at one point which knocked my confidence. Now a little older and wiser I can tell you that MEN don't care about these things! Perhaps the guy you were intimate with had only ever been exposed to [RS bleep], in that case he wasn't seeing real vaginas and was probably very inexperienced under the sheets anyway.
To answer your question about masturbation, I still can, though it can hurt sometimes now. I have read lots of posts here from people complaining of prolonged numbness after the procedure. So think long and hard before taking this risk with your body, because that's exactly what it is, no matter the surgeon or their skills. Little is known about the long term implications for this procedure unfortunately.
August 3, 2016
Thanks Anna, wish I had read your comment before today but unfortunately missed it somehow. I went through with it today and I am having mixed emotions about it, and having fears about the things you've mentioned, numbness or the pain you mentioned you have. I am about to write about my day 1 experience , but still a bit shell shocked I wen through with it and praying for the best outcome.
August 12, 2016
I just have a few questions for you. Can it be something else that has caused this type of constant pain? Have you seen doctors? Also, are you able to sleep from this type of pain or is it like constant pins and needles (like stabbing?) I'm thinking of doing this procedure but it's testimonials like this that scare the crap out of me!
October 9, 2017
Don’t do it, this surgery can have devastating consequences, read my review, you are very right to be scared
April 11, 2018
it’s on my profile, click on profile and read the review. it’s a pelvic surgery, thy cut nerves leading to major nerves in pelvis, if they start playing up it’s very screwed up.. but surgeons don’t tell you that, or they don’t even know!! a small nerve in the labia can define the rest of your life.. mine did
April 11, 2018
yes I always have pain, now in pelvis and back and legs, sensation can be lost too, easily.. it’s a pure gamble with you health
UPDATED FROM behappier
11 days post
Consultation
behappierJuly 31, 2016
I had to move my consultation to tomorrow, the 1st of August 2016, due to having a busy month. I will be seeing the doctor at around 10 am. I feel nervous and excited, and at the same time am hoping it goes well as I am not sure what to expect. I only wish I had found the guts to get a family member or friend to go with me as I have not told them this is happening. The coordinator I spoke to by email gave me an idea of the price and told me that provided the consultation goes well, I may be able to have surgery on the same day. Not sure if this will actually happen, but I hope things work out for the best tomorrow. I will probably shave before going, but am not sure this is a good idea as I read from other reviews it can be uncomfortable when growing back. I hope I'm ready for this surgery to happen tomorrow, it would lift a weight off my shoulders honestly. Will update with pictures.
UPDATED FROM behappier
12 days post
Consultation + before pictures
behappierAugust 1, 2016
I just came back from a consultation with the Dr. It was my first time at the hospital too, I found the facilities did not appear to be as new or renovated as other hospitals in Bangkok, but the staff were , for the most part, competent , nice and friendly. The Dr herself was not so friendly, seemed a little stern and maybe preoccupied, and the price I ended up being quoted is much higher (30000thb higher ) than the one I was quoted over email. I believe this is because she's also recommending a clitoral hood reduction to balance the look of the vulva, but I am still considering whether I should ask for just the labiaplasty, no clitoral hood reduction. After- surgery instructions were minimal, I was given a leaflet about how to prepare myself as I have booked myself in for the 3rd, the day after tomorrow. I really disliked it when the nurse seemed aggravated when I changed my mind about wanting the surgery on the same day and wanted to move it to the 3rd to have some time to think. She was quite insistent on wanting to know why I didn't just want to go through with it today, which was unprofessional and annoying. I may call them tomorrow to ask about the price , whether not doing the clitoral hood reduction would reduce it . At the same time I don't really want to 'bargain' because this is surgery on such a private and sensitive area and if paying more to get the best result or care is necessary, I might as well cough it up. Anyways here are some before surgery pictures I took this morning, will update after I get it done on the 3rd.
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August 1, 2016
M'dear if you're not certain take as long as you want to think about it. Don't feel pressured by them. You can have a consultation and you're still entitled to change your mind! Maybe consider speaking with a friend about it first. It's a big decision, not one to take alone.
August 2, 2016
Thanks, I'll definitely reconsider if I go there tomorrow and feel uncomfortable going through with it. I'm considering telling one of my best friends who is here and training to be a nurse but I feel like this issue is hard to understand for women who haven't been through it? Or it's just the awkwardness of broaching the topic that's stopping me.. Will update tomorrow after I go to the hospital.
August 1, 2016
Being pressured is a huge red flag. I hope you think long and hard before deciding to go through with the surgery with this doctor. In your own words, you said the one nurse was unprofessional and annoying. That's not the type of health care worker(s) you should have by your side when you go through surgery! Another red flag is the lack of aftercare instructions. You should be informed of know what's expected afterwards - what's normal and what's not, when to call the doctor, etc. This should have been provided either verbally or in writing. Please think very carefully and be willing to cancel and find someone who has the skill to perform the surgery AND had a good staff, pre/postop instructions and follow ups. While this is a small surgery, it's still surgery and should be be taken lightly. Good luck to you and please keep us updated!
August 2, 2016
Thank you for the advice, I'm going there tomorrow morning to clarify everything regarding the procedure, but I will definitely not go through with it unless I feel comfortable and not pressured or confused about the aftercare/ other issues. The Dr did give me instructions at the consultation about what to expect like light bleeding after or that I shouldn't shower for 2 days, but I do feel like I want to clarify a lot of things and maybe look elsewhere if I don't feel comfortable. Will definitely update after tomorrow!
August 2, 2016
I'm so glad to hear that. I've read so many horror stories and would hate for someone else to go through something terrible.
August 2, 2016
I would seriously reconsider proceeding at this hospital due to your concerns with the facility and faculty. The fact that the nurse tried to coerce you into having the procedure today is a red flag. Please be careful!
August 2, 2016
Thanks, I'll consider it but she was the only nurse there that made me uncomfortable and she was not present at the consultation with the Dr, so I 'm hoping I either don't encounter her again or feel pressured like I did. I 'll update tomorrow but the reason I really wanted to meet with this Dr was because she is a woman and I know she has performed this procedure tons of times, with many satisfied women, and that was important to me. Waiting to see if I can clarify the things I' m not clear on tomorrow to decide whether or not I go through with it.
August 2, 2016
You'd be surprised at how understanding people are about these things. You never know your friend might even have similar insecurities or other friends who do and could give you advice. If she's training to be a nurse she'll most likely be very comfortable with this conversation and happy to help.
Sounds like you're not 100% about having this procedure done. Have a look at this cool website. Wish I'd seen it years ago!
http://www.labialibrary.org.au
Best of luck with your decision xx
Sounds like you're not 100% about having this procedure done. Have a look at this cool website. Wish I'd seen it years ago!
http://www.labialibrary.org.au
Best of luck with your decision xx
Welcome to the community, thanks for joining us. I encourage you to also check in here to connect with others preparing or in the early stages of this surgery. Is sounds like you have vested a lot of time researching the surgery and are well prepared. What’s the best piece of advice you’ve found on RealSelf so far?
Just in case you haven't seen the Labiaplasty Videos here on RealSelf, I thought I would link you to them as there is so much great pre and post-op information there.
Please keep us posted on your journey and if you feel comfortable sharing before and progress photos I know the community appreciates them.